We're diving deep into one of the most controversial topics in relationships: what to do when you're out of alignment with your partner.
I know what most relationship coaches tell you: "work through it," "compromise," "relationships take work." But here's our honest take: if you're truly out of alignment with someone, they're not your person. Period.
In this episode, Cam and Elle break down:
- Why we believe the person you marry should NOT be "the person you fight with most" (this old-school relationship advice is toxic!)
- The two types of alignment that actually matter in relationships
- How your limiting beliefs about dating are literally repelling your dream person
- Why your energy is either a magnet or a repellent for high-value partners
- The voice note exercise that will expose every limiting belief sabotaging your love life
- How Elle went from having "resting misery face" to magnetizing incredible relationships
If you're tired of settling, tired of the "dating is hard" narrative, and ready to attract someone who's actually aligned with the highest version of yourself - this episode is for you.
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Who are these people? 👀
Cameron Hogan is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100 newsletters in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called Great Morning.
Elle Beecher helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle writes every day, hosts a
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