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March 11, 2025 35 mins

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In today’s episode, I share a personal medical experience that taught me lessons about self-advocacy, trusting intuition, and seeking help - lessons that apply both personally and professionally in medical practice.


Episode Highlights

  • My recent experience with an IUD placement that resulted in a perforation of my uterus, requiring laparoscopic surgery
  • The importance of honoring your initial decisions about your medical care and advocating for your preferences
  • Why listening to your body's signals (especially gut sensations) is critical - they often indicate something is wrong
  • How we as physicians (especially women) are conditioned to delay seeking help and downplay our own medical needs


Key Takeaways

  1. Honor your decisions and advocate for yourself
    • When you've made a decision about your care, follow through
    • Don't hesitate to clearly ask for what you need
    • It's okay to be "that person" when it comes to your health
  2. Listen when your gut speaks (literally and figuratively)
    • Our gut is highly innervated and sensitive to abnormal situations
    • Persistent unusual sensations are your body's warning signs
    • The gut-brain connection is powerful - stress, anxiety, and depression all affect gut function
    • Chronic symptoms like reflux, constipation, or IBS can be flags that something needs attention
  3. Be willing to get help sooner
    • Don't wait until problems become severe to seek care
    • We often delay our own care to avoid inconveniencing others
    • Challenge the "comparative suffering" mindset that says your problems aren't bad enough to deserve attention
    • Set boundaries about what you are and aren't willing to do without proper support


For Healthcare Providers

  • Healthcare systems increasingly pressure us to do more with less support
  • When we don't insist on adequate help, there's no incentive for systems to fix the problem
  • Women physicians often receive less consistent support staff than male colleagues
  • Recognize that our medical training has conditioned us to ignore our own needs
  • We deserve support, both professionally and personally


Final Thoughts

We are all works in progress. Taking care of ourselves isn't selfish - it's necessary. We must let go of the belief that we must suffer a certain amount before deserving help, and instead acknowledge that we are worthy of support.


Let’s Stay Connected:
This work is challenging, but it’s worth it. If you’re ready to explore how you can reclaim your energy and redefine your path in medicine, I’d love to help.

📧 Reach me at megan@healthierforgood.com
🌐 Visit www.healthierforgood.com to learn about my coaching programs, including Unbound: Women Physicians Reclaiming Their Lives.

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