November 28, 2023 • 47 mins
Where do you stand on having children or not..? Well, find out some interesting tidbits from a local celebrity and callers on where they stand.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
For those who value are sleeping.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
We've created a podcast so you can listen anytime to
Gaily and Emily hot Tomatoy.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
Morning, Good morning, Morning, morning, morning.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Today it is French toast day.
Speaker 4 (00:17):
Do you make French toast a lot?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Do you know what is the nicest thing to make
French toast? You don't make it with I mean French
toast started. We're sort of getting rid of old bread.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Make it with croissants. It'll blow your mind.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Okay, So because chissant's just being creamier and buttery, and
then you know, you dip it in all of the
egg and then you fry it up and then put
the maple syrup on it, and it is so much
better than just a piece of blame white slice bread.
Speaker 1 (00:45):
So have it got there?
Speaker 4 (00:46):
Okay, I will have a go at that, don't worry.
What else? What else? It is?
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Also we're celebrating the red planet today.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
It's Mars's Day by Mars bar.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
That's solid.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
We could or tonight you could go do some stargazing
because it is one of the planets we can see
because it is red because of the young you know,
the iron oxide on it, the rust. It's literally a
planet full of rust. And it also is Allen Day, Alan.
Speaker 4 (01:15):
Alan, we can do we can go hello, hello, Hello.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
Hello, Hello, Hello, Kayley Gailey.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
That's good Allen Day, right all day.
Speaker 5 (01:27):
I think we get to this.
Speaker 6 (01:27):
Some of the year we're grasping its straws for what
the days it could be.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
No, I went on three websites to come up with
that lameess.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
Even the day people that come up with all the days,
just that you can tell this is the time of year.
Speaker 5 (01:39):
They're ready for a break.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
They just gave up.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
They went, oh, it's just Alan, French toast and males.
We'll give Miles a day and let's.
Speaker 5 (01:45):
Make it National give up Day.
Speaker 6 (01:49):
Hey, if you missed it, on the show yesterday, Gaily
told a cracking story about a guy riding with no
hands on a bike.
Speaker 5 (01:55):
We're going to relive that very very shortly. Plus don't
forget Yeah, a few other things happening today.
Speaker 6 (02:05):
Tomato, what what what?
Speaker 4 (02:09):
What? What?
Speaker 1 (02:10):
What do you what for?
Speaker 7 (02:12):
All right?
Speaker 8 (02:13):
With what?
Speaker 4 (02:14):
I found this a little bit. It's quite cute, is
what I would like to say. It's this young lady
who is a Northern Irish of accent, and she's going
for a walk. You can actually hear her footsteps going
through puddles and all that sort of stuff in the countryside.
So just picture someone in their gum boots walking through
like heal the hills and on on an old crumbly road.
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And she's getting asked questions on how you would say
something and with the meaning, and she gives the word
and then it's the same word every time for a
different meaning. Haven't listened to this, Cassie.
Speaker 5 (02:50):
What's a female horse called a what's a reflective piece
of glass called?
Speaker 8 (02:56):
What's a guy who's a woman who's in charge of
a town or city of a big gold medal?
Speaker 9 (03:02):
Yeah?
Speaker 10 (03:03):
And what is.
Speaker 11 (03:04):
The third gift for Jesus?
Speaker 4 (03:07):
There's frankincense, gold and.
Speaker 9 (03:14):
Mirror.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
Mirror, that's mirror. How do you know what they're talking
about at any given time?
Speaker 1 (03:20):
I know, did you go and have a look in
the mirror? What what the gift for Jesus? What did
you want me to go speak to Tom taate?
Speaker 4 (03:26):
What what the mirror?
Speaker 5 (03:27):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (03:28):
Talk about the mirror? Anyway? That was pretty well done.
Meme of the morning where we fight a meme on
the net and read it out on the air.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
All right.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
Time for a little meme dump from my depends group.
Depends group, if you've not ever listened, it's the mummy
group where we send each other funny, funny memes all
day and we caught them depens because we've all had
children and we wet our pants now whenever we laugh.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
Or jump on trampolines. So this one here, I'll read
them until you tell me to stop. How's that sounds.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
It's been a hectic week on the main group because
I think we're heading towards the end of the year
and we all need to laugh. So glad I don't
have a thig gap. I almost dropped my phone in
the toilet, but my legs are like, nah, girl, we
got your.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
Stop. Stop.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Oh I've got so many all right, that's it. That's
me at the moment.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
All right, guy's gonna be hard to top. Kids and
today are soft. I died once when I was five,
and my mom made me walk it off.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
Yeah, yeah, that is so true. One more, what do
you got.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
As a picture of an ape?
Speaker 3 (04:42):
And he's staring into space Because we love apes, we
like watching them on slow TV. With this ape is
steering into space and the comment is me calculating my
December budget and realizing that everyone's getting a hug for Christmas.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
Anyway you might The first one was excellent.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Okay, I got back.
Speaker 8 (05:03):
I got back.
Speaker 3 (05:04):
He's one of the husband we really need to start
saving money. Me, well, you should have married someone else, then.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
What about this one. The worst people to owe you
is your kids. As soon as they wake up, they're like,
do you got my four dollars?
Speaker 4 (05:18):
Yes? All right?
Speaker 1 (05:21):
And this is just an interesting fact.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Until nine fifty six, French children attending school but served
wine on their lunch breaks, and each child was allowed
after half a liter a day.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
That is a fact.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
I want to travel back in time, move to France
and repeat primary school over again.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
I think I would have fund four is shaving no,
I know.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
And here's more, I'll do this one.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
The kid looking amazing is looking like shit most of
the time, so it's more of a surprise.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
And that is our motto here on the show. Don't
be so before by our buses. We've got the mark.
Speaker 4 (06:07):
Hey, every time someone starts talking about the Olympics, I
thought it was meant to be the Southeast Queensland sort
of games, But more and more as it goes along,
I'm starting to feel like Brisbane are saying it's Brisbane's games. Now.
Granted there'll be a lot of stuff there, but that's
just I'm reading between the lines. It seems very much
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like this because every time I see something, I go
what about the Gold Coast because it's all Brisbane centric anyway.
They're going to smash the Gabba and redo it, which
I think. I think the Gabba is already a great stadium,
so I don't know whether they needed to do that,
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but fair enough they've decided to do it. But you
know that little East Brisbane Primary School that's right next
to the Gabba, that's.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Going to be part of the precinct.
Speaker 4 (06:59):
The precinct which means that that school's going to be
taken away from that area. So a lot of people
are complaining. They reckon that it's going to be called
East Bank. If once it's all.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
Set up sounds warish.
Speaker 4 (07:11):
East Bank. We will fight them at East Bank, yes.
Speaker 5 (07:16):
Different in South Bank.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
We've got to escape to East Bank.
Speaker 3 (07:19):
I don't know, it just feels Warriyes, now you've said
south Bank, but I know east Bank sounds.
Speaker 5 (07:24):
We'll have North Bank as well, So that's what they're doing.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
And where's the bank come from, the bank of a river?
Speaker 4 (07:31):
They can't do Westpac, west Bank, west Banks Bank.
Speaker 5 (07:36):
Yeah, I tried.
Speaker 4 (07:40):
Anyway, this is happening. But I heard on the news
a chant because they were protesting on the weekend. I
didn't get the grab, but basically the protest, I felt
like it was a little bit of a contradiction. And
the protest with kids there as well. Anastasia, you're a fool,
give us back our effing school.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
Is that what they said?
Speaker 4 (08:04):
Yes, so again, Anastasia, you're a fool, give us back
our effing school. Okay, so you're at home and you
haven't gone to the protest, but you are all for it,
and you're from the school community everything. And then you're like,
love kids, quick, we're on the we're coming on the TV.
They're going to show the protest that they did down there.
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And you've got all your family with your little kids
in there, and you hear Anastasia, you're a fool, give
us back at effing school. That's a contradiction. Could you
tell your kids not to swear?
Speaker 12 (08:34):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (08:34):
So what kind of school is that? Get rid of it?
Speaker 4 (08:41):
Entertainment years one Hot Tomato.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
I was just playing Taller Swift there.
Speaker 3 (08:46):
And she has met with the family of the fan
that died at her concert.
Speaker 4 (08:50):
Oh you said that that would happen.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
Yeah, Anna Clara Benavides Machanda is her name, and died
you to Carli a Risque. So yes, she has a
private meeting with the family and took photos and everything
like that.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
So with her.
Speaker 3 (09:06):
People though commenting on this article are just saying, but
did she pay for the funeral?
Speaker 1 (09:09):
That's what I want to know.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
Isn't that interesting how we all think that because we
said that, And.
Speaker 4 (09:14):
It's almost like an expectation.
Speaker 3 (09:16):
Yeah, an expectation that obviously, being very wealthy, that she
would do that.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
This is not just us thinking about that sort of stuff.
Speaker 4 (09:23):
It may come up, but she might have done it
and said, look, I want to keep this quiet.
Speaker 1 (09:27):
Oh absolutely. You wouldn't want people to know your business,
that's for sure.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
And Naanie Portman believes that kids should be kept out
of the spotlight, should be left just to be kids,
and shouldn't be pushed into the entertainment industry like she
was as a kid. She's doing a new interview and
she said that even though she started her career at
just twelve years old.
Speaker 1 (09:49):
She considers herself lucky not to have been harmed, and
that's where it all comes from.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
She said, would she ever encourage her own kids to
get to the industry, She said, I would not encourage
young people to go into this.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
I feel it was almost an accident.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
Of luck that I was not harmed and harmed and
combined with every and she had very overprotective and wonderful parents.
She said, I've heard too many bad stories, and I
think that any children shouldn't be a part of this world.
I don't believe kids should work. I think kids should
play and go to school. And she's had a good
path as a child actor in the entertainment industry.
Speaker 1 (10:25):
There's so many that have had that harder road.
Speaker 3 (10:28):
But I just thought that was interesting that when she
started at twelve, she's assuming that all the other kids
in the industry perhaps don't have that overprotective parent that's
looking up for them for having.
Speaker 4 (10:38):
But I mean, she's going off a whole lot of stories, though,
isn't she Yeah, rather.
Speaker 3 (10:43):
Than actually what happened to her, which is true all right.
Denise Richards has opened up about how Charlie fear she
feels about her daughter being on OnlyFans. So she sat
down with Bethany Frankel, one of the housewives, in a
brand new tell All interview, and they were talking about
her four year marriage to Charlie, and she said when
they met, he was totally sober, and she would never
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have dated him if she had known the now sober
Charlie or if she ever thought that he was going
to relapse, because it made life really hard for them. I,
first of all, was incredibly naive to addiction.
Speaker 10 (11:19):
When I met Charlie. He was sober for four years,
so people would ask me, oh, are you afraid he's
going to relapse or this? For me, there was no question.
I said, no, I don't I didn't know that person.
I only knew who I met, and that was a
man who had been sober for four years. I didn't
judge him for his past because I figured, well, his
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past made him who he is today. And the person
that I met was very different from the person that spiraled.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
And a lot of people said.
Speaker 10 (11:50):
Oh, you reformed the bad boy or this. I said, no,
I wouldn't have dated him. I didn't know that if
I met him when he was deep in addiction.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
They had two daughters together, and their eldest daughter, Sammy
is the one that's on OnlyFans, making a heap of money,
so much so that the Denise decided to go on
OnlyFans as well. And she said they've collaborated on content
a couple of times.
Speaker 4 (12:13):
I should just put my leg up here, she said.
Speaker 3 (12:17):
Despite collaborating, they've never actually been seen like, they've never looked.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
At each other's pages.
Speaker 3 (12:22):
No, okay, so they're happy to go, let's do this together, mum,
but they're not going to look at what each other
is doing, which is probably.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
A good thing.
Speaker 3 (12:31):
Yes, And how Charlie she feels about his daughter being
on OnlyFans at only eighteen years old.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
He's not the keenest on.
Speaker 4 (12:39):
It, which dad would be.
Speaker 1 (12:43):
There might be some when she rolls up with.
Speaker 4 (12:45):
The Porsche go you at eighteen. I don't think it'd be.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
I mean, you've got the daughters.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
You've got three daughters, No pays your house off at eighteen.
Speaker 4 (12:54):
My vibe is do what you want your adults A
Ferrari gaily What a.
Speaker 3 (13:06):
Gorgeous Gold Coast model Ellie Gonzalvez has broken the Internet
over the last couple of days.
Speaker 4 (13:12):
It's not for the first time, no, and it's not for.
Speaker 1 (13:15):
Her beauty this time.
