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August 27, 2025 41 mins

Healthy conflict isn’t something to avoid—it’s something to grow through. On this episode, Dr. Jim Burns is joined by Haven Weits, host of the podcast Haven! and co-leader of the couples’ e-course Pillow Talk. She vulnerably shares how her parents’ divorce shook her the same year she got married, and how it fueled her passion to help couples build marriages that last. Together with her husband and a marriage counselor, she created Pillow Talk to guide couples into meaningful conversations that reconnect them. Haven unpacks what she’s learned about healthy conflict, from slowing down in moments of defensiveness to communicating in a way that brings couples closer instead of driving them apart. As she puts it, “The cure to defensiveness is finding the truth of what they’re saying.”

Haven’s website: https://www.havenpod.com/
Haven!
Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/haven/id1687181933

PillowTalk: https://www.joinpillowtalk.com/  
Haven on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/haventhepodcast/
Haven Podcast on YouTube:
https://www.youtube.com/@haventhepodcast
Haven Podcast on TicTok:
https://www.tiktok.com/@haventhepodcast
And Baby Makes Three by Drs. John and Julie Gottman: https://a.co/d/0ldMSzS
HomeWord Website:
https://homeword.com/

HomeWord YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@homeword

Jim Burns’ Blog: https://homeword.com/jims-blog/

HomeWord+ Online Courses: https://homeword.com/homeword-plus/

Leave a Message for HomeWord: 949-485-3905

Have a question you want Jim to answer? Email us! info@homeword.com
Embracing Your Season Podcast with Paige Clingenpeel: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2271776 

Order Jim’s Books:

Doing Life With Your Adult Children

https://homeword.com/product/dlwac-book/ 

Understanding Your Teen: Shaping Their Character, Facing Their Realities

https://homeword.com/product/understanding-your-teen/ 

A Student’s Guide to Sexual Integrity: God’s Plan for Sex and Your Body

https://homeword.com/product/students-guide-to-sexual-integrity-gods-plan-for-sex-and-your-body/ 

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#HomeWord #JimBurns #HavenWeits #HavenPodcast #PillowTalk #Marriage #Husband #Wife #Faith #Podcast #PodcastCommunity #PFCAudioVideo 


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