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May 20, 2025 42 mins

Sharelle & Alexis are joined by W.A.G.S star Porsha Berto react Claresa Sheilds going absentee before a fight, and Rapper Bossman Dlow responds after trans influencer Timmy Bandsome claims he sent flirty DMs and offered hush money & much more!

10:33 - Claressa Shields abstinence before fight
36:52 - Bossman Dlow Allegations

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Get in my way, never out of my name.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
It's been like you one and the more one.

Speaker 3 (00:06):
Is gonna be.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
Baby, of course I make you can hit hit them
notes real good girl, gonna as soon as we get
or don't start.

Speaker 1 (00:16):
Let's have portion.

Speaker 2 (00:17):
We gotta do a walk and we gotta let the
people know. Let all the people know that my girl
picking sane.

Speaker 1 (00:23):
Yes she can no he hain't hit one, no start,
I'm not finna hit said baby. Y'all are not about
to play with me. Baby. You can go ahead.

Speaker 2 (00:43):
Guys, we are back with another episode of Humble Baddies. Yes,
girls around them back y'all miss me, you have the
like this side of my arm in the building.

Speaker 1 (00:56):
And we got our.

Speaker 2 (00:58):
Girl Poursia with I swear she'll get your guess was hungry?

Speaker 1 (01:02):
I told you my baby was downstairs crying. Oh you
can feel him. I know you can fill him.

Speaker 2 (01:08):
How baby, all that breast milk you pop? You still
got a freezer load full of it?

Speaker 1 (01:15):
Eating it eating cute humble body. Okay, baddy beandom mom.
I love it. I love it. Yes, we love this well. Girl.
I actually could not make it. Today.

Speaker 2 (01:35):
We got our girl Porsche and a Lexus in and
we got some tea to talk about today. You guys,
were you all ready to get into it? Well we should, y'all.
We gotta catch up. Char She happy to get to
the tea. I'm gonna know how my girls are doing.
I mean, we see we might be breaking the internet

(01:58):
over here with Porsche, you know, being a mom and breastfeeding,
you know, live I love this for us.

Speaker 1 (02:07):
This is who we are. Yeah yeah, yeah, yes.

Speaker 2 (02:14):
But speaking of being a mother, my second child graduated
high school.

Speaker 1 (02:22):
Yesterday. Congratulations on your gradual and my diploma.

Speaker 2 (02:26):
I'm very excited because all these nights of studying and
telling him to be you know, studious and clean your
room and be on time for school and not be
absent and all these things as far as rearing them
and getting them ready for the real world, we made it.

Speaker 1 (02:45):
You know what I'm saying. It takes it.

Speaker 2 (02:47):
It's a team effort and village and my aunt and
uncle are in town. They came from Saint Louis, Missouri
and came into I mean, just celebrating all the family.
I love that they still live stream graduation so everyone
that couldn't make it is able to see it live
and cheer have their their watch parties and all of

(03:08):
that too, So it was just a beautiful day.

Speaker 1 (03:10):
We gave him his car.

Speaker 2 (03:11):
He has a car for a graduation, the book for
a couple of years. So that was the agreement. We
get a diploma, you get a car. So he is
now in the streets. So y'all get sent out an
extra prayer for me. You know, it's not even too
out there now driving.

Speaker 1 (03:28):
Is he thinking with his car?

Speaker 2 (03:31):
You mean like almost like now you want to be
cleaning there and all this kind of stuff, like like
the type of car he wanted and he was domating,
like I went and this type of car. Well he
was like, this is the car wanted and he's been
consistent with it. It hasn't changed and it's his dream car,
you know, and what as it is.

Speaker 1 (03:51):
I mean, mar graduation, Can you all adopt me? I
know right.

Speaker 2 (03:57):
Ago, I'm halfway there, but you know, after those cars
come trickling. So now my my my driveway is like
a parking lot, you know.

Speaker 1 (04:05):
We it's litt over here, you know what I mean.

Speaker 2 (04:08):
I know it's just taking off another pressure for me
because now.

Speaker 4 (04:12):
My daughter is here, my son is driving like they
have their own lives and I can't image.

Speaker 2 (04:18):
Yeah, yeah, so I'm excited. It's just was a beautiful weekend.
What about that's amazing?

Speaker 1 (04:24):
Well, I have. It's been crazy for me.

Speaker 2 (04:27):
I've been traveling and getting rented all My family is
coming in tomorrow.

Speaker 1 (04:32):
My daughter graduates on Thursday.

Speaker 2 (04:34):
Yes, okay, Ari, Yes, So she's made up her decision.

Speaker 1 (04:40):
She's going to go to.

Speaker 2 (04:44):
Don't roll your eyes, b B still in this indecisive
I don't know. It's between Alabama and m And that's
what How did you for her to go to Alabama.