Speaker 3 (13:16):
It's because she released a list of all the reasons
why she doesn't want to have children. And the list
there's one hundred and eighteen reasons on there. And she
was brave enough, I think, to even put the list
out there. But then all of the new sites like
the Daily Mails, Mom and Me she was on the
project last night, have all grabbed a hold because apparently
it's not okay for a gorgeous, newly married woman to
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say I don't want to have children. And that's why
she's had to make this enormous list, because people are
not just accepting I don't want children, They want more.
Speaker 5 (13:48):
So she feels she has to justify yes.
Speaker 3 (13:50):
And it's so hard as women, because when I couldn't
have children and people said, oh, are you gonna have
a baby, and I would say, yes, I am, but
I'm having troubles. Then that's not the end of that conversation. People, Oh,
why what's going on?
Speaker 1 (14:04):
Have you tried this? Have you tried that, have you
tried this?
Speaker 4 (14:06):
Or you just get this? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (14:08):
Oh are you doing it right?
Speaker 5 (14:10):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (14:12):
Honestly, And so it's so hard with women.
Speaker 3 (14:16):
It's polarizing no matter how you look at it when
it comes to either creating babies or not creating babies.
This is Ellie last night on The Project talking about
why she had to create the list.
Speaker 12 (14:29):
For years, I was asked constantly about why I didn't
want to have kids, and the reasons just didn't seem
to hit home with anyone. So I just started compiling
a list after seeing the girl on TikTok's list, added
to it, made my own, and started sharing with my
friends who are But yeah, I mean, it's just a
whole lot of reasons that do genuinely go through women's
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heads when they consider having a baby and making such
a huge decision in their life to have a child.
Speaker 1 (14:58):
All right, now, do you want to hear some of
the re Yeah, I'd love to.
Speaker 4 (15:02):
What I'm shocked at is that she's found one hundred
and eighteen, Like, just do five.
Speaker 1 (15:08):
Just do one.
Speaker 4 (15:08):
I don't want that five reasons. Well, if you're going
to do reasons, just do far.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Okay, are you already? Shall we go through all one
hundred eighteen one.
Speaker 4 (15:16):
Hundred and eighteen reasons?
Speaker 1 (15:18):
Already?
Speaker 3 (15:18):
They're your responsibility until the day you die. Postpartum hair loss.
You're tired all the time. Children can inherit emotional trauma.
The world's already overpopulated. You'll watch your child scramble for
already limited resources. You become second priority to your partner.
And that's not true, it's the other way around. But anyway,
your child can decide to cut you off for whatever reason.
When they're older, they can be bullied. They can be bullies.
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They can turn into a serial killer. You can what
that happens. You will watch them grow up in a
world of chaos and stress every minute of the day,
wondering if they're okay. Kids can be ungrateful. Kids can
be rude. Kids can be wildly embarrassing. Terrible twos sounds.
Speaker 1 (15:55):
Like a pole.
Speaker 4 (15:56):
I should wrap it.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
There will never be a break from parenthood, but pregnancy
hair growth.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
They can pooh inside of you.
Speaker 4 (16:04):
God see that rhymes?
Speaker 1 (16:06):
We keep going.
Speaker 3 (16:07):
Yeah, it's easy to move without kids. Holidays are easier
and more fun without kids. Flying can be almost impossible
with a kid. You could get an infection in the
in the Caesar scar, which is true. You could tear
you could get kidney stones for pregnancy. You will not
sleep You'll constantly worry about their troubles. Their suffering is
your suffering. The existence of child predators. You might this
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is serious stuff. You might bleed two months post childbirth.
Speaker 1 (16:31):
Doctors will do.
Speaker 3 (16:32):
Anything to get the baby out safely. Okay, I'll gte
read any more of that bit. They'll stitch you up
and send you on your way, and you can sit
in constant pain while you sit down or even.
Speaker 1 (16:42):
Try to pooh. She's obsessed with that. Children are noisy.
They may kill their twined in the womb.
Speaker 4 (16:50):
Well, you will go.
Speaker 3 (16:52):
You have to go through school over again, pick up
and drop off of your kid every day at school.
You have to take your kid to sports on weekend.
You have to go to your kids parent teacher interviews.
You have to pay school fees in excess of ten
thousand dollars a year. Epidural needles are massive. A whole
lot of people in the room seeing your china and
your insides. That's true. You could get postpartum depression. The
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food your cookie kids will usually not be eaten because
kids are picky eaters. You will have your kids and
regret that you're stuck with them. The baby can fracture
your tailbone on exit. If they're too big, you have
to make sure every day they don't die.
Speaker 1 (17:28):
The baby could.
Speaker 3 (17:29):
Oh there's a whole lot of serious stuff you can eat,
you can't eat and drink specific things while you're pregnant
and breastfeeding.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
Bedtime is a nightmare.
Speaker 3 (17:37):
They kick, scream, cry, throw tantrums that will shatter yours
and your neighbor's ear. Drums, pervict floor dysfunction.
Speaker 1 (17:43):
Post birth.
Speaker 3 (17:44):
You need to wear an abby. The house will never
be clean again. You will cry a lot. You might
have a child that's uncontrollable, screaming for an entire flight.
You literally have to do what your kids want.
Speaker 1 (17:55):
You know, you haven't stopped me.
Speaker 4 (17:57):
No, Well, you know what's happening at the moment. There's
different trains of thought, like, yes, pregnant women listening to
this will be going, oh my god.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
Well at least there's someone telling them the truth.
Speaker 4 (18:07):
Yes, but they're just like, what, you know, what's going on?
And I from that take from all this, what was
I thinking? I've told you I read this and a
bit of a vision, and you go, none of it's
a lie.
Speaker 5 (18:23):
I do people have children.
Speaker 1 (18:25):
None of it's a lie.
Speaker 3 (18:27):
Look for all those reasons. I could come up with
a thousand as to why they're wonderful.
Speaker 1 (18:34):
Absolutely.
Speaker 4 (18:34):
I mean she's going to talk about Debbie Downer. Yes,
like she's gone down all the things that you could happen.
That's half glass empty stuff right there.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
But I'll say it again, none of that's not true.
All of that, all of that happened.
Speaker 4 (18:47):
But it's all like could be, yes, it could be
a psychopath, could be this.
Speaker 1 (18:51):
Yes, but we're.
Speaker 3 (18:52):
Parents, so we know the love that you have. And
Ellie's got little dogs, and I know I had a
little dog before I had my children. I thought that
I loved my dog more than anything.
Speaker 4 (19:03):
We write one, Well, I love my dog too, But
why don't we write one in response and say why
should have the dog dogs?
Speaker 3 (19:10):
Well, but I do know that when I had my child,
I looked at my dog and went, wow, I.
Speaker 1 (19:15):
Really just liked you. Like the love is completely different
it is.
Speaker 3 (19:19):
But thought we'd open up the phones this morning. Yes,
based on this kids or not?
Speaker 1 (19:24):
What do you reckon?
Speaker 3 (19:26):
Are you someone that decided not to have kids? Are
you blissfully happy and glad that you didn't? Or do
you hear this list?
Speaker 4 (19:32):
And I like the crossover. I like some people that
haven't had kids yet and they're like, they're so anti
kids because when they're out and about, you know, they're like,
oh God, that family with the kids were so annoying
at the restaurant or whatever. And then like two years
later they're pregnant having theirs, and then their kids are
annoying somewhere else.
Speaker 9 (19:52):
Where.
Speaker 3 (19:52):
You smug, that'll never be my kids. No, and then
it was your kids. Yes, did you decide to have
kids you love them? Or did you decide to not
have kids and you're blissfully happy? Did you not have
kids and now you're older and you wish that you
did have kids?
Speaker 1 (20:04):
Kids, let's talk about.
Speaker 6 (20:05):
Kids double five seven one one two nine kid chat
in general.
Speaker 5 (20:09):
Just to being involved in the.
Speaker 6 (20:10):
Show today, you could get yourself a family past to
the city of Gold Coast mayor Christmas carols.
Speaker 1 (20:14):
Stop it with your kids.
Speaker 4 (20:16):
With your kids and Emily, you're their universe when they're
that age.
Speaker 2 (20:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (20:22):
So you guys both have four children each and I
have two. So there's a lot of children between all
of us here, and Tony kash.
Speaker 1 (20:27):
On one as well.
Speaker 3 (20:29):
But Ossie actress and model and Gold Coaster Eli Gonzalvaz.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
She shared one hundred and seventeen reasons why she does
not want to have.
Speaker 3 (20:37):
Children and has divided the internet. Some of them are
a little bit frivolous, like you know, they're going to
pooh inside of you.
Speaker 1 (20:44):
Actually correct, but it doesn't hurt.
Speaker 3 (20:48):
And the other you know, I think they are valid,
like you lose your identity in the the you know
the There are a lot of things that happen once
you've had a child, especially as the woman you know.
Not only is there a lot of strain on your
body and some things are completely irreversible.
Speaker 1 (21:04):
I've never drunket on a trampoline safely.
Speaker 3 (21:06):
Again, sneezing is hard and laughing too much also.
Speaker 2 (21:11):
Sorry, but that's why I work with you, buddy, I didn't.
Speaker 3 (21:22):
So we just want to know kids or no kids?
What have you personally decided. We've got Fiona from Pimpomar
on the line, kids are no kids, Fiona kids.
Speaker 11 (21:31):
I totally agree with everything she put on the list.
Speaker 13 (21:34):
But when you hold that bundle of joy, everything changes
and all that goes out the windows.
Speaker 3 (21:40):
And you can't explain it to someone who doesn't have kids,
And that's the hard thing.
Speaker 1 (21:44):
I'm not saying that to be arrogant or smug, but.
Speaker 3 (21:48):
Her look absolutely, you're like me. Her list is not wrong.
All of that does happen.
Speaker 4 (21:54):
And the other thing is she seems to be killing
life at the moment. Yes, you know what I mean,
she's very attractive nor in a world of stuff that's
going well for her.
Speaker 3 (22:04):
Yeah, person Yeah, and children do take that away for
a bit.
Speaker 4 (22:10):
Yeah, if she's relying on shape, I don't.
Speaker 9 (22:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (22:16):
Anyway, what it's almost like something maternal.
Speaker 4 (22:19):
Well, she's part of her appeal is like her perfection
online and everything like that. So I'm wondering if she's
worried about having a child affects the way she looks.
You can get all that back, well, of course you can,
but I don't know. We're judging by how she presented
that list. I'm sure that's.
Speaker 3 (22:39):
Something she's concerned about. Thank you for Yona. That's got
a Sarah from Helensvale. Sarah kids or no kids?
Speaker 13 (22:47):
I have kard one time, little boy five.
Speaker 1 (22:50):
So you have one?
Speaker 11 (22:53):
I have one? Yeah, got told emgy we could have kids.
Was not super maternal.
Speaker 13 (22:59):
And then I met my husband and we changed everything
in our mind and want we wanted the kids when
we met.
Speaker 11 (23:06):
And yeah, now I wouldn't change it for the world.
It's tough like being an older mum and yeah, we
used to go on holiday and like that kid doesn't
sit near me, they're going to be annoying and annoysing
and kick the back of my chair. And now we're
on the kids going on holidays. But I try and
keep my kid like, you know, a bit, you know,
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calm on the plane or on the journey, so they
don't annoy the people around them like I would have
plad on a plane. But yeah, I wouldn't change it
for the Well, there's a thousand reasons, like you said,
as to why not to have kids. And they are
exhausted and tiring and annoying and all the other things. Equally,
when they tell you mommy, I love you and you're beautiful,
how can you take that away?
Speaker 1 (23:46):
As isn't it?
Speaker 3 (23:47):
And you know what, Sarah, A lot of statistics, because
you know I love my research and statistics, A lot
of statistics say people with.
Speaker 1 (23:54):
One children are the happiest in the world.
Speaker 7 (23:56):
Yeah, we're sticking with one.
Speaker 1 (24:01):
Thank you.
Speaker 3 (24:01):
Let's go to Shane in Bigger Rewards Kids or no kids, Shane.
Speaker 8 (24:05):
No kids, brand them from everywhere, no restaurant, no nothing,
no planes, no shelving centers.
Speaker 4 (24:12):
Everything, so they can't do anything.
Speaker 9 (24:15):
Leave them at home.
Speaker 8 (24:15):
Till they're twenty three or something.
Speaker 3 (24:17):
I don't Okay, So Shane, you don't have kids. I
just want to get this right.
Speaker 8 (24:22):
I don't have kids, will not have kids. But I
did date a girl that had a child. The kid
was about three when we dated. Adore the absolute life
out of that kid. Absolutely, I would do anything for it.
Speaker 9 (24:36):
We've now broken up.
