November 26, 2024 • 35 mins
Can a morning routine truly transform your life? Discover the surprising impact of dedicating extra time to personal growth and how it can influence not only your day but also your professional journey. We share our own experiences of evolution and how embracing an identity as compassionate revolutionaries has reshaped our approach to business. In this thought-provoking episode, we discuss the exciting launch of Black Friday promotions and the art of attracting aligned clients by speaking truth with compassion.
Navigate the complex dance between logic and intuition as we explore the myths surrounding manifestation and success. It's not enough to wish for change; actionable steps are crucial. Unpack the pitfalls of external dependencies and the power of embracing inner authority. By recognizing the destructive nature of negative self-talk and fear of failure, we reveal strategies to shift focus and harness the energy of emotional frequencies to manifest your desires more effectively.
The world of social media is evolving, and with it comes the pressure to conform. Hear our reflections on resisting the curated facades of platforms like Facebook and celebrating the raw authenticity emerging on TikTok. Personal stories highlight the challenges of staying true to oneself online and underscore the importance of crafting unique paths to fulfillment. As we wrap up this journey, we explore the profound connection between financial success and the desire to serve, illustrating how true service aligns with sharing your unique gifts with the world. Join us as we continue to redefine what success means in the next episode of the Cosmic Valkyrie Podcast.
Lynn Louise has been helping women all over the world for over a decade. Her Evolution 10X Method combines Energetic Intelligence, Quantum Science and the Brain, and Fundamentals Strategy to help you quiet your mind, uplevel your consciousness, so you can live a life of deeper fulfillment and purpose.
Lynn Louise is a Master Certified Hypnotist, Telepath, Shapeshifter, Multidimensional Traveler, and Coach driven by a powerful mission to help others. Her approach is unlike any other mentor's you have experienced. So, if you are ready to collapse timelines and create the business of your dreams - buckle up!
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
good day, I love it.
This morning I was like, oh, Ineed to get ready, I need to
sass up, and you're like, let'stake an extra half hour.
You know what I did for thathalf hour?
I didn't sass up.
I worked on my not that, yeah,stage, like I need to make it
(00:22):
compatible for my phone.
So this whole time I've justbeen on the computer making it
compatible.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
I've been just in like prep mode and computer mode
too.
That's just like what I've been.
We're always twinning, we are.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Today's the release of Black Friday stuff.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
I know I'm excited about it.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Yeah, it's really fun .
I don't have any attachment tothe outcome.
I've enjoyed the process and itwill be interesting to see
which one people focus on, likewhere most of the cells go, and
then, like looking at how I canrefine it for next year.
So I'm really excited, yeah,yeah, one of the things that
(01:03):
you're really good at, that, um,I'm really excited about
registering for your um,irresistible black Friday thing.
Yeah, I will post this podcasttomorrow so that maybe we can
get some extra action in there.
But, um, extra action in there.
But the thing that you'rereally good at is aligned
(01:26):
clients.
I'm noticing that I have.
That's one of the things that Ihave struggled with, and part
of me thinks it's because, likefor the past three years, my
evolution has been off the hookthree years my evolution has
(01:47):
been off the hook.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Yeah, I was going to say that, like, is it that
you're not good at it, or is itactually that you're just
changing?
And so what's happening is, Ithink right now you're kind of
landing and starting tocrystallize into exactly who you
are and who you want to beserving.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
So I think as soon as that clicks, it's just going to
be super easy.
Yeah, you know, and it has like.
For me it's not like a flick ofthe switch Right, and I wonder
if that's part of my human sign,um, but it's more.
Oh yeah, here it comes, here itcomes, it's more, more.
I started yesterday, I startedto say this to my husband and I
(02:33):
thought of you.
I said I want you to readthrough my new sales page for
E10X and kind of see if it'scompassionate enough, and kind
of see if it's compassionateenough, what?
And then I was like what, what?
Wait, I am not a cheerleader,but let's see if we can get it
so that people can read it andsee that it's about them instead
(02:54):
of a fucking sales page.
Because I feel like my salespage is just like, and it is
kind of matter of fact, here yougo, here's what it is.
I have lots of testimonials.
But I was thinking, oh, I needto do that, but you know what's
interesting about compassion.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Can I just want to throw this in because you know,
it's like sometimes it's liketwo words that feel like your
main word and then your, yourvenus.
There are two words, words thatthey're just so obviously like
blendy, but you actually there'sa little bit of like polarity
built in.
Right.
You're basically thecompassionate, revolutionary,
right, and so that's the piece.
(03:35):
You're primarily therevolutionary, you're primarily
that sacred rebel and that's theenergy you lead with right.
It's just you want to make surethat that revolution is just
super grounded in thatcompassion and it's not like
you're going to all of a suddenbe like a mush, because that's
just not like who you are.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Oh my God, so that just yeah, that so I'm all I'm
always like.
The whole reason I am arevolutionist is because I'm
compassionate.
Yeah, so there's no escaping it, there's right, okay, and so
(04:16):
therefore, my message is alwaysgoing to have that underlining
compassion, like I'm gettingthis shit done for you Like it's
not right.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
And there's the other piece of it is like when you're
speaking your truth, you arespeaking your truth to people.
Like when you're telling peoplelike it is.
That is an act of compassion.
It's like I'm telling you thisbecause I legitimately care,
because I legitimately see yousuffering and you don't need to.
(04:40):
That is compassion.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Yeah, and we've spent a lot of time, um, like
identifying who I'm talking toand it really has changed the
dynamic for me, because I alwaysattract who I need to at that
(05:03):
time.
But really, like one of mytaglines now it's after
yesterday, working on myselfpage is enlightenment to
evolution, because I am findingthat a lot of people think
enlightenment is the end gameand it's not like that is just
(05:23):
the beginning.
That's like flicking on thelight in the room and now it's
time to get to work like there'sa whole slew of shit that
happens after enlightenment tobe able to take that, um, what
you have experienced in thatawareness, and apply it to get
tangible meanings, tangiblestuff in this three dimension.
(05:46):
And so I'm like I really wantto start talking to people that
believe that they have reachedenlightenment you know, like oh
yeah, I have that enlightenmentaspect of me but tend to still
be chasing it.
Like they think that theythey've reached it, but then
they're still looking for it.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
they think that they, they've reached it, but then
they're still looking for it.
Yeah well, I think like thatspeaks to our addiction to
personal growth.
But also I think that there's alot of confusion for people who
have said, like have made theirlife path okay, I want to reach
enlightenment.
Why is my life so shitty?
Why can't I keep a relationship?
Why don't, why can't I pay mybills?
And I think one of the thingsthat you do so beautifully is
(06:25):
you take these very cosmicthings, but you're always very
grounded and there are a lot ofpeople who kind of do the
spiritual work and they're notmy head centers.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
I love defined head centers.