Speaker 1 (04:55):
And M Yeah, the Bulldogs, the Bulldoug.

Speaker 2 (05:01):
But uh yeah, she's she's a baby. She's at home
relaxing until until you know, graduation. But she's been a
big yelp for taking them on to his baseball practice.
You know, I got her car for Christmas. She was
making good gradings and I promised her that, you know,
you continue on, you can get her little dream.

Speaker 1 (05:20):
Car with the Tesla. So she was that.

Speaker 2 (05:22):
But it's helpful, so helpful because when you need Aaron's run. Listen,
all right, y'all go get here and I'll be like,
do you want me to say to your car? You's
like the half of my phone. I stop it.

Speaker 1 (05:36):
That's right, I love it. I love it. But grown
graduate didn't turn ten tomorrow.

Speaker 2 (05:47):
We had celebrated his birthday party yesterday and it's just
been going summertime. It's about to start. Other bonus congratulations
to her. She graduated early. From my review, I watch
it live, so shout out to shade, shout.

Speaker 4 (06:08):
Out, shout out to my legacy. My girl finished kindergarten.
She had rubs, have graduation or whatever. She stepped across
the stage. About that, mom, you know what in the
first grade. I mean, you know, I don't know.

Speaker 2 (06:24):
I don't really know how I'm supposed to feel about it,
because I'm like, it's fun watching her grow up because
she kind of wants to be just like me, and
she wants to.

Speaker 4 (06:32):
Put on makeup and do what mommy does and go
where mommy goes.

Speaker 1 (06:36):
So it's cute. But it's also just like, girl, relax,
like you just got here. Why are you growing up?
They grow up so free to do it so fast,
you know what. Yeah, it's like you.

Speaker 2 (06:47):
It's beautiful of cherities moments though, because all these milestones.
We work so hard as parents, and these children work
so much they're working hard too, and all we want
to do is parents is enhanced the next generation, and
we're doing that. And I want to applaud you all
because we're doing it.

Speaker 1 (07:06):
Ladies.

Speaker 2 (07:06):
You know they are easy, you know, you see we
got a multitask. We are we're we're doing so much
and our place are full. But at the same time, yes,
see the benefit. The baby's happy, now, the baby's good.
You know, these are all benefits, beautiful benefits of being
a mother.

Speaker 1 (07:25):
So you are shout out to our babies graduating. I
love it for us, all the graduations. Yeah, a lot.
It's a lot going on in its bay it is,
and it's good.

Speaker 2 (07:36):
It's good to have the family around and cheer on
and congratulate and just have that energy leading into summer.

Speaker 1 (07:43):
You know, it's like the finale, you know what I mean,
Like we made it.

Speaker 2 (07:46):
Everybody, Like we're getting up early in the morning and
it's a lot. You know, it's a lot with these schedules.
But you know what, I am so happy school is
about to be over. I'm tired of waking up six
o'clock in the morning.

Speaker 1 (08:00):
It's a lot. Your kids don't get brolly in the morning.

Speaker 4 (08:02):
During the summer because my' going to be up regardless
in my head what I sleep.

Speaker 1 (08:09):
They hate everything. They'll sleep in, especially because they don't
play the sports. Serenity just Serenity is sleeping regardless. She
acting like she has a double shift job.

Speaker 2 (08:19):
She's taking along doub she sleep, She go back to sleep,
her behind sleeping, wake up at like nine thirty ten,
and then she take her nap around six o'clock. She
probably wake up around She'll be waking up soon. But thanks,
they're sleeping over here. Pull your hands crazy and everybody

(08:47):
in my life child just okay, everybody in my life
is shuck.

Speaker 1 (08:51):
But she're the main childish one. I love it. I
am more worship you, the rain leader.

Speaker 2 (08:56):
You have a good time, play a lot, play your lot.

Speaker 3 (09:02):
You know.

Speaker 1 (09:04):
It's all good. And so because the tea is hot,
the tea is portia.

Speaker 2 (09:08):
I wanted to hear your advice on how you would
feel about it because you experienced this. Let's talk about
our girl, Clarissa's shills on no sex for six weeks
before a fight. So when it comes to prepare for
a fight, every athlete has their rituals, but Clarissa shills
the undisputed Queen of boxing just dropped the gym that

(09:32):
had fans raising eyebrows and not in respect and a
recent interview, Clarissa said she does doesn't have sex for
six weeks before a fight, not for superstitious reasons, but because,
and I quote, I release it in the ring period, okay,
the build up Okay.

Speaker 1 (09:54):
But I have heard this a lot.

