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September 29, 2021 69 mins

On today’s show, Chong and Dan begin with some special news (which explains why we're a bit late with this one). We then reflect a little bit more on the topic of slack, which really resonated with our listeners. From there, we delve into the practical matter of "knowing yourself" - how do you know how you are going? Dan and Chong discuss four sources of information:

  1. What your body tells you
  2. What your mind tells you
  3. What your conscience tells you
  4. What others tell you


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Show notes

We’re back! (3:19)

  • Follow-up: thank you to our listeners for the Slack episode reception
  • Chong’s reflections on slack in the era of three kids


Knowing yourself (11:22)

  • General vibe in listener feedback and culture that we’re not going so well
  • How do you know how you are going?

There’s a Name for the Blah You’re Feeling: It’s Called Languishing

What your body tells you (17:05)

  • We are embodied beings - signals include tiredness, pain and hunger
  • Look after your own body, and show grace to the physical state of others


What your mind tells you (28:10)

  • What does your mind dwell on
  • Worry and anxiety - looking to the past (“if only”) and the future (“what if”)
  • The inner voice / core beliefs


What your conscience tells you (44:08)

  • Your moral sense of right or wrong
  • Like pain - don’t ignore your conscience, it might be telling you something important!


What others tell you (55:16)

  • Valuable because we can have our own blinders
  • Requires giving people permission and willingness to be vulnerable


Conclusion (1:03:32)

  • Stop hiding, stop running, stop covering up - be real with how you are going
  • It’s OK to not be OK
  • Honour your body
  • Don’t neglect your relationships (A faithful friend, who can find?)
  • Go deeper - what are your core beliefs?
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