0138 Female Led Relationships: Polyamory and Jealousy in FLRs

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I'm recording from camp this week, and this one is a full-blown Krystine-style coffee chat (minus the coffee).

Between massaging strangers and fending off my "adorable herd of children", I share the questions, themes, and emotional truths that came up during my time alone at her happy place: CAMP.

This episode dives into swinging dynamics, polyamory, boundaries, communication, and the gender double standards that still very much exist in lifestyle communities. I opens up about what it might look like if my subbie and I explored swinging, what I’d expect, what I wouldn't tolerate, and why emotional safety always comes before play.

I also get real about my own jealousy, evolving perspectives, and what it means to love my subbie so deeply that anything else would feel… off. This one’s raw, unscripted, and packed with the kinds of thoughts most people are too nervous to say out loud. But not me!

What You'll Walk Away With:

• Why every swinging couple has different boundaries (and that’s okay)
• What role communication and rules play in lifestyle relationships
• Whether gender should matter in swinging and poly situations
• Krystine’s reflections on polyamory, jealousy, and the power of love
• How our “programming” affects how we see kink and love

 Questions This Episode Helps Answer:

• What are common rules for couples who swing?
• How do boundaries work in the swinging lifestyle?
• Can you be polyamorous and in an FLR?
• Why is it okay for women to be with women, but not men with men?
• Is jealousy normal in open relationships?
• How do I support my partner exploring kink when I’m unsure?
• Are there Female-Led Relationships that include swinging or polyamory?

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