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Speaker 1 (00:05):
Welcome to another
episode of Live Healthy Longer
with Dr Jim.
Did you think it was deja vu,or could it have been something
from your past life?
As always on this podcast, wesearch for the truth, and here
to guide you in this excitingexploration of your own past
life is our host, dr JimPolakoff.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Yes, this is Dr Jim
Polakoff, and I sincerely do
want to thank the thousands oflisteners who continue to follow
my podcasts.
Your loyalty is greatlyappreciated.
Now, many of you listened to myprevious podcast about
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reincarnation and who famouscelebrities may have been in
their past lives.
During that podcast, I asked ifyou yourself may wish to
discover who you were in a pastlife and how many past lives you
may have lived.
I recommended the best way torecall your past lives was by
having a session with aspecialist in past life
regression.
Typically, this is aprofessional who is certified as
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a hypnotherapist with excellentcredentials.
I also mentioned that, onoccasion, a psychic intuitive
may be able to assist you inrecalling your past lives
without needing to undergohypnosis.
Fortunately, my guest for thisepisode is both.
Karen Kubico is a certifiedhypnotherapist skilled in past
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life regression, as well as apsychic intuitive.
Karen is also an instructor andauthor, having written two
important books which we'regoing to explore a bit later.
Welcome, karen Kubico.
So let's get right to it.
It's nice to have you with us.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Thanks for joining
with me, Jim.
I really appreciate youallowing me to come on your show
and to be participating ineverything that you have going
here.
It's awesome.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Well, it's going to
be our pleasure and, as you know
, the previous podcast we did,we actually went into past lives
, reported past lives I'm goingto use the word reported of a
number of different celebrities,but in any case, I had
mentioned on that podcast thatwe were going to be featuring a
past life regressionist, andthat's why your timing here is
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excellent.
So, because many of ourlisteners are going to want to
know how do we find out who wewere in a past life.
So let's get right to it.
I'm aware that through pastlife regression, either by
employing hypnotherapy or as apsychic intuitive, you've helped
many women and men to recalltheir past lives, but incredibly
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, I understand you've actuallyrecalled more than 150 of your
own past lifetimes.
How many past lives arepossible, and doesn't this
become a bit confusing?
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Well, it's so.
That's a great question, jim.
I think you know for me Istarted looking into all this
past life related things wayback in 2004.
I found a book calledChildren's Past Lives by Carol
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Bowman, and she had healed fromasthma and in her prologue she
spoke about that.
At the time I had severe asthmaand I had been taking a lot of
medication for that.
So I figured if she can do it,so can I.
So I looked into how to remembera past life, how to go about
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learning more about that, how tohelp other people, how it has
helped other people, read a tonof books on the subject and then
, probably about six monthslater, I started listening to a
self-hypnosis tape to help meremember my own past lives.
It took me a solid month oftrying and then I started
getting little snippets of pastlives, which then led me to to
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go to a past life regressionregression regressionist or
regression therapist,hypnotherapist however you want
to refer to it's, it's similarand I was able to remember quite
a few in that session and thatjust inspired me to remember
more.
I personally received some somedeeper understanding and
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healing from that one session,and so now that was a lot of
years ago.
In that time, I recognize that,for me personally, I wanted to
learn more about well.
So what's the fuss?
Why are we coming back here?
Why do we have these lifetimesIf we're having all these past
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lifetimes which, by the way, isan infinite number, and it just
there's?
I've asked how many lifetimesdo people have, and generally
the answer is it's infinite.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
You mean to tell me
there could even be more than
150 lifetimes.
Incredible.
Don't we get tired after awhile?
Speaker 3 (05:09):
well.
So here's the thing there's notime, there's like, just like,
um.
You know how einstein refers totime as being relative.
There's literally no time asyou start to realize that you're
a spiritual being, having ahuman existence here in this
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earth, existence that we'rechoosing to have right now.
But when you become a spiritualbeing and you pass, maybe
you're in the heaven space orotherwise.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Known as afterlife
right.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
Right.
I mean, there literally will bea blink of the eye and you know
a hundred other people mightpass and join you.
Where on this earth plane timeis so slowed down?
Um, the energy is so dense, Iguess I should say, or that
things are linear and you don'teven realize that.
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You know, time is nothing.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
I don't know how to
explain it.
Don't we get to enjoy afterlifea little bit?
I mean, you know, dance arounda float in the sky.
I mean, whatever we do when weget into afterlife, don't we get
to enjoy it, or do we go rightback into another life?
Speaker 3 (06:25):
Well, so here's the
thing this is a free will choice
.
This is a free will choiceexperience because it's from my
understanding and what I've beenshown is that when you are in
the spiritual state that whatyou are, it's almost like you're
living in the land of love,unconditional love, and you can
instantly manifest the land oflove, unconditional love, and
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you can instantly manifestanything.
