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October 20, 2025 19 mins

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Your reactivity isn't a character flaw—it's hardwired into your biology. But that doesn't mean you have to be hijacked by it.

In the last 24 hours, you've probably reached for something—a handful of chips, a glass of wine, your phone. You've flipped through Instagram to Amazon to emails back to Instagram again. You've tried to distract yourself with eating, shopping, scrolling, overworking.

In this transformative episode, Dr. Adrienne Youdim reveals how the same biology that drives public outbursts is also behind our private struggles—and more importantly, how to flip the script on reactivity.

What You'll Learn:

  • Why reactivity is biology, not weakness. 
  • The hidden hungers driving your behavior. 
  • The pause that changes everything 

" When you create space between trigger and reaction, reactivity transforms into resilience. "— Dr. Adrienne Youdim

The Biology Behind Reactivity

Our nervous system was created to scan for threats and get us out of harm's way quickly. But what was once protective has become maladaptive, showing up in how we relate to ourselves and others.

Where Reactivity Shows Up:

Reaching for food, alcohol, or your phone automatically. Lashing out at partners. Overspending, overworking, people-pleasing. The same biology behind public outbursts drives our private struggles.


The Four Types of Hunger:

  1. Physical: Your body needs nourishment—food, rest, sleep, movement. Cook real meals, get seven hours of sleep, take a 10-minute walk.
  2. Emotional: Stop seeking validation externally. Recognize you are enough, just as you are. Offer yourself the validation you seek.
  3. Spiritual: You're trying to control everything. Step back, surrender, recognize you can't do it all. Lean into service or something beyond your tangible life.
  4. Relational: Where are you not present? Are you distracted with your children? Hiding behind texts instead of showing up vulnerably?


The Power of the Pause:

When you create space between trigger and reaction, reactivity transforms into resilience. Your hunger is a message—something needs your care. That space is where you live authentically and aligned with your deepest values.

How We Can Support Adrienne—and Each Other

Our community’s love and presence are powerful. Here’s how you can become a catalyst for this shared journey of transformation:

  1. Share Your Voice with an Honest Review on Apple Podcasts. Your thoughtful reviews help spread Adrienne’s message to those who need it most. Take a moment to leave a genuine review and strengthen our community together. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/health-bite/id1504295718
  2. Stay connected by following Health Bite on Spotify. Share your reflections in the comments and join the conversation. Your experiences and insights add richness to our collective growth. Follow and comment on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/2jwdHPnWJaoBs2ZJe0nnP6
  3. Send #LoveNotes and Reach Out on Instagram. Let Adrienne know you’re walking this path with her by sending a #LoveNote or a direct message on Instagram. Your encouragement fuels her journey and fosters the connection that makes this community thrive. Adrienne’s Instagram handle here: https://www.instagram.com/dradrienneyoudim/

Together, we’re creating a space where vulnerability is met with support, and transformation is celebrated as a courageous act.

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