Summary
In this conversation, Tim Johnson interviews Keeley Rankin, a sex and relationship coach, about male performance issues. They discuss the three main male performance struggles: premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, and erectile dysfunction.
Reach her here: https://www.keeleyrankin.com/
Keeley explains that early ejaculation is often caused by anxiety and teaches clients how to be present in their bodies and let arousal flow. Delayed orgasm is a complex issue related to trust, fantasy, and touch. Erectile dysfunction can be caused by performance pressure, relationship issues, or medical factors. Keeley also mentions the impact of porn use and the importance of learning what feels pleasurable. In this conversation, Keeley Rankin and Tim Johnson discuss the challenges and experiences of men with erectile dysfunction (ED) and early ejaculation. They explore the importance of communication and understanding in relationships, the impact of societal expectations and pressures, and the need for self-reflection and personal growth. Keeley shares her five-step method for addressing early ejaculation, which includes breathwork, connecting with sensations in the body, and exploring fantasies. They also touch on the role of trust and the potential impact of childhood experiences on sexual struggles. Keeley emphasizes the importance of expanding one's toolkit and finding pleasure in the entire body.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Personal Stories
00:51 Exploring Sexuality and Overcoming Intimacy Issues
02:38 The Impact of Sex Events and Workshops
04:48 The Importance of Open Conversations about Sex
07:43 Society's Views on Sex and the Need for Education
09:11 The Desire for More Adventure in the Bedroom
10:49 Exploring Sexual Fantasies
13:59 Understanding Male Performance Issues
16:25 Causes and Solutions for Erectile Dysfunction
23:27 Causes and Solutions for Premature Ejaculation
25:47 Causes and Solutions for Delayed Ejaculation
33:33 Tips for Men and Partners Dealing with Erectile Dysfunction
35:32 Opening up the conversation about attraction and desire
36:30 The implications of not getting an erection
39:24 The five-step method for addressing early ejaculation
46:47 Sensation categories and connecting with the body
50:08 The need for new tools in sexual relationships
55:51 Trust issues and delayed ejaculation
56:47 Upcoming course and conclusion
58:27 Couply Outro - SD 480p.mp4
Keywords
male performance issues, premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, anxiety, trust, fantasy, touch, porn use, pleasure, erectile dysfunction, early ejaculation, communication, relationships, societal expectations, pressures, self-reflection, personal growth, breathwork, sensations, fantasies, trust, childhood experiences, pleasure.
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