I once met a guy speed dating and I thought he was very handsome.It later became apparent that he thought I was someone else when he scheduled our follow up date.
I thought he was very handsome until I didn’t.
This was an excellent, but very painful lesson for me and it made me think about a lot of things.
What makes someone attractive?
How tall/handsome/successful he is?
Where he lives? Where he travels? What he reads?
I saw him later at a street fest and turned away from him because it just felt awful to see him.
I literally found him repulsive because I associated him with a negative painful experience.
By contrast, my husband recently drove an hour + to the city to pick me up at 11:00 at night because I got food poisoning when I was out with my friends.
He brought bags and a towel and held my hand while I tried not to be sick in the car. He took care of me the next day when I could barely move.
Is that handsome hunk you think you should be dating going to do that for you or will he be at the gym or talking to some other woman? Is that really what you want to experience?
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