June 3, 2025 • 26 mins
We're back after a short hiatus due to life commitments, travel plans, and some social media frustrations that temporarily derailed our recording schedule. We dive into the complexities of Mother's Day and how it affects people differently depending on their relationship with motherhood.
• Breaking down why Mother's Day is more complicated than just celebrating mothers
• Examining whether wishing "Happy Mother's Day" to non-mothers is appropriate
• Discussing the varying expectations mothers have for the holiday
• Exploring how to celebrate the day when you've lost your mother
• Sharing personal experiences of how we observe (or don't observe) Mother's Day
• Comparing Mother's Day expectations to Father's Day and birthday celebrations
• Detailing our approaches to caregiving during illness and recovery
We sincerely apologize for the technical difficulties at the end of this episode - we're learning and promise to figure this shit out. Thanks for putting up with us!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Are we recording?
Yes Sibilance, all right, soDead Mom Scavenger Hut, welcome
back.
It's been a hot minute.
We've been on a little bit of ahiatus because of a few reasons
.
One life sometimes does thingsand gets in the way you were
(00:20):
traveling, which is veryexciting.
I was traveling.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
We got a little frustrated with our social media
.
We had technology, we had someexciting.
We got a little frustrated withour social media.
We had technology.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
We had some technology.
We're going to work it out.
We're going to work it out andwe will figure out exactly what
Instagram is going to be,because Instagram we're new here
, not to the planet, just tobeing responsible adults on it.
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
Yeah, instagram was being responsible.
Adults on it.
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Yeah, Instagram was being kind of Well.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Later we were trying to Later, the later app.
Yeah, yeah, anyway, that'sneither here nor there.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
No, but we're working it out and the good news is
back.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
We're back, yeah, yeah, it's also we like to
record in person, absolutely,and Christmas lives two and a
half hours away from me.
Yes, sadly, sadly so it ischallenging to get together
sometimes when we both have fullschedules and what's not.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
We need to figure out how to do like a time wrinkle,
but she just ate a fly.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
Your dog just ate a fly.
He's so gross that wasimpressive.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
I kiss you on the face.
She's oh no, no, no, spit itout, spit it out, okay, okay,
hold her face and I'm gonna geta tissue no, no, oh, my god, I'm
getting hold her.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
I can't, I can't hold her.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
She's like the Mr Miyagi of the dog world.
Okay, I got it.
Horrified.
Abandon Kara.
Horrified abandon.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
Oh my God, that is like my least favorite thing
about myself, that you eat flies.
No, that I gag so easily.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
I don't gag that easily, but I do hate flies,
birdie, please don't do that tome again.
Apparently when I was little.
I don't know if this, if youdid this as well, but I guess
when I was a baby I was superobsessed with flies and would
like follow them around and liketry to touch them.
And mom hated flies and was soupset by it that she actually
(02:30):
told me if I touched a fly Iwould die.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Oh, my God.
No, I did not do that First ofall well that's a special little
.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
I mean, you know, winged things are kind of
exciting.
I thought it was a prettyaggressive response to tell me
if I touched one I would die.
What if one accidentally landson you, you would have figured
out your mom was a liar.
Yeah, yeah, she was not abovelying to us.
Yeah, um, well, okay.
(03:02):
So birdie didn't actually forthose of you who are not
patreons and seeing the videoshe didn't actually swallow it.
She bit it, killed it, spit itout, thought about eating it.
Kara grabbed her face so shecouldn't eat it and I went and
got a tissue and took its bodyand disposed of it but it was
like kind of masticated it waswet I think that's a word
(03:23):
masticated masticated it was, Imean it was a good veterinary
and it might have recovered.
It was like kind of masticatedIs that a word?
It was wet I think that's aword Masticated.
Masticated, I mean with a goodveterinary and it might have
recovered.
It was just a little wet, yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
I have a weak constitution.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
I don't think that's true.
Flies are especially gross.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
Oh, and now she's all ashamed.
Her face is hanging out, I know.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
I know you were just trying to save us.
It's fine.
The fly was evil.
It was evil and you took careof it.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Well, all that is to say, we're back, yep.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Yep, we sure are.
Thanks for your patience.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
What do you want to talk about first today?
Well, I think you wanted totalk about Mother's Day.
Yes, let's talk about Mother'sDay, and since it's past
Mother's Day, we should probablydo that one and get it out.
It just happened recently.
Today is June 1st, so we'rerecording this just after
Mother's Day.
Happy.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
Pride Month.
Oh, happy Pride Month.
It's Pride Month.
Yay, I should be wearingsomething more Colorful Rainbow.
Yeah, I have some really coolpride clothes that I'm not even
wearing right now.
Well, we'll get there.
It's also PTSD Awareness.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Month.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Do you think that there's a reason those two are
together?
No, I think that's acoincidence.
Well, do you also think it's acoincidence that Mother's Day
and Mental Health AwarenessMonth are the same month?
Speaker 2 (04:46):
That might be intentional.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
You think that one's maybe, Maybe, yeah.
So Mother's Day happenedrecently.
Kara is a mother, I am not.
Mother's Day has always kind ofbeen an afterthought for me
until mom passed and that it wasjust like, oh, it's the day
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that you celebrate your mom.
But I had a really myopic viewof it and that I didn't think
about all the other kind of waysMother's Day could hit
different and affect people.
And part of this is because Iworked an event on Mother's Day
with a dear friend and who'shelping me out and I it was kind
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of subconscious but kind ofconscious in that when people
would come up to the booth Iusually waited until I was
pretty sure it was a mom anddaughter or that someone was a
mom, before saying HappyMother's Day, because for some
people it could be a morechallenging day.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Yeah, it's a challenging day for my dad.
Yeah, he didn't even call me onMother's Day, really.
Yeah, I was a little butthurtabout it.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
I didn't call you either.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
I text you no, I mean that's fine, okay, and I don't.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
I didn't call you like a crazy person.