Speaker 2 (09:55):
I mean when when my ex was prepared for his fight,
I mean it was it was no sex. I feel
like somebody created that, that whole thing and made it
seem like it was. It is what it is like
if you, oh, if you have sex before you fight,
then you're gonna lose your fight. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (10:16):
No, that's a real thing. You have to say medically.
I'm sure you study fights. It works for some people.

Speaker 4 (10:26):
Some there are some fighters who throughout camp they will
have sex and it doesn't They feel like it doesn't
affect them, it doesn't bother them, it doesn't whatever. There's
other fighters who are very strict about it, who they
will go to full And she's doing a six week
camp because she fights often for fighters who don't fight
as often as she does, which is literally everyone. They
have eight, ten, twelve, week camps usually eight to ten weeks,

(10:50):
and they don't have sex during that time because again,
like you said, you know, scientifically, it's about the testosteron,
it's about the release.

Speaker 1 (10:57):
And fighters will tell you like, yeah, I.

Speaker 2 (10:59):
Was, I was going to go far in the gym
and I had sex, you know before I went to
the gym, and I had no legs.

Speaker 1 (11:04):
It's kind of like no legs, like it's it's something
I don't know what, but.

Speaker 4 (11:13):
The legs will give out on them after they they
bust that quick one, like they will go to the
gym and it will be So you know, Andre and
I we didn't for for most of camp. Like he
goes away for camp. So if you went to camp today,
he'd go to Vegas, he'd go to Oakland. He's not
going to be here anywhere near me. When we first

(11:33):
started dating, he was doing.

Speaker 1 (11:36):
You might break it. Distraction. It's absolutely a distraction and
everything else too. You want to lock in for sure.

Speaker 4 (11:45):
When I was in Tampa and he was doing camps
in Winterhaven, his camp like his you know, his his
cousins is everybody around him was very much like okay,
away from her. She can't come shout out to Polk County.
I was in I was in the science lie in
a Polk County an hour on the road and I
woke up like in the middle of night, just a
wee can duck off and do a little something.

Speaker 2 (12:06):
In the car and not finish, you know what I mean.
The finishing the problem.

Speaker 1 (12:15):
The release.

Speaker 2 (12:16):
It's the release that's the problem. And we would play
them games up until like week four. Once they got
to like week four, it was nothing. Then it was like, okay, girl,
now you gotta relax. Now we got to relax because
he's it's serious, you know what I mean, gott to
lock in.

Speaker 4 (12:32):
But like now, like if he goes to camp now,
it'd be eight weeks and it'd be it'd be nothing.

Speaker 1 (12:37):
It'd be two months, three months, nothing, nothing at all. Nothing.

Speaker 2 (12:41):
I feel like basketball, what is different just because it's
just so many games.

Speaker 1 (12:46):
I mean, I think it's.

Speaker 2 (12:47):
And it's also per person, you know, whatever your whatever
your routine is, whether it is like a meal, a nap,
a coffee and whatever. You know, don't know if it's
like you know, it's per athlete to their mental, their
emotional as well.

Speaker 1 (13:06):
You know, you can't you really can't wait.

Speaker 2 (13:08):
Basketball football or boxing is very intense and you're in
the ring for minutes in rounds. So like with other
other sports, other sports, it's a team effect, so you
have time to take a break. I mean with boxing,
I understand why people say don't do it, and I

(13:29):
don't know, just an athlete.

Speaker 1 (13:32):
It's the athlete. It's an athlete mentality.

Speaker 2 (13:41):
Whatever makes you weak or whatever makes you not focused
or not be competitive and be at your peak level,
you're gonna withdraw from. You're gonna you know, that's the
discipline of being an athlete. Like I know what my
body needs, I know when my body hurts, and I
know what hurts my body, and if I want to
be the best, and you know, being competitive, you want
to win. So if I think this is a weakness

(14:03):
or it's been told it's a weakness, and medically it's
been a weakness, and my trainers and it's embedded in
your energy of like I'm not playing around because I
want to be the best, and I'm gonna let them know.
Now you get to the point where you even have
like again, that's why, like let me just put this
out there.

Speaker 1 (14:19):
Like smoking, for example, was lifted. You know what I mean.

Speaker 2 (14:24):
In certain sports because it's not affecting performance.

Speaker 1 (14:29):
It must be. If a whole league, one of the.

Speaker 2 (14:32):
Top businesses in the world is saying it doesn't affect play,
then you know, go for it.

Speaker 1 (14:38):
But that's per player.

Speaker 2 (14:40):
So I just think it goes off of also, like
you know, what gets them to lock in and what
they also feel comfortable with because they want to be
their best.

Speaker 1 (14:48):
I feel like with boxing that that aggression is just
it's just more necessary than it is in all those
other sports, Like you need that aggression, which is very
interesting because I feel like when women don't have sex
for for a while.

Speaker 4 (15:02):
Do we get that because I know it's the testosterone
build up for the men.

