In this episode we’re digging into the archives to bring you a conversation that originally aired live in our Let’s Talk Polyamory private Facebook group. Since Facebook now only stores live videos for 30 days, we’re working behind the scenes to download and share some of those gems here on the podcast.
In this episode, we dive into a question we hear all the time: How do I attract (and keep) better poly partners?
Whether you’re new to non-monogamy or have been dating for a while, this episode is full of insight, real stories, and practical tools. We talk about:
- How we might be perceived on dating apps when we list “non-monogamous” in our profile
- The (hilarious) story of our first date and what our initial reactions were
We also share how our Securely Polyamorous Framework—which we teach in our course and coaching program—applies directly to dating and the process of meeting and keeping great partners. We explore things like communication attunement, knowing what you want, setting personal boundaries, creating values-based agreements and nurturing connections that are built to last.
And if you’ve ever found yourself attracting people who aren’t a fit (or who vanish after a great first date), we talk about the unconscious ways that might be happening—and what you can do to shift it.
🎁 BONUS! This week, we’re sharing our Online Dating Guide which includes:✅ A list of our favourite dating sites for non-monogamous folks✅ Tips for writing a standout profile✅ An online dating checklist✅ Links to related trainings and podcasts👉Download it for free here: https://go.letstalkpolyamory.com/onlinedatingguide
💬 Want to connect with others who get it? Join our private Facebook group:🔗 https://www.facebook.com/groups/letstalkpolyamory
⚡️ Curious about working with us through coaching or therapy? Sign up for a Pay What You Can Coaching Call with Tara at:
🔗 https://go.taraandandre.com/pwyccoachingsession
✨You can also explore other ways to work with us as well as access other great resources at:🔗 https://www.taraandandre.com
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