In this heartfelt episode, Heather shares her perspective on the damaging labels of codependent and enabler that are often placed on parents. She explains why these labels are not only unhelpful but also undermine a parent's natural instincts—instincts that are, in fact, a powerful tool for connection and support.
Heather emphasizes that parents don’t need warnings about what not to do. Instead, they need clear, actionable guidance on how to help their child struggling with substance use while staying connected in a meaningful way.
Listeners will discover:
- Why parental instincts are not the problem—they are the key.
- How small, intentional shifts in communication and boundaries can create meaningful change.
- The importance of questioning harmful labels and trusting their own 'why.'
- How having their own back and honoring their values is a vital part of helping their child.
This episode is a powerful reminder that a parent's love is not a disorder, and they are never powerless.
With the right tools and support, parents can show up effectively for their child and themselves.
Resources From Heather Ross Coaching
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https://heatherrosscoachingcalendar.as.me/RoadtoRecovery
The truth about enabling - If you've ever worried about enabling, this guide is for you!
https://heatherrosscoaching.com/perspective-about-enabling/
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