Speaker 1 (15:07):
You don't see you beat angry, but I don't think.

Speaker 2 (15:11):
I might be irritable, but it's being a ass, you
know what I mean. Like, I don't think it's doing
enough of that for me to where I'm really finna
beat the bitch of me either. I mean, I should
never know, like all the aggression you have and you
need to release, you releasing it out on and it's

(15:31):
not like she's angry, but she's releasing it.

Speaker 1 (15:34):
It's like a it feels good, it's a pleasant.

Speaker 2 (15:39):
To take it out. So it's not like she, oh,
you know, I'm about to beat this fu jeers because
they had no six and it's only and it's only
six weeks girl, you know, like it's only only six weeks.

Speaker 1 (15:50):
It's only woman.

Speaker 4 (15:52):
It's not the same as six weeks to a man.
Six weeks to a man is like, but I'm about
to die. To a woman is like, oh, man, I
had sex and six weeks and then you that's what
about yours? That's what the standard is post having a baby. Anyway,
it's like six weeks. I don't follow that anyway. I'm

(16:12):
setting to push.

Speaker 1 (16:13):
You to eight. I'll get what y'all followed the six
week standard. That eight week standard.

Speaker 5 (16:19):
Yes, yes, cycle Buddy wants to right up in there
after that, after all of that chaos and all of this,
oh retracts bad, Like we know that.

Speaker 1 (16:34):
It's not about the retracting. It's about the trauma. Oh,
the trauma. Yeah, the post from the trauma.

Speaker 2 (16:41):
God, after four, after three and a half weeks, don't
nobody still be thinking about what came up out of there?

Speaker 1 (16:47):
Three? Instead? I want we did not recommend this.

Speaker 2 (16:53):
Three.

Speaker 1 (16:54):
I do not. I am not the old one who
didn't wait the foot No, we know you're not the
only one, but the only one out of those three.
How long did you wait? Three and a half weeks?
You're in that and I was, can I stop bleeding?
You're sure you're still and you're still healing? That's too much,

(17:19):
so much. That's me. That's okay, shut round, that's me.
I said all the time. I always forget where you
think about me. That came from.

Speaker 2 (17:36):
Let me tell you now, I'm not gonna say where
it came from.

Speaker 4 (17:41):
That was because we was we were somewhere.

Speaker 1 (17:45):
You told we were in Ashley's backyard. It was a backyard.
I'm gonna say it. Something out of pocket, yes, balloon.

Speaker 2 (17:55):
And Alexis said, shut und yes, yes, that's funny because
you said something like, oh I don't know now this
is confidential information. Camera will talk about it.

Speaker 1 (18:11):
I'm gonna say what you said. But it was funny.

Speaker 2 (18:13):
But Alexis Brown, it was the blown exercise bro I hollered,
I'm still.

Speaker 1 (18:21):
Yeah, I am dying.

Speaker 2 (18:23):
Okay, Yeah, I had I had un Lett Charrell know
it like a cat made a titanium talking about.

Speaker 1 (18:29):
Three weeks, what is that three and.

Speaker 2 (18:32):
A half you know they called me, they call me
woohring because I hear so fast.

Speaker 3 (18:39):
Okay, okay, okay, that's sorry, okay.

Speaker 1 (18:50):
So fast, Oh gir that's not so.

Speaker 2 (18:57):
Yeah, sure you gotta hear them.

Speaker 1 (19:00):
The debt deserves it.

Speaker 2 (19:03):
I mean like if I get a scar or yeah sure,
yeah yeah anyway anyway, so yes, that ain't have shown
that for most people's SAX does the impact. That's to
go performance and a negative white as long as it's
not right before competition. And we're talking like within two

(19:24):
hours of game time. Oh yeah, okay, so two hours
more for boxing. I feel like maybe a few days before.
I'm not getting anywhere near him. It's so funny.

Speaker 4 (19:37):
Sometimes we watch all boxing fights and we see like
the walkout, so we see the arrivals of the fighters
and they're with their wives and their kids and stuff.

Speaker 1 (19:46):
Andre's just sitting there shaking his head like, oh.

Speaker 2 (19:48):
He gonna lose because he just yah distracted, Like, you
can't have nothing softer.

Speaker 4 (19:53):
You can't have nothing around you that makes you soft.
You can't have nothing around you that makes you like.

Speaker 2 (19:58):
Oh, you can't have your kids, you can't have your
lady around you, nothing soft around you.

Speaker 4 (20:04):
He just feels like you just gotta go in, just
deprived of anything comfortable. Comfort has to leave the world
before you go fighting. He will see these men walk
into the locker room on their lady hand and he'd
be like, what is he do? I understand that it's a.