Speaker 8 (24:37):
I still think about the kid. Make sure that she's
happy and healthy. I really hope that she's happy and healthy.
I understand how parents feel now, but I still don't
want to have kids.
Speaker 9 (24:48):
Oh wow, the joy of.
Speaker 8 (24:50):
Walking in a room and she sees you and you know,
her face used the light up.
Speaker 4 (24:57):
Okay, really good.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
I think you've got some trauma there.
Speaker 3 (25:01):
I just I've gone from like you sound like you
were a lovely step daddy and you love that child,
so maybe there might be some Yeah.
Speaker 4 (25:08):
Can you please ring back if you have a child
and say I was the one that didn't want them,
and we can congratulate you.
Speaker 3 (25:17):
Should We wrap it up with beck All right, Beck,
you've got six kids, so what do you think kids are?
Speaker 1 (25:22):
No kids?
Speaker 7 (25:24):
Kids?
Speaker 13 (25:25):
Really?
Speaker 1 (25:25):
Thank god, that's it.
Speaker 7 (25:33):
I've got six kids.
Speaker 4 (25:35):
Yep, well done. I think that's all she can.
Speaker 1 (25:40):
That's all the capacity that's left it up.
Speaker 3 (25:42):
Now here's a little story in history.
Speaker 5 (25:45):
About poor girly girls. Old man.
Speaker 4 (25:49):
I just want to clear up. Every now and again,
I say how I talk to my dad about the
footy and people go they can't necessarily work it out
because he's a Welshman. He's from Wales, right, but he
came out he when he was nineteen and just quickly
and there's another story behind how he got into it.
But he's kind of like one of the original you
know how a lot of the Irish come over here
and played because they played Gaelic football. His background wasn't
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in that, but when he came out over here he
had a couple of cracks at playing and then eventually
played at quite a high level in the first grade
for the trop Valley in the in the for Your
Lawn in that competition and was asked to train with
South Melbourne who became the Sydney Swans. So he did
well in his football, right, So that's just to clear up,
(26:33):
he's from Wales, but he learned how to play, which
is a great story in itself because I've got other
stories around that. But so the other day we went
for another feed at our cafe. He didn't have the
big boy breakfast this time. What he said, I had
trouble getting through the last one. So I organized an
omelet for him and he said that was perfect. So
I think he's moved on to the old melett Boget.
Speaker 1 (26:54):
The big roys omelet now changed.
Speaker 4 (26:56):
Well, yes, that's what they have to do anyway. So
we're sitting there, we're talking about different things, and again
Footy comes up with us a lot because we sort
of bond over it. You know. He knows I'm passionate
about it and he really likes to get into it
and have a listen to the in depths of different
stuff that's going on. So we've had the draft last
week and then that's first round gets picked on the
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first night and I'm saying this to him, and I said,
and then they had the second round, and then on
the third day they do rookie selections and they are
players that go on a smaller contract, so they're sort
of like, we'll give you a chance on this smaller
contract to try and play. And Collingwood passed on all
their rookie selections, which means there's one more opportunity for
players to get onto your list before the season, and
(27:42):
you're invited as a train on player and you get
the whole summer to train with a squad and you
may get selected in one of those positions, so it
kind of makes you earn your spot rather than just
get selected. So Collingwood they had luck with that last time.
So Collingwood selected some players to train and compete for
the last three positions.
Speaker 1 (28:01):
That's a quick question. Just a side note.
Speaker 3 (28:03):
Are there any really famous players that were only picked
as a training that went on to become.
Speaker 5 (28:08):
Heaps of them?
Speaker 4 (28:10):
Yeah yetalist Well, Nick Maxwell captain Collingwood to a premiership
and he was a rookie player, So there's an example.
There's many examples of it though. Dean Cox is one
of the greatest ruckmen of our generation. He started as
a rookie and worked his way onto a list and
just ruckman, there's your book changed. Well, he changed the
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way rocking. He changed the way that Ruckman didn't he
So he rucking. Well did anyway, so we were talking
more about that and he said to me, he said,
he said, I've listened to everything you've said, and I've
understood everything you've said because I went probably too complex,
but he was. He followed everything, asked me questions everything.
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So anyway, we finished their feed and he was excited
about those players competing for a spot on the list,
and we got up and we went out and when
we get to the car park and sort of having
to cross the road because he's not as quick as
he used to be, I would say, right, just aim
for the back of that you their dad go directly across,
so we don't hover in the middle, and then we'll
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walk up to the car and he goes right. Oh. Anyway,
on the day we went last week, he got across
the road and he was quite quick to the you
and I turned around to him and I said, that's
the quickest I've seen you walk across the road in
the last couple of years, and he goes, yeah, I
have to I'm trying to get onto a list.
Speaker 1 (29:35):
Well, the thought we're talking about do you have kids
or do you not have kids?
Speaker 3 (29:38):
Because local golcros model Eli Gonzalvez has gone online with
one hundred and eighteen reasons why she doesn't want to
have kids.
Speaker 1 (29:46):
Here's some of them. It's almost like a poem.
Speaker 3 (29:49):
Kids can be ungrateful, kids can be rude, kids can
be wildly embarrassing, terrible twos. They'll never be a break
from parenthood, rapid pregnancy, hair growth, and they can pooh
inside of you.
Speaker 5 (29:59):
Ha the cat.
Speaker 1 (30:03):
None of them are wrong.
Speaker 3 (30:04):
And we thought we would get the girl who created
the list on the phone.
Speaker 1 (30:10):
Gentlemen, do we have a guest, We have a gas.
Speaker 6 (30:12):
Let's get a big warm welcome, warm welcome, Thank you
for the warm, Welcome to the neighbor, Welcome to the shoe.
Speaker 7 (30:19):
Ellie, good morning, it is a good morning.
Speaker 4 (30:24):
You wake it up.
Speaker 3 (30:26):
No want to be No one throwing food at you,
no one to dress or get to school.
Speaker 1 (30:30):
How is your amazing life?
Speaker 4 (30:33):
O babe?
Speaker 7 (30:33):
I had a lovely little sleep in this morning and
a coffee and lay in bed. Check my emails, both
my husband, last book.
Speaker 1 (30:42):
And how hot was that coffee? Tell me about hot coffee?
Speaker 4 (30:46):
That a girl?
Speaker 7 (30:47):
It was as hot as Miranda Priestlease, there we go.
Speaker 3 (30:52):
Look, you can put that on the list. You never
drink a hot beverage again.
Speaker 4 (30:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (30:57):
Yeah, well I'll add it to the list and I'll
share it.
Speaker 4 (31:00):
Okay, you've opened up a can of worms, really though,
haven't you.
Speaker 7 (31:06):
Oh well, I didn't mean too, Like, this list was
never meant to be public, It was never written to
be public. But the other day a friend of mine
actually sent me a message and he goes, oh my god,
I was feeling clucky. Then I reverted to your list
and I didn't want kids again. And I shared it
on my social media and everyone's like, show us the list,
like we want the list. So I was like, okay, well,
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if I posted, it's going to be one hundred percent honest.
Speaker 4 (31:28):
Here you go.
Speaker 7 (31:29):
I knew there would be people who would be like,
this is so vain, blah blah blah whatever, But I posted,
and all the negative comments just entirely highlighted my point that, like,
it truly should not matter what is on someone's list,
Like it could be the most outlandish stuff, but we
should actually never be made to feel less than or
judged or like there's something wrong with us just because
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we're choosing a different way of life. But yeah, it
grew legs and it went absolutely viral. I never imagined
that it would, but yeah, here we are.
Speaker 4 (32:00):
Is it a demographic that you feel like you're going
to be judged more like older people, Oh you're not
having kids sort of thing, or is it? Is it
broader than that.
Speaker 7 (32:09):
I mean, it's a lot of different people. There's a
lot of support, don't get me wrong, a lot of
support from people who do have kids and they're like, damn,
if I had my time over again, I wouldn't do it,
and people agreeing with like, yeah, everything on this list
is real, it's true, it's factual. And then you know,
there's a lot of people who feel extremely seen by it,
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who don't have kids and don't want to have kids.
So I mean, I'm glad to be someone who has
the courage to be as honest and as candid as
what I have been. I know a lot of people
are really really scared to be because of the backlash,
Like it's been on every major news outlet in Australia
and in America as well. Now, so I can understand
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how scary it is for some people. But I mean, like, yeah,
I've been called everything under the sun like four hundred times,
so it's really not an issue to hear criticism from
people anymore.
Speaker 1 (33:00):
Have people added to your list?
Speaker 3 (33:02):
Now, now that you've put it out into the world,
you've got one hundred and eighteen that you put out there.
Speaker 1 (33:06):
Have people come up with other ones for you? Now?
Speaker 7 (33:08):
Oh yeah, girl, I've got all the parents in the
world sending me their list. Get high to bloody keeap up?
Speaker 4 (33:15):
Now, how did you come up with one hundred and
nineteen of your own? Like, didn't you feel like five
or six might be enough?
Speaker 8 (33:22):
Well?
Speaker 7 (33:22):
Look, I created a list because I got so sick
of just saying to people that I don't want kings.
And I would tell them one thing and they'd be like, yeah,
but like let me try and like convince you. It's
like it's like coming out as gay to like people
who have homophobic parents. It's like, let me change you.
Like they're those kinds of people. It makes sense, the
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basing people are the kinds of people who try to
change you. And I just started writing this list, and
as savage as it is, it's actually genuinely, genuinely things
that women think about and consider when they are having children.
I mean, it's all like a lot of it it's satire,
but it goes to the bigger discussion of why a
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lot of people just don't want to have kids. And
I just show people that listen now and they're like, damn,
fair enough, true, well.
Speaker 1 (34:16):
Pop this on.
Speaker 3 (34:17):
You'd never jump on a trampoline again without wetting your pants,
sneezing as well as very dangerous and also laughing too
hard and in fact sometimes even coughing a coughing fit.
Speaker 7 (34:28):
Oh god, girl, don't even start cut that one before. Actually,
but it's always, you know what's so funny, it's always
the people that have the kids that tell you not
to have then.
Speaker 4 (34:42):
And don't forget all of the sickness you can pick
up from childcare too. That's right, come time, and then
you're sick, and then the two weeks later, nothing something
else has come home.
Speaker 1 (34:51):
Nothing greater than adult hand, foot in mouth.
Speaker 7 (34:55):
Absolutely not. I see it from all my friends, and
I am opting out officially.
Speaker 3 (35:00):
List Well, we love you, darlin, thank you for joining us,
and we'll have a laugh if you ever do have
a child my pause.
Speaker 7 (35:07):
If I do, I will come on and give you
the exclusive.
Speaker 4 (35:11):
Thank you.
Speaker 6 (35:12):
Ellie Hey still say he calls a double five seven
on Mono to nine by.
Speaker 3 (35:15):
The way, kids or no kids? What are your thoughts?
Do you want to add to Ellie's list? And we've
got an awesome experience for you to go.
Speaker 6 (35:22):
With your kids to family pass, to the City of
Gold Coast and Mayor's Christmas Carols.
Speaker 4 (35:27):
I want someone to win it that doesn't want kids.
Speaker 1 (35:29):
That's right too, they go, they just.
Speaker 3 (35:31):
Go on their own with the family, couple friends, that's right.
Speaker 6 (35:35):
Keep your calls coming in double five, seven, more Mono too,
nine and.
Speaker 3 (35:38):
Emily interesting conbo this morning on the back of Gold
Coast model Eddie Gonzalvez releasing a list of one hundred
and eighteen reasons why she didn't want to have children.
Speaker 4 (35:48):
And it's sad she has to come up with a
list to justify it when she could just say I don't.
Speaker 1 (35:53):
Want kids, yes, but it's never enough.
Speaker 4 (35:55):
Everyone wants real answers. You'll change your mind, they say.
Speaker 3 (35:59):
Don't they Look, we've got what twelve children between us
here on the show, so we can add to the
list as to why kids are really difficult. But obviously
we adore ours, but we're just interested. Do you want kids,
do you not want kids? Did you have kids? And
then decide you didn't want kids.
Speaker 1 (36:17):
Have you not got kids and you're really happy?
Speaker 4 (36:19):
It's too late, by the way, but it.
Speaker 3 (36:21):
Surely is Bobby from Broadwater or from the broad bitch Waters?
Speaker 1 (36:25):
What's your situation?
Speaker 9 (36:27):
So ironically, growing up, I never ever wanted to have children, Like,
I was completely against it. I saw people that had children,
I thought these people absolutely guts, and ironically I ended
up having two of my home. Sometimes I wish that
I didn't have children, but ideally I wouldn't change it
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for the world. I do love them for bits. But
when I was going, yeah, I just just to see
people in the shopping center with children and they'd be
screaming and buying thing like why would you want that? Like,
I don't want that at all.