I think that because most of myclients come in and they don't
have defined head centers, Mostpeople have open head.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
I know, yeah, you do, I have an open head, but a
defined Ajna.
I'm so Ajna.
I'm very, very Ajna, basedthat's in human design, and I
love my logical part.
It's this interesting thingwhere, like, I've had to learn
how to really, really and I'mstill maybe forever in the
(07:05):
process of learning how toreally honor the part of me
that's like actually not supermagical, like just actually
really practical and verygrounded and very strategic.
It's just when I forget to tapinto the magic, everything just
goes haywire and I startspinning out.
The thing that actually keepsthat logic part grounded for me
(07:28):
is connecting it to somethingbigger.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
Oh, you touched on something really cool because
for me it's really been been.
I've always loved my logicalget shit done.
You know that whole side, um,merging into the cosmic has been
(07:54):
pretty easy for me.
But what I see a lot of clientsstruggle with is embracing
logic into their, into theirbeing to proceed forward with
steps which you have like yourlogical side brings in
(08:16):
actionable steps and I thinkthat's what logical sides do.
They're like oh, I have to doshit in this life.
I can't just sit around and hope, wish and pray for shit to
change for me.
I actually have to take action.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
Yeah, there's been a narrative painted that all we
have to do is sit and you know,like manifest and not take
action Right.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
Yeah, it's so untrue.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
It's so untrue you know what it is, and I say this
all the time.
Right, yeah, it's so untrue.
And if human design told youthat and astrology actually told
you that, then those systemsare your authority.
(09:05):
And the truth of the matter iswe all want someone to come and
fucking tell us what to do,right, and so every marketer
knows that, and so they paintthese, whether it's a program or
whether it's these systems tobe this thing that like well,
it's going to give you all theanswers, but no, if the answers
are not originating from youfirst, and then we refine them
(09:27):
with those systems, then you'rejust giving your power away, and
I hate it.
I'm always correcting myclients, I mean, that's one
thing that I'm so like.
No, this is not here to tellyou what to do.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
We have that so much in common because I'm like it's
not me.
Me I'm not doing the shit rightdoing the work for you, and the
method is only here to helpguide you on your way to what
you need.
You know what you're doing andhow to create things.
It's really um, it's reallydisturbing to me how many people
(10:05):
um market to that they're likethem being the solution.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
Yeah, it's just, it's more of the old, it's more of
the old and ego-based thatshit's going.
Everybody knows that it's done.
I mean, here's the thing.
Like there's this other side ofit, right, like I don't know if
you're like this, but sometimesI will just buy a program
because I love the personleading it and I don't even give
a shit what the program is, youknow.
(10:35):
So like that's there too, butbut it's dangerous to start
saying that you are theirsolution.
I know what I mean.
It's very enmeshed.
It's like codependent.
You become codependent withyour business, right?
Because then if the client getsresults, it's about you, and if
they don't, it's about you.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
And if they leave, it's about you, Everything is
about you right, you don't wantto pay you.
That's just a destiny forfailure or cults.
Yeah, I am.
I really believe that there'sso much that is like out the
door, like that, these oldmarketing strategies and shit.
(11:14):
It only feeds people'sinsecurities.
Yeah, we were talking thismorning about the snarky inner
critic and I used to have it.
So bad it would linger.
Um, and especially when we'relaunching stuff right like that
self-doubt.
Somebody was, uh, on our e10xcall last week.
(11:39):
Somebody was saying how theygot all their systems ready for
black Friday and then theystarted hearing that voice Like
nobody's going to buy it.
You did this before and itdidn't work.
It's not going to work thistime.
And like, how do we change that?
Well, 5d prosperity.
(12:00):
The thing, too, is that, um,like basing our, our future on a
past that doesn't exist.
Yeah, it's, it's a tough one.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
Our subconscious is such a bitch, but it's like just
trying to keep us safe, though,right.
It's like, oh, I don't want youto get hurt, so I'm going to
like disappoint you before youeven try to try.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
So here's one thing, let's go cosmic.
So, um, we know that the law ofattraction and action is your
subconscious creates emotionsand feelings which create a
frequency, and that frequency issent to the 5d.
The 5d matches it and does thisright.
So I think a lot of women, likewhen we're talking about that
(12:52):
snarky inner critic and let'sspecifically talk about like
launches, right, so like you putout the doors open and, to
prepare yourself, you're talkingto yourself about nobody
signing up, right?
So that's a frequency that sentout.
A lot of women get stuck.
A lot of women get stuck, Ithink, in that urge to feed that
(13:17):
through fighting it, right.
So it's like, oh, my God, I'mthinking that, I'm thinking that
, I can't be thinking that.
And when you're feeding thatand saying I can't be thinking
that way, I can't be doing that,you're feeding that frequency
of fear, anxiety, overwhelm.
And then that's the frequency,it's not the thought that the
(13:38):
five D's going through and going, hey, okay, she's doesn't want
people to sign up, it's thatfear, anxiety and overwhelm.
So when you're like afraid thatyou're thinking that shit,
you're just creating more of it.
So you're still thinking,moving that attention to going
oh, that doesn't matter, yeah,the outcome more of it.
So you're still thinking andmoving that attention to going
oh, that doesn't matter, yep,the outcome doesn't matter, I'm
going to be alive.
Whether or not I sell any ofthem or all of them, my life
(14:03):
will be exactly what I make it.
Speaker 2 (14:06):
Right, and it's.
It's these attachments right,like I think the more attached
we are to the outcome, the morepressure we have, the higher the
stakes and then the bigger thedoubts.
And so you know, I think aquestion not I think a question
that I'm asked a lot andsomething that I think about for
myself because I go through thesame things.
Obviously, right, that's whatwe were talking about today.
You know it's okay, but what doyou do when that thought comes
(14:31):
in?
Right, and you know, I honestlybelieve that 75 percent, maybe
more, of the battle isrecognizing that that thought is
not you.
Yeah, right, that thought is not, like we can't do anything with
it if we believe it.
So we have to create a littlebit of separation and say, okay,
(14:51):
that's an interesting thoughtcoming from some part of myself.
That's not the real me, becauseif it was the real me, it would
feel expansive and it wouldfeel true and it would feel open
and it would feel loving.
Right, if it feels constricting, if it's fear-based, if it's
limiting, if it's mean, that'sall ego, that's all fear.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
That's all fear, that's all your physical self.
Speaker 2 (15:13):
That's the physical right, like that part, and and
it listen it serves a purpose.
It gives us an opportunity toremember, to choose, to be our
true selves again.
But you know, I I was movingthrough this and the tendency is
either to, like you said, right, we want to fight it and stop
it and bypass it, but that'sstill requiring our energy to
push it down, or we sit thereand we beat ourselves up about
(15:37):
it, which then also just keepson feeding it.
