April 17, 2024 • 54 mins
Deanna (AKA Ruby) joins me to talk about how to have boob sex. It was a hot topic in the 80s, but are people still doing it? Turns out Mammory intercourse is a thing. Ruby, known for her giant boobs, happens to be an expert on the topic and walks us through who is doing it, how to do it, and why the hell you'd want to!
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Speaker 1 (00:24):
Do the sex Think fun, honest and feminist as fuck,
and always with the goal offighting the patriarchy.
One female orgasm at a time.
Welcome to the locker room.
Today's locker room talk topicis boob sex, titty fucking,
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mammary and trick course.
Those are, in fact, all termsused to describe the act of a
man sticking his cock betweentwo tits to get off.
And you may be asking is thisreally still a thing?
I mean, I think it was popularin the 80s, at least that's for
(01:12):
some reason embedded in my mind.
We are here to answer thatquestion, and we are also going
to be answering the five W'sthat writers like to use.
I am a writer that the who, what, when, where and why the fuck
you'd want to do it Now.
Listeners, I have shared manytimes in the past that I am a
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relatively small breasted woman,so I have zero experience with
titty fucking or boob sex,breast play in such a way that
your boobs are used as aflashlight.
But fortunately, one of my verybest friends in the whole wide
world has giant boobs.
She's all boobs, in fact.
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Many times while recordingthese episodes together, we have
had to stop and start over andmove her mic around so that it
won't bump into her giantbreasts.
So Ruby, aka Deanna, is here tohelp us create the Boob Sex 101
podcast for you guys.
(02:19):
She is going to walk us throughwhat it's all about and help us
understand this particular sexact.
So, deanna- yes.
You've been on lots of episodeswith me.
You have been on what is now, Iwould say, currently one of our
(02:41):
most popular episodes.
Which one is that?
That would be the semen facials, the semen facials Guys.
It is one of my favoriteepisodes for so many reasons,
mostly because of you know justhow weird people get about the
topic and then, of course,through our podcast, like I got
(03:02):
comfortable with it.
So if you have not listened tosemen facials, you got to go
back through our podcast, like Igot comfortable with it.
Um, so if you have not listenedto semen facials, you got to go
back through our past episodesand queue it up.
I promise you will not bedisappointed.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Definitely not a disappointment.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
And, believe it or not, it's going to tie into
today's podcast, but we'll getthere one thing at a time
podcast, but we'll get there onething at a time.
Let's raise our glasses, let'stalk about sex, let's do it.
All right, folks, let's getstarted.
I like to, ahead of thesepodcasts, I like to be a little
(03:36):
sciencey about it, bring someintegrity to these conversations
.
I like to come at you with somefacts I got to tell you.
Science, scientists,researchers really haven't
bothered with boob sex.
They just haven't.
I mean, I looked and I lookedand I looked and, deanna Ruby,
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you watched me.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
I did, I witnessed.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
And we found nothing.
I mean, I did find a wholebunch of new porn sites that I'm
probably going to check out,but but there wasn't a lot of
factoids out there and a lot ofthe articles I tried to read on
it were pretty.
You know, basic vanilla fillingNot not that there is anything
(04:21):
wrong with again, we're notvanilla sex shaming, in fact I
would say boob sex Vanilla,vanilla.
You know, this is definitely.
But don't worry for our kinkylisteners, we're going to come
up with ways to make it kinkyfor you, do not worry.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
Well, I mean actually , I think boob sex is a vanilla
kink.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Oh, tell me about vanilla kink.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
Well, being part of um the kink community and kind
of knowing what vanilla is, Ithink boob sex is like pretty
mellow.
For those that are kinksters,that you know are into the kink
scene, right.
But I think for someone who'svanilla boob sex is kind of a oh
(05:09):
, we're going to do that.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
Right, right, well, it's a step above, just like
basic sex.
So this, you're right, it's agreat way, for I think,
oftentimes, vanilla couples orpartners often want to figure
out how to spice things up.
In fact, we have a podcast onhow to spice things up.
In fact, we have a podcast onhow to spice up your sex life.
I don't know if we covered boobsex in it, but this would be
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like um something.
I feel like people who are morecomfortable and who enjoy, uh,
vanilla sex but want to get alittle spice it up.
This would be um something youcould consider doing right,
definitely.
Little spice it up.
