In this conversation, Will Bland and Ryan Gottfredson explorethe concepts of vertical development and mindsets, emphasizing the importance of understanding the difference between our doing side and being side. They discuss how failure can lead to personal growth, the significance of our internal operating system, and the impact of attachment styles on our relationships. Additionally, they touch on ADHD and its influence on personal development, providing insights and resources for self-assessment and growth. Come join the conversation and let's grow. Don’t forget to grab the free 5 Step Process to Goal Tending download at https://goalswithwill.com
Key Points
* Vertical development focuses on our being side, while horizontal developmentfocuses on our doing side.
* Awareness is the first step in personal growth and development.
* Failure often serves as a catalyst for growth and self-improvement.
* Understanding our internal operating system can help us respond better tochallenges.
* Mindsets play a crucial role in how we approach learning and growth.
* Attachment styles influence our relationships and self-protective behaviors.
* Many adults with ADHD are unaware of their condition, impacting their development.
* Healing from past trauma is essential for improving attachment styles.
* Self-assessment tools can help gauge our development and awareness levels.
* Engaging in therapy can provide deeper insights and healing for personalgrowth.
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction
03:18 Understanding the Doing Side vs. Being Side
06:45 The Role of Failure in Personal Growth
12:08 Exploring the Internal Operating System
19:15 Mindsets: Fixed vs. Growth
22:35 Attachment Styles and Their Impact
30:42 ADHD and Its Influence on Development
35:07 Closing
Links
Https://ryangottfredson.com/vertical-development-assessment
HTTPS://ryangottfredson.com/personal-mindset-assessment
https://ryangottfredson.com/books/becoming-better/ https://youtu.be/m6HixJdZt-0 (Episode 9 w/ Ryan)
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