In this week’s episode of Living in 3D Power, Emma and I unpack the meaning behind that loaded phrase. What starts with a funny moment, Emma pointing at me and declaring that I control her, quickly turns into a soulful exploration of freedom, boundaries, and how adult systems often mirror outdated, hierarchical dynamics rooted in control.
Together, we explore:
* What it really means to “stay in a child’s place”
* Why many leadership styles mimic the worst of parent-child dynamics
* How joy, curiosity, and truth-telling are sacred practices—not childish distractions
From messy rooms to bedtime injustice, skincare scandals to Anne with an E, this episode is full of laughter, love, and liberatory insight for parents, leaders, and anyone who’s ever been told they talk too much.
Chapters
03:36 | Introduction and today’s topic
04:04 | What is freedom, really?
04:50 | The Great Messy Room Debate
07:24 | Generational parenting differences
09:43 | Epilepsy, structure & bedtime boundaries
12:35 | “Stay in a child’s place”: reframing the phrase
19:28 | If kids made the rules…
24:23 | Do adults really listen to kids?
29:04 | Reflections on Anne with an E
30:08 | Emotional regulation & unfair treatment
32:40 | Trust, discipline & adult advocacy
38:17 | Work, play & pacing in childhood
44:38 | Secrets, big questions & uncomfortable truths
48:28 | Final takeaways: slowing down & making space for play
Curiosity Card Prompts for Reflection:
* Have you ever heard someone say, “Stay in a child’s place”? What do you think they meant?
* What would it be like if kids made the rules for one day?
* Do you feel like grownups always listen to kids? Why or why not?
* Why do you think some adults are uncomfortable when kids ask big questions?
* What’s something you wish adults would stop doing so kids could feel more free?
References
* Yes Day
* Free resources to help you lead and live authentically
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If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who would love these conversations. Engage with the Curiosity Cards and ask the youth in your life about their experiences because you might be surprised by what you learn. Share your thoughts and reflections in the comments or on social media using #LivingIn3DPower. And, do
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