This would be um something youcould consider doing right,
definitely, and I say that asbeing someone who's never had it
so for me it like I will.
I I will most likely we'll seeby the end of the podcast add it
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to my sex bucket list.
Uh, but I'm I'm speaking fromno knowledge, guys, just just
I'm talking a bunch of shitright now, basically.
So let's start.
Let's start with um who who ishaving titty sex?
ruby tell me anyone who wants toall right, but itty bitty
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titties, that's I guess bigtitties, can you do this?
You can do this with itty bittytitties.
You feel like you feel like I'm.
I mean, the only place I'veever seen this happen is on porn
, and definitely not with ittybitty tittied women.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Well, porn really is kind of like anything on the
screen.
It's an exaggeration and it'snot really reality.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Right, so this act, in case anyone doesn't quite
know exactly what it looks like,how we are going to talk about
the who is.
I mean, it does require aperson with boobs and a person
then with a cock.
Now, I suppose a dildo could beused to do this.
I just thought of that and youjust clarified it.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
I just thought of that and you just terrified it.
Someone wearing a strap-on thatdoes not have a penis
themselves could definitely havea strap-on on and titty fuck
someone.
Yeah, because, for those of youwho have not dove into the
realm of the titty fuck, youhave the idea that, um, it's
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mainly for a man's pleasure.
I did have that idea, but it'svery pleasurable for a woman, so
it is uh, yes, okay, um, assomeone who has experience in
this topic, uh, yes, I actuallyhave a lot of pleasure.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
Do you get titty fucked regularly?
Is it part of your regularrotation of sex?
Speaker 2 (07:54):
It is not part of my regular rotation, but when it
pops out, there it's a specialoccasion I mean, you know or
it's, my partner might say theywanna fuck my tits, and of
course yeah, or maybe I'm likeoh god, I really want yeah that
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between my tits.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
Yeah, so I guess that's part of the who is who
initiates this kind of thing.
You're saying that the boobowner, the woman, sometimes asks
to be titty fucked.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
Yes, I mean, so both parties involved could be the
initiators Right.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Okay, all right, I have a hard time picturing that,
but maybe I'll understand it.
I mean, I don't know.
Well, we'll get there.
I mean, I don't know well,we'll get there.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
I just don't know.
I think initially.
So let's say it's um the breastowner.
Right, it's their firstencounter.
More than likely it'll probablybe suggested by their partner.
Or, you know, like yourself,maybe you'll be the initiator
(09:08):
after this, because it's goingto be on your bucket list.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
Yeah, I've already expressed to my partner that I
think.
I'm going to have to be teddyfucked.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
So, even if the breast owner has not had.
Maybe they're going to listentoday and go.
Oh man, that sounds like fun.
Speaker 1 (09:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
And you know.
So really, it can be either, orwho initiates it.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
All right, all right, I I can attest, uh listeners,
that I'm probably going toinitiate my first experience to
you initiating.
Yes, we'll have to do afollow-up oh yes, on how it goes
.
So I want to move on to becausesome of you may be questioning
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exactly what are we talkingabout when it comes to titty.
We're calling it titty boob sex.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
So, yeah, so it is squeezing the boobs together to
create kind of a slit, a slitexactly For there to be
penetrated.
Yeah, so much like using aflashlight or your butt cheeks,
or your butt cheeks right, itjust happens to be your boobs.
(10:23):
Yes, some boobs do wrapcompletely yours.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
I was gonna say yours , yours, I think swallow a cock
hole.
So mine do engulf a penis.
Speaker 2 (10:35):
Engulf, that's a good word, but there's still
pleasure, even if you don't.
I mean mean because you can,just everybody can squeeze their
titties.
Speaker 1 (10:44):
She's sitting here pushing her tits together, as
though you all can see.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
But only I can see this.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
I'm like, I'm like, I can't.
Speaker 2 (10:53):
I'm not.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
You can, I'm pushing.
Oh my God, I could See, I could.
I just I just looked down,pushed my tits in.
Yeah, I mean, I think I couldget it good on two sides of the
cock anyways.
But what about women who youknow?
There are women with evensmaller breasts than mine.
(11:13):
Um, how would they go aboutcreating a canal?
Speaker 2 (11:20):
just, I mean, you've got from my experience.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
even before my boobs were big, you were titty fucking
before your boobs were big, no,but you know okay.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
So I don't know.