You know instantly how someonefeels with their thinking.
You speak with telepathy.
It's all very loving experience.
But in order for a soul to learnand to grow, you have to have
an altered or differentexperience, and so, like if you
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wanted to learn how to overcomegrief, for example, or a
relationship pattern of somekind, there is no way to have
that experience.
On the other side, it's nodifferent than if you were
interested in learning how toride a bike or drive a car.
You know you could read 100books on the subject, but you
don't get it till you get behindthe wheel, press the pedal or
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press start the car and startmoving, and then you're like, oh
, this is totally not what Iexpected.
Or and what a different way tolearn is by actually immersing
in it.
So that's one of the reasonswhy they bring you here.
They bring you here you chooseactually to come here and they
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help you, they being your guides, and on the other side, to help
you with all this.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
Now in another
podcast, I really want to get
into the afterlife experience,but we won't go there now.
We don't have that much time.
But I know some members of ourlistening audience wish to
understand the process involvedin exploring one or more of
their past lives.
Can you explain how this works?
Speaker 3 (08:13):
So, first of all, the
reason for someone to reach out
and to understand their pastlives is to help you really
grasp that you have had, let'sjust say, for example, intense,
a couple thousand past lives andso that's your whole soul
experience that you've had up tothis point.
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So so say, for example, you wantto understand why you had a
certain phobia, let's say, tospiders or something you know,
and you have no reason for thatin this lifetime.
But you might have passed awayor been killed by a spider in a
past life because of a bite orsomething like that.
You'll never understand it inthis life.
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You might go to some, you mighthave such a fear of those
spiders that you've wreckedbecause of one being in your car
or something like that, andyou're like trying to go to
psychotherapy to understand andall that kind of stuff, but you
don't get it till you actuallyhave a thing called catharsis,
which is a deep healing or anunderstanding from a different
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perspective, maybe a more grownup perspective or, like this
lifetime, I see that in thatother past life that I had a
life where that spider caused mydeath.
So then I now have a fear ofspiders and it's been explained,
and so then, all of a sudden,that fear goes away.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
Just like that.
Speaker 3 (09:35):
Just like that.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
Just because you
recognize what happened to get
you where you are now.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
Sometimes simply
remembering the act of why, and
it just makes your brain, oh,that's the answer, that's why
I'm afraid of spiders, and thenyou see a different perspective.
Now I do recommend personallyforgiveness work.
So like if someone came to methey had a fear of spiders, I
would say, okay, now let'sforgive the spider and the venom
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that was in it that caused yourpassing, forgiving yourself and
putting yourself in an instancethat type of thing to really
release any pent up energy thatmight have been like resentment
or anger from that experience ofbeing in a sense killed by that
spider.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
So the same thing
would happen with people who are
afraid of heights.
Somehow maybe they fell from agreat height in a past life, but
now when they get to a tallbuilding, they're looked down,
they get dizzy, they don't wantto go near the side of it,
they're afraid of it.
And obviously the same thing ina past life that could have
been disastrous for them.
Speaker 3 (10:35):
Absolutely.
I mean, there's a lot of greatexamples of that and, jim, we
could spend the whole timetalking about just those things.
But how do you get to remembera past life?
I mean, there's a lot more waysthan just to do self hypnosis
or a guided meditation or goingto see a past life regressionist
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.
You could wake up and have adream about it.
You could go to Hawaii, forexample, and have some severe
deja vu, like you knew how to godown this particular road.
You knew what it was going tobe if you took a left versus a
right, because you had alifetime there at one point or
another.
And so that deja vu experiencecan come forward.
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It just is there's so farreaching the things that you can
learn about you yourself whyyou like architecture versus why
you like painting, why youdon't want to go to a certain
country and then why you do wantto go to a certain country.
I mean, there's just so much.
It just explains everything whyyou like things, why you hate
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things.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
Well, again, that's a
good reason, and I assume
undergoing hypnosis with acertified hypnotherapist
certainly can get you there moreeasily than if you were to try
to do it on your own.
You mentioned that it took youover a month to even begin to
get glimpses of your past life.
Working with a professional isdefinitely a plus, but you're
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located in Pennsylvania, a longway to travel for someone who's
in California or New York, forthat matter.
So I understand that you canactually perform a past life
regression using Zoom or Skypeor whatever, and I mean, I guess
I'm mystified by how can aperson undergo hypnosis in front
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of a computer screen.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
Well, first of all,
jim, all hypnosis is
self-hypnosis.
It's you allowing yourself torelax into a meditative.
Your brainwaves go into a thetastate, so it's focused
concentration state.
Now, generally, if I am helpingsomeone through the computer,
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through your phone or somethinglike that, I strongly recommend
earbuds and a mouth and maybe amicrophone that's near your
mouth, because often, probablyI'd say 50% of the time when I'm
helping someone through pastlife regression and helping them
remember their own past lives,sometimes our voice gets really
super low and then I can barelyhear them.
