The Challenges of Playdates

This week’s Hot Topic explores the topic of play dates and how they have evolved over time. Nana and Marcia discuss their own experiences with play dates as children and how they differ from the play dates their children have today. They speculate that the rise of play dates may be due to increased concerns about child safety and the desire for parents to know who their children are playing with. Nana also shares how she uses play dates as an opportunity to observe other parents' parenting styles and determine if their children are a good fit for her daughter. The guest, Tamara Lynn, discusses her own experiences with play dates as a parent and the challenges of coordinating schedules and finding compatible playmates for her child. She also highlights the importance of community and support from other parents in navigating the parenting journey. Tamara Lynn shares her pregnancy journey and the challenges she faced during the pandemic. She discusses the importance of support and the role of her husband in her healing process. Tamara also opens up about her experience with postpartum anxiety and the intrusive thoughts she had. She emphasizes the need for therapy and professional support in managing anxiety. The conversation touches on the anxieties of motherhood, including concerns about safety, bullying, and school shootings. Tamara Lynn discusses her anxiety as a mother and her fears about raising a daughter in a world where women are mistreated. Nana Eyeson-Akiwowo shares her own experiences and offers support, including the idea of using technology to track her child's whereabouts. They discuss the challenges of motherhood and the importance of giving oneself grace. Tamara emphasizes the need to be curious about her daughter's journey and to separate her own experiences and fears from her daughter's. They also discuss the importance of honoring ancestors and connecting to ancient wisdom.