Speaker 2 (20:22):
Curse struggle, the best wine struggle, the most in the ruggish,
you know, the soil coming through. You gotta go, come
on analogy that's out of my.

Speaker 1 (20:35):
Wine, out of my line. You know some stuff.

Speaker 2 (20:40):
Get you a bottle, all right, you gouts So claracious
Shills cuts off set six weeks before a fight. But
she's not alone in the world of the incense and
sometimes bizarre pregame rituals. Let's ride through some of the
wildest athlete habits we can find. So this is like

(21:00):
a rapid fire style. So I'm gonna give a scenario
and y'all say whether it's you know, a ritual, like okay,
I understand it or not, even're not carried away. Michael
Jordan wore his unc shorts under every Chicago Bulls uniform
for his entire career.

Speaker 1 (21:20):
Call it superstition or style. Either way, they were lucky.
I did it. You understand. I did it, did the
same thing.

Speaker 2 (21:32):
Serena Williams bounces the ball exactly five times before her
first serve, and she has to bring the same shower
shower sandals to every tournament. Yes, o CD, Yes, repetition
Wave Vos Hall of Fame baseball player at eight chicken

(21:52):
before every game, literally every game. Teammates called him the
chicken man muscle memory.

Speaker 1 (22:02):
That man is greedy.

Speaker 2 (22:05):
No, I don't know if I'm gonna say his last
name right, but Brian er Lacher or Lacker or Lacker.
You watch free runs of Golden Girls the night before games.

Speaker 1 (22:19):
Nothing like Benny White to get your game face on.

Speaker 4 (22:24):
I understand this, and I'm gonna say, why tell me
heard the concept of like people watching comfort shows.

Speaker 1 (22:32):
It's like shows that you've seen.

Speaker 2 (22:33):
You know every episode, you know everything's gonna happen, but
you all watch it and you play.

Speaker 1 (22:38):
It's like background noise. It comforts you.

Speaker 2 (22:40):
Like so if you have anxiety like before, and you
watch something that's familiar, it calms you down because it's
like triggering, triggering a memory of like I like this,
I know what expect familiar.

Speaker 1 (22:55):
I'm only saying this because I have comfort shows.

Speaker 4 (22:57):
But when I'm stressed, I put on Gray's Anatomy and
of Queens and Living Single.

Speaker 1 (23:02):
I have comfort shows.

Speaker 2 (23:04):
So I wonder if I'm doing it subconsciously, like I'm
always like putting on Martin, Oh My Goodness to get
shop at nighttime, I have to watch Martin.

Speaker 1 (23:17):
There it go. Why because you're like to calm down
so you can go to sleep. It's comfort and it
gets our minds off of everything else. Because I'm sure
we've seen it fifty they can say watch over and over, yes,
and it's still funny, all right.

Speaker 2 (23:37):
Tiger was always wore a red short on Sundays why.

Speaker 1 (23:41):
His mom told him red was his power color, and
it is.

Speaker 2 (23:48):
I mean, I guess red is a power color, you know,
and it became a signature. It made him the highest
paid golfer, you know, endorsement wise, and and also the
most recognizable. I mean, I started liking golf because of
Tiger Woods, So.

Speaker 1 (24:05):
We feel that read But if he was red, get it? Yeah,
I love it? Yeah, stand out.

Speaker 2 (24:13):
Jason Terry used to sleep in the shorts of the
opposing team the night before a game. Talk about getting it,
getting in your enemy's head, or maybe just their laundry.

Speaker 1 (24:23):
It's giving fetish. She's nassy. It's even weird. Now that's.

Speaker 2 (24:31):
That's a lot of laundry and a lot of shorts,
like to collect all the teams and just remember to pack.

Speaker 1 (24:38):
It by some extra stuff.

Speaker 2 (24:39):
That's weird is that's like more effort than the game
and feels like right a lot. Rafael Nadal, I don't
know if I'm saying the name right. Man's got a
whole routine. Two water bottles angle just right, towel touches,
even how he processed lines on the core.

Speaker 1 (25:00):
It's a ritual ballet.

Speaker 4 (25:04):
This is why men need therapy, because they would be
diagnosed more. These people have OCD. Okay, yeah, these are
some weird ones. Some of this is just a little OCD,
just a little touch angle.

Speaker 2 (25:17):
Every single one you've named or was like topping their
sports to the at some.

Speaker 1 (25:21):
Point, water bottles angle just right. Interesting. I feel like
we could diagnose that and and tennis.

Speaker 2 (25:30):
Tennis is an individual sports, so he has to lock.

Speaker 1 (25:33):
In and do this. You know, the powers what they have.

Speaker 2 (25:37):
The two water bottles angle just right, and the tower
was touching his peace.

Speaker 1 (25:41):
Of mind, his comfort.

