Cam and Elle discuss when people share too much, too soon.
This conversation is inspired by David and Michelle, who were married as total strangers on the current season of Married At First Sight.
Right after they were married at the altar, David shared that he smoked cigarettes and lived in his parents’ basement, and Michelle caught a MAJOR ick and ran to the bathroom to cry.
We’ve seen this same thing happen on A LOT of first dates, where well-meaning people dump their past trauma or insecurities on their date out of anxiety… and they get ghosted on loop.
If you’ve ever thought “I’m going to put it all out there on the first date, they can take it or leave it” or “I don’t want to invest time in someone only for them to leave when they find out XYZ about me”... give this episode a listen.
And... BIG NEWS!
We're each launching positive dating communities for men and women to provide a lifeline to faith and good advice on your journey to love. (Who knows, we may even matchmake some folks!) We kick off in January 2025; sign ups found in the links below.
Thank you for listening. Feel free to DM us, we love hearing what resonated with you and may even feature your question or situation in an upcoming Q&A episode. 👀
Our communities:
✨ Elle’s dating community for women: https://stan.store/ellebeecher
✨ Cam’s dating community for men: https://stan.store/thecameronhogan
✨ Our free daily gratitude community to embrace “feel good” emotions: https://www.theboardwalks.com/great-morning
✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations: www.theboardwalks.com
More from us:
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✨ Elle’s twitter: https://x.com/ellebeecher
✨ Cam’s twitter: https://x.com/thecameronhogan
Who are these people? 👀
Cameron Hogan is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100 newsletters in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called Great Morning.
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