Episode 105: When Clients Cross the Line: Dealing with Creepers in Massage

Every now and then, a massage client crosses a line — and it leaves us feeling rattled, ashamed, or unsure of what to do next.

In this deeply personal solo episode, David tackles a topic no therapist wants to deal with — but most will face at some point in their career. We’re talking about creepers: the clients who mistake therapeutic massage for something else, ask inappropriate questions, behave in sexually suggestive ways, or blatantly expose themselves.

Drawing on real-life experiences and the insightful writing of Ian Harvey (Massage is Weird), David explores:

• The different types of creepers — and how to spot them early

• The warning signs before they ever book

• What to say when someone crosses the line

• How to fire a client professionally and protect your space

• And, most importantly, why you are not to blame

Whether you’ve already had one of those “what just happened?” moments, or you’re trying to be prepared for the future, this episode is a must-listen. It’s not light. It’s not funny. But it is real, honest, and designed to help you stay grounded, safe, and strong in your work.

🔗 If you find this episode helpful, share it with a massage colleague. Let’s support each other — and make it clear: That’s not what we do here.

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