Speaker 2 (25:45):
I guess the point is athletes who will do whatever
it takes to feel locked in, whether it's no sex,
Fried Chicken or Grandma sitcoms. If it works, it works
all right. That's what I was gonna say. It's working,
so do that. That's what I'm saying that every single one.
If Serena, you know, she's the goat, so he's working.

(26:07):
He's wearing them flip flops.

Speaker 1 (26:08):
Baby, that's true, Ni Gene.

Speaker 2 (26:13):
Did y'all play sports, Yes, y'ah. Any rituals or anything
that y'all did that would stereotypes or whatever it was.

Speaker 1 (26:30):
Before I went on stage, I used to have to
have a pepsi. We'll drive the pepsi. Let us see
you act like you're on stage right now. They hit
it one little note. First of all, I'm not allowed
to have pepsi anymore because my husband says it's bad
for me, and.

Speaker 2 (26:48):
It's he took away my guilty pleasure and it is
bad for me.

Speaker 1 (26:52):
He's it's so it is so good.

Speaker 2 (26:57):
Little caps every now and then you get that didn't burt,
you know, when you drank the first little swig of
it and then that burke come out and it's less
all you need.

Speaker 1 (27:07):
Yes, that's all I.

Speaker 2 (27:08):
Need, and I'd be like okay, because when we met,
I used to drink them all the time, like all
the time.

Speaker 4 (27:14):
My daddy used to work for Pepsi. He worked for
Pepsi for thirty years. So like my entire life was
just pepsi, pepsi. I have pictures and this is so embarrassing,
and this is no shade to my mam and them,
but I have pictures of me with like what they
called water down pepsi in my bottle.

Speaker 1 (27:36):
They indoctrinated me, they like, that's pepsi.

Speaker 2 (27:44):
I was really on that oil you've had, You had
seventeeth in front of you found to drinks stove teeth.

Speaker 1 (27:51):
Then I should have had foe, I should.

Speaker 2 (27:54):
Have had You know, you can tell a bad little
kid when they got.

Speaker 1 (28:01):
All the time, I thought.

Speaker 2 (28:02):
About bottom full of paps, break shit and eat sugar.

Speaker 4 (28:07):
That's alas Yeah, So no I'm not allowed to. So no,
I'm not going to drink of pepsi. The band in
my household.

Speaker 1 (28:17):
I what did I do?

Speaker 2 (28:19):
So in high school it was I just wasn't into
I didn't have any vices like you know, alcohol or
any of that. And I would sleep a lot I
ate bad. But the only thing I could think of
is I had this little tigger when I would run track,
and since it was an individual sport, it was just

(28:39):
caught my nerves a little bit. So I just kept
it with me for that. So I think that was
like a little tigger. It was so cute. A little
of that.

Speaker 1 (28:48):
And then the only thing I could.

Speaker 2 (28:50):
Another thing I could think of was it wasn't really
a ritual, but I got used to it. And then
it was when I was running the marathon in New York.
I would train with music and so I started getting
like my playlist down and all of that, and that
would get me through my running for training. And then

(29:11):
the day of the marathon, I was everything was charged up,
I was ready to go, and I started listening to
the music. But then it was so much energy around
with all the people that were running and then everyone
that's in the city and cheering.

Speaker 1 (29:24):
For you and bands and all of this.

Speaker 2 (29:26):
So I ended up not even running the marathon with
my music, which I had trained so was a pleasant surprise.
I still made it, but like totally thought I was
dependent on this and ended up, you know, completing it.
For basketball, I didn't have anything. But for track, it

(29:49):
was kind of like your and split hour. So I
was a four hundred runner, yes, and right when the
dune go off, I would start saying my ABC's every
time I ran it formerly, and.

Speaker 1 (30:03):
It basically timy.

Speaker 2 (30:04):
It paced me where I was at each time, So
like if I get to Jay and I'm at a
certain amount and I'm not where I need to be,
then I know, but it also would keep me from
getting tied because I'm thinking about how to beat my
pr Yeah. Yeah, and you don't want to jump that
trigger that that gun either, you know, like that used
to scare me when you're coming out the blocks.

Speaker 1 (30:29):
I get those nerves. I still think about it still
to this day. We went we were you know how,
we were.

Speaker 2 (30:37):
Supposed to be number one at state for the four
bout one and I was in ninth grade. I was
the first legged, and I jumped the gun because I
was so scared because I was running with all varsity
and I was like, oh, and we were projected to
be number one, beat state record and everything, and it
was so much pressure on me and I was so
scared and I jumped the gun.

Speaker 1 (31:00):
And they still talk about this crap to this day,
Like if.

Speaker 2 (31:05):
I'm running to one of them, they're like, dang, man,
I remember when you jumped the gun.