I don't need like attention.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
I was busy doing my own thing right.
But I also know that my dadlost his mom.
Yeah, and her birthday is likethe day before mother's day,
yeah, so it's kind of like anextra whammy for him.
Yeah, he goes and takes herflowers and and that was he's
still reeling from losing her.
Yeah, which was like 17 yearsago.
Yeah, has it been that long?
Yeah, god damn, I know.
So I know that he struggles.
That wasn't losing her.
She died christmas eve 17 yearsago, so that ruined Christmas
and Mother's Day happy mother'sday.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
And the woman said to her oh yeah, happy mother's day
, are you a mom?
And my friend said no, and thewoman said notice how I asked
you first.
Oh, that's kind of aggressive.
Yeah, and like shitty jesus.
Yeah, and I was thinking aboutit.
Do you have a mom?
Though, that's what I wasthinking.
Yeah, whether or not you areone, we should celebrate moms,
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whether they're yours or not.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Yeah, it's just a day to celebrate mothers in general
.
Mother figures Exactly.
Bonnie wasn't technically mymom, but I would text her Happy
Mother's Day Exactly.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
I'm a mom, yeah, but I still text my mom and Jeremy's
mom yeah, this one was what abitch.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Okay, that's what I was going to ask you.
Is this, wasn't that a bitchything?
Yeah, that's bitchy.
Or is it one of those thingswhere maybe this well, she was
in her 60s, so I don't think shewas suffering from infertility
at the moment.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
She probably is infertile at the moment.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
Actually, yes, I would hope yes, but it wasn't
something she was working on.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
She had to be over it by now, or maybe not, or maybe
she lost a child or something.
I can see where she might havebeen.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
That seems like maybe an overly sensitive response
somehow well, this is my thought, even with people for whom it
is very prickly if I think a lotgoes to intent.
Yes, my friend was just tryingto be joyous and celebrate moms
and say happy mother's day.
(08:35):
Oh, have something to say,because it's this you know, art
fair and we're, you know,selling art and presenting art
and it's just a conversationstarter.
But for this woman to go sohard, she didn't have to go that
hard, she chose to go that hard.
Like notice how I asked youfirst I was like god damn I
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think I think that was rude.
Speaker 2 (08:58):
First of all, okay, agree of her, um, and I think
that, like, maybe, if she issensitive about that, yeah,
that's a her problem.
Yeah, everybody wishes everyone, like, like my friends who
don't celebrate Christmas orHalloween or whatever.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
Shout out to my.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
Jews out there, yeah, like they don't get mad.
No, how dare you how?
Dare I celebrate somethingthat's important to me?
Speaker 1 (09:26):
Yeah, I will say from living in LA so long I am 100%
conditioned, I always say happyholidays.
Yeah, that's fair.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
But this is a very specific mother's day Also
because there's Kwanzaa.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
You know there's a lot of holidays in that general
realm.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
You can't say happy holidays for Mother's Day,
though, no.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
Because that's just a very specific day.
It's a one and done, yeah, yeah.
So what are you, since you area mom and I am not?
How much of a shit do you giveabout mother's day?
Speaker 2 (10:01):
I don't expect much for mother's day.
Like, okay, I don't getpresents, typically parker, I
think I said so I went out for awalk with moo early, okay, so
here's how my mother's daypanned out this year.
Ok, jeremy was super sick.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
Jeremy's her husband.
For those of you just joining,us.
Yeah, my husband Moo is her dog, for those of you just joining
us, and Parker is my son, forthose of you just joining us.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
Jeremy was super sick , like 103 fever, oh dear, like
really really sick.
Ok, the weekend of Mother's Dayit kind of came down Friday
evening and stayed.
Really, really bad till likeMonday basically, and so I
started my day waking up extraearly and getting him, caring
for him, mothering, mothering myhusband, which I'm fine with
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because he, you know, wasn't hewas sick.
Yeah, it's just an arbitraryday that we've decided on, right
, right, like, I'm not going tobe like, but it's my day for
breakfast and bed.
I feel like some people arelike that, though.
So then I got up and I walkedthe dog.
I took care of Jeremy, madesure he was cool.
He went back to sleep.
I went and walked the dog, tookmy own walk.
Yeah, woke up, realized it wasmother day, ran to the store,
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bought me tulips, and which wasreally sweet.
So he bought me some tulips,and he was so excited what a
good deal he got on them,because he's super cheap.
I love how cheap he is.
He's so cheap, and I don't know.
I don't know where he gets itfrom aim for me, yeah but he's
super frugal and, um, he waslike telling me what a great
deal he got on the tulips, whichI thought was so cute, and so
it's not.
To me it's not a big deal aslong as I get to do what I want
to do.
On Mother's Day, I like thatlike Jeremy was sick and we had
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plans to go golf and so I did.
I went and golfed with myfriends without him because he
wasn't feeling well and he waslike have fun.
You know, sorry, I can't come.
I'm like, yeah, I still get todo what I want to do.
But I'm not expecting.
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (11:56):
I just want a day to chill, maybe yeah, I think there
are people for whom it's verymuch it's my day and we get to
do whatever it is I want, which.
There's people who but I alsothink that's people who those
don't have the luxury that youand I do of having set up their
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lives in a way in which they getto do a lot of things they want
to do anyway All the time.
Speaker 2 (12:21):
Yeah, those are also the people who end up with a
birthday month, yes, who likeit's all about them for the
entire month.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Yes, right.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
Yes, and that's fine, because we're not really big on
birthdays.
No, I forget everybody'sbirthday all the time.
Same yeah, terrible, oh yeah,and I hope it doesn't hurt any
five ever, if anyone's listeningwho's?
I've forgotten your birthday.
I'm so sorry, it's just not onmy list.
Speaker 1 (12:44):
Okay, we're going to pinky swear right now, because I
know I've forgotten yours andyou've probably forgotten mine.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
We will never give I don't care, I would not be mad
if you didn't text me on mybirthday.