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The video aspect of it it's niceand everything, but you know
I'm I'm actually getting likechanneled information and seeing
and knowing, because of theintuitive and psychic abilities
that I have, what they'reexperiencing to help guide them
through the process.
But at the same time, ifsomeone is in a relaxed,
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meditative state, their eyes areclosed, they're, they're laying
there, they're not going to belooking at me in the video.
So the video is kind of justthere for maybe the beginning
part to explain, talk about whatto expect and to how it would
feel whenever you're going intolike a maybe more of a lucid
dream, um, feeling kind of statewhere you can still speak out
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loud about it and um stillvisualize or feel things going
on that you can explain andyou're not worried about laundry
and dinner and all that kind ofstuff.
Speaker 2 (14:18):
So basically you it
sounds like you prepare, uh, the
person in advance, before theyhave it.
And it's that simple.
Someone can hop on Zoom, clickon a link.
They're going to be there withyou.
They could be in Alaska, theycan be in Maine, indiana, any
part of the country, any part ofthe world, for that matter.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
I've helped people in
Australia.
It's all who's ready to receivethe experience honestly, jim.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
I see, but
preparation is important and I'm
assuming before you ever enterinto the actual session itself,
you make some recommendationsfor someone as to how they can
get into more of a relaxed stateof mind.
Speaker 3 (14:55):
Well, I really
recommend, if you have not ever
allowed yourself to relax, to doa meditation guided meditation,
I mean.
Really, the more that you dohave had that experience, you
know how to relax all of yourmuscles, that type of thing,
that's.
That's really the only prep.
And then having an open mind,trusting your intuitive
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abilities.
If you see things, if you hearthings, if you just get a
knowing or you feel thingsaround you or feel things
physically, being open toreceive whatever comes to you
and however you receive it.
And trusting that because it'sall coming from within, it's all
coming from you and it is foryou to, for your own personal
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healing.
So trust is a big thing to know.
And then really just allowingthe information to come.
Don't try, don't expect this tobe, just allow whatever to
happen to happen.
Speaker 2 (15:56):
And, of course, you
guide the person along, which is
an important part of theprocess.
Speaker 3 (16:01):
Absolutely.
Speaker 2 (16:02):
Now you've already
touched upon some of the reasons
one would want to have a pastlife experience, or experiences
that identify their past lives,I should say.
But obviously overcomingphobias challenges things of
that nature.
But is there also a purpose tothis that from one past life to
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the next that you seekimprovement?
I believe that's certainly atenet of Buddhism, that you're
going to each life improve uponyourself and get to a higher
state.
Is that part of the reason youwant to identify with your past
lives, to be able to rememberwhat your purpose was and where
you should be going in this life?
Speaker 3 (16:45):
That's a great
question, jim, so I'm going to
answer that in two parts.
One is one of the reasons Iwrote my first book.
It is Life is Just AnotherClass.
I mean, it's about fixing myown past lives.
I was searching for a book thatwould show me what's all this
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fuss about.
Why are we going in and out ofthese lifetimes Constantly, it
feels like, and it seems random.
And so what I discovered isthat as you work through your
lifetimes, you are learning andgrowing on a soul level each
time.
So for me, in this lifetime, Iwanted to raise up my awareness
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for intuitive ability, so I putthings on my path in this
lifetime so that would occur, soI can get to the point where
we're having this conversationand I'm helping people on a very
deep soul level to, to, to seetheir entire soul experience.
But I've had other lifetimeswhere I've done that same thing.
One of the nice things aboutremembering a past life is you
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can bring through all yourtalents and skills just by
re-remembering them.
That's why there are prodigychildren that can come into this
life and they're five years oldand play a Mozart piece to
perfection.
Do you think they might've hada past life where they were an
expert in playing the piano forMozart.
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I mean, it just is obvious tome, but some other people
they're like their child's, aprodigy, which is fantastic that
they were able to bring thatthrough.
Speaker 2 (18:17):
So they may have
picked it up in their past life
and it's very natural that ithappened.
Just because they're four yearsold and can play something on
the piano Obviously could betraced to a past life they had,
right.
Speaker 3 (18:30):
Right.
So, for example, if someonecomes to me and they're asking
the question I want to see whatI've done because I don't know
what I want to have for as acareer, I can look at their past
lives.
Well, look, you've been this,this and this.
You can do that.
You've thought about this skilland they're like, yeah, I kind
of have.
I'm like, well, here's a skillthat is innate within you and
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your whole soul experiencethroughout your past lives.
And so now they're made awareof that skill and they can then
choose to hone in that, thoseskills that they are deep within
their soul.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
So some of our
listeners right now may have not
even experienced the talentthat they might have.
