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July 1, 2025 42 mins

Have you ever looked at a confident woman and thought...
“How does she do it?”
“Why does it come so easily for her — and not for me?”

Here’s what no one tells you:
Confidence isn’t something you start with.
It’s something you build — one act of self-trust at a time. 

And I had to learn that the hard way.

For years, I tied my confidence to things outside of me — relationships, job titles, other people’s opinions. But the truth? I didn’t need to be more confident.
I needed to start trusting myself.

In this episode, I take you behind the scenes of how I stopped outsourcing my safety — first in love, and now in business. I share the moment that cracked something open for me, how I rebuilt trust from the inside out, and the five steps I still come back to whenever self-doubt creeps in.

Chapters:

00:00     Why confidence doesn’t come first — and what we were never told about building it.

02:28     Self-Trust Over Confidence and Stop Outsourcing Your Safety

11:30     The Conversation That Changed My Life

13:51     Becoming the Woman You Keep Dreaming About

16:20     5 Steps to Rebuild Self-Trust (and Grow Your Confidence)

25:52     How to Plan With Real-Life in Mind (Not Hustle Culture)

33:04     Navigating Friendship Breakdowns as You Grow

37:28     How to Handle the “You’ve Changed” Comments

If you’ve been waiting to feel ready — to launch, to speak up, to show up — let this episode be your reminder:

You’re already her. You just need to start acting like it.

💌 DM me after the episode — I’d love to hear the one promise you’re making to yourself this week.

📧 Email: evelyn@legacybuildingmamas.com

📱 Instagram: @legacy_building_mummas

Because confidence is powerful…
But confidence built in sisterhood?
That’s where the magic is.

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