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May 15, 2025 • 4 mins

🎧 DAY 15: F*ck Closure - How to Grieve Without Their Apology | UNSTUCK: 30 Days to Rewrite Your Love Story


🔥 EPISODE DESCRIPTION

You’re staring at your phone, waiting for that text—the explanation, the apology, the "I messed up" that’ll make everything make sense. But here’s the truth: Closure isn’t something they give you. It’s something you create for yourself.

In this liberating episode of Unstuck: 30 Days to Rewrite Your Love Story, host Christy Holt (your Closure Alchemist) drags the "I need closure" myth into the light. That story you’re holding onto? You don’t need their ending to write yours.

Time to seal the unanswered questions in a jar, blast Just Give Me a Reason by P!nk, and reclaim your power to heal—without their permission.



⏱️ WATCH/LISTEN ALONG

00:00:00 – The Waiting Game (Stuck on Read—Literally and Emotionally)

00:00:48 – Closure is a DIY Project ("I was giving him power over my healing.")

00:02:38 – Jar Ritual (Write, Fold, Seal: A Physical Act of Letting Go)

00:03:10 – Rebellious Mantra: "I release what I can’t control."

00:03:32 – Add to Your F*ck It List: "Waiting for closure."



đź’¬ KEY QUOTES (SHAREABLE AF)

"Closure isn’t a gift someone else gives to you. It’s a decision that you make for yourself."

"The answers you’re looking for won’t come from them. They’ll come from you."

"I release what I cannot control and I reclaim my power to heal."


(Tag @CoachChristyHolt if you’ve ever rage-decorated a closure jar. 📲)



🔥 YOUR DAY 15 REBELLION: SEAL YOUR OWN STORY


1. THE CLOSURE JAR RITUAL

đź«™ Grab a jar (glitter encouraged).

📝 Write every unanswered question, "what if," and unspoken apology on slips of paper.

✂️ Fold, stuff, and seal it shut while screaming: "I release what I can’t control!"


2. ADD TO YOUR F*CK IT LIST

🗑️ "Waiting for closure."

🔥 Burn it (safely) or scream into the jar.


3. SONG OF SURRENDER

🎶 Let Just Give Me a Reason by P!nk wreck you (in the best way). Rebellious AF in Love Playlist: https://bit.ly/loverebel


SHARE YOUR RELEASE 📸 Tag @CoachChristyHolt with your jar (bonus points for  tear-stained paper confetti).



RESOURCES & LINKS

đź’ˇ LOVE REIMAGINED COURSE: Heal Without Their Apology: https://coachchristyholt.com/product/lovereimagined/


🔜 NEXT EPISODE: Your Rage is Data (Spoiler: Anger isn’t chaos—it’s clarity in combat boots.)



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đź’Ś RATE & REVIEW if this helped you ditch the closure chase.

💌 COMMENT BELOW: "What’s ONE thing you’re sealing in your jar?" (Unsent texts? His Spotify playlist? 🚀)

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