That could be brought out by apast life regression.
Speaker 3 (19:13):
Correct.
Like I gave a reading tosomeone who was a hairdresser
and saw her sculptingarchitectural buildings and she
was like you know, my boyfriend,I just bought this thing that
to create something like that.
And I'm like no way, because,like she was an architect and
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another lifetime and so andsculpting is, you know, you
don't think about a hairdressersculpting, but basically they
are and so she could sculpt inthis lifetime if she chose to.
I mean it, just it, just soconnected.
Speaker 2 (19:48):
So that's.
That's very interesting, though.
Now I'm just curious if,because you know, obviously for
some of this you're using, youknow, hypnotherapy, where the
person is under hypnosis, butthere are some people who are
either wary of being hypnotizedor they're just uncomfortable,
or they can't relax, they justcan't get into the state.
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But I think one of theadvantages correct me if I'm
wrong but as an individual, Imean as a psychic intuitive
you're able to actually helpsomeone recall a past life
without necessarily undergoinghypnosis.
Am I correct?
Speaker 3 (20:26):
Correct.
Well, so what happened for meis a super long time ago.
I was working on myself, tryingto release the asthma which
then occurred.
I had one of my spirit guidestalking with me and she said you
know, you can ask us anything.
And at that point in my life Iwas just working with a friend
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of mine to work on writing myfirst book.
And I came out of that pastlife regression and I said to my
friend I said what do you thinkshe means by that?
Anything, anything and so, butwhen?
When I was able to see and talkto her was when I experienced
going through a past life, death.
And so I asked some of myfriends who are open to all this
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stuff, meaning all themetaphysical coldness, and I
said you have any questions fora spirit guide?
I don't know what to askBecause I was just my intent was
only to just experience pastlives because of what I had read
and understood, and so I hadsomeone asked me a bunch of
questions and so I went back tothat lifetime, went through the
death scene, very long processasked my, saw my spirit guide.
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Again.
I said hey, I have a friend whohas some questions.
Do you mind if I ask.
You mentioned the other daythat we could do that.
She was more than graciousanswer all the questions.
My friend wrote down everythingI heard her say and she wrote it
down.
And then I went back to theperson who asked the question.
She was crying and I was like,oh my goodness, I think I have
something here.
And so after a while thoughtook a couple of years or so I
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was able to then allow myself,instead of going through the
past life, death, to start tosee other people's spirit guides
, angels that are protectingover them all their past lives.
And then eventually I asked fora little organization with all
that kind of stuff and I have apainting that I give every
person.
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I give a reading to help themunderstand what I'm looking at,
because now I can see, just like, like almost clear as day,
people all around a particularperson, all their past lives,
and that information just comesto me, whatever it is that
they're open to, to receivingand understanding, whether it's
a past life or or in between orotherwise.
Speaker 2 (22:37):
That's absolutely
amazing and I think I now am
beginning to understand, because, you know, when you you speak
of psychics, some people say, oh, that's just a bunch of woo woo
.
I mean, you know psychics, youknow they're not always
legitimate, et cetera, et cetera.
But you add the word intuitiveafter psychic, and I think that
that's the thing that really tome sounds credible that you have
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an ability to be intuitive.
And the fact that you can beintuitive is you can help people
along and again, and, as youmentioned, we're going to get
into spirit guides and angels ina second.
But you know, it's now that Ithink I understand why you would
call yourself not only apsychic but a psychic intuitive.
Am I correct?
Speaker 3 (23:22):
Well.
So some people don't understandwhat it means to be a psychic,
and like people often saypsychic, and like people often
say, well, can you read my palmor tell my future?
Well, yeah, I mean, it's yourchoice, right, it's your free
will choice.
It's no different.
If you I know this is like, um,not a visual thing, but if you
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look at your arm and you lookwhere your elbow is and that is
your life path and you've goneup to your wrist, your hand is
spread open.
You have five choices ofdecisions that you could
possibly make.
Those are five different pathsthat you could go on.
Speaker 2 (23:56):
Five fingers.
Speaker 3 (23:57):
Yeah, five fingers,
five paths, and you could go the
path of your thumb if you, if,if you will, and that would be a
completely different path Ifyou chose a left versus a right
and went the path of your pinky.
I'm just trying to give avisual.
It's your free will.
You could walk out my door andtake a left versus a right and
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your life path from that pointforward would change because you
made a decision to do somethingdifferent that might have been
along a different path.
Not to say what's right orwrong, you're still getting to
learn lessons and get to someend point.
I mean, I personally don'toften give future stuff because,
like it changes so much and ifyou're talking about another
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person involved, that's theirfree will plus your free will.