Speaker 1 (31:09):
You lost us, you made us a little state. So
it's crazy. So I'm just terrified every time I knew
about jonk Nevi again, did I jump the gun?

Speaker 2 (31:18):
That's interesting, Charrelle, because it's like I have I have
those those triggers from back in the day too that
I still think about to this day, like you said,
because I'm like, I mean, I didn't ever jump the gun,
but like it's just you don't you think about all
these things when you're down in those blocks and you
just it's so much pressure in track. You have so

(31:40):
many fans from different schools, you out there talking stuff.

Speaker 1 (31:43):
It's co ed.

Speaker 2 (31:44):
It's a lot of energy out there. You know, you
want to show off, you want to beat people like
it's it's it's a public event, low key.

Speaker 1 (31:51):
You know what I'm saying. It's talk is mess. So
I get a Charrelle, that pressure. It was crazy. Yeah, yeah,
with my friend.

Speaker 2 (32:01):
A s traumatized. Every time I go to track meet
some traumatized and.

Speaker 1 (32:08):
That's was awful.

Speaker 2 (32:09):
But what in Jesus you gotta crush, you know, what
I'm saying. You want to just you want to beat
the girl next to you. Everything crazy? All right, let's
get into it, y'all. With the speculation with boss Man
deal where you say his name boss that is like,

(32:35):
yes's gonna take the leader on this one. Guess would
be Reggaeton. No, I ain't about no.

Speaker 1 (32:45):
Yeah, let me let me hear the district I go
straight to gallery. Okay, I do that. I've heard it.

Speaker 2 (32:56):
Yes see, way off, all right, you guys less get
into the timeline has been on fire every since allegation
drops dropped about boss Man Dilo allegedly messing with the
transgender woman and the reactions, baby is some mixed chaos.
They going crazy on Twitter. They may go on crazy

(33:18):
this whole weekend. I was like, what's going on? I
was being nosy going to the person's page and they's
just running their mouth. What when we say the timeline
folded like a lunch chair, we mean that some people
are out here acting like he called a felony charge
just for who he might have slept with. Let's be clear,

(33:41):
nobody even confirmed anything yet. He hasn't said anything, but
he's basically saying like throwing shots out there like basically,
I'm a real white and if I catch you, blah
blah blah blah blah. And he just posted that to day.
I'm being nosy, y'all, bese I'm watching. So basically what
happened was allegedly the transgender genditor posted screenshots. So Boss

(34:09):
Mandy lost sliding into his her her DMS and it's
just a question mark. And I guess they had changed
numbers and they started communicating, and I guess she got
mad and because he told her to fly out to
Orlando and he didn't offer to pay for it. He

(34:30):
wasn't giving her no money, and that from the messages,
it was like, dang, why everything got to be about money?

Speaker 1 (34:36):
We can't just kick it.

Speaker 2 (34:37):
On cool viobs blah blah blah blah blah. So you know,
oh girl bought her money. She's like, you ain't about
to play me like that. I'm about to expose you.
So she went on this whole little ram take h
on the over the weekend and just started springshining all
their messages. Now the fans, I'm like, how you supposed
to be rapping about this and rapping about that, and

(34:58):
you messing with a transgender Hm hmm. Wait, so they
did meet up or they did not even meet up,
They didn't meet up, they were I don't They didn't
say that they met up.

Speaker 1 (35:07):
They was just communicating they were planning to meet up. Okay,
And is it known that this that that she is
transgender on her page? Yeah, she is a hope. Okay,
I have Yeah, you gotta look at it. The baby

(35:29):
she got. So now there's my question.

Speaker 2 (35:34):
Uh huh, she's very apparently she's very popular too, but
she's I don't think she's you know, did any changes
with her her body? She may have enhanced her booty,
but everything else is still the same.

Speaker 1 (35:51):
What were you gonna say? Por you said your question
was what my question was?

Speaker 2 (35:56):
Your question was does everybody know that she's tread So
he knew? Yes, I mean, you can look at it.
And one of the messages is said something like that
because she said he knew I was a maid like
I was a transgender.

Speaker 1 (36:12):
Okay, so maybe.

Speaker 2 (36:15):
He's he's denying that he's I mean, is it just
a speculation thing or is it is it more like,
I mean, nothing happens and he's just he's not admitting
that he even talked to her, because to me, I
wouldn't have said anything.

Speaker 1 (36:31):
There's just power in silence.

Speaker 2 (36:33):
I don't think he said anything to her. He just
basically was was throwing up saying something like shut kind
of shutting it down. He didn't shut but he didn't
shut it down, just like kind of like keep my
name out of your.

Speaker 1 (36:46):
Mouth on the street. Whyian blah blah blah blah blah.