And so, for me, it's actuallythis process of acceptance, like
, okay, I accept the fact that Ihave that, I'm feeling this
feeling and I come in with likecompassion right, here's your
word.
Right, come in with so muchcompassion.
Right, here's your word.
Right, come in with so muchcompassion.
(15:57):
For myself, it's like, wow,you're really like there's a
part of you that's really afraidright now.
That makes sense.
I know, maybe you've beendisappointed, maybe you don't
want to be disappointed.
It's okay, we've got this.
And just like you just said,right, like we're going to
survive if nobody buys yourBlack Friday sale, right, like
we're going to live.
Life will go on.
You can still make hundreds ofthousands of dollars next year.
None of it means anything else.
Speaker 1 (16:17):
Oh, not attaching a meaning to it.
Speaker 2 (16:22):
And also, of course, doing the PSS right, like these
other, yeah, like the tools forfighting prosperity too.
Speaker 1 (16:28):
I used to stress the fuck out when I do launches.
I mean it's so stressed outLike if I was doing this Black
Friday thing I would get souptight and I would worry.
And one time a coach wastalking about manifesting in the
law of attraction.
(16:48):
It was like a January class Itook, attraction.
It was like a January class Itook and she mentioned that uh,
and this tripped me up for along time.
She said if you go through theprocess and you don't get what
you want, then you need to lookback and see where you um, where
(17:12):
you didn't believe that it waspossible, okay, okay.
So that shit kept me stuck.
That advice kept me stuckforever, because then I'm
focusing on what's happeninginside my brain and not
reviewing the process.
So the process is the alignedaction, right, that's like oh
(17:34):
well, I put this out and thisvocabulary is working.
This got more email opens.
Um, this was resonating withthe prospects, the.
This was not resonating withthe ones that didn't sign up.
Like it was taking the insideto judge what my brain was
physically thinking.
So then I would get caught upand go, oh, you know that one
(17:54):
time I, and then I would obsessabout not thinking bad thoughts.
And then, of course, what areyou going to do?
Your brain is always it's the,it's the pink elephant.
Don't think about a pinkelephant.
You're going to think aboutthat goddamn pink elephant.
So she's like don't think badthoughts.
So then all I'm thinking is howI have been thinking all these
(18:17):
bad thoughts, and then it wouldlike I would obsess about it.
Speaker 2 (18:22):
It's like, yeah, go, you bring up a really good point
.
Because I think like, actually,what we have to do is it's a
balance of really objectivelylooking at our strategies and
how things are performing right,like looking at the numbers on
the one side and the other sideit is.
It's not about we have to keeplike a soft awareness about
(18:48):
those thoughts, but it's not astalking and hunting them.
I mean, sometimes I've usedthat language, but I think it
can get misconstrued tosomething, like you said, where
it's like no, you don't want toobsess about it, it's, it is a
balance.
It's it's listen, there'smastery.
That's involved about learninghow to notice your thoughts and
(19:12):
actually let them go so that youhave the space to choose a new
thought, and it's not actuallybypassing.
You're getting yourself intothe frequency where it's
actually true.
Speaker 1 (19:22):
Right.
Speaker 2 (19:24):
There's an art to it.
Speaker 1 (19:25):
Yeah, and I think it's.
I think one it's really findinga mentor that resonates with
you, that you're going to beable to spend a significant
amount of time with.
It's not about trying to figurethis out on your own and it's
about listening to how peopleare presenting the arguments or
(19:48):
the concepts or whatever, andthen committing, like truly
looking at an investment, not asa three month program but a
long-term investment.
People can come into E10X andget massive transformation the
first time, but I'm going totell you, the people that go
through it again those are theones that I see significant
(20:10):
income coming into and then,like the time span, they have to
be able to hear it from me overand over and over and be able
to release that, know themethods and all that.
I think when we're indesperation, we're seeking,
seeking, seeking outsidevalidation and outside
(20:32):
information to solve ourinternal problems, and so we're
jumping from one mentor toanother and another, and I don't
I think you too, have done like.
I have been with my mentor fora very long time and I will
until he exit, exits hisphysical reality, and I can
(20:53):
still work with him right, likehe's one of the physical body.
Yeah, but so many people willjump around and I'm like, find
like a good mentor, they have tobe in front of you.
Uh, let's say, spiritually, airquote, I'm going to air quote
spiritually, right, they, theyhave to know more, they need to
(21:14):
have more wisdom than you.
So I think that's just soimportant.
I think people look at theexternal circumstances that one
has first, yeah, and they'relike I want that.
I want that $4 million a year,so I'm going to sign up with
that, instead of looking at thealignment of the souls and where
that aligns and being willingto um, move forward.
(21:40):
I'm on a tangent.
I'm just gonna say one lastthing yeah, yeah, yeah, go for
it, it's good so I think about,like I um, I love watching tech
talks that are in like Tarotreaders, energy readers, even
like just amazing teachers andyou know, educators out in the
(22:02):
world.
I follow a museum curator, so Iwatch them.
Some of them have millions offollowers, some of them have
hundreds of thousands offollowers, and I watch them and
I think about Facebook and howit has created this facade of
what success should look like.
(22:22):
So there are these women onthere with their professional
photo shoots and for fake furcoats or whatever, and although
this is what it's supposed to beright, they're attracting
entrepreneurs.
When I go on to TikTok, Iwitnessed this beautiful
dichotomy to that where peopleare showing up in their own home
(22:44):
and you'll see me do this allthe time where I'm like this is
my office.
I don't have a million dollaroffice.
I don't have a million dollarhome.
I want the home that I live in.
I never intend on leaving here,unless it's to go to Scotland,
right, like this, is it?
This is where I'm going to die,or what?
You know what I mean.
So it's like I love that thereare creators over on that
(23:09):
platform that are realtransparent and are like this is
my office, this is what itlooks like, this is how I spend
my day.
I'm sitting in their kitchen,or you know.
It's not like they have thisfabulous 50 K um kitchen.
They have their kitchen.
Yeah, yeah, cause not everyonefucking needs to be flying
(23:31):
around the world and like noteveryone's success looks the
same, right.
Speaker 2 (23:37):
I think that the trend this is my opinion I think
we're trending towardsauthenticity again.
I think that people have been,uh, have bought into enough
shitty programs and enoughmake-believe image that you're
talking about.
It's like the influencer thing,right, like buying into this
(23:59):
image and realizing that, firstof all, just because they have
that doesn't mean that they canteach you how to have that.
And, second of all, there arepeople who get that because they
think that's what they want andthen they realize it's not what
they wanted, but they boughtinto it because that's what
they're being fed.
And I believe that you know afew things are happening with
(24:21):
Pluto and Aquarius, with the ageof Aquarius, with the human
design 2027, like big shiftthat's happening, that's coming
up, which we're alreadyobviously in the shadow of cause
.
It's a 400 year thing you knowwe're moving towards.