Lots of choices going on, butfrom my perspective, the deepest
help that I can provide throughsomeone's past lives, through
the information provided to meby their spirit guides and the
angels, is to release any pentup traumas, emotions,
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resentments stored within theirenergy, to help them, because
what that looks like to me mypsychic ability, that's the
highest is seen and so, like Ican see energy on a person and
and like a dark spot would belike a trauma, and so I know
I've helped someone when thatdark spot turns to a bright,
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luminescent area of light,because you've released that
garbage, if you will, and madeit a bright, beautiful place to
be.
And so when you do that, thathigher spiritual being aspect of
you easily flows throughoutyour entire physical body, your
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energetic body and your entirewhole soul experience, which
opens up your own personalintuitive abilities, which are
all innate within us.
It's just a matter of trustingit.
Speaker 2 (26:01):
Now that sounds to me
to be very credible.
I'm glad you expressed it inthat way.
Some people, it's difficult.
It was for me for quite a whileto actually imagine having a
spirit guide or being surroundedby angels.
I mean, I always used to thinkI had an angel around, but until
I actually spoke with you onetime I didn't really realize
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that there's more than one angel.
Sometimes we may even have morethan one spirit guide.
Can you explain why this isreal?
There's more than one angel.
Speaker 3 (26:31):
sometimes we may even
have more than one spirit guide
.
Can you explain why this isreal?
You know, I guess I'm going togo back to before the year 2000
for me, where I personally grewup Catholic.
I had some trauma.
Things happen to me personallywhere I was like, yeah, if that
happened to me, there's no God.
I was you could consider meatheist truly.
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And then, in 2001, I had anear-death experience when my
second child was born andsomething changed in me.
In that instance we both nearlydied and we came out of that
fine.
And around the time when theywere three months old, I went to
see a psychic.
My sister wanted to go and Iwas like sure.
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And the psychic said to me hey,you're going to get really
religious.
And I'm like, yeah, okay.
And then he also said yourchild has a really strong third
eye.
Is your intuitive abilities?
It's a, it's a chakra, um,that's located on your forehead.
Uh, if I don't help themunderstand what that's about, uh
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, they might go not not do wellin their life.
He actually used the word gocrazy, but I don't like to say
that and I'm like, oh, in myhead I like we almost just died,
that's not happening.
So that's what got me intodoing all this research.
And when I started to experiencesome of these past lives, I
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still was like kind of on thefence.
You know what's this all about?
And then, the day that I sawand met my spirit guides sitting
on this beautiful benchsomewhere, very wonderful, and
could feel all the love they hadfor me I mean, there was just
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three of them standing there atthe time I was like, oh, this is
not the same as Earth.
You know what I mean it was.
And they're speaking to me,just like you and I are talking.
And then later on, through myexperiences, I actually passed
in a past life, went through thelight that people talk about
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and saw my guides again, couldspeak with them, and then went
to a room where these angelswere towering over me, pouring
this beautiful, pure,unconditional love, and I'm
talking with them.
And so that's when I firststarted getting into all this
and just, they just slowlyintroduced me to more angels and
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to help me understand how tospeak to other people's spirit
guides.
And it's come to now, today,where I know, without a doubt,
we have a team, because havingan earth human experience is
hard, because we've chosen it toovercome obstacles, to overcome
challenges.
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Sometimes it's to learn abouthow to work through grief or to
work through an abuserelationship, because you're
putting your foot down, you'reputting your personal power on,
you're learning to love yourselfeven more.
Sometimes you are learning howto love because maybe in other
lifetimes you haven't had thatopportunity and this lifetime
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filled that need.
When you're on the other sideof the spiritual being, you're
picking out all these things.
You've chosen this life.
You've chosen where you want tolive, people.
You want to interact with yourbody and all the chaos that
comes into your life on purpose,so that you can overcome it.
It's all how you get to thatpoint.
Speaker 2 (30:05):
So, people, let's use
what's going on right now,
which is a sad, but sadsituation, but we're right in
the middle of a a crisis wherepeople are being, uh, you know,
bombarded.
Uh, did they actually choose alife where they would come back
and have to be fearful of bombsand see their children killed in
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hospitals, terror, I mean?
I'm'm just asking.
I mean, did they die?
Speaker 3 (30:32):
Oh, you know that's a
tough one to answer, Jim,
because we're never really dead.
We go through these experiencesto help others in this earth
experience, to know what wedon't want to have in our lives.
Um, some people have suchtrauma from war related things.
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It's so saddening, Um, but if,if collectively, we chose to
learn to love one another whichhas been something that has been
said to us for thousands ofyears by many different
religious figures there wouldn'tbe war.
Speaker 2 (31:20):
Because we're not.
Speaker 3 (31:21):
you know what I'm
saying, Can't we all just?
Speaker 2 (31:23):
Could it also be I've
read that sometimes you need to
experience different thingsthat perhaps for some of these
people they had good lives butthey have never really been able
to experience trauma, andperhaps they put themselves in a
situation so they could atleast have that part of their
being?
