In this deeply personal birthday episode, I reflect on what it means to be seen, celebrated, and centered. Through stream-of-consciousness journaling, the wisdom of The Artist’s Way, and intergenerational dialogue with my daughter Emma, I reclaim joy and self-worth as sacred birthrights—not rewards we earn. If you've ever struggled with centering yourself, especially around your birthday or life milestones, this episode offers a gentle, liberating invitation to rewrite the stories that no longer serve you.
Chapters:
* 00:36 – Reflecting on Birthdays and Personal Growth
* 01:56 – Discovering The Artist’s Way and Creative Recovery
* 05:23 – Morning Pages & Journaling as Presence
* 07:59 – Centering Liberation and Self-Worth
* 10:07 – Navigating Family Dynamics and Being an Afterthought
* 20:12 – Questions for Self-Discovery and Reflection
* 25:51 – The Power of Discernment and Emotional Healing
* 26:30 – Listening to the Body's Messages
* 27:31 – Learning to Receive Love and Compliments
* 28:55 – Celebrating with Family and Friends
* 29:27 – The Power of Determination and Self-Care
* 33:20 – Reflecting on Family Traditions Around Birthdays
* 34:49 – Emma’s Birthday Wisdom and Shirley Temples
* 41:40 – Reclaiming Your Story and Visual Journal Practice
* 43:35 – Final Reflections + Community Connection
Curiosity Card Prompts for Reflection
Power of Discovery
* What did birthdays mean to me growing up?
* What story did I inherit about my worthiness to be celebrated?
* Where in my life have I been made to feel like an afterthought?
Power of Discernment
* Where in my body do I still carry the grief of being unseen or unacknowledged?
* What does it feel like to center myself, not out of ego, but out of reverence?
* Where do I still flinch when loved?
Power of Determination
* What is one way I can intentionally honor the miracle of my life this week?
* Who are the people who center me without asking?
* How will I write a new narrative that reflects the truth: I have always been loved?
References
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