Have you ever looked at a confident woman and thought...
“How does she do it?”
“Why does it come so easily for her — and not for me?”
Here’s what no one tells you:
Confidence isn’t something you start with.
It’s something you build — one act of self-trust at a time.
And I had to learn that the hard way.
For years, I tied my confidence to things outside of me — relationships, job titles, other people’s opinions. But the truth? I didn’t need to be more confident.
I needed to start trusting myself.
In this episode, I take you behind the scenes of how I stopped outsourcing my safety — first in love, and now in business. I share the moment that cracked something open for me, how I rebuilt trust from the inside out, and the five steps I still come back to whenever self-doubt creeps in.
Chapters:
00:00 Why confidence doesn’t come first — and what we were never told about building it.
02:28 Self-Trust Over Confidence and Stop Outsourcing Your Safety
11:30 The Conversation That Changed My Life
13:51 Becoming the Woman You Keep Dreaming About
16:20 5 Steps to Rebuild Self-Trust (and Grow Your Confidence)
25:52 How to Plan With Real-Life in Mind (Not Hustle Culture)
33:04 Navigating Friendship Breakdowns as You Grow
37:28 How to Handle the “You’ve Changed” Comments
If you’ve been waiting to feel ready — to launch, to speak up, to show up — let this episode be your reminder:
You’re already her. You just need to start acting like it.
💌 DM me after the episode — I’d love to hear the one promise you’re making to yourself this week.
📧 Email: evelyn@legacybuildingmamas.com
📱 Instagram: @legacy_building_mummas
Because confidence is powerful…
But confidence built in sisterhood?
That’s where the magic is.
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