Is there any credibility tothat?
Speaker 3 (31:44):
Well, that is also
true.
That is also true.
I mean, if you have not, thereare some examples that I can
give where some folks that I'veread or regressed, where they've
been in a war situation andthey learned that to value
friendship, to value teamwork,it might have been their last
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day when they got it.
Sometimes, teamwork, itmight've been their last day
when they got it.
Sometimes, when I remembered alifetime, forever ago, it was in
World War II and the entirestreet was bombed.
I'm a five-year-old child, butme and my younger siblings and
my grandmother and a ton ofother people all died in mass
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all at once and we floated upand the entire sky oh my gosh,
it is.
I mean, it gives me chillsremembering this vision.
It was filled like a completecloud cover of angels putting
their, wrapping their wingsaround these small children who
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were all being passed overaround the same time.
It was just incredible.
It was incredible.
And you?
Speaker 2 (32:57):
recall seeing angels
at this time after you passed on
.
You've been born, you're dead,but now you're seeing the angels
who are coming to try tocomfort you.
Speaker 3 (33:08):
Correct Because it
was such a trauma.
The angels come to help, evenwith 9-11, a lady that I know
she knew and saw the angels allaround where the incident
occurred here near Pittsburghwith the crash of the plane.
Sometimes those huge traumaticthings it actually it's.
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It's terrible when those thingshappen and no one ever wants
that to occur.
But if you looked at the stateof the united states and the
mindset of the people before9-11, where we were very
separated and then 9-11 occurred, massive amount of people came
together yes, they did, peoplecame together.
Yes, they did.
Speaker 2 (33:50):
People came together
then it's a shame that we have
forgotten that experience justafter 20 years or so, but people
did come together.
Speaker 3 (33:58):
They did, and so the
folks that gave their lives for
that experience in a sensebrought millions of people to
remember, hey, we're in thistogether and to start to come
together and to recognize thatand I have regrets one person at
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least that had been through theexperience from 9-11.
And so it's very interesting.
Speaker 2 (34:29):
Now I understand, in
addition to everything else that
you do, you also do readings inwhich you actually introduce a
person to their spirit guidesand angels.
That individual might have apersonal problem, a trauma,
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abuse, something that happens intheir life, that they then
themselves can turn to theirangels or their spirit guides.
Is this something they learnfrom your readings?
Speaker 3 (35:00):
Well, so I, I am
guided to talk about whatever it
is their guides and angels wantme to say.
Teaching people how to connectwith anyone on the other side is
high on the priority list forme.
So if you would come to me, forexample, jim, I would start to
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get a number of how many guidesand how many angels are standing
there with you, and thenwhoever wanted to talk would
come forward guides and how manyangels are standing there with
you, and then whoever wanted totalk would come forward.
And then I always try toreiterate or to express look, if
you're a spirit guide let's sayhis name is Samuel, he comes
through.
I can tell you all about him,how he knows you and all that
type of thing Then you have aconnection with that spiritual
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being.
Can you ask him specifically?
Sure, if you wanted to, Iusually just personally, I just
asked the whole team.
But what I recommend is, insteadof just saying, hey, can I have
some help, they're going to belike with with a cup of coffee.
You know what I mean.
Or did you want the green light?
But if you say, um, I'm thegreen light, but if you say, um,
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I'm, you know, with gratitude,always because they're here to
help us.
Can you please help meunderstand and to learn, like
you're speaking to your guidesand angels.
Can you please help meunderstand the root cause of my
relationship issues?
Can you help me, um, please,get a monetary way out of this
relationship?
Can you help me find the careerthat is my passion so that I
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can go to work and it won't feellike work?
Those are the kinds of thingsvery specific, emotional, based
with genuine gratitude,emotional based with genuine
gratitude those things getanswered pretty quickly.
Speaker 2 (36:52):
And because they've
been in contact with their
spirit guide, they now areguides, they now know these
individuals behind them.
They actually you know, theyactually can get this kind of
communication.
I mean, they can receive thiskind of guidance.
Speaker 3 (37:09):
You don't have to
come to me to find a specific
spirit guide.
You can do it right this minute.
You have to have the faith andthe trust that they're there for
you first right, and somepeople can ask for them to show
themselves to them in theirdreams or to feel them next to
you.
I know I've spoken to peopleand they'll feel someone
(37:31):
touching their shoulder or theirhead and they don't know where
that is and I can see that it'sone of their spirit guides or
know that information.
But, um, trusting that they'rethere for you is the first step,
because there are a lot ofpeople out there who feel very
alone, especially now with theCOVID times, you know where you
(37:51):
can't get out and meet withpeople and see your friends and
all that kind of stuff.
They feel very alone.
Meanwhile, you have a crowd ofpeople because they're here to
help you.
