306. Day 12: A New Year Blessing for the Part of You That’s So Tired Of Divorce

This is not a lesson about divorce healing.
It’s not advice.
It’s a pause.

Day 12 of the 12 Days of Divorce Christmas is simply a blessing—offered to you exactly as you are.

If these last 12 days stirred grief, relief, exhaustion, hope, or something you can’t quite name, this episode is here to hold that with you.

No fixing.
No reframing.
No pushing forward.

Just a few quiet moments of being witnessed.

You’ve been strong longer than you should have had to be.
You’ve carried more than most people ever saw.
And nothing about what you needed was wrong.

As we step into a new year, this is our prayer for you:

That you feel chosen.
That you feel wanted.
That your nervous system learns what safety feels like again.
And that you remember—you were never meant to do this alone.

Let yourself rest here. Sending all our love,

Dawn, Joy & Tiffini

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Episode Transcript

SPEAKER_02 (00:00):
Hi, love.
Welcome to day twelve of thetwelve days of divorced
Christmas or the twelve days ofbecoming her.
As we wrap up these twelve dayswith you, we just want to leave
you with a blessing.
We just want to leave you with asuper nurturing, maternal,
grounding witnessing of you andwhat you just moved through

(00:24):
these last 12 days.
We love you so much.
Just enjoy this next beat.
Hi, love.
Welcome to Dear Divorce Diary,the podcast helping divorcees go
beyond talk therapy to processyour grief, find the healing you
crave, and build back yourconfidence.

(00:45):
I'm your host, Don Wiggins, atherapist, coach, integrative
healer, and divorcee.
Join me for a fresh approach tohealing grief and building your
confidence after divorce.
Hi, love.

(01:06):
Sit with us for a minute.
Let us just hold this momentwith you.
You've been so strong, even whenyou didn't want to be, even when
you felt like you couldn't.
And we just want to tell you,you did beautifully.

(01:26):
You don't have to pretend rightnow.
You don't have to be brave.
Just breathe.

SPEAKER_00 (01:36):
We've got you.
Oh, sweet friend, you havecarried so much in that tender
heart of yours.
Come, rest for a second.
Let the world be quiet.
Nothing you have felt was wrong.
Nothing you needed was too much.
You were allowed to be tired.

(01:57):
You are allowed to want comfort.
You are allowed to need people.
I'm right here.
I am going nowhere.

SPEAKER_01 (02:11):
Hi, gorgeous.
I see the ache you try to hide.
Look at me for a second.
You don't have to carry thatalone anymore.
You're not difficult.
You're not dramatic.
You are not too much.
You've just been hurting.

(02:31):
And anyone who loves you wouldunderstand that.
Let yourself lean a little.
Let yourself knead a little.
We've got you now.
Okay?

SPEAKER_02 (02:45):
One more breath with us, love.
Here is our prayer for you as westep into a new year.
May you feel chosen.
May you feel wanted.
May you feel safe in the deepestparts of yourself.

(03:10):
And may you walk forward knowingyou never have to do any of this
alone again.
We love you.
Rest now.
You are held.

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