85. Who Am I Now? How To Find Your Identity & Independence After A Narcissistic Relationship

Are you post-relationship realizing that you don’t even recognize yourself anymore?

When you’ve spent so long making someone else comfortable, shrinking your needs, and questioning your own preferences, it can feel like you’re drifting alone in open water—disconnected from who you are.

In this episode, we’re exploring what really happens when your sense of self slowly gets swallowed up inside a narcissistic relationship.

In this episode you will:

• Finally understand how you lost yourself in your narcissistic relationship
• Learn the hidden impact that finding yourself has on who you choose next
• Know the next step to take today to begin to rebuild your identity & sense of self

If you’re standing in the wreckage of what once was, unsure of how to rebuild—you’re not alone.

QUICK LINKS MENTIONED IN EPISODE:

• Find Yourself Again - self-guided course: https://tinyurl.com/fya-htwshownotes (Use PODCAST10 at checkout for 10% off)

RESOURCES FOR YOUR HEALING:

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• Learn how to communicate your feelings (without feeling guilty)
• Navigate triggering moments without shutting down
• Feel secure on your own so you aren’t jumping into the wrong relationship
• Expand your capacity to hold next-level love while remaining true to you

🫶🏻 FIND YOURSELF AGAIN Self-guided course to help you rediscover your needs and identity after years of focusing on others first

• https://tinyurl.com/fya-htwshownotes (Use PODCAST10 at checkout for 10% off)

In this gripping podcast, listeners explore the complex dynamics of toxic relationships, unpacking themes like narcissistic abuse, gaslighting, cognitive dissonance, and emotional manipulation, while delving into how empathy, attachment styles, and people pleasing behaviors contribute to codependency, trauma bonding, and emotional abuse. The host and guests share real stories of betrayal, guilt, and heartbreak—all while guiding survivors through letting go of an ex, identifying red flags, reclaiming self worth and confidence, establishing boundaries, and rebuilding emotional safety after love bombing, manipulation, self doubt, and deep-rooted trauma.