It's like an individualism,it's individual but it's
(24:41):
collective, right, it's acollective full of individuals,
not a collective full of sheepwhere everyone believes the same
thing.
Right?
A thriving collective is madeup of lots of individual people,
not cookie cutter, not carboncopies.
Not everyone has to do it thesame way, we just have to be
(25:02):
ourselves and the frequency solike to me, there are very few
frequencies as powerful as thefrequency of truth.
We can feel the truth, right.
I think it was the book PowerVersus Force, where they talked
about muscle testing right,where people would like put on
(25:24):
headphones and listen to someoneeither speaking the truth or a
lie in a language that thelistener didn't even know, and
the muscles tested weak whenthey were listening to a lie and
the muscles tested strong whenthey were listening to truth and
they didn't even understand thelanguage.
We know truth and truth is partof authenticity, right, like
(25:45):
being ourselves.
That's us being our truth.
This is big for me.
I'm glad that we're talkingabout this because I have been
like.
I spent a long time reallystruggling with my relationship
with social media because I hadin my mind that, like you know,
my feed had to look a certainway and everything you know.
I'm just tired of that.
Speaker 1 (26:06):
I just don't want to do it anymore this came up for
me this week because somebodycame across my feed that said,
if you're going to do a Januaryoffer which I do, I am right,
yeah, you have to have amazingstandout graphics.
And I was like, oh, that's sotrue, the, the, the market's so
(26:29):
saturated, and everyone.
And then I was like, oh, that'sso true, the, the, the market's
so saturated, and everyone.
And then I was like, fuck, lynn, do you need?
And that's that, like oh, shoot.
And then I'm like I am not andI never will have been a
professional.
I see these beautiful photoshoots.
I've never been that person.
That's like I need aprofessional photo shoot.
And, girl, I have a degree inphotography.
Speaker 2 (26:51):
I personally love photo shoots, but because
they're fun, not because I needthem.
Speaker 1 (26:54):
But also the thing is , is that my whole thing is that
you don't have to spendmillions and you don't have to
be something you're not.
Yes, you don't.
You can start a business onzero.
You don't need a professionalphoto shoot.
Well, it's fun.
I agree.
If I find a photographer that Ireally enjoy, or if my husband
(27:18):
snaps me out wherever we are, Ilike to put them up.
But my profile photo is aselfie.
Speaker 2 (27:28):
Yeah, and it's you, and it's you.
That's your brand, though,right To me, like you intend I
don't maybe you intentionally,but like your brand is.
This is me.
No apologies, this is who I am.
Speaker 1 (27:42):
Cause I was that person that was like you got to
dress for success.
You got to love this way.
You got to do these certainthings you got to have for
success.
You got to look this way.
You got to do these certainthings.
You got to have everything.
I was a perfectionist beyondbelief.
It was like the thing that keptme trapped for so long and I'm
like I don't want women to thinkthat you have to do air quote
all these things in order to seemultiple six.
Speaker 2 (28:03):
Yeah, and, and you know, one of one of my mentors
who I've been with for a longtime I mean she always talks
about how you know everyone thatshe learned from told her she
needed X number of followers andshe made her first multi-six
with 700 followers.
Think that I am.
(28:32):
One place where I am stalkingmyself is I am stalking the
rules that I have agreed to ormade up about what it takes to
be successful, because for everyrule I've made, there are
thousands of people who willprove the opposite, who have
proven the opposite.
Speaker 1 (28:44):
Here's the thing.
All that fucking bullshit issocial media driven by marketing
coaches, yes, and businesscoaches, business.
The business coaching industryis 97 full of shit.
Because you look at anysuccessful entrepreneur out
there in your hometown like, uh,we have this beautiful small
(29:05):
batch, um meadery, this placethat makes mead which is like an
alcoholic beverage small,delightful, excellent mead
making it.
She's not on social media everyday like pretty cracking shit
down.
We have a local roaster thathas that in the past seven years
(29:28):
has, and it's one of thosedrive-thrus so they roast their
coffee and then they break itthrough open two remote located
two locations in the same townof 30 000 and now has a small
roast and toast that does coffeein the morning, cocktails at
night and they're crushing itand they're not on their social
media like taking professionalphotos and shit.
Speaker 2 (29:57):
That's the whole thing.
I it's like, it's uh, I can'texplain it, but it's like the
message starts to likeinfiltrate and then everyone
just fucking buys into it andthen everyone's paying people to
teach them how to do it.
But it's just one way, right.
One way is being an influencerwith beautiful pictures and
doing that.
There's a thousand, multiplethousands of other ways to do it
, Right?
I just and that's what I'velearned by being someone who has
(30:20):
bought into all of that shitand who has bought, literally
paid money to learn all of thesethings and I've worked with,
you know, over over a thousandclients at this point, right,
Like, between my programs and Ihave seen people be successful
with every strategy out there.
Speaker 1 (30:39):
It's like our industry on what we're.
Yeah, I get it.
Speaker 2 (30:44):
That's why I say there really is only one way to
be successful, and it's your way.
Yeah, and that's the challenge,because most coaches won't
teach you how to find your ownway.
They only teach you how to doit the way that worked for them.
Speaker 1 (30:59):
Right, like so.
Speaker 2 (31:05):
So we're rewriting that you know, yeah, exactly.
And there's lots of peopleprobably people listening who
like y'all get it too and you'relike I want to do it my way.
Yes, yeah, listen, it takescourage.
Speaker 1 (31:17):
Yeah, it takes courage, but it's like it goes
back to finding those mentorsthat are going to carry you
along this way, like help you uhmove forward in it.
And I often think about like um, it's, there's no quick fix,
it's all about exploration andgetting messy and really, but it
is about like really trustingyourself.
Speaker 2 (31:41):
Yeah, you have to, and, and that's it Like we have
to commit to that and the morethat we trust, like in the
beginning, when you really makethat, you from a place of
resolve and conviction and I'mgoing to trust myself and this
is my path every fear is goingto come up to the surface.
(32:02):
It's just how it works, butit's because we have to choose
to trust ourselves in the faceof every single fear.
Speaker 1 (32:10):
That we've been told that we don't have the
capability of doing as women.
Or, you know, we've been taughtthat these are things that we
should be doing Before we wrapup.
I just was thinking about.
You have to really want toshare your gifts, you have to be
(32:36):
to be an entrepreneur, you haveto be to the core.
Wanting this.
You cannot.
Half-ass entrepreneurism, no,no, no.
And I think a lot of people arelike I want the time of
financial freedom, but then,when they figure out that they
have to do shit, they're likewell, can't I just manifest new
clients in?
Speaker 2 (32:57):
yeah, maybe, I don't know, it hasn't worked for me
you got to take action.
Speaker 1 (33:03):
Like you have to take action, you have to prospect.
