In today’s episode of Here Comes Sunshine, I’m talking about one of the most damaging forces in any relationship: contempt.
You’ll hear how it shows up, why the Gottman Institute calls it the number one predictor of divorce, and how to recognize it in your own life. I also share a personal story of what contempt looked like in my past relationship, and how I found the strength to walk away.
I reference a powerful video clip from Diary of a CEO and break down how to move from toxic dynamics into a healing, honest connection.
Whether you’re the one experiencing contempt or noticing you’re dishing it out, there are real steps you can take to create change. This one is raw, real, and important.
Email: Sarah@initmateconsciousness.com
Coaching & Resources: https://stan.store/the_sarah_valentine
Popular Podcasts
Stuff You Should Know
If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.
Dateline NBC
Current and classic episodes, featuring compelling true-crime mysteries, powerful documentaries and in-depth investigations. Special Summer Offer: Exclusively on Apple Podcasts, try our Dateline Premium subscription completely free for one month! With Dateline Premium, you get every episode ad-free plus exclusive bonus content.
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace. I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!