72. If I Leave, Will He Fall Apart? How To Find Peace In Your Decision When You’re Terrified They Can’t Handle It (client story)

Are you paralyzed in your decision to leave a relationship because you’re terrified that they won’t be okay if you go?

If you’ve ever found yourself shouldering the responsibility for your partner’s emotions, decisions, or struggles and feel afraid to be seen as the villain in their story, this episode is for you.

In this episode you’ll discover:

• A new perspective on why staying in a rescuing role may be doing more harm than good
• Tangible ways to overcome your terror that he won’t be okay if you leave
• The life-changing way this client overcame her fear of being the villain in his story

Listen now to learn how to move through your fear, let go with love, and trust that both of you will be okay.

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• The free RELATIONSHIP RESET GUIDE to learn how to communicate without feeling guilty or shutting down and create a secure attachment style before your next relationship: https://tinyurl.com/rrg-htwshownotes

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• Learn how to communicate your feelings (without feeling guilty)
• Navigate triggering moments without shutting down
• Feel secure on your own so you aren’t jumping into the wrong relationship
• Expand your capacity to hold next-level love while remaining true to you

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In this gripping podcast, listeners explore the complex dynamics of toxic relationships, unpacking themes like narcissistic abuse, gaslighting, cognitive dissonance, and emotional manipulation, while delving into how empathy, attachment styles, and people pleasing behaviors contribute to codependency, trauma bonding, and emotional abuse, as hosts share real stories of betrayal, guilt, and heartbreak—all while guiding survivors through letting go of an ex, identifying red flags, reclaiming self worth and confidence, establishing boundaries, and rebuilding emotional safetyafter love bombing, manipulation, self doubt, and deep-rooted trauma.