You can ask them to show you aspecific sign.
You can ask them to help youhear a particular song, a chime,
a sound, a smell, a number, abutterfly, whatever floats your
(38:12):
boat or fills a feather,whatever makes you feel
connected to the other side.
You could ask for a specificone from a specific angel or a
specific guide.
They don't care.
They're just super excited thatyou.
They know that you are awarethat they're here to help you.
They know that you are awarethat they're here to help you.
Speaker 2 (38:28):
So it's like the name
of the song I'm a believer.
You've got to believe beforethey're going to come to you and
actually be able to communicateback to you.
You have to believe in them tobegin with.
You just can't say I kind ofthink they're there or oh, I
don't know if this works or not.
You really have to have.
Speaker 3 (38:46):
It boils down to the
word faith and well and correct,
because if you would not forsure believe, you might see
signs all over the place andignore them.
When I first started learningabout all this stuff 20 years
ago, I asked for a featherbecause a couple of books I read
(39:06):
kept saying ask for a feather.
I was a sign from the otherside.
I'm like, all right, I'll askfor a feather.
I saw a feather and I was like,nah, the next day I saw another
feather and that third day,literally three days in a row, I
saw a pile of white stuff inthe back of my yard and I
thought, oh, a garbage bag movedback there or something.
I walked back there.
There was a literal pile offeathers and I was like, oh, I
(39:29):
didn't get it.
They showed me one.
The last two days they had toshow me this whole pile and when
it completely dawned on me Iwalked back to get a feather
from that pile and it was goneand I was like not creepy at all
, it's kind of cool, cause likethere was, without a doubt that
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they were showing me.
They were there for me, but Ihad to be shown that whole pile
of feathers to get it.
But I mean it's, it's all good,that's.
Speaker 2 (39:59):
That's something.
Well, let's turn to theromantic side of reincarnation.
All right, my question to youis do you believe in soulmates,
and if so, do soulmates reunitein each new lifetime?
Speaker 3 (40:14):
change almost nine
years ago or so, and I was
feeling like, yeah, there isn'tany, you know.
And so I did a lot of innersearching and asking a lot of
(40:42):
questions about relationships,about are there really soulmates
, that type of thing.
And one day in 2018, I waslearning in a class or I guess I
already had known how, but likepracticing channeling, which is
the ability to just allowspiritual beings to talk through
you, and so I channeledArchangel Chamuel.
(41:04):
I had never even heard of himbefore and he actually is the
Archangel for soulmates, and soI'm like perfect discussion.
And I asked what's the what'sthe what's the fuss about
soulmates?
What are they really?
And the way that he explainedit to me is that every person
that you meet is your soulmatebecause, in a sense, we're all
(41:26):
one, we're all connected, andthat's a whole bigger story to
discuss.
But it's the percentage ofconnection that you have with
another human that makes them ahigher percentage connection to
have a true love soulmate, whichis completely different than
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Joe Blow walking past on thestreet, do you know?
And so Chamuel said what you'retrying to attain is someone
that has like an 85 or morepercentage of connection to you.
Now, that doesn't mean thatthey are your twin, exactly
where they like everything youdo and they are like a match in
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all those kinds of ways, but indifferent kinds of ways.
And so I said to him well, whatwas up with that terrible date
I had on Friday?
And Chamu was like well, he was17%.
I'm like, well, no duh, becauseit was an awful date but it was
a learning experience.
And he said it was great awfulday, but it was a learning
experience.
(42:30):
And he said it was great tohave that so we could have this
discussion.
So you can see the vastcontrast and this is not a match
versus this is Now.
I've had since then, for thelast four months, actually had
someone enter my life who is 89%connection, because I just
asked for that percentage ofconnection and I'm telling you,
we get along fabulously on somany levels, in so many ways.
(42:55):
It's it's truly an amazing,amazing connection.
So to me, he's my soulmate inthis lifetime.
Do I want that for every personI meet?
Absolutely, because I totallydidn't expect that, took a lot
of years to get here and a lotof personal healing, because
when you are looking for someone, that is your highest match,
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the first person that you haveto love is yourself.
You have to heal yourself on avery deep level from all the
trauma, maybe some relationshippatterns that you were not aware
of, and to release all that andto grow that inner confidence
that you deserve mutuallysupportive and loving
(43:39):
connections in life and thatgives the people who come in
your life no other choice but tomatch your vibration of mutual
support and love.
Speaker 2 (43:51):
And then what I think
you're you're saying is it's
not necessarily love at firstsight, it's getting to know you.
Speaker 3 (43:59):
Well, with this
particular person I met, it was
love at first hug.
I'm going to say that Love atfirst.
Speaker 2 (44:05):
All right, that's,
I'll buy that.
Speaker 3 (44:07):
From a decent amount
of time ago, so it going to say
that Lug of thirst, all right,I'll buy that From a decent
amount of time ago, so it's kindof cool.