But I think that too manypeople are not driven by
entrepreneurism, they're drivenby desperation for the time of
financial freedom, and that'snot going to work.
Speaker 2 (33:19):
You're so right.
You're so right.
I will say this, and maybe I'vesaid this before until I hit a
financial level of success in mybusiness, I didn't have as much
energy to actually be inservice because I was spending
(33:40):
so much of my energy in.
I have to make this work, andso that's something that I'm
really working with, with myclients and with the success.
Codex is like we're tyingeverything back to service.
Now, sometimes service can bekind of like a platitude or like
even be like a littleself-righteous, but I'm not
(34:01):
talking about that.
Where I'm going to serve, it'sreally tapping back in, exactly
like you said, like the deepdesire to share your gifts with
the world talk about that on thenext episode.
Speaker 1 (34:11):
Okay, all right, let's do it, let's do it y'all
chime in to the next episode ofthe cosmic valkyrie podcast.
Until then, have fun.
good day, I love it.
This morning I was like, oh, Ineed to get ready, I need to
sass up, and you're like, let'stake an extra half hour.
You know what I did for thathalf hour?
I didn't sass up.
I worked on my not that, yeah,stage, like I need to make it
(00:22):
compatible for my phone.
So this whole time I've justbeen on the computer making it
compatible.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
I've been just in like prep mode and computer mode
too.
That's just like what I've been.
We're always twinning, we are.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Today's the release of Black Friday stuff.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
I know I'm excited about it.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Yeah, it's really fun .
I don't have any attachment tothe outcome.
I've enjoyed the process and itwill be interesting to see
which one people focus on, likewhere most of the cells go, and
then, like looking at how I canrefine it for next year.
So I'm really excited, yeah,yeah, one of the things that
(01:03):
you're really good at, that, um,I'm really excited about
registering for your um,irresistible black Friday thing.
Yeah, I will post this podcasttomorrow so that maybe we can
get some extra action in there.
But, um, extra action in there.
But the thing that you'rereally good at is aligned
(01:26):
clients.
I'm noticing that I have.
That's one of the things that Ihave struggled with, and part
of me thinks it's because, likefor the past three years, my
evolution has been off the hookthree years my evolution has
(01:47):
been off the hook.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Yeah, I was going to say that, like, is it that
you're not good at it, or is itactually that you're just
changing?
And so what's happening is, Ithink right now you're kind of
landing and starting tocrystallize into exactly who you
are and who you want to beserving.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
So I think as soon as that clicks, it's just going to
be super easy.
Yeah, you know, and it has like.
For me it's not like a flick ofthe switch Right, and I wonder
if that's part of my human sign,um, but it's more.
Oh yeah, here it comes, here itcomes, it's more, more.
I started yesterday, I startedto say this to my husband and I
(02:33):
thought of you.
I said I want you to readthrough my new sales page for
E10X and kind of see if it'scompassionate enough, and kind
of see if it's compassionateenough, what?
And then I was like what, what?
Wait, I am not a cheerleader,but let's see if we can get it
so that people can read it andsee that it's about them instead
(02:54):
of a fucking sales page.
Because I feel like my salespage is just like, and it is
kind of matter of fact, here yougo, here's what it is.
I have lots of testimonials.
But I was thinking, oh, I needto do that, but you know what's
interesting about compassion.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Can I just want to throw this in because you know,
it's like sometimes it's liketwo words that feel like your
main word and then your, yourvenus.
There are two words, words thatthey're just so obviously like
blendy, but you actually there'sa little bit of like polarity
built in.
Right.
You're basically thecompassionate, revolutionary,
right, and so that's the piece.
(03:35):
You're primarily therevolutionary, you're primarily
that sacred rebel and that's theenergy you lead with right.
It's just you want to make surethat that revolution is just
super grounded in thatcompassion and it's not like
you're going to all of a suddenbe like a mush, because that's
just not like who you are.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Oh my God, so that just yeah, that so I'm all I'm
always like.
The whole reason I am arevolutionist is because I'm
compassionate.
Yeah, so there's no escaping it, there's right, okay, and so
(04:16):
therefore, my message is alwaysgoing to have that underlining
compassion, like I'm gettingthis shit done for you Like it's
not right.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
And there's the other piece of it is like when you're
speaking your truth, you arespeaking your truth to people.
Like when you're telling peoplelike it is.
That is an act of compassion.
It's like I'm telling you thisbecause I legitimately care,
because I legitimately see yousuffering and you don't need to.
(04:40):
That is compassion.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Yeah, and we've spent a lot of time, um, like
identifying who I'm talking toand it really has changed the
dynamic for me, because I alwaysattract who I need to at that
(05:03):
time.
But really, like one of mytaglines now it's after
yesterday, working on myselfpage is enlightenment to
evolution, because I am findingthat a lot of people think
enlightenment is the end gameand it's not like that is just
(05:23):
the beginning.
That's like flicking on thelight in the room and now it's
time to get to work like there'sa whole slew of shit that
happens after enlightenment tobe able to take that, um, what
you have experienced in thatawareness, and apply it to get
tangible meanings, tangiblestuff in this three dimension.
(05:46):
And so I'm like I really wantto start talking to people that
believe that they have reachedenlightenment you know, like oh
yeah, I have that enlightenmentaspect of me but tend to still
be chasing it.
Like they think that theythey've reached it, but then
they're still looking for it.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
they think that they, they've reached it, but then
they're still looking for it.
Yeah well, I think like thatspeaks to our addiction to
personal growth.
But also I think that there's alot of confusion for people who
have said, like have made theirlife path okay, I want to reach
enlightenment.
Why is my life so shitty?
Why can't I keep a relationship?
Why don't, why can't I pay mybills?
And I think one of the thingsthat you do so beautifully is
(06:25):
you take these very cosmicthings, but you're always very
grounded and there are a lot ofpeople who kind of do the
spiritual work and they're notmy head centers.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
I love defined head centers.
I think that because most of myclients come in and they don't
have defined head centers, Mostpeople have open head.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
I know, yeah, you do, I have an open head, but a
defined Ajna.
I'm so Ajna.
I'm very, very Ajna, basedthat's in human design, and I
love my logical part.
It's this interesting thingwhere, like, I've had to learn
how to really, really and I'mstill maybe forever in the
(07:05):
process of learning how toreally honor the part of me
that's like actually not supermagical, like just actually
really practical and verygrounded and very strategic.
It's just when I forget to tapinto the magic, everything just
goes haywire and I startspinning out.
The thing that actually keepsthat logic part grounded for me
(07:28):
is connecting it to somethingbigger.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
Oh, you touched on something really cool because
for me it's really been been.
I've always loved my logicalget shit done.
You know that whole side, um,merging into the cosmic has been
(07:54):
pretty easy for me.
