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May 30, 2025 9 mins

🎧 DAY 30: Wildfire: How to Keep Burning Without Apology | UNSTUCK: 30 Days to Rewrite Your Love Story



🔥 EPISODE DESCRIPTION


They told you to be smaller. Quieter. Less you. But here's your final truth bomb: You were never meant to be a candle—you were born to be a wildfire.


In this electrifying series finale of UNSTUCK: 30 Days to Rewrite Your Love Story, host Christy Holt (your Pyrotechnic Love Guide) delivers:


• 3 Paradigm Shifts to own your "too much" as sacred fuel

• The Flamekeeper Ritual (for when others call you "too intense")

• Your Wildfire Manifesto & Phoenix Rising Ceremony (a rebirth set to Alicia Keys' anthem)


Spoiler: Your ashes aren't just fertilizer for your growth—they're kindling for the next generation of women learning to burn bright.



⏱️ WATCH/LISTEN ALONG


00:00:00 – The "Be Smaller" Lie Exposed

00:00:55 – Paradigm Shift #1: Your "Too Much" is Their Mediocrity Alarm

00:02:07 – Paradigm Shift #2: Trust Your Heat (It's Your Birthright)

00:03:06 – Paradigm Shift #3: The World Needs Your Blaze

00:05:34 – Wildfire Manifesto Ceremony (Burn It Down + Rise)



💬 KEY QUOTES (SHAREABLE AF)


"You were born to be a wildfire."

"Your fire cannot be contained—and the world needs your blaze."

"You are not here to be digestible. You are here to be free."

"Your scars aren't wounds—they're street lamps for other women."


(Tag @CoachChristyHolt if these ignite you! 📲)



🔥 YOUR DAY 30 REBELLION: THE WILDFIRE MANIFESTO


1. CLAIM YOUR TERRITORY

📝 Complete:

"I am done apologizing for ______"

"From now on I choose ______"

"My fire is my power because ______"


2. CEREMONIAL RELEASE

🔥 Burn or shred your manifesto while declaring:

"This is me: Unedited. Unapologetic. Unleashed."


3. PHOENIX RISE DANCE

🎶 Crank up Girl on Fire by Alicia Keys: https://bit.ly/loverebel

💃 Embody your rebirth in 3 movements:

1️⃣ ROOTS – Plant feet wide, grip the earth

2️⃣ WINGS – Spread arms during chorus

3️⃣ BLAZE – Let every cell of your being burn brighter


SHARE YOUR BLAZE: 📸 Tag @CoachChristyHolt with your wildfire rise + #PlotTwistEnergy



RESOURCES & LINKS


🔥 WORK WITH CHRISTY:

Ready to turn this wildfire into your permanent state? Explore mentorship or courses to help you embody the incredible love story you’re writing: https://coachchristyholt.com/workwithme


🎧 SEASON 3 OF CREATE YOUR HAPPY: CREATING CONSCIOUS RELATIONSHIPS WITH YOURSELF & OTHERS

The podcast series about all things relationships: Unapologetic living • Self-trust • Communication that sets you free

🎙️ Spotify (start here): https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christy-holt/episodes/Love--Unstuck-Conscious-Relationships-with-Others-and-Yourself-e2b5h2b


📖 LOVE, UNSTUCK BOOK:

Dive deeper into creating conscious relationships with this handy guide back to loving yourself: http://www.loveunstuck.com



STAY CONNECTED


💌 SUBSCRIBE for bonus episodes

💌 RATE & REVIEW if this series rewired your love story

💌 COMMENT: "What's your wildfire declaration?"

💌 TAG @CoachChristyHolt—your blaze inspires the rebellion



#RewriteYourLoveStory #CreateYourHappy #LoveRebel #Confidence #Unapologetic #LiveYourTruth

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