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Speaker 1 (00:43):
Thank you.
Welcome to today's episode ofLiving in Technicolor, brought
to you by Art of Living WellAcademy.
I am your host, lola Brooks,and today we are talking
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optimism.
All right, so let's start byuntangling what optimism really
means.
It's not just about beingbubbly or cheerful all the time.
No, no, it's deeper than that.
Optimism is all about havinghopefulness and confidence about
the future, like reallybelieving that good things are
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ahead.
Now let's compare that topositivity, which is more about
focusing on the good insituations happening right now.
Think of optimism as yourlong-term vision and positivity
as your day-to-day attitude.
They're kind of like cousins,you know.
Optimism keeps us pressingforward, even when life throws
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curveballs Like imagine walkingthrough a foggy path Optimism is
what convinces you that clearskies are just a few steps ahead
.
Positivity that keeps you fromtripping over roots while you're
in the fog Makes sense.
Now let's talk about why thismatters, especially when life
isn't exactly sunshine andrainbows.
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Enter the broaden and buildtheory by Fredrickson.
Basically, it says optimisticemotions don't just make us feel
warm and fuzzy.
They actually expand ourcapacity to think creatively and
take action, especially duringhard times.
It's like building a mentaltoolkit to tackle life's
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challenges with a bit ofingenuity.
Let me give you an example.
Okay, a friend of mine.
Oh man, she went through atough one lost her job
unexpectedly.
But instead of spiraling intoself-doubt, she leaned into
optimism.
She told herself all right,this is my chance, I'm going to
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learn something new, push myselfand land something even better.
And guess what?
She did Ended up scoring a rolethat let her pivot into, like
this whole new career path she'sabsolutely thriving in now.
That's the power of seeingobstacles as opportunities.
It's real.
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And that optimism it rewireshow you approach everything.
It's like flipping a switch andletting light into a dark room.
You start seeing potentialwhere there used to be just
problems.
So here's where things getreally interesting.
You ready.
Optimism doesn't just make youfeel good.
It legitimately helps you livebetter and longer.
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Like Lisa Janek, a researcherat Johns Hopkins found that
folks with a high risk for heartdisease who managed to stay
optimistic were 13% less likelyto have a heart attack or, you
know, any major coronaryproblems.
13%, that's like winning thehealth lottery, right, and it's
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not just your heart that gets aboost.
Optimistic people tend to havebetter mental health overall,
with lower risks of anxiety anddepression.
Plus, they're more likely tomake healthier choices in their
day-to-day lives.
We're talking things likepicking salads over fries or
actually showing up for thatworkout class you've been, you
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know, putting off.
It's like optimism seeps intoall those little habits that add
up to big changes.
Oh, oh, and here's anotherbiggie Studies show that
optimistic folks actually livelonger than pessimistic ones.
Like they handle stress betterbecause they're seeing those
rough patches as temporary, notpermanent disasters.
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It's like having a mentalshield against the chaos life
throws at you.
Resilience that's optimism'scooler older sibling.
Want a real-life example?
I heard about this West Coastcommunity faced wildfires that
literally wiped out entireneighborhoods and, as
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devastating as it was, thesepeople decided to rebuild with
even stronger foundations, bothliterally and emotionally.
They rallied together,supported each other and refused
to let despair win, and nowthey've created this tight-knit,
thriving community that'sstronger than ever.
Talk about optimism in action.
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See, optimism isn't justrose-colored glasses or wishful
thinking.
It's practical, strategic.
It's about saying, yep, life'sthrowing punches, but I'm
gearing up for the fight.
And, honestly, the sciencebacks up what we can already
feel in our bones Optimism cantransform not only how we live,
but how long we live.
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Alright, let's roll up oursleeves and talk about how to
actually build an optimisticmindset.
Yeah, because optimism it's notsomething you're just born with
.
No, it's a skill and, like anyskill, it can be learned and
practiced.
Let's start with positiveself-talk.
This is huge.
You know those littleconversations you have with
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yourself, like the ones whereyou mess up and immediately
think, ugh, why am I like this?
Yeah, we've all been there.
But instead try flipping it,say, okay, not my best moment,
but I'm learning, I'm growing,I've got this.
It's such a game changer.
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And daily affirmations Listen, Iknow some folks might think
it's a bit cheesy, butaffirmations work.
When you say things to yourselflike today is a fresh start or
I am resilient, it's likeplanting seeds in your brain and
eventually those seeds growinto habits.
And then bam, you're thinkingdifferently, you're handling
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things with more strength andgrace.
Now, something I've foundpersonally helpful is acceptance
.
Life is messy, right, like wehave ups and downs, twists and
turns.
But if you can accept thosetough moments and think of them
as like teachers or steppingstones, that's where the magic
happens.
It's not just about grittingyour teeth through challenges.
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It's about saying, okay, whatcan I take from this?
How can this make me better.
Oh, and can we talk about howimportant it is to surround
yourself with good vibes?
People your tribe are basicallyyour mirrors.
If you hang out with people whoare always doom and gloom, it's
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going to rub off.
But spend time with folks wholift you up, who believe in the
good, who cheer for you.
They'll help you see the brightside, even when life feels
cloudy.
And don't forget those simplelifestyle tweaks Eat well, move
your body and get your sleep.
Sounds basic, sure, but it allfeeds into how we feel mentally
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and emotionally.
You don't need to overhaul yourlife overnight.
Just start by adding one smallthing, like taking a walk or
swapping fries for I don't knowsomething green now and then.
Small steps, big changes.
And hey, it's not just myadvice.
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I'd love to hear yours.
What are the strategies thatkeep you, you know, feeling
hopeful and strong?
Share them with me.
Hit me up on social media ordrop a comment on our podcast
platform.
Let's build this community ofoptimism together.
And that's all for today.
My friends, remember theobstacle isn't in your way, it
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is the way.
Practice optimism, embrace thechallenges and keep living in
technicolor, even when it feelslike the world's in grayscale.
This is Lola Brooks, your hostof the Living in Technicolor
podcast.
I'll catch you next time.
Take care and stay bright.
Thank you you.