6) Covert Narcissists Don’t Yell—They Starve You Emotionally

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emotional detachment, covert narcissism, nervous system, high conflict homes, psychological abuse, gaslighting, emotional neglect, survival mode, relationships, self-awareness

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In this episode of 'Fuck Your Fake Apology', host Crystal Amoah delves into the complexities of emotional detachment and covert narcissism. She explores how these dynamics manifest in high conflict homes, particularly focusing on the psychological impact on individuals living with covert narcissists. The conversation highlights the traits of covert narcissism, the body's response to emotional chaos, and the cycle of abuse that often leaves individuals feeling trapped. Crystal emphasizes the importance of recognizing these patterns and reclaiming personal space and boundaries as a path to healing.

takeaways

• Emotional detachment is a survival mechanism, not a weakness.
• Covert narcissists often use guilt and manipulation to control their partners.
• The nervous system reacts to emotional chaos, leading to detachment.
• Living in a high conflict home can lead to a constant state of fight or flight.
• Recognizing the signs of covert narcissism is crucial for self-protection.
• Emotional numbness can be the first step towards awakening.
• You don't owe anyone your peace, including family members.
• Setting boundaries is essential for reclaiming personal space.
• The cycle of covert narcissism includes love bombing, devaluation, chaos, and hoovering.
• Awakening from emotional detachment can lead to personal growth and clarity.

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00:00
Introduction to Emotional Detachment and Covert Narcissism

03:02
Understanding Covert Narcissism: Traits and Tactics

05:45
The Impact of Emotional Chaos on the Nervous System

08:13
Surviving High Conflict Homes: The Cycle of Covert Narcissism