Speaker 1 (12:53):
I wouldn't either.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
It's like, yeah, it's just not a big deal.
Speaker 1 (12:57):
Yeah.
So I have a question, though.
But the birthday month people,for them, their birthdays are A
big deal.
Yeah, and it's hard for me toto get into that mindset.
Speaker 2 (13:08):
Well, I just don't really need it, Like there's
other things going on in theworld that don't revolve around
me.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
Yeah, but I know some people who are super generous
and super giving and not thatself-centered, who do care about
their birthday a lot.
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (13:30):
It probably comes down to how you were raised and
maybe tradition a little bit.
Yeah, maybe, Because, like mydad never really made a big fuss
over my birthday and I luckily,Jeremy, doesn't really care
about it either Parker has beenraised that way.
So we we don't buy each othercards on our birthdays, even
like we might make each other acard, yeah, but we don't like.
It's more about likeexperiences together or like
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I'll buy him something but Idon't know.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
I have noticed that it's people who tend to be in
bigger families, who have like alot of brothers and sisters,
who care more about theirbirthday.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
Maybe it's the only day to feel really special.
Yeah, which great.
So my question to you is howdid you and Bonnie celebrate
Mother's Day when she was alive?
Speaker 1 (14:15):
I would just always ask her what do you want to do?
If you want to do nothing,that's great.
If you want me to like comecook, that's great.
If you want to go do something,that's great.
It was very laissez fairefaire.
It wasn't ever a huge to-do,and it might be not on the day.
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It might have been like forMother's Day.
I want to go to this play in acouple weeks or go to dinner at
a restaurant that's not open yet.
It was very fluid.
Speaker 2 (14:49):
Yeah, I think it was pretty aggressive of that woman
to to say that because you youwere sort of distracting
yourself on mother's day and youcould have easily been like
offended by people saying happymother's day to you because you
lost your mom.
Like no, it's not a happymother's day for me actually.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
Thank you very much I mean, I still think people.
I guess I'm not thinking it somuch as a salutation, as it
should be just happy Mother'sDay.
Like let's celebrate moms inall their you know, different
incantations.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
Yeah, like let's celebrate you know you don't
have to be, so the bottom lineis she was insinuating that you
had to be a mom to celebrateMother's Day.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
Kind of it kind of felt that way.
Speaker 2 (15:33):
And I think that's completely false.
Speaker 1 (15:35):
And there's people who had moms and they had shit
moms, yeah, who who were notgreat.
We don't yeah.
I mean yeah, and if you're nota mom, but you had a shitty mom,
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maybe for you's day is like whyare we celebrating?
Speaker 2 (15:57):
these assholes.
However, there are other momsin the world that should be
celebrated, that were great,even though yours wasn't, you
know, yeah, yeah, it's also likemaybe about other people and
not about you, right, likewouldn't that?
Speaker 1 (16:04):
be nice if the rest of us figured that.
Figure that out.
Speaker 2 (16:09):
Yeah, I think that was a little over the top.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
Do you have friends who have higher expectations of
Mother's Day?
Yeah, definitely Don't you.
I you don't know a lot offriends that are moms.
I was going to say I don't havea lot.
I mean, I do have some and youknow I always ask them what are
you doing for Mother's Day?
But a lot of their kids areolder too, so they're either at
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university or you know theirkids are cute and they'll do the
whole breakfast in bed thingbecause I think it's just become
part of the lexicon of Mother'sDay.
Speaker 2 (16:44):
I would never.
That would never happen at myhouse.
But I will say I did use theopportunity to guilt Parker into
driving me to golf and pickingme up great, and I ended up
getting hammered great, lovingthis for you.
It is a little bit of like Iuse it a little bit of a as a
bargaining chip it's a it's afree, it's a free pass for me to
kind of do, to act, to behavebadly.
Speaker 1 (17:08):
Love that.
But also you could probably useit as a bargaining chip.
Even not on that day, be like,well, I don't want it right now,
but for mothers, you rememberwhen you have to make like the
coupon box, yeah, good for onefree hug.
You could be like good for onefree, driving me without any
questions.
And you have to do it.
Like Parker needs to make youthe the 19 year old.
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He would coupon book.
He would never if you told himthis is what I want for mother's
day is a coupon book.
What do you say?
Speaker 2 (17:37):
I don't think you'd do it, because I told him I
wanted him to wash my car formother's day.
He said he said you just washedit.
And I was like, yeah, he's allnah bitch, but that was like a
week and a half ago and it'sdirty again, okay.
So he had he was working on histruck, he was I don't know
swapping out his suspension ordoing something crazy, and so he
stopped what he was doing anddrove me to get to drop me off
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and yeah, and then I think weprobably ordered dinner in or
something like that.
And just, of course, I'm notcooking like, okay, that's
unspoken, oh, okay, okay,because I don't enjoy it right,
right, right Right.
Speaker 1 (18:10):
That's another thing.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
Okay, I think if you're, if it's coming down to
like what I expect on Mother'sDay, I expect to not expect, to
not do things I don't want to do.
Speaker 1 (18:17):
I do like that.
I feel like I kind of do thatevery day.
Speaker 2 (18:22):
Yeah, we're getting there.
It's trying to trying to fallinto.
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (18:27):
But it's getting harder and harder.
I do want to say I canappreciate for the people who,
you know, were moms and lost achild.
Unbelievably hard, for thepeople who always wanted to be a
mom and couldn't unbelievablyhard.
We had some guests staying herein our Airbnb and they were
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here visiting one kid and hadlost another child and that
child's birthday was rightaround Mother's Day, so I could
see it being very bittersweet,but they were like it is.
But also on Mother's Day we eathis favorite food and we talk
about him and, you know, drinkthings that he would have liked
and it's kind of a anothercelebration of him yeah, even
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though he's not here, to be ableto celebrate mother's day for
me.