Maybe I massaged mine because Iwas actually a late bloomer.
Everybody Believe it or not.
You caught up.
I never thought I was going toget boobs and so I had these
little like training bra boobsforever until I, until the
summer before my sophomore year,and then that summer I by the
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end of the summer I was a C cup.
It hurt like hell but I hadread in like 17 magazine or
something about massaging yourboobs to stimulate growth.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
Well, maybe it works.
Now, I wish.
Speaker 2 (12:13):
I had read that fucking article.
So I was like every night Iwould massage and the flesh is
pretty like movable.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
The flesh is movable.
I would say this too, as I'mvisualizing it.
Uh, you know, I the cock couldlike slide against at least that
chest area between the two tits, um, all right.
So now we know, uh, the who isdoing, what this could actually
be.
I guess, coming into thisconversation, I didn't think
about the fact that, yeah, queerwomen could do it.
(12:44):
And we'll get to the why at theend, like, why would a queer
woman want to do it?
Why would a queer woman want toput a strap on and titty fuck
another woman?
So we'll get to thatconversation.
We are going to move on.
Deanna, what are some tips andtricks for making this fun and
exciting?
Speaker 2 (13:03):
Because I've already imagined up some things that I
Well.
Number one lube is important.
Would lotion suffice?
Speaker 1 (13:11):
Massage oil- Would be okay, and would that be okay
for the cock?
They have massage oils that areokay for you.
Don't want to dry hump theboobs is what you're saying.
Speaker 2 (13:23):
No, because that's going to kind of be a little
friction.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
Right for both people , right, okay, so you lube up
the boobs, mm-hmm, mm-hmm.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
Yep, One way to once.
You give it a go a time or two.
What is really fun is puttingin some fellatio with it, Right,
so you know, as that peniscomes peeking through your peaks
(13:55):
, you can lick it, suck it Well.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
So I imagine that isn't always possible for all
penis boob combinations, or isit?
Speaker 2 (14:06):
All right, I'm going to hold on a second.
Speaker 1 (14:08):
Guys.
I'm going to see if I feel likethat is something I don't know.
Yeah, I could get there.
I wouldn't have to come up veryfar Right.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
I mean, I guess it would depend also on like the
position you're in Right.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
So of course there's, you could be laying on your
back.
Yeah, let's skip it, we'regoing to.
We were going to do thepositions kind of later on this
conversation, but I think itgoes well with the tips and
tricks.
As I'm trying to visualizebeing titty fuck, my first
visualization was me laying onmy back, in which case my
partner would straddle me.
Is that, and I'm like, wouldthat be comfortable for my
partner?
Is that more difficult is thata?
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What kind of positions are good?
Speaker 2 (14:50):
I mean it's comfortable, I mean they're
straddling is, if it's acomfortable thing, um, that'd be
sexy.
Speaker 1 (14:58):
I do, it is sexy.
I do enjoy.
One thing I think I've realizedin the last year I enjoy
looking up at my partner whiledoing sexual acts or something
like.
I like the visual stimulation,I like this sort of dominant
position and being able to takeit all in while things are
happening.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
And I was going to say, you know, if you like to up
the level of things, and maybeyou have your hands tied, oh,
Because, if he is.
But then you can't squeeze yourtits together, but he can
squeeze them while he is.
Speaker 1 (15:35):
Oh, I see, so you could be restrained on a bed.
See, now, that takes it.
So that takes it.
That takes it to another levela bed.
See, now, that takes it so thattakes it to another level.
That takes it from like spicingup your vanilla bedroom life to
integrating it into your BDSMkink life.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
That's hot.
So you know that's the greatthing about titty fucks they are
good for everybody.
Whether you're vanilla or kinkyas fuck, you can always titty
fuck Alright.
Speaker 1 (16:02):
So I will say this, guys, when I was visualizing
titty fucking, I'm like, well,how do I get pleasure out of it?
I have only believe it, or not?
In the last couple of yearswell, maybe the last year and a
half started to really enjoynipple stimulation, I'm not sure
why.
So I was like, oh yeah, I couldlike push my boobs together and
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stimulate my nipples and thatmight be super sexy.
But then I thought, what aboutlike little nipple clamps on?
Putting little nipple clamps onwhile it's happening?
