230. The Decade after Divorce with Dr. Toyin Falusi Nwafor

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Shownotes:

In this episode of the Dating After Divorce podcast, Sade Curry interviews Dr. Toyin Falusi Nwafor, affectionately known as T-Fal, who shares her journey of writing her book 'The Decade After' and her experiences navigating life after divorce. Dr. T-Fal emphasizes the importance of self-care, support systems, and personal growth during the challenging process of divorce. 

The conversation explores the unique experiences of divorced women, the impact of divorce on relationships, and the significance of how we use time in the healing process. Dr. T-Fal provides insights on how to empower oneself and support children through the transition, highlighting the need for understanding and compassion in the journey of healing. 

In this conversation, Dr. Toyin discusses the complexities of divorce, emphasizing the importance of understanding statistics in relation to individual experiences. She highlights the critical role of parenting in mitigating the negative impacts of divorce on children and stresses the need for a supportive network during such transitions. 

The discussion also touches on the challenges of navigating singleness and dating post-divorce, advocating for self-awareness and personal growth throughout the process. In this engaging conversation, Dr. Toyin and Sade Curry explore the complexities of dating and relationships after divorce. They discuss the importance of being honest with oneself about intentions in dating, the journey of reconnecting with past partners, and the significance of transparency in new relationships. 

Dr. Toyin shares her personal experiences of navigating love and companionship after divorce, emphasizing the need for intentionality and self-discovery. The discussion culminates in reflections on the future and the possibilities that lie ahead, highlighting the importance of embracing change and growth.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Dr. Toyin Falusi Nwafor

02:37 The Journey of Writing 'The Decade After'

06:34 Navigating Divorce: Unique Experiences and Resources

11:50 The Impact of Divorce on Relationships

14:04 Time Heals: The Importance of How We Use It

19:15 Healing Beyond Divorce: Childhood and Personal Growth

22:58 Understanding Divorce Statistics and Individual Outcomes

27:04 The Role of Parenting in Divorce

32:39 Building a Support System During Divorce

44:32 Navigating Singleness and Dating After Divorce

45:53 Navigating Post-Divorce Relationships

49:09 Intentional Dating and Reconnection

52:59 The Journey to Remarriage

56:34 The Importance of Honesty and Transparency

01:00:14 Embracing Change and Future Possibilities

Keywords

divorce, healing, personal growth, co-parenting, self-care, relationships, support system, women's empowerment, emotional well-being, navigating divorce, divorce, parenting, support system, statistics, relationships, healing, self-care, single life, emotional health, co-parenting, divorce, remarriage, dating, relationships, honesty, transparency, self-discovery, intentionality, personal growth, empowerment