This is what she said.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
I was like, oh my god , you're like the most giving
mom you could do that too withbonnie, like sure we could go to
her favorite restaurant anddrink her favorite wine and
celebrate Yahtzee and cheese andwine.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
I mean sure, yeah, what did I call it?
Cheese and crackers?
Oh, at a restaurant, pardon me,do you have cheese and crackers
on your menu?
I think it's called a cheeseplate.
No, I think we should just callit cheese and crackers.
We just call it cheese andcrackers.
Out here, we call it cheese andcrackers.
Up in the hills, we just callit cheese and crackers.
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Out here, we call it cheese andcrackers.
Little honey, yeah, yeah,mother's Day.
It's a weird thing, and itdoesn't seem to have the same
connotation for Father's Day,because do dads even give a shit
?
Like, does Jeremy give a shitabout Father's Day?
Speaker 2 (20:06):
Oh, he does, he definitely wants to do what he
wants's.
It's the same, though hedoesn't expect like if I was
super sick on Father's Day.
He's not.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
I like how you took a big inhale and exhale before
that.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
He's not a super caregiver, right, like he's not
super concerned when I'm stillpretty much taking care of
myself when I'm sick, right, isthat?
Speaker 1 (20:27):
by choice or because he's not good at it, He'll never
listen.
Speaker 2 (20:30):
No he's good at it Like he.
He has, like when I've hadsurgeries before, he has
definitely cared for me and,like, helped me manage my meds
and stuff.
Yeah, but he's not going todote on me.
Speaker 1 (20:42):
Right Hammer really tries when I'm sick, and when
I'm sick I just want to be leftalone.
Oh sweet, don't help me, stayaway.
I can handle my own stuff.
Maybe I want to water every nowand then, but I don't like
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being taken care of when I'msick, see, when the last time I
had surgery was for I had myexplant.
Speaker 2 (21:08):
I had my fake boobs taken out, yeah, and a lift yeah
.
So I was, you know.
You know how, like you reallypretty much can't do anything,
yeah, arms after that for alittle while.
Speaker 1 (21:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (21:17):
I was in a lot of pain and so he really was great
about, like, making me food,like I appreciate feeding me
when I can't feed myself.
Speaker 1 (21:24):
I do like that.
Yeah, the last surgery I hadwas my breast reduction, yeah,
and the food part, yes.
But also I was like I'm goingto prefer to sleep in the living
room on the couch, I'm going toprefer to manage my own meds.
Because I also knew that I wasgoing to be my waking and
non-waking hours were going tobe so all over the place that I
was going to be, my waking andnon-waking hours were going to
be so all over the place that Ididn't want to.
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I was like, let me just do thisover here and not let it affect
you.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
I definitely manage my own meds now regardless
because, Jeremy, when I had,when I had my fake boobs put in,
like years and years and yearsago, he was in charge of my
painkillers, yeah, and he wasgiving me.
We tried to give me one.
Oh, I was.
I was like I want to and he waslike I just I'm afraid you'll
get addicted or whatever.
And I was like, oh my God, I'min so much fucking pain right
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now, Like, give me that.
It says one to two every fourto six hours.
Oh, thank goodness, my husbandstarted crying.
I was like, give me the fuckingpills.
Like it was so painful.
Speaker 1 (22:22):
Oh, that's sweet that he doesn't want you to get
addicted.
My husband would be like itsays one to two every four to
six hours.
You should probably take twoevery three hours to really stay
ahead of it, which I appreciate.
Speaker 2 (22:34):
But also, I hate taking Norco and like they make
my skin crawl.
I don't like taking them unlessI absolutely am in pain, Like
it's not crawl.
I don't like taking them unlessI absolutely am in pain, Like
it's not something.
Speaker 1 (22:44):
I don't mind.
Speaker 2 (22:45):
It's not like I even forgot that I had some.
I had a migraine a few days ago.
Speaker 1 (22:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (22:49):
And the my dad came by and he was like oh, you
should take a Norco.
Speaker 1 (22:53):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (22:53):
Like I didn't even think about it.
Speaker 1 (22:55):
Like.
Speaker 2 (22:55):
I forgot, I even had some, yeah.
Speaker 1 (23:04):
So it I, we have it, because anytime I have surgery
or have a prescription foranything like that, I try to get
off it as soon as possible so Ican have them.
Speaker 2 (23:13):
This is because our medical because our medical
system is so fucked up in thiscountry that I'm like I just
want to stockpile them, in caseI, you know, roll my ankle or
whatever we have like threebottles of prescription
painkillers in the safe at home,you know, because we have a
teenager in the house and he's apretty good teenager, I don't
feel like he would give a shit.
He wouldn't, but it's still notworth it to you.
Speaker 1 (23:34):
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (23:34):
Plus if he has a friend over or whatever.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
Right, right, right.
I'm not trying to contribute toany.
Yeah, we don't have to have asafe like that.
But certain ones, like I'mgreat with Norco, I'm great with
Percocet, vicodin will make meso nauseous.
Speaker 2 (23:49):
Oh really, oh, it's the worst Huh.
Speaker 1 (24:00):
Hey guys, Hi, we're back.
We realized that there was sometechnical difficulty at the end
of the Mother's Day episode.
Sorry about that.
Speaker 2 (24:09):
Shove of the shiv to descript yeah, shove of the shiv
.
Speaker 1 (24:12):
We are not impressed with their technical prowess,
and it's not a last problem,it's a them problem, but we've
learned and it won't happen tous again.
Yeah, we apologize for theabruptness with which the
Mother's Day episode ended.
Speaker 2 (24:26):
We just peaced right out on you and then we didn't
edit it.
We thought, oh, this is fine,we'll just put it up, and then
realized that the end had gottencut off.
So you know, in our haste.
Speaker 1 (24:36):
We missed you guys so much.
