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July 9, 2025 19 mins

Does it ever confuse you that the most toxic relationship you’ve had also gave you the most intense, unforgettable sex of your life?

If you’ve felt torn between missing that high and knowing it wasn’t healthy, you’re not alone. This episode unpacks why that sexual connection felt so powerful—and how scary that level of manipulation can be.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

  • Why the most intoxicating sex of your life wasn’t really about love
  • How your body kept you hooked even when your heart knew better
  • Why safe, connected sex can actually be more mind-blowing

Tune in now to finally understand why the connection felt so strong—and how to begin healing so you can reclaim sex, safety, and your sense of self

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  • Learn how to communicate your feelings (without feeling guilty)
  • Navigate triggering moments without shutting down
  • Feel secure on your own so you aren’t jumping into the wrong relationship
  • Expand your capacity to hold next-level love while remaining true to you

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In this gripping podcast, listeners explore the complex dynamics of toxic relationships, unpacking themes like narcissistic abuse, gaslighting, cognitive dissonance, and emotional manipulation, while delving into how empathy, attachment styles, and people pleasing behaviors contribute to codependency, trauma bonding, and emotional abuse. The host and guests share real stories of betrayal, guilt, and heartbreak—all while guiding survivors through letting go of an ex, identifying red flags, reclaiming self worth and confidence, establishing boundaries, and rebuilding emotional safety after love bombing, manipulation, self doubt, and deep-rooted trauma.

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