Speaker 2 (36:51):
My thing is I feel like in today's society, why
do first of all, like everyone, a lot of people
are curious, especially in that industry, And why do I
feel like, why do men get so much? It's so
much uproar roar. Oh, I can't even talk tonight, uproar

(37:14):
when a man is basically you know, it is exposed.

Speaker 1 (37:19):
But women it's like, it's okay, it's coool with it.

Speaker 2 (37:22):
Why is that? Well, we're definitely in an over sex
society in general. You know, whatever your profession is, especially
if you have status and wealth and notoriety your target regardless.
So at the end of the day, people have their
own preferences. What they do behind closed doors is really
none of our business. It becomes public when people are

(37:45):
screenshotting and running their mouths and doing all the excess
stuff for attention, you know, for cloud and everything like that.
So it makes it even harder just in general to
start trusting and really trying to get to know someone.

Speaker 1 (38:01):
So you have to be careful on the ground.

Speaker 2 (38:03):
You know, a lot of relationships have developed on the
ground or just social media in general, so it's a
way to meet people. You know, you could be in
your bed scrolling and running to someone's DM and connect
with them. So it just becomes messy when you know,
becomes public because technically we wouldn't even know. A DM
is a direct message between two people in your house,

(38:25):
in your car, wherever you are on your phone, So
you know.

Speaker 1 (38:30):
We didn't know about this.

Speaker 2 (38:31):
It is.

Speaker 1 (38:31):
We shouldn't really be knowing about it, and here we are.
I think the biggest thing is people put so much time.

Speaker 2 (38:38):
It's like you created a you call, you did a
felony or something like you you are judged so bad
because you choose to go with the same sex or
something that's.

Speaker 1 (38:50):
Not agree with that.

Speaker 4 (38:51):
You know, Yeah, before it wouldn't be weaponized, but because
these things are happening behind closes, then she felt like
she could weaponize it, and she did because the industry, Yes,
the industry is open to those ideas, but not for

(39:12):
black men, not for pop artists, not for.

Speaker 1 (39:16):
Whether you are a rapper or an athlete or famous.

Speaker 4 (39:20):
In any regard, even if you are a normal, everyday
working black person.

Speaker 1 (39:26):
It's still unacceptable, you know what I mean.

Speaker 4 (39:29):
As progressive as we like to think that we are
as a whole, we're just not, not really, you know
what I mean.

Speaker 1 (39:36):
So no, he shouldn't be, it shouldn't be all of
what it is, but it is.

Speaker 4 (39:44):
It is he you know, is presenting himself as a
straight man, and there's something to be said for a man,
you know what I mean, who wants to be with
another man that hasn't fully transitioned, Like I don't really
know the rules, but in our community, yeah, yeah, and

(40:04):
it's real hard to see to him between when it
comes to our black men, and that is just.

Speaker 1 (40:11):
That's it is what it is.

Speaker 3 (40:12):
And you.

Speaker 4 (40:15):
Know, he wasn't if that is the truth, and he
was trying to get at her, and that just happens
to be. His preference is a very silent preference, very
silent preference. So she weaponized it, and she knew the work,
and it did.

Speaker 2 (40:30):
But what tures me is like I normally don't expose people,
but I'm gonna expose him because you're exposing people. Stop
saying you don't expose people when that's what you're doing.
Now you're just want it for yourself because now ain't
nobody gonna know what to deal with you. Apparently she
had dealt with the other athletes, and she claims he's
the only one that she exposed. But the whole point

(40:53):
was because he was gonna fly her out but then
had her pay for it. No, he asked, Yeah, he
tell her she should pay for it. I guess he
wasn't coughing up money. That's what I got out of it.

Speaker 1 (41:07):
I think the people got to be careful. You got
to be careful, like serious.

Speaker 2 (41:13):
It's not to me, it's not serious enough. If you
were going to expose somebody, it certainly wouldn't be because
of that. You know, like that ain't enough to potentially
ruin someone's reputation and career.

Speaker 1 (41:28):
But come on, now, are you doing it here?

Speaker 2 (41:32):
Do you think that hip hop community is ready to
accept openly lgbt Q relationships?

Speaker 1 (41:38):
Why or why not? I mean, if you come out
that way. Yeah, yeah, that's what I feel.

Speaker 2 (41:44):
I was gonna say the thing for when when you
accept it and you speak your you tell your own story, yeah,
and it's.

Speaker 1 (41:51):
It's more acceptable.

Speaker 2 (41:53):
But when you live in this fake life, like you know,
you you like opposite sex and you're against all that then,
or and you rap about something that you ain't doing,
then of course people are gonna be all over you.

Speaker 4 (42:07):
I think we're long ways away, a long, long, long
ways away from that being something that is embraced in
our culture. I agree on that scale, you know, Yeah,
that's sure, Leva Daddy's calling
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