Speaker 1 (37:04):
Mate.
Speaker 3 (37:04):
I have kids screaming and crying in supermarkets and wonder
why I would want that?
Speaker 4 (37:09):
Bobby, do you actually have empathy for other parents now
that you've got your own kids or do you still
just go hate everyone else's kids?
Speaker 9 (37:18):
So it's like fifty to fifty. So sometimes I see, like,
you know, children, the way they're acting in a shopping
that I'm like, I feel so bad to that parent,
Like I know what they have to deal with because
why I do the same thing, like and when they
try and run through the shopping that are like they
are own the plate. But there's other times where you know,
like I've been at events or a park and I'm
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just like, I love my children, but like I really
I don't have to like your other people's children.
Speaker 1 (37:44):
Like I think this is the key.
Speaker 3 (37:48):
Yeah, you think you don't want kids because you're looking
at other people's kids and you think their kids are
really painful. And then you have your own kids and
they're painful, but you don't care because.
Speaker 5 (37:58):
They're your kids.
Speaker 1 (38:00):
Definitely, have we just summed it up.
Speaker 4 (38:01):
And then you set them free in a restaurant for
everyone else to hate your kids.
Speaker 1 (38:05):
So but I think we've just come to the conclusion.
Speaker 3 (38:08):
For Ellie, it's not that she doesn't want kids, she
just doesn't want other people's kids.
Speaker 2 (38:14):
Bring it back, Gaily and Emily Jays Bliss or steal,
all right.
Speaker 4 (38:27):
Is the time to be sharing or is it the
time of the year where you're actually a little bit
sol fish?
Speaker 3 (38:36):
Oh gosh, we're playing little Steel for your chance to
be in five hundred bucks per cent A boat soaked
bath house, which is so great. Had my girlfriend's forty.
You have your birthday Laura on the weekend. What did
I get her?
Speaker 1 (38:46):
A soaked bath house?
Speaker 4 (38:50):
I go to it so you didn't have time.
Speaker 1 (38:54):
They have bought it on the drive down to Borro.
Speaker 4 (38:56):
Just quietly came in last Christmas on Christmas Day said,
oh my god, I didn't get your presents. Hang on
a minute, and then all of a sudden we had
the Soak bath house.
Speaker 1 (39:05):
Yes, and it there's a nice little message. It's actually brilliant.
Speaker 4 (39:08):
You've got to use those, by the way, please do. Yeah,
so good.
Speaker 6 (39:11):
Now, how this works is we've got two people on
the phone right now and they have a couple of options.
They've both decided whether they're going to split or steal.
What happens is if they both pick split, they will
get two hundred and fifty dollars meat each to spend
at Soak bath house.
Speaker 3 (39:25):
Is great, that'll get you a soak and a massage
for you and a friend.
Speaker 5 (39:28):
Yeah, it's a good amount. It's a good amount.
Speaker 6 (39:30):
If one picks steel and the other has split, they
steal the entire five hundred dollars to spend it soak
and the person who said split gets nothing. If they
both say steal, both of them lose out.
Speaker 1 (39:43):
That's a real gamble.
Speaker 5 (39:44):
Yeah, and tomorrow we have a thousand bucks.
Speaker 4 (39:46):
Yes, it's a mind game. Really, you have to be
the mentalist.
Speaker 3 (39:49):
So we've got This' got Joanne from pac Pines, Good morning, Joanne,
good morning, And.
Speaker 1 (39:56):
We've got Linn from Bundle, Good morning to you.
Speaker 7 (40:00):
Morning to you.
Speaker 3 (40:01):
Now, you both have said your answers to mourn and
you cannot change them otherwise you'll be disqualified. We don't
know what you've said to her, but we will look
to her once you yell at your answers to see
if you have both stuck with what you've told her.
Speaker 4 (40:14):
Okay, okay, now, yeah, you both sound really nice. Yeah,
I'm picturing niceness.
Speaker 3 (40:25):
Well, you know, we don't want you to give your
answer away. But Joeanne, what would it mean to you
to win this?
Speaker 7 (40:34):
I've never been and I've always wanted to go, But
obviously money's high at the moment, so I would love
to go.
Speaker 4 (40:40):
Man, treat yourself.
Speaker 1 (40:42):
Yeah, what about you? Lynn?
Speaker 7 (40:44):
Oh look, I just love to cramp for my mom.
Speaker 13 (40:47):
She deserves everything.
Speaker 9 (40:48):
She's been helping me a.
Speaker 13 (40:49):
Lot of late, so I'd love to surprise her with
this tampering.
Speaker 1 (40:52):
Okay, alrighty sounds like you both want it, yes.
Speaker 4 (40:56):
And that's what we like. All right. So we're going
to count backwards from three and then both yell out
what you have locked in and what you want to do.
All right, are you ready to go?
Speaker 7 (41:06):
Ready?
Speaker 4 (41:07):
Here we go. We're ready, three, two, one? Oh No,
we're going to steal and it's from Lin did Lina?
Speaker 1 (41:18):
Did you say steal?
Speaker 13 (41:21):
Is that steal?
Speaker 4 (41:23):
Oh? Lynn?
Speaker 1 (41:25):
I mean congratulations. Lena won five hundred dollars a finn.
Speaker 2 (41:28):
So.
Speaker 7 (41:30):
Absolutely fantastic. But now I feel horrible.
Speaker 4 (41:33):
That's all right, that's the name of the game. Enjoy it.
Speaker 1 (41:35):
Oh that's nice to enjoy it. Why don't you say
what you really feel?
Speaker 11 (41:39):
Now?
Speaker 13 (41:40):
Am I allowed to share with her?
Speaker 4 (41:42):
No?
Speaker 1 (41:42):
Darman, that's the game, Honey.
Speaker 7 (41:44):
You know it's all good.
Speaker 4 (41:47):
Lyn, it's all right. No, it's too late to sort
of let your conscience take over. Now.
Speaker 13 (41:53):
My mom is going to absolutely love this.
Speaker 7 (41:56):
This is going to be so wonderful.
Speaker 13 (41:57):
And I've never won anything in my life, so this
is just this is awesome.
Speaker 4 (42:01):
Maybe she should go.
Speaker 3 (42:05):
I've been talking this morning whether you should have kids
or not. After Eli Gonsalves Goldkos model had released a
list one hundred and eighteen reasons why she didn't want
to have kids.
Speaker 4 (42:15):
Any reasons, Yeah, like.
Speaker 12 (42:19):
Five.
Speaker 3 (42:20):
Well you don't even need to have reasons, to be honest,
but she got questioned all the time. Here's some on
the list. You have to make sure every day they
don't die. It is a full time job. We know
that bedtime is a nightmare. They'll keep scream crying through tantrums.
They'll shutter yours in your neighbor's ear, drums a perfect
flow dysfunction. Yeah here, your house will never be clean again.
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You'll cry a lot. You literally have.
Speaker 1 (42:44):
To do what your kids wants. So true, the list
is not wrong's.
Speaker 4 (42:49):
Been actually quite a depressing show.
Speaker 1 (42:53):
How is the human race even here? So we've been
asking the question this morning, what do you reckon kids?
Speaker 4 (42:59):
Or no kids?
Speaker 1 (43:00):
You've already got them, Jamie, what do you think kids?
Speaker 12 (43:02):
A time?
Speaker 9 (43:02):
I've sent my two children to think very long.
Speaker 11 (43:06):
And hard, because life is stressful right now, and it's
so different now than what it was thirty years ago
when I decided to have children.
Speaker 9 (43:15):
And I am I'm.
Speaker 11 (43:16):
A tea trade by trade, and I see the stresses
and the struggles I have, and I just.
Speaker 9 (43:23):
Think they're going to think wrong and hard.
Speaker 4 (43:25):
So I do agree with that.
Speaker 11 (43:26):
Young lady.
Speaker 1 (43:27):
Wow, now this is an interesting call.
Speaker 3 (43:29):
Jamie is someone who's kids and advising your kids to
think about having kids.
Speaker 4 (43:34):
Thanks Jamie.
Speaker 1 (43:35):
Hey, Jess, do you want kids or not want kids?
Speaker 9 (43:38):
Hey?
Speaker 7 (43:38):
Guys, yes, I have kids. They have two already. I
can that's it.
Speaker 1 (43:42):
And you always wanted them always?
Speaker 4 (43:44):
Do you ever sort of wish it away because the
kids are annoying you at any stage.
Speaker 11 (43:49):
I think now that they're a bit older, you look
back at the time and go, oh, you know, definitely
with that time away.
Speaker 7 (43:55):
When they were young, and you know it was difficult.
But now they're getting that bit older, have.
Speaker 4 (44:01):
Kids, have them?
Speaker 3 (44:04):
Thank you, Jess. Let's go to Sharon from Advance Town. Sharon,
kids or no kids?
Speaker 13 (44:09):
No kids?
Speaker 1 (44:10):
Have you had kids?
Speaker 4 (44:12):
No kid?
Speaker 7 (44:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (44:13):
Okay, tell us your story.
Speaker 13 (44:15):
Sharon wasn't designed to make them got the love of
my life. He didn't want them to either, So just
a their baby bump, that's enough for me. They do it.
They're told they don't talk back.
Speaker 3 (44:26):
You could go on holidays without them, but I take two.
Speaker 13 (44:31):
I can take my jog anywhere it's not going to
or she's not going to be miss fading. So they're
always welcomed to any party or any activity. But you've
got little people, they lose their ship, they've got a
journey happy, you're run out of change of food, shape fogs. It'snightmare.
Speaker 4 (44:51):
You should write a list.
Speaker 13 (44:56):
A huge list.
Speaker 1 (44:58):
Ask me all the sign and Sharon, so what's your answer.
Speaker 3 (45:01):
Obviously you're a little bit older than Ellie, so you
can guide her in her path of not wanting kids
and having to deal with the wider community judging her
for that.
Speaker 13 (45:10):
So my answer is I now say I'm too selfish
for that.
Speaker 7 (45:14):
I like my Vina fair enough.
Speaker 4 (45:18):
Well, it's a straight answer, and I reckon it would
shut people down straight away exactly because you're very assertive
with that answer too.
Speaker 13 (45:25):
Well, they look at you, oh, oh you know it.
Take that, but it is what it is.
Speaker 9 (45:32):
I don't ask you did you want kids?
Speaker 13 (45:34):
Do they an accident? How many times did you do
it before you got it?
Speaker 4 (45:39):
Yeah? Both ways. You don't ask questions, so they shouldn't.
Speaker 7 (45:44):
That's right.
Speaker 3 (45:47):
Love your work, Sharon. Do you want to go to
where there's a lot.
Speaker 13 (45:50):
Of kids, I'll take my beautiful god daughter. He's celebrating
her graduations.
Speaker 7 (45:56):
So nice, she's av.
Speaker 5 (45:59):
Sharon A graduates.
Speaker 6 (46:00):
We're going to give you a family past the City
of Gold Coast, the Mayor's Christmas Carols.
Speaker 4 (46:05):
Thank you enjoy the joys of children.
Speaker 7 (46:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (46:11):
Look, just because she doesn't want them doesn't mean you
don't like him or am I wrong?
Speaker 4 (46:15):
Shower?
Speaker 13 (46:15):
I like him, I just don't them.
Speaker 6 (46:18):
The City of Gold Coasts Christmas Carols at Hotter Outdoor Stage, Saturday,
December the second, which is this weekend headlined by human Nature.
Speaker 1 (46:26):
You don't remember what you.
Speaker 4 (46:29):
Yeah, you got friend.
Speaker 6 (46:32):
Holiday is definitely cheaper without kids, absolutely that out there.
Speaker 4 (46:35):
Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 3 (46:37):
One kid's good too, if you're going to just have one,
because when you go on holidays you can just sit
in the three seats.
Speaker 1 (46:43):
Oh yeah, because that's how the planes normally go.
Speaker 4 (46:45):
Well, that's not good to me in La. We've both
got four kids.
Speaker 5 (46:48):
Family tickets to anything.
Speaker 6 (46:49):
It's always two kids and two adults.
Speaker 5 (46:51):
That don't work. When you've got more than two kids.
Speaker 4 (46:53):
That's your fault, mate, No, it's his missus fault because
she looks so good. True, we'll agree on that By
the way, I say that respectfully. We'll be back again tomorrow.
Speaker 6 (47:09):
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and forty nine dollars by online at Sea bathhouse dot com.
Speaker 1 (47:18):
But are you We're going to cut out with Ricky Lee.
