Join me as I welcome Dr. Kevin Mays, a seasoned psychologist and leadership coach, who shares his expertise on the critical role of presence and self-awareness in effective leadership. Dr. Mays discusses his journey from running treatment centers to working with executives, revealing how skills from addiction recovery are transferable to leadership development. The conversation delves deep into understanding how attachment to beliefs and self-concepts creates suffering, the importance of shifting one's perspective, and cultivating discipline for personal and professional growth. Tune in to learn how to lead yourself before leading others and discover the transformative power of intentional living.
Dr. Mays brings decades of hands-on experience as an executive coach, author, speaker, and facilitator to help do precisely that: thrive. He has guided hundreds of leaders to build organizations where growth isn’t just a number, but a natural outcome of a workplace where people are genuinely engaged and driven. He has developed a deep understanding of team dynamics, leadership development, and strategic business growth, which means you get more than just theory.
https://maysleadership.com/
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:54 Guest Introduction: Dr. Hayes' Journey
03:51 From Recovery to Leadership
04:49 Understanding Addiction and Leadership
06:23 The Role of Self-Awareness
08:20 Embracing Imperfection and Authenticity
09:03 The Power of Presence and Awareness
11:10 Breaking Free from Limiting Beliefs
12:10 The Influence of Early Programming
14:00 The Path to Self-Discovery
17:06 The Importance of Choice and Accountability
23:51 The Foundation of Awareness
27:58 The Role of a Leader: Embracing Discomfort
28:10 Vision and Authenticity: Defining Your Path
28:49 Facing Uncomfortable Emotions
30:20 The Power of Presence and Breath
31:57 Overcoming Anxiety Through Breath
33:22 Seeking Validation and Authenticity
34:10 The Existential Crisis of Wearing Masks
34:39 Redefining Masculinity and Vulnerability
43:15 The Importance of Self-Leadership
45:05 The Power of Discipline and Routine
51:54 Changing Thought Patterns and Neuroplasticity
52:41 Conclusion and Resources for Vision Mastery
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