🎧 DAY 13: Grieving the Fantasy - Letting Go of the 'Maybes' | UNSTUCK: 30 Days to Rewrite Your Love Story
🔥 EPISODE DESCRIPTION
You're lying in bed, rewriting history—editing out red flags, casting him as the rom-com hero, and asking: "What if he changes? What if we try again?"
Spoiler: You're not losing love. You're losing a hallucination.
In this raw, liberating episode of Unstuck: 30 Days to Rewrite Your Love Story, host Christy Holt (AKA The Happiness Hussy) drags the "maybe" fantasy into the light. That version of him you're clinging to? He doesn't exist. Time to close the book on the fairytale and burn the damn script.
⏱️ WATCH/LISTEN ALONG
0:00 – The Maybe Spiral (Rewriting History Like a Rom-Com Director)
0:47 – The Fantasy vs. Reality (Spoiler: The "Changed Man" is a Character You Wrote)
1:40 – Maybes Are Anchors (Why "What If" Keeps You Stuck)
2:10 – Add to Your F*ck It List: "Waiting for Someone Who Isn't Waiting for Me"
2:53 – Fantasy Funeral Ritual (Shake It Off + Burn the Letter + Taylor Swift Anthem)
💬 KEY QUOTES (SHAREABLE AF)
"Grieving the fantasy isn't about letting go of love. It's about letting go of the illusion of love."
"The person I was waiting for didn't exist. He was merely a figment of my imagination."
"Those maybes aren't hope. They're anchors that keep you stuck."
"You're not losing something real. You're freeing yourself from something that never was."
(Tag @CoachChristyHolt if you've ever ghostwritten a man's redemption arc. 📲)
🔥 YOUR DAY 13 REBELLION: BURY THE MAYBES
1. THE FANTASY FUNERAL TRIO
💃 Shake It Off: 60 seconds of full-body shaking (release stagnant energy).
📝 Write & Burn: "Dear Maybe-Him, you were a great character…" (safely!).
🎵 Blast We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together: https://bit.ly/loverebel
2. ADD TO YOUR F*CK IT LIST
🗑️ "Waiting for someone who isn't waiting for me" — scream into your pillow or burn it.
3. CELEBRATE YOUR FREEDOM
👑 DM @CoachChristyHolt your "I burned the fantasy!" victory (TS lyric chants encouraged).
SHOW YOUR RELEASE: 📸 Tag @CoachChristyHolt with your burned letter ashes or "Shake It Off"dance moves.
RESOURCES & LINKS
💡 LOVE REIMAGINED COURSE: Stop Clinging to Maybes, Start Building Real Love https://coachchristyholt.com/product/lovereimagined/
🔜 NEXT EPISODE: Reclaim Your Bed (Why Your Mattress Isn't a Trauma Dump)
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💌 COMMENT: "What's ONE 'maybe' you're finally releasing?" Let's normalize "The End." 🚀
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