Speaker 4 (47:21):
You got Fred Gailei and Emily J live five to
lone weekday mornings on the Gold Coast one O two
nine Hot Tomato
For those who value are sleeping.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
We've created a podcast so you can listen anytime to
Gaily and Emily hot Tomatoy.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
Morning, Good morning, Morning, morning, morning.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Today it is French toast day.
Speaker 4 (00:17):
Do you make French toast a lot?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Do you know what is the nicest thing to make
French toast? You don't make it with I mean French
toast started. We're sort of getting rid of old bread.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Make it with croissants. It'll blow your mind.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Okay, So because chissant's just being creamier and buttery, and
then you know, you dip it in all of the
egg and then you fry it up and then put
the maple syrup on it, and it is so much
better than just a piece of blame white slice bread.
Speaker 1 (00:45):
So have it got there?
Speaker 4 (00:46):
Okay, I will have a go at that, don't worry.
What else? What else? It is?
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Also we're celebrating the red planet today.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
It's Mars's Day by Mars bar.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
That's solid.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
We could or tonight you could go do some stargazing
because it is one of the planets we can see
because it is red because of the young you know,
the iron oxide on it, the rust. It's literally a
planet full of rust. And it also is Allen Day, Alan.
Speaker 4 (01:15):
Alan, we can do we can go hello, hello, Hello.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
Hello, Hello, Hello, Kayley Gailey.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
That's good Allen Day, right all day.
Speaker 5 (01:27):
I think we get to this.
Speaker 6 (01:27):
Some of the year we're grasping its straws for what
the days it could be.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
No, I went on three websites to come up with
that lameess.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
Even the day people that come up with all the days,
just that you can tell this is the time of year.
Speaker 5 (01:39):
They're ready for a break.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
They just gave up.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
They went, oh, it's just Alan, French toast and males.
We'll give Miles a day and let's.
Speaker 5 (01:45):
Make it National give up Day.
Speaker 6 (01:49):
Hey, if you missed it, on the show yesterday, Gaily
told a cracking story about a guy riding with no
hands on a bike.
Speaker 5 (01:55):
We're going to relive that very very shortly. Plus don't
forget Yeah, a few other things happening today.
Speaker 6 (02:05):
Tomato, what what what?
Speaker 4 (02:09):
What? What?
Speaker 1 (02:10):
What do you what for?
Speaker 7 (02:12):
All right?
Speaker 8 (02:13):
With what?
Speaker 4 (02:14):
I found this a little bit. It's quite cute, is
what I would like to say. It's this young lady
who is a Northern Irish of accent, and she's going
for a walk. You can actually hear her footsteps going
through puddles and all that sort of stuff in the countryside.
So just picture someone in their gum boots walking through
like heal the hills and on on an old crumbly road.
(02:38):
And she's getting asked questions on how you would say
something and with the meaning, and she gives the word
and then it's the same word every time for a
different meaning. Haven't listened to this, Cassie.
Speaker 5 (02:50):
What's a female horse called a what's a reflective piece
of glass called?
Speaker 8 (02:56):
What's a guy who's a woman who's in charge of
a town or city of a big gold medal?
Speaker 9 (03:02):
Yeah?
Speaker 10 (03:03):
And what is.
Speaker 11 (03:04):
The third gift for Jesus?
Speaker 4 (03:07):
There's frankincense, gold and.
Speaker 9 (03:14):
Mirror.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
Mirror, that's mirror. How do you know what they're talking
about at any given time?
Speaker 1 (03:20):
I know, did you go and have a look in
the mirror? What what the gift for Jesus? What did
you want me to go speak to Tom taate?
Speaker 4 (03:26):
What what the mirror?
Speaker 5 (03:27):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (03:28):
Talk about the mirror? Anyway? That was pretty well done.
Meme of the morning where we fight a meme on
the net and read it out on the air.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
All right.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
Time for a little meme dump from my depends group.
Depends group, if you've not ever listened, it's the mummy
group where we send each other funny, funny memes all
day and we caught them depens because we've all had
children and we wet our pants now whenever we laugh.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
Or jump on trampolines. So this one here, I'll read
them until you tell me to stop. How's that sounds.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
It's been a hectic week on the main group because
I think we're heading towards the end of the year
and we all need to laugh. So glad I don't
have a thig gap. I almost dropped my phone in
the toilet, but my legs are like, nah, girl, we
got your.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
Stop. Stop.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Oh I've got so many all right, that's it. That's
me at the moment.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
All right, guy's gonna be hard to top. Kids and
today are soft. I died once when I was five,
and my mom made me walk it off.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
Yeah, yeah, that is so true. One more, what do
you got.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
As a picture of an ape?
Speaker 3 (04:42):
And he's staring into space Because we love apes, we
like watching them on slow TV. With this ape is
steering into space and the comment is me calculating my
December budget and realizing that everyone's getting a hug for Christmas.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
Anyway you might The first one was excellent.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Okay, I got back.
Speaker 8 (05:03):
I got back.
Speaker 3 (05:04):
He's one of the husband we really need to start
saving money. Me, well, you should have married someone else, then.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
What about this one. The worst people to owe you
is your kids. As soon as they wake up, they're like,
do you got my four dollars?
Speaker 4 (05:18):
Yes? All right?
Speaker 1 (05:21):
And this is just an interesting fact.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Until nine fifty six, French children attending school but served
wine on their lunch breaks, and each child was allowed
after half a liter a day.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
That is a fact.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
I want to travel back in time, move to France
and repeat primary school over again.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
I think I would have fund four is shaving no,
I know.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
And here's more, I'll do this one.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
The kid looking amazing is looking like shit most of
the time, so it's more of a surprise.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
And that is our motto here on the show. Don't
be so before by our buses. We've got the mark.
Speaker 4 (06:07):
Hey, every time someone starts talking about the Olympics, I
thought it was meant to be the Southeast Queensland sort
of games, But more and more as it goes along,
I'm starting to feel like Brisbane are saying it's Brisbane's games. Now.
Granted there'll be a lot of stuff there, but that's
just I'm reading between the lines. It seems very much
(06:28):
like this because every time I see something, I go
what about the Gold Coast because it's all Brisbane centric anyway.
They're going to smash the Gabba and redo it, which
I think. I think the Gabba is already a great stadium,
so I don't know whether they needed to do that,
(06:48):
but fair enough they've decided to do it. But you
know that little East Brisbane Primary School that's right next
to the Gabba, that's.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Going to be part of the precinct.
Speaker 4 (06:59):
The precinct which means that that school's going to be
taken away from that area. So a lot of people
are complaining. They reckon that it's going to be called
East Bank. If once it's all.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
Set up sounds warish.
Speaker 4 (07:11):
East Bank. We will fight them at East Bank, yes.
Speaker 5 (07:16):
Different in South Bank.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
We've got to escape to East Bank.
Speaker 3 (07:19):
I don't know, it just feels Warriyes, now you've said
south Bank, but I know east Bank sounds.
Speaker 5 (07:24):
We'll have North Bank as well, So that's what they're doing.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
And where's the bank come from, the bank of a river?
Speaker 4 (07:31):
They can't do Westpac, west Bank, west Banks Bank.
Speaker 5 (07:36):
Yeah, I tried.
Speaker 4 (07:40):
Anyway, this is happening. But I heard on the news
a chant because they were protesting on the weekend. I
didn't get the grab, but basically the protest, I felt
like it was a little bit of a contradiction. And
the protest with kids there as well. Anastasia, you're a fool,
give us back our effing school.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
Is that what they said?
Speaker 4 (08:04):
Yes, so again, Anastasia, you're a fool, give us back
our effing school. Okay, so you're at home and you
haven't gone to the protest, but you are all for it,
and you're from the school community everything. And then you're like,
love kids, quick, we're on the we're coming on the TV.
They're going to show the protest that they did down there.
(08:25):
And you've got all your family with your little kids
in there, and you hear Anastasia, you're a fool, give
us back at effing school. That's a contradiction. Could you
tell your kids not to swear?
Speaker 12 (08:34):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (08:34):
So what kind of school is that? Get rid of it?
Speaker 4 (08:41):
Entertainment years one Hot Tomato.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
I was just playing Taller Swift there.
Speaker 3 (08:46):
And she has met with the family of the fan
that died at her concert.
Speaker 4 (08:50):
Oh you said that that would happen.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
Yeah, Anna Clara Benavides Machanda is her name, and died
you to Carli a Risque. So yes, she has a
private meeting with the family and took photos and everything
like that.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
So with her.
Speaker 3 (09:06):
People though commenting on this article are just saying, but
did she pay for the funeral?
Speaker 1 (09:09):
That's what I want to know.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
Isn't that interesting how we all think that because we
said that, And.
Speaker 4 (09:14):
It's almost like an expectation.
Speaker 3 (09:16):
Yeah, an expectation that obviously, being very wealthy, that she
would do that.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
This is not just us thinking about that sort of stuff.
Speaker 4 (09:23):
It may come up, but she might have done it
and said, look, I want to keep this quiet.
Speaker 1 (09:27):
Oh absolutely. You wouldn't want people to know your business,
that's for sure.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
And Naanie Portman believes that kids should be kept out
of the spotlight, should be left just to be kids,
and shouldn't be pushed into the entertainment industry like she
was as a kid. She's doing a new interview and
she said that even though she started her career at
just twelve years old.
Speaker 1 (09:49):
She considers herself lucky not to have been harmed, and
that's where it all comes from.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
She said, would she ever encourage her own kids to
get to the industry, She said, I would not encourage
young people to go into this.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
I feel it was almost an accident.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
Of luck that I was not harmed and harmed and
combined with every and she had very overprotective and wonderful parents.
She said, I've heard too many bad stories, and I
think that any children shouldn't be a part of this world.
I don't believe kids should work. I think kids should
play and go to school. And she's had a good
path as a child actor in the entertainment industry.
Speaker 1 (10:25):
There's so many that have had that harder road.
Speaker 3 (10:28):
But I just thought that was interesting that when she
started at twelve, she's assuming that all the other kids
in the industry perhaps don't have that overprotective parent that's
looking up for them for having.
Speaker 4 (10:38):
But I mean, she's going off a whole lot of stories, though,
isn't she Yeah, rather.
Speaker 3 (10:43):
Than actually what happened to her, which is true all right.
Denise Richards has opened up about how Charlie fear she
feels about her daughter being on OnlyFans. So she sat
down with Bethany Frankel, one of the housewives, in a
brand new tell All interview, and they were talking about
her four year marriage to Charlie, and she said when
they met, he was totally sober, and she would never
(11:06):
have dated him if she had known the now sober
Charlie or if she ever thought that he was going
to relapse, because it made life really hard for them. I,
first of all, was incredibly naive to addiction.
Speaker 10 (11:19):
When I met Charlie. He was sober for four years,
so people would ask me, oh, are you afraid he's
going to relapse or this? For me, there was no question.
I said, no, I don't I didn't know that person.
I only knew who I met, and that was a
man who had been sober for four years. I didn't
judge him for his past because I figured, well, his
(11:41):
past made him who he is today. And the person
that I met was very different from the person that spiraled.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
And a lot of people said.
Speaker 10 (11:50):
Oh, you reformed the bad boy or this. I said, no,
I wouldn't have dated him. I didn't know that if
I met him when he was deep in addiction.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
They had two daughters together, and their eldest daughter, Sammy
is the one that's on OnlyFans, making a heap of money,
so much so that the Denise decided to go on
OnlyFans as well. And she said they've collaborated on content
a couple of times.
Speaker 4 (12:13):
I should just put my leg up here, she said.
Speaker 3 (12:17):
Despite collaborating, they've never actually been seen like, they've never looked.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
At each other's pages.
Speaker 3 (12:22):
No, okay, so they're happy to go, let's do this together, mum,
but they're not going to look at what each other
is doing, which is probably.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
A good thing.
Speaker 3 (12:31):
Yes, And how Charlie she feels about his daughter being
on OnlyFans at only eighteen years old.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
He's not the keenest on.
Speaker 4 (12:39):
It, which dad would be.
Speaker 1 (12:43):
There might be some when she rolls up with.
Speaker 4 (12:45):
The Porsche go you at eighteen. I don't think it'd be.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
I mean, you've got the daughters.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
You've got three daughters, No pays your house off at eighteen.
Speaker 4 (12:54):
My vibe is do what you want your adults A
Ferrari gaily What a.
Speaker 3 (13:06):
Gorgeous Gold Coast model Ellie Gonzalvez has broken the Internet
over the last couple of days.
Speaker 4 (13:12):
It's not for the first time, no, and it's not for.
Speaker 1 (13:15):
Her beauty this time.
