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January 14, 2025 9 mins

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Are you in a relationship someone who doesn't seem to carry their weight? Ever found yourself wondering if the trade-offs in your relationship are worth it? Today we're unpacking some of the difficult decisions and dynamics of life with an under-functioning partner. 

Listen in to learn:

  • how to tell the difference between your needs & wants.
  • decision-making tips for knowing when to stay and go
  • new ways of finding a balance that works for your personal values and comfort levels

This episode will help you to get more clarity about whether or not to stay with someone who doesn't seem to make any real effort to live up to their own potential. Together, we'll explore when it works to accept a partner's limitations - and how to avoid being exhausted by them- and when the balance may be too far off to fix.

Throughout our discussion, you'll hear insights on crafting your own relationship rules, understanding that there's no one-size-fits-all blueprint for love. We'll talk about the necessity of recognizing your deal breakers and tapping into your own power within the dynamic. 
 
If our conversation resonates, consider sharing this episode with others who might benefit from it, helping spread the message of better love in long term relationships.

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This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if needed


All identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.


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Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?

Message me and let me know.


email april@lovelossproject.com

Instagram @with.love.april

https://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/


Please note:

This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if needed



All identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

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