In today’s episode of Everything’s Messy Podcast, I sat down with the incredible Darlene Hawley—business coach, speaker, and mama of four—who joined me from sunny Temecula, California. We dive into her story, starting with her early days in retail management where she climbed the ladder fast, all while juggling life as a single mom. But everything changed when she tragically lost her mom in a car accident. That heartbreaking moment pushed her to rethink everything and find a career that gave her more freedom and flexibility.
Darlene opens up about transitioning from retail to becoming a loan officer and eventually finding her true calling as a business coach. But it wasn’t all smooth sailing—she gets real about those messy early years in business, battling imposter syndrome and struggling to show up authentically. Spoiler alert: she figured it out, and now she helps others do the same.
We also talk about something we both know is so important—learning to say no. Darlene shares how she got clear on her values, started honoring her own alignment, and began setting boundaries like a pro. She leaves us with powerful business advice (that you’ll totally want to write down!) and shares a bit about her podcast Attract and Stand Out, where she shines a light on other women entrepreneurs doing amazing things.
If you’re building something of your own—or just trying to figure out how to stay true to yourself in the middle of life’s chaos—this episode is for you. 💫
Connect with Darlene:
Podcast: https://www.darlenehawley.com/podcast
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachdarlenehawley/
Website: https://www.darlenehawley.com/mystory
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