Speaker 2 (44:11):
Well, I don't want,
as we're getting into the latter
stages of this interview.
You've written two books.
One is that you mentioned justa bit ago.
Life is Just Another Class OneSoul's Journey Through the Past,
Life Regressions.
I found it quite fascinating.
In fact, in the book, I believe, you recount 16 of your past
(44:32):
lives, and so tell us about thebook and how it influenced your
present lifetime.
Speaker 3 (44:38):
So just that's a lot.
That's a heavy question, it'sloaded.
There's so many ways.
Speaker 2 (44:43):
Well, you have three
sentences to answer.
Speaker 3 (44:45):
Well, you have three
sentences to answer Three
sentences oh man.
So I release a lot of fears,like a lot of fears, fears.
I didn't even know that was aissue.
Like you could have called me agermaphobe.
And by the time I was doneresearching and writing this
book, my girlfriend's like youknow, you're not a germaphobe
anymore.
You didn't put that in yourbook yet and I was like, oh, I
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didn't even recognize that.
That healed to recognizing that.
I'm like, oh my God, I have arelationship pattern that's
still happening from thatlifetime and this other lifetime
that's not included in thatbook.
And I'm like, holy crap, whatam I doing in this relationship?
Now, you know which brought meto ending that relationship
(45:32):
Truly?
Now you know which brought meto ending that relationship
truly.
So it's, um, it was.
And then it inspired me towrite the making true love book,
which is the second book that Iwrote, because if I recognize
relationship patterns and theywere consistent through other
lifetimes I can't be the onlyone.
So, um, so I did a lot of workon, on finding more information
out on that.
Speaker 2 (45:53):
So the writing of
these books actually helped you
come in contact with with thingsthat you needed to deal with in
your life and you kind of.
It sounds like each book movedyou on to a different place.
Speaker 3 (46:06):
Absolutely.
I mean, it's just from one tothe next, to the next.
And you know, I have a couplemore books I'm working on now,
and one is to help children tostay awake.
When they're first bornchildren, babies, they can see
spirit, guides, angels, past,ever people, without any effort.
They have full use of theirintuitive abilities, can know
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and remember their past lives,until we tell them otherwise,
that they can't.
Speaker 2 (46:34):
And our listeners can
find these books on
karencubicocom, which we'llrepeat in a few minutes, and
also on our website.
You definitely can find it.
Bodymindsoulpodcastnetnet willhave the information.
You can find it in both places.
These are fabulous, fascinatingbooks.
You can get them on Amazon, butanyway, it's become clear that
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Karen Kubico is a healer.
Your life is committed tohelping others, correct?
Speaker 3 (47:03):
That's true,
absolutely.
Speaker 2 (47:06):
As a result.
I know you offer other coursesand events.
Do you have anything coming upwe should know about?
Speaker 3 (47:11):
Well, I just taught a
class yesterday, jim, on
helping people understand thebasics on past life regression,
how it can help them, andopening their intuitive
abilities through a group-guidedmeditation.
That I did.
I have those classes.
I have a couple more scheduledthis year.
I can be found at local fairsfor mind, body, spirit fairs
(47:37):
here and around the PittsburghPennsylvania area.
I do offer things online Ifpeople wanted to schedule
something with me readings, pastlife regression one-on-ones all
the time.
Speaker 2 (47:57):
And that's what's
coming soon in my future.
Well, again, I want to remindour audience.
I mean, I get the feeling whatwe've explored in this episode
is almost like the tip of amagnificent iceberg.
There's still so much more wecan cover, which obviously we're
running out of time now, butlet's make sure that our
listeners can get to yourwebsite.
(48:18):
It's karencubicocom and I wantto spell your last name
K-U-B-I-C-K-O correct.
Speaker 3 (48:29):
Correct.
Speaker 2 (48:30):
Right, so go to
karencubicocom or again come to
our website.
All of this information I meanour listeners are used to coming
to our website to find otherthings.
So definitely you can find allthe information you need about
Karen, how to get in touch withher, and again, you know ours is
bodymindsoulpodcastnet.
(48:52):
Of course, we're going torepeat that several times before
this episode is over, but thereyou're going to be able to find
all about her services, herbooks, her happenings, all these
good, wonderful things, and Ithink you're going to want to
know more about Karen.
We've just again hit the tip ofthe iceberg here today, so it's
been wonderful and enlightening.
It's such an experience to haveyou as my guest, Karen, and I
(49:14):
want to thank you so much.
Speaker 3 (49:16):
Thanks, Jim.
I really appreciate you takingthe time to spend with me today.
I appreciate you.
Speaker 2 (49:20):
All right.
Well, we appreciate you too.
Speaker 1 (49:24):
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You'll also be able to listento our other interesting,
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