I remember telling one of my friends that I didn’t really think I was going to meet a great guy online.
I was just “duty dating” and she responded that she didn’t feel that way at all. She actually expected to meet great guys. And she did! She had a blast with online dating while I trudged around like a deflated balloon constantly getting disappointed.
So who was right? We both were. We got what we expected.
What do you expect from online dating and apps?
Answer this question because it really matters.
And if your expectations are awful, I want you to know that it absolutely can have a huge impact on your experience with these platforms.
Expect to do well, expect that your man is out there. (He is! Where else would he be???)
If you’re anything like me, you’re probably thinking that you already know from experience that this stuff doesn’t work. And my answer is, why are you trying then? Why are you listening to this podcast or doing any of it? It’s because you want to find your guy.
In order for that to actually happen, you have to work on your attitude. I promise you it helps.
My friend and I are both married today, to guys we met on the apps.
I made a lot of changes to get where I am today and now it’s so obvious to me how my attitude made things so much harder.
If you are feeling discouraged with dating, it absolutely is affecting your results out there.
This is where coaching can really help you turn things around.
I have a great resource to help you write an amazing profile so that you can find a quality man ASAP.
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