What does it really take to build unshakable confidence and a true sense of belonging? In this powerful conversation, business strategist, TEDx speaker, and award-winning author Julie DeLucca-Collins joins hosts Kim Romain and Louise to explore confidence as a habit, the courage to claim your agency, and what it means to belong authentically in a world that often pressures us to fit in.
Julie shares her journey from personal transformation to becoming the founder of Go Confidently Services and host of the Casa De Confidence Podcast, offering proven strategies, mindset shifts, and simple habits that help leaders and entrepreneurs show up 1% braver every day. Together, we unpack how systemic conditioning shapes our sense of agency, why belonging starts from within, and how acceptance and authenticity open the door to lasting success.
If you’ve ever felt “stuck” or struggled to own your voice, this episode will give you tools, stories, and inspiration to step into your own rhythm.
You'll Learn:
- Why confidence is built through practice, not personality
- How to reclaim your agency when life feels stuck
- The difference between fitting in and belonging
- Simple habits to show up 1% braver each day
- How systemic conditioning shapes (and limits) our choices
- Why acceptance fuels growth rather than settling
- The role of community as “believing mirrors” for our potential
- How saying “yes—and” creates space for both authenticity and expansion
- Why courage is contagious and inspires others to act
- How daily consumption impacts confidence, mindset, and self-belief
Key Moments:
00:00 – Welcome & Introductions
03:03 – Julie’s Journey into Mindset Work
07:20 – Agency, Stuckness & Systemic Conditioning
09:50 – Fitting In vs. True Belonging
13:30 – Dancing Your Own Way
19:34 – Confidence as a Daily Practice
29:15 – Acceptance & the “Yes-And” Approach
33:35 – Community, Mirrors & Growth
40:12 – Final Takeaways & Closing
Connect with Julie:
- Find out more at GoConfidentlyCoaching.com
- Connect with Julie on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, Pinterest, and TikTok
- Tune in to the Casa DeConfidence podcast
- Watch Julie's TEDx Talk: How Habits Give Us the Confidence to Dance in Life
Join a circle of changemakers committed to leading with purpose, presence and ease inside Kim's Rising Visionaries mentorship program.
Reclaim your career and confidence during midlife through Louise's Rise & Redefine program.
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