Speaker 2 (16:37):
Or they have vibrating nipple clamps.
Speaker 1 (16:41):
I was thinking like suction, maybe using suction.
You know there are now suctiontoys.
If you guys are not checkingout the links in the description
of this podcast, if you aren'tvery sex toy savvy, uh, you're
missing out on an introductionto a lot of cool new toys that
are out there.
There's a suction technologyout there that is great for the
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clip, but also for the nipples.
That could be exciting.
Speaker 2 (17:09):
And another trick.
I don't know if it'd be a trickor a tip, you know.
Let's say you and your partnerare maybe sitting on the couch
watching a movie Maybe he'sreally into the movie and you're
like, oh man, I'm so fuckinghorny that happens, it does, and
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you know, instead of just goingdown on him, you can maybe go
down on him then whip out yourtits and start titty fucking him
.
That's, you would be theinitiator and you would be the
aggressor and you would be incontrol.
Speaker 1 (17:45):
So he is sitting on the couch, so you just really
have to lean over, or?
Speaker 2 (17:52):
kneel in front of him well, yeah men really kind of
well when a woman kneels infront of them.
They're like, oh yeah right.
Speaker 1 (18:01):
Yeah, I feel like looking at that, though as a
woman with smaller boobs, I'mnot sure would that work for me.
Could I get?
Speaker 2 (18:07):
my boobs in there.
Speaker 1 (18:09):
I feel like you're biased because you can just grab
your boobs and stretch them andreach them out.
Speaker 2 (18:14):
I mean, and it's a good workout too, because you're
going to get some squatting in.
Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 1 (18:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
I mean, hey, if you can get a workout while you're
having some real fun, that's awin.
Why?
Speaker 1 (18:28):
not.
I'm all for that.
So that's well, I was thinkinganother position, but that I
don't know.
Again, I'm just making these upin my head.
Speaker 2 (18:37):
Well, it would be another position.
Speaker 1 (18:38):
What is another?
Kneeling would be anotherposition, but he would have to
squat down.
Speaker 2 (18:44):
Or he'd need to be sitting down.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
Or you'd need to kneel on like a stool oh, that's
kind of hot too Like my ottomanover there.
That might put me at the rightlevel, depending again on the
height of your partner.
So you're going to have to kindof play around with different
positions.
Are there any boob sexpositions that, outside of
(19:11):
laying down kneeling, that youcan think of?
Speaker 2 (19:15):
well, I mean I have had the partner standing and me
squatting down and right rightum you know.
Yeah, I mean it's like, it'slike with.
Speaker 1 (19:27):
that's a fun thing about sex is there is no real
playbook on positions Like youcan come up with stuff, I guess
kind of in the 69 position Ifyour boobs are bigger and you
couldn't be in that position ontop and hold your boobs together
, cause you gotta have your armsto hold you up.
But you could at least likeslide your chest over his cock.
Speaker 2 (19:51):
Oh, that's true.
So you don't always have to bethe one squeezing your boobs.
Speaker 1 (19:55):
I keep forgetting about that.
You're right, they could dothat.
They could reach down if theirarms are long.
I'm pretty short, so, yeah, Ilike that.
Or, yeah, the 69 position.
You could probably do both ways, like if I'm laying down and
they're on top, then they're.
No, their balls would be in myface.
Speaker 2 (20:15):
They were on top, that's true, I mean, unless
you're like a good teabag, youwould be teabagged and there
would be a butt.
Right there You're doing someball suckling.
Speaker 1 (20:27):
Butt play their butt would be right there.
Yeah, so I mean you could dothat.
Anyways, all right, guys, Ithink you're getting the idea,
the positions that this works in, I'm sure your own mind.
I mean, I would suggest, and Iimagine you concur that the
first time, keep it simple.
Yes, you got to figure out howthe cock in question works with
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the tits in question and whatworks best for you, but I think
probably what sounds like it'sthe most important for women to
think about, and I certainlydidn't.
When I started imagining thisconversation, I didn't think
about all the things I could doto myself to make sure I was
getting pleasure.
I want to add to thisconversation yes, you could do
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stimulating your own nipples.
Your partner can stimulate yournipples.
You can do nipple clamps orapparently there are vibrating
suction toys for your nipples,but don't forget there are toys
you can actually have inside ofyour vagina stimulating you
(21:34):
while this is going on Yep.