But what I see a lot of clientsstruggle with is embracing
logic into their, into theirbeing to proceed forward with
steps which you have like yourlogical side brings in
(08:16):
actionable steps and I thinkthat's what logical sides do.
They're like oh, I have to doshit in this life.
I can't just sit around and hope, wish and pray for shit to
change for me.
I actually have to take action.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
Yeah, there's been a narrative painted that all we
have to do is sit and you know,like manifest and not take
action Right.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
Yeah, it's so untrue.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
It's so untrue you know what it is, and I say this
all the time.
Right, yeah, it's so untrue.
And if human design told youthat and astrology actually told
you that, then those systemsare your authority.
(09:05):
And the truth of the matter iswe all want someone to come and
fucking tell us what to do,right, and so every marketer
knows that, and so they paintthese, whether it's a program or
whether it's these systems tobe this thing that like well,
it's going to give you all theanswers, but no, if the answers
are not originating from youfirst, and then we refine them
(09:27):
with those systems, then you'rejust giving your power away, and
I hate it.
I'm always correcting myclients, I mean, that's one
thing that I'm so like.
No, this is not here to tellyou what to do.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
We have that so much in common because I'm like it's
not me.
Me I'm not doing the shit rightdoing the work for you, and the
method is only here to helpguide you on your way to what
you need.
You know what you're doing andhow to create things.
It's really um, it's reallydisturbing to me how many people
(10:05):
um market to that they're likethem being the solution.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
Yeah, it's just, it's more of the old, it's more of
the old and ego-based thatshit's going.
Everybody knows that it's done.
I mean, here's the thing.
Like there's this other side ofit, right, like I don't know if
you're like this, but sometimesI will just buy a program
because I love the personleading it and I don't even give
a shit what the program is, youknow.
(10:35):
So like that's there too, butbut it's dangerous to start
saying that you are theirsolution.
I know what I mean.
It's very enmeshed.
It's like codependent.
You become codependent withyour business, right?
Because then if the client getsresults, it's about you, and if
they don't, it's about you.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
And if they leave, it's about you, Everything is
about you right, you don't wantto pay you.
That's just a destiny forfailure or cults.
Yeah, I am.
I really believe that there'sso much that is like out the
door, like that, these oldmarketing strategies and shit.
(11:14):
It only feeds people'sinsecurities.
Yeah, we were talking thismorning about the snarky inner
critic and I used to have it.
So bad it would linger.
Um, and especially when we'relaunching stuff right like that
self-doubt.
Somebody was, uh, on our e10xcall last week.
(11:39):
Somebody was saying how theygot all their systems ready for
black Friday and then theystarted hearing that voice Like
nobody's going to buy it.
You did this before and itdidn't work.
It's not going to work thistime.
And like, how do we change that?
Well, 5d prosperity.
(12:00):
The thing, too, is that, um,like basing our, our future on a
past that doesn't exist.
Yeah, it's, it's a tough one.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
Our subconscious is such a bitch, but it's like just
trying to keep us safe, though,right.
It's like, oh, I don't want youto get hurt, so I'm going to
like disappoint you before youeven try to try.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
So here's one thing, let's go cosmic.
So, um, we know that the law ofattraction and action is your
subconscious creates emotionsand feelings which create a
frequency, and that frequency issent to the 5d.
The 5d matches it and does thisright.
So I think a lot of women, likewhen we're talking about that
(12:52):
snarky inner critic and let'sspecifically talk about like
launches, right, so like you putout the doors open and, to
prepare yourself, you're talkingto yourself about nobody
signing up, right?
So that's a frequency that sentout.
A lot of women get stuck.
A lot of women get stuck, Ithink, in that urge to feed that
(13:17):
through fighting it, right.
So it's like, oh, my God, I'mthinking that, I'm thinking that
, I can't be thinking that.
And when you're feeding thatand saying I can't be thinking
that way, I can't be doing that,you're feeding that frequency
of fear, anxiety, overwhelm.
And then that's the frequency,it's not the thought that the
(13:38):
five D's going through and going, hey, okay, she's doesn't want
people to sign up, it's thatfear, anxiety and overwhelm.
So when you're like afraid thatyou're thinking that shit,
you're just creating more of it.
So you're still thinking,moving that attention to going
oh, that doesn't matter, yeah,the outcome more of it.
So you're still thinking andmoving that attention to going
oh, that doesn't matter, yep,the outcome doesn't matter, I'm
going to be alive.
Whether or not I sell any ofthem or all of them, my life
(14:03):
will be exactly what I make it.
Speaker 2 (14:06):
Right, and it's.
It's these attachments right,like I think the more attached
we are to the outcome, the morepressure we have, the higher the
stakes and then the bigger thedoubts.
And so you know, I think aquestion not I think a question
that I'm asked a lot andsomething that I think about for
myself because I go through thesame things.
Obviously, right, that's whatwe were talking about today.
You know it's okay, but what doyou do when that thought comes
(14:31):
in?
Right, and you know, I honestlybelieve that 75 percent, maybe
more, of the battle isrecognizing that that thought is
not you.
Yeah, right, that thought is not, like we can't do anything with
it if we believe it.
So we have to create a littlebit of separation and say, okay,
(14:51):
that's an interesting thoughtcoming from some part of myself.
That's not the real me, becauseif it was the real me, it would
feel expansive and it wouldfeel true and it would feel open
and it would feel loving.
Right, if it feels constricting, if it's fear-based, if it's
limiting, if it's mean, that'sall ego, that's all fear.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
That's all fear, that's all your physical self.
Speaker 2 (15:13):
That's the physical right, like that part, and and
it listen it serves a purpose.
It gives us an opportunity toremember, to choose, to be our
true selves again.
But you know, I I was movingthrough this and the tendency is
either to, like you said, right, we want to fight it and stop
it and bypass it, but that'sstill requiring our energy to
push it down, or we sit thereand we beat ourselves up about
(15:37):
it, which then also just keepson feeding it.
And so, for me, it's actuallythis process of acceptance, like
, okay, I accept the fact that Ihave that, I'm feeling this
feeling and I come in with likecompassion right, here's your
word.
Right, come in with so muchcompassion.
Right, here's your word.
Right, come in with so muchcompassion.
(15:57):
For myself, it's like, wow,you're really like there's a
part of you that's really afraidright now.
That makes sense.
I know, maybe you've beendisappointed, maybe you don't
want to be disappointed.
It's okay, we've got this.
And just like you just said,right, like we're going to
survive if nobody buys yourBlack Friday sale, right, like
we're going to live.
Life will go on.
You can still make hundreds ofthousands of dollars next year.
None of it means anything else.
Speaker 1 (16:17):
Oh, not attaching a meaning to it.
Speaker 2 (16:22):
And also, of course, doing the PSS right, like these
other, yeah, like the tools forfighting prosperity too.
Speaker 1 (16:28):
I used to stress the fuck out when I do launches.
