🎧 DAY 17: The Revenge Era: Success is the Best Middle Finger | UNSTUCK: 30 Days to Rewrite Your Love Story
🔥 EPISODE DESCRIPTION
You're scrolling through Instagram and—there it is—a picture of them looking happy, smiling like they didn't just rip your heart out. Cue the spiral: "How is he fine? Why am I not over this?"
Spoiler alert, Love Rebel: The best revenge isn't about him. It's about you—living so boldly, so unapologetically you, that his absence becomes irrelevant.
In this electrifying episode of Unstuck: 30 Days to Rewrite Your Love Story, host Christy Holt (your Revenge Architect) flips the script. Your glow-up isn't petty—it's power. Time to burn the fantasies, blast Taylor Swift, and declare: "My happiness is the ultimate middle finger."
⏱️ WATCH/LISTEN ALONG
00:00:00 – The Instagram Spiral ("Why are they happy while I'm still hurting?")
00:00:49 – Revenge Redefined ("It's not about them—it's about you.")
00:02:30 – Add to Your F*ck It List: "Waiting for permission to heal."
00:02:49 – The Revenge Trio (Write It, Burn It, Own It)
00:03:12 – "I Am the Best Revenge" Mirror Work
đź’¬ KEY QUOTES (SHAREABLE AF)
"The best revenge isn't about making him regret losing you. It's about living a life so good that you don't even notice he's gone."
"Your revenge era isn't about making them pay. It's about making yourself proud."
"Success isn't just the best revenge—it's the only revenge that really matters."
(Tag @CoachChristyHolt if you've ever rage-burned a note. 🔥)
🔥 YOUR DAY 17 REBELLION: GLOW UP LIKE IT'S YOUR JOB
1. THE REVENGE TRIO
📝 Write: Every unanswered text, every "what if"
🔥 Burn: Watch it turn to ash (safely!).
🪞 Mirror Mantra: Lock eyes with your reflection: "I AM THE BEST REVENGE."
2. ADD TO YOUR F*CK IT LIST
🗑️ "Waiting for permission to heal."
🔥 Burn it or scream it into your car radio.
3. INSTANT MAIN CHARACTER ENERGY
🎶 Blast Look What You Made Me Do: Rebellious AF Playlist → https://bit.ly/loverebel
✨ DM @CoachChristyHolt your revenge-era wins (Phoenix emojis encouraged).
SHARE YOUR RELEASE 📸 Tag @CoachChristyHolt with your "I am the best revenge!" selfie.
RESOURCES & LINKS
đź’ˇ AUTHENTICITY UNLEASHED COURSE: Glow up like your happiness depends on it: https://coachchristyholt.com/product/authenticityunleashed/
🔜 NEXT EPISODE: Permission to Heal ("You don't need their apology to be free.")
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💌 COMMENT BELOW: "What's the FIRST song on your revenge playlist?" (Taylor stans unite! 🎶)
💌 TAG @CoachChristyHolt—let's flood the feed with glow-ups.
#RewriteYourLoveStory #PlotTwistEnergy #LoveRebel #GlowUp #RevengeEra
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