Hey gorgeous! Welcome back to Happy Go Fabulous! Today, we’re diving into something that so many of us struggle with—saying yes when we really mean no. Ever been there? Saying yes to avoid awkwardness, to keep the peace, or because you don’t want to let someone down—only to feel frustrated, overwhelmed, and maybe even a little resentful? Yep, we’re talking about The Yes Trap.
I share some real-life stories (mine and others’) about the impact of saying yes when we don’t mean it—both on ourselves and on those around us.
It’s time to ditch the pressure, trust your gut, and only say YES to the things that truly light you up. Because your energy is precious, and protecting it is a radical act of self-love
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Until next time, big hugs, happiness, and keep being your fabulous self! 💕
Key Takeaways:
✔️ Saying Yes When You Mean No Has Consequences – It can lead to resentment, burnout, and misalignment with your true desires.
✔️ Pausing Before Committing Is Powerful – Instead of feeling pressured to answer immediately, try saying, “Let me think about that” to give yourself space to make the right choice.
✔️ The Impact Goes Both Ways – When we overcommit, we not only drain ourselves but can also let others down when we can’t follow through.
✔️ Trust Your Gut Feelings – If something feels off, listen to that inner nudge. Your intuition knows when something isn’t right for you.
✔️ The Courage to Say No is Self-Care – Saying no upfront is kinder than saying yes and later backing out. It protects your energy and allows you to show up fully where it matters.
✔️ Human Design Can Help Guide Your Decisions – Understanding your unique decision-making process (like riding out emotional waves) can help you make choices that feel good and aligned.
✔️ Boundaries = More Freedom – The more intentional you are about what you say yes to, the more space you create for the things that truly light you up!
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