I mean it's so stressed outLike if I was doing this Black
Friday thing I would get souptight and I would worry.
And one time a coach wastalking about manifesting in the
law of attraction.
(16:48):
It was like a January class Itook, attraction.
It was like a January class Itook and she mentioned that uh,
and this tripped me up for along time.
She said if you go through theprocess and you don't get what
you want, then you need to lookback and see where you um, where
(17:12):
you didn't believe that it waspossible, okay, okay.
So that shit kept me stuck.
That advice kept me stuckforever, because then I'm
focusing on what's happeninginside my brain and not
reviewing the process.
So the process is the alignedaction, right, that's like oh
(17:34):
well, I put this out and thisvocabulary is working.
This got more email opens.
Um, this was resonating withthe prospects, the.
This was not resonating withthe ones that didn't sign up.
Like it was taking the insideto judge what my brain was
physically thinking.
So then I would get caught upand go, oh, you know that one
(17:54):
time I, and then I would obsessabout not thinking bad thoughts.
And then, of course, what areyou going to do?
Your brain is always it's the,it's the pink elephant.
Don't think about a pinkelephant.
You're going to think aboutthat goddamn pink elephant.
So she's like don't think badthoughts.
So then all I'm thinking is howI have been thinking all these
(18:17):
bad thoughts, and then it wouldlike I would obsess about it.
Speaker 2 (18:22):
It's like, yeah, go, you bring up a really good point
.
Because I think like, actually,what we have to do is it's a
balance of really objectivelylooking at our strategies and
how things are performing right,like looking at the numbers on
the one side and the other sideit is.
It's not about we have to keeplike a soft awareness about
(18:48):
those thoughts, but it's not astalking and hunting them.
I mean, sometimes I've usedthat language, but I think it
can get misconstrued tosomething, like you said, where
it's like no, you don't want toobsess about it, it's, it is a
balance.
It's it's listen, there'smastery.
That's involved about learninghow to notice your thoughts and
(19:12):
actually let them go so that youhave the space to choose a new
thought, and it's not actuallybypassing.
You're getting yourself intothe frequency where it's
actually true.
Speaker 1 (19:22):
Right.
Speaker 2 (19:24):
There's an art to it.
Speaker 1 (19:25):
Yeah, and I think it's.
I think one it's really findinga mentor that resonates with
you, that you're going to beable to spend a significant
amount of time with.
It's not about trying to figurethis out on your own and it's
about listening to how peopleare presenting the arguments or
(19:48):
the concepts or whatever, andthen committing, like truly
looking at an investment, not asa three month program but a
long-term investment.
People can come into E10X andget massive transformation the
first time, but I'm going totell you, the people that go
through it again those are theones that I see significant
(20:10):
income coming into and then,like the time span, they have to
be able to hear it from me overand over and over and be able
to release that, know themethods and all that.
I think when we're indesperation, we're seeking,
seeking, seeking outsidevalidation and outside
(20:32):
information to solve ourinternal problems, and so we're
jumping from one mentor toanother and another, and I don't
I think you too, have done like.
I have been with my mentor fora very long time and I will
until he exit, exits hisphysical reality, and I can
(20:53):
still work with him right, likehe's one of the physical body.
Yeah, but so many people willjump around and I'm like, find
like a good mentor, they have tobe in front of you.
Uh, let's say, spiritually, airquote, I'm going to air quote
spiritually, right, they, theyhave to know more, they need to
(21:14):
have more wisdom than you.
So I think that's just soimportant.
I think people look at theexternal circumstances that one
has first, yeah, and they'relike I want that.
I want that $4 million a year,so I'm going to sign up with
that, instead of looking at thealignment of the souls and where
that aligns and being willingto um, move forward.
(21:40):
I'm on a tangent.
I'm just gonna say one lastthing yeah, yeah, yeah, go for
it, it's good so I think about,like I um, I love watching tech
talks that are in like Tarotreaders, energy readers, even
like just amazing teachers andyou know, educators out in the
(22:02):
world.
I follow a museum curator, so Iwatch them.
Some of them have millions offollowers, some of them have
hundreds of thousands offollowers, and I watch them and
I think about Facebook and howit has created this facade of
what success should look like.
(22:22):
So there are these women onthere with their professional
photo shoots and for fake furcoats or whatever, and although
this is what it's supposed to beright, they're attracting
entrepreneurs.
When I go on to TikTok, Iwitnessed this beautiful
dichotomy to that where peopleare showing up in their own home
(22:44):
and you'll see me do this allthe time where I'm like this is
my office.
I don't have a million dollaroffice.
I don't have a million dollarhome.
I want the home that I live in.
I never intend on leaving here,unless it's to go to Scotland,
right, like this, is it?
This is where I'm going to die,or what?
You know what I mean.
So it's like I love that thereare creators over on that
(23:09):
platform that are realtransparent and are like this is
my office, this is what itlooks like, this is how I spend
my day.
I'm sitting in their kitchen,or you know.
It's not like they have thisfabulous 50 K um kitchen.
They have their kitchen.
Yeah, yeah, cause not everyonefucking needs to be flying
(23:31):
around the world and like noteveryone's success looks the
same, right.
Speaker 2 (23:37):
I think that the trend this is my opinion I think
we're trending towardsauthenticity again.
I think that people have been,uh, have bought into enough
shitty programs and enoughmake-believe image that you're
talking about.
It's like the influencer thing,right, like buying into this
(23:59):
image and realizing that, firstof all, just because they have
that doesn't mean that they canteach you how to have that.
And, second of all, there arepeople who get that because they
think that's what they want andthen they realize it's not what
they wanted, but they boughtinto it because that's what
they're being fed.
And I believe that you know afew things are happening with
(24:21):
Pluto and Aquarius, with the ageof Aquarius, with the human
design 2027, like big shiftthat's happening, that's coming
up, which we're alreadyobviously in the shadow of cause
.
It's a 400 year thing you knowwe're moving towards.
It's like an individualism,it's individual but it's
(24:41):
collective, right, it's acollective full of individuals,
not a collective full of sheepwhere everyone believes the same
thing.
Right?
A thriving collective is madeup of lots of individual people,
not cookie cutter, not carboncopies.
Not everyone has to do it thesame way, we just have to be
(25:02):
ourselves and the frequency solike to me, there are very few
frequencies as powerful as thefrequency of truth.
We can feel the truth, right.
I think it was the book PowerVersus Force, where they talked
about muscle testing right,where people would like put on
(25:24):
headphones and listen to someoneeither speaking the truth or a
lie in a language that thelistener didn't even know, and
the muscles tested weak whenthey were listening to a lie and
the muscles tested strong whenthey were listening to truth and
they didn't even understand thelanguage.
We know truth and truth is partof authenticity, right, like
(25:45):
being ourselves.
That's us being our truth.
This is big for me.
