Episode 210 - Talking to Sons About Masculinity and Healthy Manhood
Pillar 1: Redefining Masculinity
Key Talking Points:
- Reflection on what “being a man” meant in your generation — toughness, stoicism, protection — and how that definition is shifting.
- Explores the myths of “boys don’t cry” and why they hold men back.
- Tell their sons: “You don’t have to be perfect, just be real.”
“So once we start redefining what masculinity looks like, the real work is helping our sons understand what’s going on in their hearts — and how to talk about it.”
Pillar 2: Building Emotional Intelligence
Key Talking Points:
- Normalizing emotional literacy — teaching sons to name and express feelings.
- Talk side-by-side (in the car, on a walk, playing catch).
- Ask open-ended questions: “What made you proud today?” or “Was there anything that bugged you this week?”
- Use your own emotions as examples: “I got frustrated today, and here’s how I handled it.”
- Reinforce that emotional awareness builds real confidence and leadership.
“Emotional intelligence is key, but how we treat others — especially in the world our sons are growing up in — is another huge piece of healthy manhood.”
Pillar 3: Modeling Respect and Equality
Key Talking Points:
- Discussed how respect is the foundation of modern masculinity — in friendships, dating, family, and online interactions.
- Talked about modeling respect at home — how you treat your partner, your own parents, waitstaff, coworkers, etc.
- Shared how to handle “boys being boys” moments — correcting gently and teaching instead of shaming.
“As dads, one of the biggest lessons we can pass down is that asking for help, showing emotion, and caring for others doesn’t make us weak — it makes us human.”
Pillar 4: Mental Health, Vulnerability, and Community
Key Talking Points:
- Addressed mental health as an everyday part of manhood conversations.
- Talked about the power of community — encouraging sons (and dads) to find supportive male friendships.
- Highlighted Movember’s initiatives and how listeners can get involved: grow a mustache, host a “Dad Chat,” or donate to men’s mental health programs.
A Dad Space Challenge:
- take the week’s Dad Space Challenge:
- Have one honest 10-minute conversation with your son about what being a man means — and listen more than you talk.
- Bonus: write down three traits you want your son to carry into adulthood and share them with him.
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Episode mentioned: Should Dads Be Worried About the Manosphere?
https://pod.link/1718772295/episode/QnV6enNwcm91dC0xNzgwODA0MA
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