We just wanted to get somethingout there.
But trust us when we say youdidn't miss anything good, we
wrapped it up right at the endthere.
So there's only just a shortlittle snippet and we didn't say
anything interesting.
And the good news is we arelearning so much.
Speaker 2 (24:53):
Yes, and the next like from here on out, expect
greatness.
So, anyways, have a wonderfulrest of your day and we love you
.
Goodbye, thank you, bye.
Are we recording?
Yes Sibilance, all right, soDead Mom Scavenger Hut, welcome
back.
It's been a hot minute.
We've been on a little bit of ahiatus because of a few reasons
.
One life sometimes does thingsand gets in the way you were
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traveling, which is veryexciting.
I was traveling.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
We got a little frustrated with our social media
.
We had technology, we had someexciting.
We got a little frustrated withour social media.
We had technology.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
We had some technology.
We're going to work it out.
We're going to work it out andwe will figure out exactly what
Instagram is going to be,because Instagram we're new here
, not to the planet, just tobeing responsible adults on it.
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
Yeah, instagram was being responsible.
Adults on it.
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Yeah, Instagram was being kind of Well.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Later we were trying to Later, the later app.
Yeah, yeah, anyway, that'sneither here nor there.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
No, but we're working it out and the good news is
back.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
We're back, yeah, yeah, it's also we like to
record in person, absolutely,and Christmas lives two and a
half hours away from me.
Yes, sadly, sadly so it ischallenging to get together
sometimes when we both have fullschedules and what's not.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
We need to figure out how to do like a time wrinkle,
but she just ate a fly.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
Your dog just ate a fly.
He's so gross that wasimpressive.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
I kiss you on the face.
She's oh no, no, no, spit itout, spit it out, okay, okay,
hold her face and I'm gonna geta tissue no, no, oh, my god, I'm
getting hold her.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
I can't, I can't hold her.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
She's like the Mr Miyagi of the dog world.
Okay, I got it.
Horrified.
Abandon Kara.
Horrified abandon.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
Oh my God, that is like my least favorite thing
about myself, that you eat flies.
No, that I gag so easily.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
I don't gag that easily, but I do hate flies,
birdie, please don't do that tome again.
Apparently when I was little.
I don't know if this, if youdid this as well, but I guess
when I was a baby I was superobsessed with flies and would
like follow them around and liketry to touch them.
And mom hated flies and was soupset by it that she actually
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told me if I touched a fly Iwould die.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Oh, my God.
No, I did not do that First ofall well that's a special little
.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
I mean, you know, winged things are kind of
exciting.
I thought it was a prettyaggressive response to tell me
if I touched one I would die.
What if one accidentally landson you, you would have figured
out your mom was a liar.
Yeah, yeah, she was not abovelying to us.
Yeah, um, well, okay.
(03:02):
So birdie didn't actually forthose of you who are not
patreons and seeing the videoshe didn't actually swallow it.
She bit it, killed it, spit itout, thought about eating it.
Kara grabbed her face so shecouldn't eat it and I went and
got a tissue and took its bodyand disposed of it but it was
like kind of masticated it waswet I think that's a word
(03:23):
masticated masticated it was, Imean it was a good veterinary
and it might have recovered.
It was like kind of masticatedIs that a word?
It was wet I think that's aword Masticated.
Masticated, I mean with a goodveterinary and it might have
recovered.
It was just a little wet, yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
I have a weak constitution.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
I don't think that's true.
Flies are especially gross.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
Oh, and now she's all ashamed.
Her face is hanging out, I know.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
I know you were just trying to save us.
It's fine.
The fly was evil.
It was evil and you took careof it.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Well, all that is to say, we're back, yep.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Yep, we sure are.
Thanks for your patience.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
What do you want to talk about first today?
Well, I think you wanted totalk about Mother's Day.
Yes, let's talk about Mother'sDay, and since it's past
Mother's Day, we should probablydo that one and get it out.
It just happened recently.
Today is June 1st, so we'rerecording this just after
Mother's Day.
Happy.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
Pride Month.
Oh, happy Pride Month.
It's Pride Month.
Yay, I should be wearingsomething more Colorful Rainbow.
Yeah, I have some really coolpride clothes that I'm not even
wearing right now.
Well, we'll get there.
It's also PTSD Awareness.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Month.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Do you think that there's a reason those two are
together?
No, I think that's acoincidence.
Well, do you also think it's acoincidence that Mother's Day
and Mental Health AwarenessMonth are the same month?
Speaker 2 (04:46):
That might be intentional.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
You think that one's maybe, Maybe, yeah.
So Mother's Day happenedrecently.
Kara is a mother, I am not.
Mother's Day has always kind ofbeen an afterthought for me
until mom passed and that it wasjust like, oh, it's the day
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that you celebrate your mom.
But I had a really myopic viewof it and that I didn't think
about all the other kind of waysMother's Day could hit
different and affect people.
And part of this is because Iworked an event on Mother's Day
with a dear friend and who'shelping me out and I it was kind
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of subconscious but kind ofconscious in that when people
would come up to the booth Iusually waited until I was
pretty sure it was a mom anddaughter or that someone was a
mom, before saying HappyMother's Day, because for some
people it could be a morechallenging day.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Yeah, it's a challenging day for my dad.
Yeah, he didn't even call me onMother's Day, really.
Yeah, I was a little butthurtabout it.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
I didn't call you either.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
I text you no, I mean that's fine, okay, and I don't.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
I didn't call you like a crazy person.
I don't need like attention.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
I was busy doing my own thing right.
But I also know that my dadlost his mom.
Yeah, and her birthday is likethe day before mother's day,
yeah, so it's kind of like anextra whammy for him.
Yeah, he goes and takes herflowers and and that was he's
still reeling from losing her.
Yeah, which was like 17 yearsago.
Yeah, has it been that long?
Yeah, god damn, I know.
So I know that he struggles.