Speaker 3 (13:16):
It's because she released a list of all the reasons
why she doesn't want to have children. And the list
there's one hundred and eighteen reasons on there. And she
was brave enough, I think, to even put the list
out there. But then all of the new sites like
the Daily Mails, Mom and Me she was on the
project last night, have all grabbed a hold because apparently
it's not okay for a gorgeous, newly married woman to
(13:38):
say I don't want to have children. And that's why
she's had to make this enormous list, because people are
not just accepting I don't want children, They want more.
Speaker 5 (13:48):
So she feels she has to justify yes.
Speaker 3 (13:50):
And it's so hard as women, because when I couldn't
have children and people said, oh, are you gonna have
a baby, and I would say, yes, I am, but
I'm having troubles. Then that's not the end of that conversation. People, Oh,
why what's going on?
Speaker 1 (14:04):
Have you tried this? Have you tried that, have you
tried this?
Speaker 4 (14:06):
Or you just get this? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (14:08):
Oh are you doing it right?
Speaker 5 (14:10):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (14:12):
Honestly, And so it's so hard with women.
Speaker 3 (14:16):
It's polarizing no matter how you look at it when
it comes to either creating babies or not creating babies.
This is Ellie last night on The Project talking about
why she had to create the list.
Speaker 12 (14:29):
For years, I was asked constantly about why I didn't
want to have kids, and the reasons just didn't seem
to hit home with anyone. So I just started compiling
a list after seeing the girl on TikTok's list, added
to it, made my own, and started sharing with my
friends who are But yeah, I mean, it's just a
whole lot of reasons that do genuinely go through women's
(14:51):
heads when they consider having a baby and making such
a huge decision in their life to have a child.
Speaker 1 (14:58):
All right, now, do you want to hear some of
the re Yeah, I'd love to.
Speaker 4 (15:02):
What I'm shocked at is that she's found one hundred
and eighteen, Like, just do five.
Speaker 1 (15:08):
Just do one.
Speaker 4 (15:08):
I don't want that five reasons. Well, if you're going
to do reasons, just do far.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Okay, are you already? Shall we go through all one
hundred eighteen one.
Speaker 4 (15:16):
Hundred and eighteen reasons?
Speaker 1 (15:18):
Already?
Speaker 3 (15:18):
They're your responsibility until the day you die. Postpartum hair loss.
You're tired all the time. Children can inherit emotional trauma.
The world's already overpopulated. You'll watch your child scramble for
already limited resources. You become second priority to your partner.
And that's not true, it's the other way around. But anyway,
your child can decide to cut you off for whatever reason.
When they're older, they can be bullied. They can be bullies.
(15:40):
They can turn into a serial killer. You can what
that happens. You will watch them grow up in a
world of chaos and stress every minute of the day,
wondering if they're okay. Kids can be ungrateful. Kids can
be rude. Kids can be wildly embarrassing. Terrible twos sounds.
Speaker 1 (15:55):
Like a pole.
Speaker 4 (15:56):
I should wrap it.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
There will never be a break from parenthood, but pregnancy
hair growth.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
They can pooh inside of you.
Speaker 4 (16:04):
God see that rhymes?
Speaker 1 (16:06):
We keep going.
Speaker 3 (16:07):
Yeah, it's easy to move without kids. Holidays are easier
and more fun without kids. Flying can be almost impossible
with a kid. You could get an infection in the
in the Caesar scar, which is true. You could tear
you could get kidney stones for pregnancy. You will not
sleep You'll constantly worry about their troubles. Their suffering is
your suffering. The existence of child predators. You might this
(16:29):
is serious stuff. You might bleed two months post childbirth.
Speaker 1 (16:31):
Doctors will do.
Speaker 3 (16:32):
Anything to get the baby out safely. Okay, I'll gte
read any more of that bit. They'll stitch you up
and send you on your way, and you can sit
in constant pain while you sit down or even.
Speaker 1 (16:42):
Try to pooh. She's obsessed with that. Children are noisy.
They may kill their twined in the womb.
Speaker 4 (16:50):
Well, you will go.
Speaker 3 (16:52):
You have to go through school over again, pick up
and drop off of your kid every day at school.
You have to take your kid to sports on weekend.
You have to go to your kids parent teacher interviews.
You have to pay school fees in excess of ten
thousand dollars a year. Epidural needles are massive. A whole
lot of people in the room seeing your china and
your insides. That's true. You could get postpartum depression. The
(17:15):
food your cookie kids will usually not be eaten because
kids are picky eaters. You will have your kids and
regret that you're stuck with them. The baby can fracture
your tailbone on exit. If they're too big, you have
to make sure every day they don't die.
Speaker 1 (17:28):
The baby could.
Speaker 3 (17:29):
Oh there's a whole lot of serious stuff you can eat,
you can't eat and drink specific things while you're pregnant
and breastfeeding.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
Bedtime is a nightmare.
Speaker 3 (17:37):
They kick, scream, cry, throw tantrums that will shatter yours
and your neighbor's ear. Drums, pervict floor dysfunction.
Speaker 1 (17:43):
Post birth.
Speaker 3 (17:44):
You need to wear an abby. The house will never
be clean again. You will cry a lot. You might
have a child that's uncontrollable, screaming for an entire flight.
You literally have to do what your kids want.
Speaker 1 (17:55):
You know, you haven't stopped me.
Speaker 4 (17:57):
No, Well, you know what's happening at the moment. There's
different trains of thought, like, yes, pregnant women listening to
this will be going, oh my god.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
Well at least there's someone telling them the truth.
Speaker 4 (18:07):
Yes, but they're just like, what, you know, what's going on?
And I from that take from all this, what was
I thinking? I've told you I read this and a
bit of a vision, and you go, none of it's
a lie.
Speaker 5 (18:23):
I do people have children.
Speaker 1 (18:25):
None of it's a lie.
Speaker 3 (18:27):
Look for all those reasons. I could come up with
a thousand as to why they're wonderful.
Speaker 1 (18:34):
Absolutely.
Speaker 4 (18:34):
I mean she's going to talk about Debbie Downer. Yes,
like she's gone down all the things that you could happen.
That's half glass empty stuff right there.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
But I'll say it again, none of that's not true.
All of that, all of that happened.
Speaker 4 (18:47):
But it's all like could be, yes, it could be
a psychopath, could be this.
Speaker 1 (18:51):
Yes, but we're.
Speaker 3 (18:52):
Parents, so we know the love that you have. And
Ellie's got little dogs, and I know I had a
little dog before I had my children. I thought that
I loved my dog more than anything.
Speaker 4 (19:03):
We write one, Well, I love my dog too, But
why don't we write one in response and say why
should have the dog dogs?
Speaker 3 (19:10):
Well, but I do know that when I had my child,
I looked at my dog and went, wow, I.
Speaker 1 (19:15):
Really just liked you. Like the love is completely different
it is.
Speaker 3 (19:19):
But thought we'd open up the phones this morning. Yes,
based on this kids or not?
Speaker 1 (19:24):
What do you reckon?
Speaker 3 (19:26):
Are you someone that decided not to have kids? Are
you blissfully happy and glad that you didn't? Or do
you hear this list?
Speaker 4 (19:32):
And I like the crossover. I like some people that
haven't had kids yet and they're like, they're so anti
kids because when they're out and about, you know, they're like,
oh God, that family with the kids were so annoying
at the restaurant or whatever. And then like two years
later they're pregnant having theirs, and then their kids are
annoying somewhere else.
Speaker 9 (19:52):
Where.
Speaker 3 (19:52):
You smug, that'll never be my kids. No, and then
it was your kids. Yes, did you decide to have
kids you love them? Or did you decide to not
have kids and you're blissfully happy? Did you not have
kids and now you're older and you wish that you
did have kids?
Speaker 1 (20:04):
Kids, let's talk about.
Speaker 6 (20:05):
Kids double five seven one one two nine kid chat
in general.
Speaker 5 (20:09):
Just to being involved in the.
Speaker 6 (20:10):
Show today, you could get yourself a family past to
the city of Gold Coast mayor Christmas carols.
Speaker 1 (20:14):
Stop it with your kids.
Speaker 4 (20:16):
With your kids and Emily, you're their universe when they're
that age.
Speaker 2 (20:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (20:22):
So you guys both have four children each and I
have two. So there's a lot of children between all
of us here, and Tony kash.
Speaker 1 (20:27):
On one as well.
Speaker 3 (20:29):
But Ossie actress and model and Gold Coaster Eli Gonzalvaz.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
She shared one hundred and seventeen reasons why she does
not want to have.
Speaker 3 (20:37):
Children and has divided the internet. Some of them are
a little bit frivolous, like you know, they're going to
pooh inside of you.
Speaker 1 (20:44):
Actually correct, but it doesn't hurt.
Speaker 3 (20:48):
And the other you know, I think they are valid,
like you lose your identity in the the you know
the There are a lot of things that happen once
you've had a child, especially as the woman you know.
Not only is there a lot of strain on your
body and some things are completely irreversible.
Speaker 1 (21:04):
I've never drunket on a trampoline safely.
Speaker 3 (21:06):
Again, sneezing is hard and laughing too much also.
Speaker 2 (21:11):
Sorry, but that's why I work with you, buddy, I didn't.
Speaker 3 (21:22):
So we just want to know kids or no kids?
What have you personally decided. We've got Fiona from Pimpomar
on the line, kids are no kids, Fiona kids.
Speaker 11 (21:31):
I totally agree with everything she put on the list.
Speaker 13 (21:34):
But when you hold that bundle of joy, everything changes
and all that goes out the windows.
Speaker 3 (21:40):
And you can't explain it to someone who doesn't have kids,
And that's the hard thing.
Speaker 1 (21:44):
I'm not saying that to be arrogant or smug, but.
Speaker 3 (21:48):
Her look absolutely, you're like me. Her list is not wrong.
All of that does happen.
Speaker 4 (21:54):
And the other thing is she seems to be killing
life at the moment. Yes, you know what I mean,
she's very attractive nor in a world of stuff that's
going well for her.
Speaker 3 (22:04):
Yeah, person Yeah, and children do take that away for
a bit.
Speaker 4 (22:10):
Yeah, if she's relying on shape, I don't.
Speaker 9 (22:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (22:16):
Anyway, what it's almost like something maternal.
Speaker 4 (22:19):
Well, she's part of her appeal is like her perfection
online and everything like that. So I'm wondering if she's
worried about having a child affects the way she looks.
You can get all that back, well, of course you can,
but I don't know. We're judging by how she presented
that list. I'm sure that's.
Speaker 3 (22:39):
Something she's concerned about. Thank you for Yona. That's got
a Sarah from Helensvale. Sarah kids or no kids?
Speaker 13 (22:47):
I have kard one time, little boy five.
Speaker 1 (22:50):
So you have one?
Speaker 11 (22:53):
I have one? Yeah, got told emgy we could have kids.
Was not super maternal.
Speaker 13 (22:59):
And then I met my husband and we changed everything
in our mind and want we wanted the kids when
we met.
Speaker 11 (23:06):
And yeah, now I wouldn't change it for the world.
It's tough like being an older mum and yeah, we
used to go on holiday and like that kid doesn't
sit near me, they're going to be annoying and annoysing
and kick the back of my chair. And now we're
on the kids going on holidays. But I try and
keep my kid like, you know, a bit, you know,
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calm on the plane or on the journey, so they
don't annoy the people around them like I would have
plad on a plane. But yeah, I wouldn't change it
for the Well, there's a thousand reasons, like you said,
as to why not to have kids. And they are
exhausted and tiring and annoying and all the other things. Equally,
when they tell you mommy, I love you and you're beautiful,
how can you take that away?
Speaker 1 (23:46):
As isn't it?
Speaker 3 (23:47):
And you know what, Sarah, A lot of statistics, because
you know I love my research and statistics, A lot
of statistics say people with.
Speaker 1 (23:54):
One children are the happiest in the world.
Speaker 7 (23:56):
Yeah, we're sticking with one.
Speaker 1 (24:01):
Thank you.
Speaker 3 (24:01):
Let's go to Shane in Bigger Rewards Kids or no kids, Shane.
Speaker 8 (24:05):
No kids, brand them from everywhere, no restaurant, no nothing,
no planes, no shelving centers.
Speaker 4 (24:12):
Everything, so they can't do anything.
Speaker 9 (24:15):
Leave them at home.
Speaker 8 (24:15):
Till they're twenty three or something.
Speaker 3 (24:17):
I don't Okay, So Shane, you don't have kids. I
just want to get this right.
Speaker 8 (24:22):
I don't have kids, will not have kids. But I
did date a girl that had a child. The kid
was about three when we dated. Adore the absolute life
out of that kid. Absolutely, I would do anything for it.
Speaker 9 (24:36):
We've now broken up.