I'm glad that we're talkingabout this because I have been
like.
I spent a long time reallystruggling with my relationship
with social media because I hadin my mind that, like you know,
my feed had to look a certainway and everything you know.
I'm just tired of that.
Speaker 1 (26:06):
I just don't want to do it anymore this came up for
me this week because somebodycame across my feed that said,
if you're going to do a Januaryoffer which I do, I am right,
yeah, you have to have amazingstandout graphics.
And I was like, oh, that's sotrue, the, the, the market's so
(26:29):
saturated, and everyone.
And then I was like, oh, that'sso true, the, the, the market's
so saturated, and everyone.
And then I was like, fuck, lynn, do you need?
And that's that, like oh, shoot.
And then I'm like I am not andI never will have been a
professional.
I see these beautiful photoshoots.
I've never been that person.
That's like I need aprofessional photo shoot.
And, girl, I have a degree inphotography.
Speaker 2 (26:51):
I personally love photo shoots, but because
they're fun, not because I needthem.
Speaker 1 (26:54):
But also the thing is , is that my whole thing is that
you don't have to spendmillions and you don't have to
be something you're not.
Yes, you don't.
You can start a business onzero.
You don't need a professionalphoto shoot.
Well, it's fun.
I agree.
If I find a photographer that Ireally enjoy, or if my husband
(27:18):
snaps me out wherever we are, Ilike to put them up.
But my profile photo is aselfie.
Speaker 2 (27:28):
Yeah, and it's you, and it's you.
That's your brand, though,right To me, like you intend I
don't maybe you intentionally,but like your brand is.
This is me.
No apologies, this is who I am.
Speaker 1 (27:42):
Cause I was that person that was like you got to
dress for success.
You got to love this way.
You got to do these certainthings you got to have for
success.
You got to look this way.
You got to do these certainthings.
You got to have everything.
I was a perfectionist beyondbelief.
It was like the thing that keptme trapped for so long and I'm
like I don't want women to thinkthat you have to do air quote
all these things in order to seemultiple six.
Speaker 2 (28:03):
Yeah, and, and you know, one of one of my mentors
who I've been with for a longtime I mean she always talks
about how you know everyone thatshe learned from told her she
needed X number of followers andshe made her first multi-six
with 700 followers.
Think that I am.
(28:32):
One place where I am stalkingmyself is I am stalking the
rules that I have agreed to ormade up about what it takes to
be successful, because for everyrule I've made, there are
thousands of people who willprove the opposite, who have
proven the opposite.
Speaker 1 (28:44):
Here's the thing.
All that fucking bullshit issocial media driven by marketing
coaches, yes, and businesscoaches, business.
The business coaching industryis 97 full of shit.
Because you look at anysuccessful entrepreneur out
there in your hometown like, uh,we have this beautiful small
(29:05):
batch, um meadery, this placethat makes mead which is like an
alcoholic beverage small,delightful, excellent mead
making it.
She's not on social media everyday like pretty cracking shit
down.
We have a local roaster thathas that in the past seven years
(29:28):
has, and it's one of thosedrive-thrus so they roast their
coffee and then they break itthrough open two remote located
two locations in the same townof 30 000 and now has a small
roast and toast that does coffeein the morning, cocktails at
night and they're crushing itand they're not on their social
media like taking professionalphotos and shit.
Speaker 2 (29:57):
That's the whole thing.
I it's like, it's uh, I can'texplain it, but it's like the
message starts to likeinfiltrate and then everyone
just fucking buys into it andthen everyone's paying people to
teach them how to do it.
But it's just one way, right.
One way is being an influencerwith beautiful pictures and
doing that.
There's a thousand, multiplethousands of other ways to do it
, Right?
I just and that's what I'velearned by being someone who has
(30:20):
bought into all of that shitand who has bought, literally
paid money to learn all of thesethings and I've worked with,
you know, over over a thousandclients at this point, right,
Like, between my programs and Ihave seen people be successful
with every strategy out there.
Speaker 1 (30:39):
It's like our industry on what we're.
Yeah, I get it.
Speaker 2 (30:44):
That's why I say there really is only one way to
be successful, and it's your way.
Yeah, and that's the challenge,because most coaches won't
teach you how to find your ownway.
They only teach you how to doit the way that worked for them.
Speaker 1 (30:59):
Right, like so.
Speaker 2 (31:05):
So we're rewriting that you know, yeah, exactly.
And there's lots of peopleprobably people listening who
like y'all get it too and you'relike I want to do it my way.
Yes, yeah, listen, it takescourage.
Speaker 1 (31:17):
Yeah, it takes courage, but it's like it goes
back to finding those mentorsthat are going to carry you
along this way, like help you uhmove forward in it.
And I often think about like um, it's, there's no quick fix,
it's all about exploration andgetting messy and really, but it
is about like really trustingyourself.
Speaker 2 (31:41):
Yeah, you have to, and, and that's it Like we have
to commit to that and the morethat we trust, like in the
beginning, when you really makethat, you from a place of
resolve and conviction and I'mgoing to trust myself and this
is my path every fear is goingto come up to the surface.
(32:02):
It's just how it works, butit's because we have to choose
to trust ourselves in the faceof every single fear.
Speaker 1 (32:10):
That we've been told that we don't have the
capability of doing as women.
Or, you know, we've been taughtthat these are things that we
should be doing Before we wrapup.
I just was thinking about.
You have to really want toshare your gifts, you have to be
(32:36):
to be an entrepreneur, you haveto be to the core.
Wanting this.
You cannot.
Half-ass entrepreneurism, no,no, no.
And I think a lot of people arelike I want the time of
financial freedom, but then,when they figure out that they
have to do shit, they're likewell, can't I just manifest new
clients in?
Speaker 2 (32:57):
yeah, maybe, I don't know, it hasn't worked for me
you got to take action.
Speaker 1 (33:03):
Like you have to take action, you have to prospect.
But I think that too manypeople are not driven by
entrepreneurism, they're drivenby desperation for the time of
financial freedom, and that'snot going to work.
Speaker 2 (33:19):
You're so right.
You're so right.
I will say this, and maybe I'vesaid this before until I hit a
financial level of success in mybusiness, I didn't have as much
energy to actually be inservice because I was spending
(33:40):
so much of my energy in.
I have to make this work, andso that's something that I'm
really working with, with myclients and with the success.
Codex is like we're tyingeverything back to service.
Now, sometimes service can bekind of like a platitude or like
even be like a littleself-righteous, but I'm not
(34:01):
talking about that.
Where I'm going to serve, it'sreally tapping back in, exactly
like you said, like the deepdesire to share your gifts with
the world talk about that on thenext episode.
Speaker 1 (34:11):
Okay, all right, let's do it, let's do it y'all
chime in to the next episode ofthe cosmic valkyrie podcast.
Until then, have fun.
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