That wasn't losing her.
She died christmas eve 17 yearsago, so that ruined Christmas
and Mother's Day happy mother'sday.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
And the woman said to her oh yeah, happy mother's day
, are you a mom?
And my friend said no, and thewoman said notice how I asked
you first.
Oh, that's kind of aggressive.
Yeah, and like shitty jesus.
Yeah, and I was thinking aboutit.
Do you have a mom?
Though, that's what I wasthinking.
Yeah, whether or not you areone, we should celebrate moms,
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whether they're yours or not.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Yeah, it's just a day to celebrate mothers in general
.
Mother figures Exactly.
Bonnie wasn't technically mymom, but I would text her Happy
Mother's Day Exactly.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
I'm a mom, yeah, but I still text my mom and Jeremy's
mom yeah, this one was what abitch.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Okay, that's what I was going to ask you.
Is this, wasn't that a bitchything?
Yeah, that's bitchy.
Or is it one of those thingswhere maybe this well, she was
in her 60s, so I don't think shewas suffering from infertility
at the moment.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
She probably is infertile at the moment.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
Actually, yes, I would hope yes, but it wasn't
something she was working on.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
She had to be over it by now, or maybe not, or maybe
she lost a child or something.
I can see where she might havebeen.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
That seems like maybe an overly sensitive response
somehow well, this is my thought, even with people for whom it
is very prickly if I think a lotgoes to intent.
Yes, my friend was just tryingto be joyous and celebrate moms
and say happy mother's day.
(08:35):
Oh, have something to say,because it's this you know, art
fair and we're, you know,selling art and presenting art
and it's just a conversationstarter.
But for this woman to go sohard, she didn't have to go that
hard, she chose to go that hard.
Like notice how I asked youfirst I was like god damn I
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think I think that was rude.
Speaker 2 (08:58):
First of all, okay, agree of her, um, and I think
that, like, maybe, if she issensitive about that, yeah,
that's a her problem.
Yeah, everybody wishes everyone, like, like my friends who
don't celebrate Christmas orHalloween or whatever.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
Shout out to my.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
Jews out there, yeah, like they don't get mad.
No, how dare you how?
Dare I celebrate somethingthat's important to me?
Speaker 1 (09:26):
Yeah, I will say from living in LA so long I am 100%
conditioned, I always say happyholidays.
Yeah, that's fair.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
But this is a very specific mother's day Also
because there's Kwanzaa.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
You know there's a lot of holidays in that general
realm.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
You can't say happy holidays for Mother's Day,
though, no.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
Because that's just a very specific day.
It's a one and done, yeah, yeah.
So what are you, since you area mom and I am not?
How much of a shit do you giveabout mother's day?
Speaker 2 (10:01):
I don't expect much for mother's day.
Like, okay, I don't getpresents, typically parker, I
think I said so I went out for awalk with moo early, okay, so
here's how my mother's daypanned out this year.
Ok, jeremy was super sick.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
Jeremy's her husband.
For those of you just joining,us.
Yeah, my husband Moo is her dog, for those of you just joining
us, and Parker is my son, forthose of you just joining us.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
Jeremy was super sick , like 103 fever, oh dear, like
really really sick.
Ok, the weekend of Mother's Dayit kind of came down Friday
evening and stayed.
Really, really bad till likeMonday basically, and so I
started my day waking up extraearly and getting him, caring
for him, mothering, mothering myhusband, which I'm fine with
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because he, you know, wasn't hewas sick.
Yeah, it's just an arbitraryday that we've decided on, right
, right, like, I'm not going tobe like, but it's my day for
breakfast and bed.
I feel like some people arelike that, though.
So then I got up and I walkedthe dog.
I took care of Jeremy, madesure he was cool.
He went back to sleep.
I went and walked the dog, tookmy own walk.
Yeah, woke up, realized it wasmother day, ran to the store,
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bought me tulips, and which wasreally sweet.
So he bought me some tulips,and he was so excited what a
good deal he got on them,because he's super cheap.
I love how cheap he is.
He's so cheap, and I don't know.
I don't know where he gets itfrom aim for me, yeah but he's
super frugal and, um, he waslike telling me what a great
deal he got on the tulips, whichI thought was so cute, and so
it's not.
To me it's not a big deal aslong as I get to do what I want
to do.
On Mother's Day, I like thatlike Jeremy was sick and we had
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plans to go golf and so I did.
I went and golfed with myfriends without him because he
wasn't feeling well and he waslike have fun.
You know, sorry, I can't come.
I'm like, yeah, I still get todo what I want to do.
But I'm not expecting.
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (11:56):
I just want a day to chill, maybe yeah, I think there
are people for whom it's verymuch it's my day and we get to
do whatever it is I want, which.
There's people who but I alsothink that's people who those
don't have the luxury that youand I do of having set up their
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lives in a way in which they getto do a lot of things they want
to do anyway All the time.
Speaker 2 (12:21):
Yeah, those are also the people who end up with a
birthday month, yes, who likeit's all about them for the
entire month.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Yes, right.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
Yes, and that's fine, because we're not really big on
birthdays.
No, I forget everybody'sbirthday all the time.
Same yeah, terrible, oh yeah,and I hope it doesn't hurt any
five ever, if anyone's listeningwho's?
I've forgotten your birthday.
I'm so sorry, it's just not onmy list.
Speaker 1 (12:44):
Okay, we're going to pinky swear right now, because I
know I've forgotten yours andyou've probably forgotten mine.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
We will never give I don't care, I would not be mad
if you didn't text me on mybirthday.
Speaker 1 (12:53):
I wouldn't either.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
It's like, yeah, it's just not a big deal.
Speaker 1 (12:57):
Yeah.
So I have a question, though.
But the birthday month people,for them, their birthdays are A
big deal.
Yeah, and it's hard for me toto get into that mindset.