Speaker 8 (24:37):
I still think about the kid. Make sure that she's
happy and healthy. I really hope that she's happy and healthy.
I understand how parents feel now, but I still don't
want to have kids.
Speaker 9 (24:48):
Oh wow, the joy of.
Speaker 8 (24:50):
Walking in a room and she sees you and you know,
her face used the light up.
Speaker 4 (24:57):
Okay, really good.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
I think you've got some trauma there.
Speaker 3 (25:01):
I just I've gone from like you sound like you
were a lovely step daddy and you love that child,
so maybe there might be some Yeah.
Speaker 4 (25:08):
Can you please ring back if you have a child
and say I was the one that didn't want them,
and we can congratulate you.
Speaker 3 (25:17):
Should We wrap it up with beck All right, Beck,
you've got six kids, so what do you think kids are?
Speaker 1 (25:22):
No kids?
Speaker 7 (25:24):
Kids?
Speaker 13 (25:25):
Really?
Speaker 1 (25:25):
Thank god, that's it.
Speaker 7 (25:33):
I've got six kids.
Speaker 4 (25:35):
Yep, well done. I think that's all she can.
Speaker 1 (25:40):
That's all the capacity that's left it up.
Speaker 3 (25:42):
Now here's a little story in history.
Speaker 5 (25:45):
About poor girly girls. Old man.
Speaker 4 (25:49):
I just want to clear up. Every now and again,
I say how I talk to my dad about the
footy and people go they can't necessarily work it out
because he's a Welshman. He's from Wales, right, but he
came out he when he was nineteen and just quickly
and there's another story behind how he got into it.
But he's kind of like one of the original you
know how a lot of the Irish come over here
and played because they played Gaelic football. His background wasn't
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in that, but when he came out over here he
had a couple of cracks at playing and then eventually
played at quite a high level in the first grade
for the trop Valley in the in the for Your
Lawn in that competition and was asked to train with
South Melbourne who became the Sydney Swans. So he did
well in his football, right, So that's just to clear up,
(26:33):
he's from Wales, but he learned how to play, which
is a great story in itself because I've got other
stories around that. But so the other day we went
for another feed at our cafe. He didn't have the
big boy breakfast this time. What he said, I had
trouble getting through the last one. So I organized an
omelet for him and he said that was perfect. So
I think he's moved on to the old melett Boget.
Speaker 1 (26:54):
The big roys omelet now changed.
Speaker 4 (26:56):
Well, yes, that's what they have to do anyway. So
we're sitting there, we're talking about different things, and again
Footy comes up with us a lot because we sort
of bond over it. You know. He knows I'm passionate
about it and he really likes to get into it
and have a listen to the in depths of different
stuff that's going on. So we've had the draft last
week and then that's first round gets picked on the
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first night and I'm saying this to him, and I said,
and then they had the second round, and then on
the third day they do rookie selections and they are
players that go on a smaller contract, so they're sort
of like, we'll give you a chance on this smaller
contract to try and play. And Collingwood passed on all
their rookie selections, which means there's one more opportunity for
players to get onto your list before the season, and
(27:42):
you're invited as a train on player and you get
the whole summer to train with a squad and you
may get selected in one of those positions, so it
kind of makes you earn your spot rather than just
get selected. So Collingwood they had luck with that last time.
So Collingwood selected some players to train and compete for
the last three positions.
Speaker 1 (28:01):
That's a quick question. Just a side note.
Speaker 3 (28:03):
Are there any really famous players that were only picked
as a training that went on to become.
Speaker 5 (28:08):
Heaps of them?
Speaker 4 (28:10):
Yeah yetalist Well, Nick Maxwell captain Collingwood to a premiership
and he was a rookie player, So there's an example.
There's many examples of it though. Dean Cox is one
of the greatest ruckmen of our generation. He started as
a rookie and worked his way onto a list and
just ruckman, there's your book changed. Well, he changed the
(28:31):
way rocking. He changed the way that Ruckman didn't he
So he rucking. Well did anyway, so we were talking
more about that and he said to me, he said,
he said, I've listened to everything you've said, and I've
understood everything you've said because I went probably too complex,
but he was. He followed everything, asked me questions everything.
(28:52):
So anyway, we finished their feed and he was excited
about those players competing for a spot on the list,
and we got up and we went out and when
we get to the car park and sort of having
to cross the road because he's not as quick as
he used to be, I would say, right, just aim
for the back of that you their dad go directly across,
so we don't hover in the middle, and then we'll
(29:13):
walk up to the car and he goes right. Oh. Anyway,
on the day we went last week, he got across
the road and he was quite quick to the you
and I turned around to him and I said, that's
the quickest I've seen you walk across the road in
the last couple of years, and he goes, yeah, I
have to I'm trying to get onto a list.
Speaker 1 (29:35):
Well, the thought we're talking about do you have kids
or do you not have kids?
Speaker 3 (29:38):
Because local golcros model Eli Gonzalvez has gone online with
one hundred and eighteen reasons why she doesn't want to
have kids.
Speaker 1 (29:46):
Here's some of them. It's almost like a poem.
Speaker 3 (29:49):
Kids can be ungrateful, kids can be rude, kids can
be wildly embarrassing, terrible twos. They'll never be a break
from parenthood, rapid pregnancy, hair growth, and they can pooh
inside of you.
Speaker 5 (29:59):
Ha the cat.
Speaker 1 (30:03):
None of them are wrong.
Speaker 3 (30:04):
And we thought we would get the girl who created
the list on the phone.
Speaker 1 (30:10):
Gentlemen, do we have a guest, We have a gas.
Speaker 6 (30:12):
Let's get a big warm welcome, warm welcome, Thank you
for the warm, Welcome to the neighbor, Welcome to the shoe.
Speaker 7 (30:19):
Ellie, good morning, it is a good morning.
Speaker 4 (30:24):
You wake it up.
Speaker 3 (30:26):
No want to be No one throwing food at you,
no one to dress or get to school.
Speaker 1 (30:30):
How is your amazing life?
Speaker 4 (30:33):
O babe?
Speaker 7 (30:33):
I had a lovely little sleep in this morning and
a coffee and lay in bed. Check my emails, both
my husband, last book.
Speaker 1 (30:42):
And how hot was that coffee? Tell me about hot coffee?
Speaker 4 (30:46):
That a girl?
Speaker 7 (30:47):
It was as hot as Miranda Priestlease, there we go.
Speaker 3 (30:52):
Look, you can put that on the list. You never
drink a hot beverage again.
Speaker 4 (30:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (30:57):
Yeah, well I'll add it to the list and I'll
share it.
Speaker 4 (31:00):
Okay, you've opened up a can of worms, really though,
haven't you.
Speaker 7 (31:06):
Oh well, I didn't mean too, Like, this list was
never meant to be public, It was never written to
be public. But the other day a friend of mine
actually sent me a message and he goes, oh my god,
I was feeling clucky. Then I reverted to your list
and I didn't want kids again. And I shared it
on my social media and everyone's like, show us the list,
like we want the list. So I was like, okay, well,
(31:26):
if I posted, it's going to be one hundred percent honest.
Speaker 4 (31:28):
Here you go.
Speaker 7 (31:29):
I knew there would be people who would be like,
this is so vain, blah blah blah whatever, But I posted,
and all the negative comments just entirely highlighted my point that, like,
it truly should not matter what is on someone's list,
Like it could be the most outlandish stuff, but we
should actually never be made to feel less than or
judged or like there's something wrong with us just because
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we're choosing a different way of life. But yeah, it
grew legs and it went absolutely viral. I never imagined
that it would, but yeah, here we are.
Speaker 4 (32:00):
Is it a demographic that you feel like you're going
to be judged more like older people, Oh you're not
having kids sort of thing, or is it? Is it
broader than that.
Speaker 7 (32:09):
I mean, it's a lot of different people. There's a
lot of support, don't get me wrong, a lot of
support from people who do have kids and they're like, damn,
if I had my time over again, I wouldn't do it,
and people agreeing with like, yeah, everything on this list
is real, it's true, it's factual. And then you know,
there's a lot of people who feel extremely seen by it,
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who don't have kids and don't want to have kids.
So I mean, I'm glad to be someone who has
the courage to be as honest and as candid as
what I have been. I know a lot of people
are really really scared to be because of the backlash,
Like it's been on every major news outlet in Australia
and in America as well. Now, so I can understand
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how scary it is for some people. But I mean, like, yeah,
I've been called everything under the sun like four hundred times,
so it's really not an issue to hear criticism from
people anymore.
Speaker 1 (33:00):
Have people added to your list?
Speaker 3 (33:02):
Now, now that you've put it out into the world,
you've got one hundred and eighteen that you put out there.
Speaker 1 (33:06):
Have people come up with other ones for you? Now?
Speaker 7 (33:08):
Oh yeah, girl, I've got all the parents in the
world sending me their list. Get high to bloody keeap up?
Speaker 4 (33:15):
Now, how did you come up with one hundred and
nineteen of your own? Like, didn't you feel like five
or six might be enough?
Speaker 8 (33:22):
Well?
Speaker 7 (33:22):
Look, I created a list because I got so sick
of just saying to people that I don't want kings.
And I would tell them one thing and they'd be like, yeah,
but like let me try and like convince you. It's
like it's like coming out as gay to like people
who have homophobic parents. It's like, let me change you.
Like they're those kinds of people. It makes sense, the
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basing people are the kinds of people who try to
change you. And I just started writing this list, and
as savage as it is, it's actually genuinely, genuinely things
that women think about and consider when they are having children.
I mean, it's all like a lot of it it's satire,
but it goes to the bigger discussion of why a
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lot of people just don't want to have kids. And
I just show people that listen now and they're like, damn,
fair enough, true, well.
Speaker 1 (34:16):
Pop this on.
Speaker 3 (34:17):
You'd never jump on a trampoline again without wetting your pants,
sneezing as well as very dangerous and also laughing too
hard and in fact sometimes even coughing a coughing fit.
Speaker 7 (34:28):
Oh god, girl, don't even start cut that one before. Actually,
but it's always, you know what's so funny, it's always
the people that have the kids that tell you not
to have then.
Speaker 4 (34:42):
And don't forget all of the sickness you can pick
up from childcare too. That's right, come time, and then
you're sick, and then the two weeks later, nothing something
else has come home.
Speaker 1 (34:51):
Nothing greater than adult hand, foot in mouth.
Speaker 7 (34:55):
Absolutely not. I see it from all my friends, and
I am opting out officially.
Speaker 3 (35:00):
List Well, we love you, darlin, thank you for joining us,
and we'll have a laugh if you ever do have
a child my pause.
Speaker 7 (35:07):
If I do, I will come on and give you
the exclusive.
Speaker 4 (35:11):
Thank you.
Speaker 6 (35:12):
Ellie Hey still say he calls a double five seven
on Mono to nine by.
Speaker 3 (35:15):
The way, kids or no kids? What are your thoughts?
Do you want to add to Ellie's list? And we've
got an awesome experience for you to go.
Speaker 6 (35:22):
With your kids to family pass, to the City of
Gold Coast and Mayor's Christmas Carols.
Speaker 4 (35:27):
I want someone to win it that doesn't want kids.
Speaker 1 (35:29):
That's right too, they go, they just.
Speaker 3 (35:31):
Go on their own with the family, couple friends, that's right.
Speaker 6 (35:35):
Keep your calls coming in double five, seven, more Mono too,
nine and.
Speaker 3 (35:38):
Emily interesting conbo this morning on the back of Gold
Coast model Eddie Gonzalvez releasing a list of one hundred
and eighteen reasons why she didn't want to have children.
Speaker 4 (35:48):
And it's sad she has to come up with a
list to justify it when she could just say I don't.
Speaker 1 (35:53):
Want kids, yes, but it's never enough.
Speaker 4 (35:55):
Everyone wants real answers. You'll change your mind, they say.
Speaker 3 (35:59):
Don't they Look, we've got what twelve children between us
here on the show, so we can add to the
list as to why kids are really difficult. But obviously
we adore ours, but we're just interested. Do you want kids,
do you not want kids? Did you have kids? And
then decide you didn't want kids.
Speaker 1 (36:17):
Have you not got kids and you're really happy?
Speaker 4 (36:19):
It's too late, by the way, but it.
Speaker 3 (36:21):
Surely is Bobby from Broadwater or from the broad bitch Waters?
Speaker 1 (36:25):
What's your situation?
Speaker 9 (36:27):
So ironically, growing up, I never ever wanted to have children, Like,
I was completely against it. I saw people that had children,
I thought these people absolutely guts, and ironically I ended
up having two of my home. Sometimes I wish that
I didn't have children, but ideally I wouldn't change it
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for the world. I do love them for bits. But
when I was going, yeah, I just just to see
people in the shopping center with children and they'd be
screaming and buying thing like why would you want that? Like,
I don't want that at all.
