Ep. 264 -The Real Reason Why 90% of Divorced Women Already Knew It Wouldn’t Last

Most women know long before the papers are signed that their marriage is crumbling. But why do we ignore that inner knowing?

You’ll Learn

• The psychological and nervous system cues women overlook.
• How denial protects us—until it keeps us stuck.
• What reclaiming your intuition looks like after divorce.

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Deep down, most divorced women admit they knew. They felt it in their body, in their gut, in the quiet moments of doubt—but stayed anyway. In this episode, I unpack why we override our intuition, how trauma and codependency keep us in cycles of denial, and what it takes to reclaim the wisdom you already have. Your body has always known the truth. It’s time to finally listen.

After divorce, your body’s intuition is the compass that leads you forward.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:05):
Hi love.
Welcome to Dear Divorce Diary,the podcast helping divorcees go
beyond talk therapy to processyour grief, find the healing you
crave and build back yourconfidence.
I'm your host, dawn Wiggins, atherapist, coach, integrative
healer and divorcee.
Join me for a fresh approach tohealing grief and building your

(00:25):
confidence after divorce.

Speaker 2 (00:35):
Hello and welcome.
I'm Lori Gerber.
This is going to be interestingbecause I'm going to teach you
the concept of the three H's.
So I have been doing this for20 years, over 20 years.
I've been saying 20 years for alot of years now.
So I've been coachingindividuals, couples, groups,
I've been leading events,webinars.

(00:56):
I was the dating expert atmashcom, at Seuss, at JDate, and
I'm the go-to girl when itcomes to love, marriage, couple
stuff, relationship stuff anddating.
And, by the way, everyone whogets divorced is it everyone?
I'm gonna say between 90 and100% of people who get divorced
say they knew.
They knew before they gotmarried.

(01:17):
They knew when they got married.
They knew the thing that wasgonna break them up.
They ignored it, right?
Nobody's like?
I have no clue, hardly anybody.

Speaker 1 (01:30):
So when you're getting those clues early on in
your next relationship, pleasethis time listen.
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