Speaker 2 (13:08):
Well, I just don't really need it, Like there's
other things going on in theworld that don't revolve around
me.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
Yeah, but I know some people who are super generous
and super giving and not thatself-centered, who do care about
their birthday a lot.
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (13:30):
It probably comes down to how you were raised and
maybe tradition a little bit.
Yeah, maybe, Because, like mydad never really made a big fuss
over my birthday and I luckily,Jeremy, doesn't really care
about it either Parker has beenraised that way.
So we we don't buy each othercards on our birthdays, even
like we might make each other acard, yeah, but we don't like.
It's more about likeexperiences together or like
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I'll buy him something but Idon't know.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
I have noticed that it's people who tend to be in
bigger families, who have like alot of brothers and sisters,
who care more about theirbirthday.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
Maybe it's the only day to feel really special.
Yeah, which great.
So my question to you is howdid you and Bonnie celebrate
Mother's Day when she was alive?
Speaker 1 (14:15):
I would just always ask her what do you want to do?
If you want to do nothing,that's great.
If you want me to like comecook, that's great.
If you want to go do something,that's great.
It was very laissez fairefaire.
It wasn't ever a huge to-do,and it might be not on the day.
(14:35):
It might have been like forMother's Day.
I want to go to this play in acouple weeks or go to dinner at
a restaurant that's not open yet.
It was very fluid.
Speaker 2 (14:49):
Yeah, I think it was pretty aggressive of that woman
to to say that because you youwere sort of distracting
yourself on mother's day and youcould have easily been like
offended by people saying happymother's day to you because you
lost your mom.
Like no, it's not a happymother's day for me actually.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
Thank you very much I mean, I still think people.
I guess I'm not thinking it somuch as a salutation, as it
should be just happy Mother'sDay.
Like let's celebrate moms inall their you know, different
incantations.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
Yeah, like let's celebrate you know you don't
have to be, so the bottom lineis she was insinuating that you
had to be a mom to celebrateMother's Day.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
Kind of it kind of felt that way.
Speaker 2 (15:33):
And I think that's completely false.
Speaker 1 (15:35):
And there's people who had moms and they had shit
moms, yeah, who who were notgreat.
We don't yeah.
I mean yeah, and if you're nota mom, but you had a shitty mom,
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maybe for you's day is like whyare we celebrating?
Speaker 2 (15:57):
these assholes.
However, there are other momsin the world that should be
celebrated, that were great,even though yours wasn't, you
know, yeah, yeah, it's also likemaybe about other people and
not about you, right, likewouldn't that?
Speaker 1 (16:04):
be nice if the rest of us figured that.
Figure that out.
Speaker 2 (16:09):
Yeah, I think that was a little over the top.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
Do you have friends who have higher expectations of
Mother's Day?
Yeah, definitely Don't you.
I you don't know a lot offriends that are moms.
I was going to say I don't havea lot.
I mean, I do have some and youknow I always ask them what are
you doing for Mother's Day?
But a lot of their kids areolder too, so they're either at
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university or you know theirkids are cute and they'll do the
whole breakfast in bed thingbecause I think it's just become
part of the lexicon of Mother'sDay.
Speaker 2 (16:44):
I would never.
That would never happen at myhouse.
But I will say I did use theopportunity to guilt Parker into
driving me to golf and pickingme up great, and I ended up
getting hammered great, lovingthis for you.
It is a little bit of like Iuse it a little bit of a as a
bargaining chip it's a it's afree, it's a free pass for me to
kind of do, to act, to behavebadly.
Speaker 1 (17:08):
Love that.
But also you could probably useit as a bargaining chip.
Even not on that day, be like,well, I don't want it right now,
but for mothers, you rememberwhen you have to make like the
coupon box, yeah, good for onefree hug.
You could be like good for onefree, driving me without any
questions.
And you have to do it.
Like Parker needs to make youthe the 19 year old.
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He would coupon book.
He would never if you told himthis is what I want for mother's
day is a coupon book.
What do you say?
Speaker 2 (17:37):
I don't think you'd do it, because I told him I
wanted him to wash my car formother's day.
He said he said you just washedit.
And I was like, yeah, he's allnah bitch, but that was like a
week and a half ago and it'sdirty again, okay.
So he had he was working on histruck, he was I don't know
swapping out his suspension ordoing something crazy, and so he
stopped what he was doing anddrove me to get to drop me off
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and yeah, and then I think weprobably ordered dinner in or
something like that.
And just, of course, I'm notcooking like, okay, that's
unspoken, oh, okay, okay,because I don't enjoy it right,
right, right Right.
Speaker 1 (18:10):
That's another thing.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
Okay, I think if you're, if it's coming down to
like what I expect on Mother'sDay, I expect to not expect, to
not do things I don't want to do.
Speaker 1 (18:17):
I do like that.
I feel like I kind of do thatevery day.
Speaker 2 (18:22):
Yeah, we're getting there.
It's trying to trying to fallinto.
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (18:27):
But it's getting harder and harder.
I do want to say I canappreciate for the people who,
you know, were moms and lost achild.
Unbelievably hard, for thepeople who always wanted to be a
mom and couldn't unbelievablyhard.
We had some guests staying herein our Airbnb and they were
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here visiting one kid and hadlost another child and that
child's birthday was rightaround Mother's Day, so I could
see it being very bittersweet,but they were like it is.
But also on Mother's Day we eathis favorite food and we talk
about him and, you know, drinkthings that he would have liked
and it's kind of a anothercelebration of him yeah, even
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though he's not here, to be ableto celebrate mother's day for
me.
This is what she said.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
I was like, oh my god , you're like the most giving
mom you could do that too withbonnie, like sure we could go to
her favorite restaurant anddrink her favorite wine and
celebrate Yahtzee and cheese andwine.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
I mean sure, yeah, what did I call it?
Cheese and crackers?
Oh, at a restaurant, pardon me,do you have cheese and crackers
on your menu?