Speaker 1 (37:04):
Mate.
Speaker 3 (37:04):
I have kids screaming and crying in supermarkets and wonder
why I would want that?
Speaker 4 (37:09):
Bobby, do you actually have empathy for other parents now
that you've got your own kids or do you still
just go hate everyone else's kids?
Speaker 9 (37:18):
So it's like fifty to fifty. So sometimes I see, like,
you know, children, the way they're acting in a shopping
that I'm like, I feel so bad to that parent,
Like I know what they have to deal with because
why I do the same thing, like and when they
try and run through the shopping that are like they
are own the plate. But there's other times where you know,
like I've been at events or a park and I'm
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just like, I love my children, but like I really
I don't have to like your other people's children.
Speaker 1 (37:44):
Like I think this is the key.
Speaker 3 (37:48):
Yeah, you think you don't want kids because you're looking
at other people's kids and you think their kids are
really painful. And then you have your own kids and
they're painful, but you don't care because.
Speaker 5 (37:58):
They're your kids.
Speaker 1 (38:00):
Definitely, have we just summed it up.
Speaker 4 (38:01):
And then you set them free in a restaurant for
everyone else to hate your kids.
Speaker 1 (38:05):
So but I think we've just come to the conclusion.
Speaker 3 (38:08):
For Ellie, it's not that she doesn't want kids, she
just doesn't want other people's kids.
Speaker 2 (38:14):
Bring it back, Gaily and Emily Jays Bliss or steal,
all right.
Speaker 4 (38:27):
Is the time to be sharing or is it the
time of the year where you're actually a little bit
sol fish?
Speaker 3 (38:36):
Oh gosh, we're playing little Steel for your chance to
be in five hundred bucks per cent A boat soaked
bath house, which is so great. Had my girlfriend's forty.
You have your birthday Laura on the weekend. What did
I get her?
Speaker 1 (38:46):
A soaked bath house?
Speaker 4 (38:50):
I go to it so you didn't have time.
Speaker 1 (38:54):
They have bought it on the drive down to Borro.
Speaker 4 (38:56):
Just quietly came in last Christmas on Christmas Day said,
oh my god, I didn't get your presents. Hang on
a minute, and then all of a sudden we had
the Soak bath house.
Speaker 1 (39:05):
Yes, and it there's a nice little message. It's actually brilliant.
Speaker 4 (39:08):
You've got to use those, by the way, please do. Yeah,
so good.
Speaker 6 (39:11):
Now, how this works is we've got two people on
the phone right now and they have a couple of options.
They've both decided whether they're going to split or steal.
What happens is if they both pick split, they will
get two hundred and fifty dollars meat each to spend
at Soak bath house.
Speaker 3 (39:25):
Is great, that'll get you a soak and a massage
for you and a friend.
Speaker 5 (39:28):
Yeah, it's a good amount. It's a good amount.
Speaker 6 (39:30):
If one picks steel and the other has split, they
steal the entire five hundred dollars to spend it soak
and the person who said split gets nothing. If they
both say steal, both of them lose out.
Speaker 1 (39:43):
That's a real gamble.
Speaker 5 (39:44):
Yeah, and tomorrow we have a thousand bucks.
Speaker 4 (39:46):
Yes, it's a mind game. Really, you have to be
the mentalist.
Speaker 3 (39:49):
So we've got This' got Joanne from pac Pines, Good morning, Joanne,
good morning, And.
Speaker 1 (39:56):
We've got Linn from Bundle, Good morning to you.
Speaker 7 (40:00):
Morning to you.
Speaker 3 (40:01):
Now, you both have said your answers to mourn and
you cannot change them otherwise you'll be disqualified. We don't
know what you've said to her, but we will look
to her once you yell at your answers to see
if you have both stuck with what you've told her.
Speaker 4 (40:14):
Okay, okay, now, yeah, you both sound really nice. Yeah,
I'm picturing niceness.
Speaker 3 (40:25):
Well, you know, we don't want you to give your
answer away. But Joeanne, what would it mean to you
to win this?
Speaker 7 (40:34):
I've never been and I've always wanted to go, But
obviously money's high at the moment, so I would love
to go.
Speaker 4 (40:40):
Man, treat yourself.
Speaker 1 (40:42):
Yeah, what about you? Lynn?
Speaker 7 (40:44):
Oh look, I just love to cramp for my mom.
Speaker 13 (40:47):
She deserves everything.
Speaker 9 (40:48):
She's been helping me a.
Speaker 13 (40:49):
Lot of late, so I'd love to surprise her with
this tampering.
Speaker 1 (40:52):
Okay, alrighty sounds like you both want it, yes.
Speaker 4 (40:56):
And that's what we like. All right. So we're going
to count backwards from three and then both yell out
what you have locked in and what you want to do.
All right, are you ready to go?
Speaker 7 (41:06):
Ready?
Speaker 4 (41:07):
Here we go. We're ready, three, two, one? Oh No,
we're going to steal and it's from Lin did Lina?
Speaker 1 (41:18):
Did you say steal?
Speaker 13 (41:21):
Is that steal?
Speaker 4 (41:23):
Oh? Lynn?
Speaker 1 (41:25):
I mean congratulations. Lena won five hundred dollars a finn.
Speaker 2 (41:28):
So.
Speaker 7 (41:30):
Absolutely fantastic. But now I feel horrible.
Speaker 4 (41:33):
That's all right, that's the name of the game. Enjoy it.
Speaker 1 (41:35):
Oh that's nice to enjoy it. Why don't you say
what you really feel?
Speaker 11 (41:39):
Now?
Speaker 13 (41:40):
Am I allowed to share with her?
Speaker 4 (41:42):
No?
Speaker 1 (41:42):
Darman, that's the game, Honey.
Speaker 7 (41:44):
You know it's all good.
Speaker 4 (41:47):
Lyn, it's all right. No, it's too late to sort
of let your conscience take over. Now.
Speaker 13 (41:53):
My mom is going to absolutely love this.
Speaker 7 (41:56):
This is going to be so wonderful.
Speaker 13 (41:57):
And I've never won anything in my life, so this
is just this is awesome.
Speaker 4 (42:01):
Maybe she should go.
Speaker 3 (42:05):
I've been talking this morning whether you should have kids
or not. After Eli Gonsalves Goldkos model had released a
list one hundred and eighteen reasons why she didn't want
to have kids.
Speaker 4 (42:15):
Any reasons, Yeah, like.
Speaker 12 (42:19):
Five.
Speaker 3 (42:20):
Well you don't even need to have reasons, to be honest,
but she got questioned all the time. Here's some on
the list. You have to make sure every day they
don't die. It is a full time job. We know
that bedtime is a nightmare. They'll keep scream crying through tantrums.
They'll shutter yours in your neighbor's ear, drums a perfect
flow dysfunction. Yeah here, your house will never be clean again.
(42:42):
You'll cry a lot. You literally have.
Speaker 1 (42:44):
To do what your kids wants. So true, the list
is not wrong's.
Speaker 4 (42:49):
Been actually quite a depressing show.
Speaker 1 (42:53):
How is the human race even here? So we've been
asking the question this morning, what do you reckon kids?
Speaker 4 (42:59):
Or no kids?
Speaker 1 (43:00):
You've already got them, Jamie, what do you think kids?
Speaker 12 (43:02):
A time?
Speaker 9 (43:02):
I've sent my two children to think very long.
Speaker 11 (43:06):
And hard, because life is stressful right now, and it's
so different now than what it was thirty years ago
when I decided to have children.
Speaker 9 (43:15):
And I am I'm.
Speaker 11 (43:16):
A tea trade by trade, and I see the stresses
and the struggles I have, and I just.
Speaker 9 (43:23):
Think they're going to think wrong and hard.
Speaker 4 (43:25):
So I do agree with that.
Speaker 11 (43:26):
Young lady.
Speaker 1 (43:27):
Wow, now this is an interesting call.
Speaker 3 (43:29):
Jamie is someone who's kids and advising your kids to
think about having kids.
Speaker 4 (43:34):
Thanks Jamie.
Speaker 1 (43:35):
Hey, Jess, do you want kids or not want kids?
Speaker 9 (43:38):
Hey?
Speaker 7 (43:38):
Guys, yes, I have kids. They have two already. I
can that's it.
Speaker 1 (43:42):
And you always wanted them always?
Speaker 4 (43:44):
Do you ever sort of wish it away because the
kids are annoying you at any stage.
Speaker 11 (43:49):
I think now that they're a bit older, you look
back at the time and go, oh, you know, definitely
with that time away.
Speaker 7 (43:55):
When they were young, and you know it was difficult.
But now they're getting that bit older, have.
Speaker 4 (44:01):
Kids, have them?
Speaker 3 (44:04):
Thank you, Jess. Let's go to Sharon from Advance Town. Sharon,
kids or no kids?
Speaker 13 (44:09):
No kids?
Speaker 1 (44:10):
Have you had kids?
Speaker 4 (44:12):
No kid?
Speaker 7 (44:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (44:13):
Okay, tell us your story.
Speaker 13 (44:15):
Sharon wasn't designed to make them got the love of
my life. He didn't want them to either, So just
a their baby bump, that's enough for me. They do it.
They're told they don't talk back.
Speaker 3 (44:26):
You could go on holidays without them, but I take two.
Speaker 13 (44:31):
I can take my jog anywhere it's not going to
or she's not going to be miss fading. So they're
always welcomed to any party or any activity. But you've
got little people, they lose their ship, they've got a
journey happy, you're run out of change of food, shape fogs. It'snightmare.
Speaker 4 (44:51):
You should write a list.
Speaker 13 (44:56):
A huge list.
Speaker 1 (44:58):
Ask me all the sign and Sharon, so what's your answer.
Speaker 3 (45:01):
Obviously you're a little bit older than Ellie, so you
can guide her in her path of not wanting kids
and having to deal with the wider community judging her
for that.
Speaker 13 (45:10):
So my answer is I now say I'm too selfish
for that.
Speaker 7 (45:14):
I like my Vina fair enough.
Speaker 4 (45:18):
Well, it's a straight answer, and I reckon it would
shut people down straight away exactly because you're very assertive
with that answer too.
Speaker 13 (45:25):
Well, they look at you, oh, oh you know it.
Take that, but it is what it is.
Speaker 9 (45:32):
I don't ask you did you want kids?
Speaker 13 (45:34):
Do they an accident? How many times did you do
it before you got it?
Speaker 4 (45:39):
Yeah? Both ways. You don't ask questions, so they shouldn't.
Speaker 7 (45:44):
That's right.
Speaker 3 (45:47):
Love your work, Sharon. Do you want to go to
where there's a lot.
Speaker 13 (45:50):
Of kids, I'll take my beautiful god daughter. He's celebrating
her graduations.
Speaker 7 (45:56):
So nice, she's av.
Speaker 5 (45:59):
Sharon A graduates.
Speaker 6 (46:00):
We're going to give you a family past the City
of Gold Coast, the Mayor's Christmas Carols.
Speaker 4 (46:05):
Thank you enjoy the joys of children.
Speaker 7 (46:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (46:11):
Look, just because she doesn't want them doesn't mean you
don't like him or am I wrong?
Speaker 4 (46:15):
Shower?
Speaker 13 (46:15):
I like him, I just don't them.
Speaker 6 (46:18):
The City of Gold Coasts Christmas Carols at Hotter Outdoor Stage, Saturday,
December the second, which is this weekend headlined by human Nature.
Speaker 1 (46:26):
You don't remember what you.
Speaker 4 (46:29):
Yeah, you got friend.
Speaker 6 (46:32):
Holiday is definitely cheaper without kids, absolutely that out there.
Speaker 4 (46:35):
Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 3 (46:37):
One kid's good too, if you're going to just have one,
because when you go on holidays you can just sit
in the three seats.
Speaker 1 (46:43):
Oh yeah, because that's how the planes normally go.
Speaker 4 (46:45):
Well, that's not good to me in La. We've both
got four kids.
Speaker 5 (46:48):
Family tickets to anything.
Speaker 6 (46:49):
It's always two kids and two adults.
Speaker 5 (46:51):
That don't work. When you've got more than two kids.
Speaker 4 (46:53):
That's your fault, mate, No, it's his missus fault because
she looks so good. True, we'll agree on that By
the way, I say that respectfully. We'll be back again tomorrow.
Speaker 6 (47:09):
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Speaker 1 (47:18):
But are you We're going to cut out with Ricky Lee.
Speaker 4 (47:21):
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