I think it's called a cheeseplate.
No, I think we should just callit cheese and crackers.
We just call it cheese andcrackers.
Out here, we call it cheese andcrackers.
Up in the hills, we just callit cheese and crackers.
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Out here, we call it cheese andcrackers.
Little honey, yeah, yeah,mother's Day.
It's a weird thing, and itdoesn't seem to have the same
connotation for Father's Day,because do dads even give a shit
?
Like, does Jeremy give a shitabout Father's Day?
Speaker 2 (20:06):
Oh, he does, he definitely wants to do what he
wants's.
It's the same, though hedoesn't expect like if I was
super sick on Father's Day.
He's not.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
I like how you took a big inhale and exhale before
that.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
He's not a super caregiver, right, like he's not
super concerned when I'm stillpretty much taking care of
myself when I'm sick, right, isthat?
Speaker 1 (20:27):
by choice or because he's not good at it, He'll never
listen.
Speaker 2 (20:30):
No he's good at it Like he.
He has, like when I've hadsurgeries before, he has
definitely cared for me and,like, helped me manage my meds
and stuff.
Yeah, but he's not going todote on me.
Speaker 1 (20:42):
Right Hammer really tries when I'm sick, and when
I'm sick I just want to be leftalone.
Oh sweet, don't help me, stayaway.
I can handle my own stuff.
Maybe I want to water every nowand then, but I don't like
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being taken care of when I'msick, see, when the last time I
had surgery was for I had myexplant.
Speaker 2 (21:08):
I had my fake boobs taken out, yeah, and a lift yeah
.
So I was, you know.
You know how, like you reallypretty much can't do anything,
yeah, arms after that for alittle while.
Speaker 1 (21:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (21:17):
I was in a lot of pain and so he really was great
about, like, making me food,like I appreciate feeding me
when I can't feed myself.
Speaker 1 (21:24):
I do like that.
Yeah, the last surgery I hadwas my breast reduction, yeah,
and the food part, yes.
But also I was like I'm goingto prefer to sleep in the living
room on the couch, I'm going toprefer to manage my own meds.
Because I also knew that I wasgoing to be my waking and
non-waking hours were going tobe so all over the place that I
was going to be, my waking andnon-waking hours were going to
be so all over the place that Ididn't want to.
(21:45):
I was like, let me just do thisover here and not let it affect
you.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
I definitely manage my own meds now regardless
because, Jeremy, when I had,when I had my fake boobs put in,
like years and years and yearsago, he was in charge of my
painkillers, yeah, and he wasgiving me.
We tried to give me one.
Oh, I was.
I was like I want to and he waslike I just I'm afraid you'll
get addicted or whatever.
And I was like, oh my God, I'min so much fucking pain right
(22:12):
now, Like, give me that.
It says one to two every fourto six hours.
Oh, thank goodness, my husbandstarted crying.
I was like, give me the fuckingpills.
Like it was so painful.
Speaker 1 (22:22):
Oh, that's sweet that he doesn't want you to get
addicted.
My husband would be like itsays one to two every four to
six hours.
You should probably take twoevery three hours to really stay
ahead of it, which I appreciate.
Speaker 2 (22:34):
But also, I hate taking Norco and like they make
my skin crawl.
I don't like taking them unlessI absolutely am in pain, Like
it's not crawl.
I don't like taking them unlessI absolutely am in pain, Like
it's not something.
Speaker 1 (22:44):
I don't mind.
Speaker 2 (22:45):
It's not like I even forgot that I had some.
I had a migraine a few days ago.
Speaker 1 (22:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (22:49):
And the my dad came by and he was like oh, you
should take a Norco.
Speaker 1 (22:53):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (22:53):
Like I didn't even think about it.
Speaker 1 (22:55):
Like.
Speaker 2 (22:55):
I forgot, I even had some, yeah.
Speaker 1 (23:04):
So it I, we have it, because anytime I have surgery
or have a prescription foranything like that, I try to get
off it as soon as possible so Ican have them.
Speaker 2 (23:13):
This is because our medical because our medical
system is so fucked up in thiscountry that I'm like I just
want to stockpile them, in caseI, you know, roll my ankle or
whatever we have like threebottles of prescription
painkillers in the safe at home,you know, because we have a
teenager in the house and he's apretty good teenager, I don't
feel like he would give a shit.
He wouldn't, but it's still notworth it to you.
Speaker 1 (23:34):
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (23:34):
Plus if he has a friend over or whatever.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
Right, right, right.
I'm not trying to contribute toany.
Yeah, we don't have to have asafe like that.
But certain ones, like I'mgreat with Norco, I'm great with
Percocet, vicodin will make meso nauseous.
Speaker 2 (23:49):
Oh really, oh, it's the worst Huh.
Speaker 1 (24:00):
Hey guys, Hi, we're back.
We realized that there was sometechnical difficulty at the end
of the Mother's Day episode.
Sorry about that.
Speaker 2 (24:09):
Shove of the shiv to descript yeah, shove of the shiv
.
Speaker 1 (24:12):
We are not impressed with their technical prowess,
and it's not a last problem,it's a them problem, but we've
learned and it won't happen tous again.
Yeah, we apologize for theabruptness with which the
Mother's Day episode ended.
Speaker 2 (24:26):
We just peaced right out on you and then we didn't
edit it.
We thought, oh, this is fine,we'll just put it up, and then
realized that the end had gottencut off.
So you know, in our haste.
Speaker 1 (24:36):
We missed you guys so much.
We just wanted to get somethingout there.
But trust us when we say youdidn't miss anything good, we
wrapped it up right at the endthere.
So there's only just a shortlittle snippet and we didn't say
anything interesting.
And the good news is we arelearning so much.
Speaker 2 (24:53):
Yes, and the next like from here on out, expect
greatness.
So, anyways, have a wonderfulrest of your day and we love you
.
Goodbye, thank you, bye.
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