You can have a vibrator insertedor, you know, if he is the one
managing your breasts.
You can have a suction toy onyour clit, or you can have a
butt plug in, or you can have.
You know, you don't have tojust have the boob sex going on.
(21:55):
You can get the full bodyexperience by adding toys into
this experience, which would,for some people who are into
that, heighten the eroticism ofthe whole thing that it's just
added into your play session,you know?
Um, so that was something I wasthinking.
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I'm like that would be a sexything to do if I had something
going on inside of me already,especially if I had one.
That there are toys out therethat I could insert inside
myself and also give my partnerthe control of.
Oh, yes, that would be hot.
So mix it up, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (22:39):
Absolutely.
Speaker 1 (22:40):
Make sure you're taking care of that clit while
you're getting titty fucked.
Don't forget the clit.
Don't forget the clit.
So cheers to using toys whilebeing titty fucked.
Well, and just in general, allright, we're going to move on to
when should this occur?
During sex, I mean at any point, right.
Speaker 2 (23:01):
Right At any point.
You don't have to actually doit to the point of ejaculation.
If you're with a penis owner,it could be part of your
foreplay to other intercourse.
(23:23):
That's right.
It can be foreplay, mm-hmm, orit can be the act itself.
Speaker 1 (23:28):
It can be the whole thing, the whole shebang.
You're just getting tittyfucked for the day.
Speaker 2 (23:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (23:34):
So, while we're talking about that and we're
talking about when it occursduring your sex play session,
when it occurs as the final act,the coup de grace is that what
we call it, the coup de grace?
Yeah let's the grand act and hecomes.
I think probably a big questionon everybody's mind is where
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does that come go?
Well, I mean, it's aimed righttowards.
Speaker 2 (24:05):
I mean.
So if you're laying on yourback, more than likely you're
going to get a pearl necklace,maybe the bottom of your chin,
unless he purposely like, pullsit out of your tits and shoots
it on your face.
Speaker 1 (24:21):
So yes, I mean, but I mean, let's be, I think, give
everybody a fair warning, thechance that that come might you
might get some you might getsome on your face.
I mean, there's always theoption of him like pulling back
and coming on your stomach.
This should be negotiated inadvance.
(24:42):
Folks, this is the part of theact, especially if you're doing
it the first time.
But every time you do it like,yeah, you can titty fuck me, do
not come in my face or on my.
You know whatever you get totalk about where that come ends
up.
But beware, if you're like, oh,come on my neck or whatever
your face is on the splash padarea.
Speaker 2 (25:07):
And if they handle their tool well and you're like
I don't want it on my face, theycan actually hold their penis
down to where it would justshoot on your chest and roll
back on your neck if you're onyour back?
I would hope so.
Or let's say you're doing thewhole squat while they're on the
(25:28):
couch.
Or let's say you're doing thewhole squat while they're on the
couch and you're like uh-uh,Because that if it goes off,
it's going straight in your face.
Speaker 1 (25:36):
Yeah, In that position.
Speaker 2 (25:37):
If you don't want that, then you know.
You need to verbalize that, Letme know, and then you would
pull away and let's say you wantit on your tits and they can
hit you on their tits.
Or maybe you want to turn overand have them shoot their wad on
your ass crack.
Speaker 1 (25:53):
Right, yeah, or you can tie it in, you could just,
or you could finish it off witha blowjob, you could, and decide
what you want to.
You know whether you'reswallowing or not.
That's up to you at that point.
So that's an option you now, ifyou uh have listened to our
(26:13):
semen facial uh podcast,obviously, and you're like
you're thinking about doing thiswith your partner but you're
like you feel weird about theircum on your neck or on your face
, please take time to listen tothis semen facial podcast
because I think it can alleviatea lot of the anxiety around
that.
No, hopefully what it will dois alleviate a lot of the ick
(26:37):
factor with that.
I think it's fair for all of usto feel icky about certain sex
and bodily you know fluidactivities that come up during
sex.
But I think in that podcast wewere really good about covering
like, asking yourself, like, whydo I find this icky?
And like, and maybe workingthrough some of that mental
(26:59):
stuff.
Speaker 2 (27:00):
Yeah, it was it got pretty deep.
Speaker 1 (27:03):
It got pretty deep, and so if you're interested in
adding this act to your sexrepertoire of acts, obviously
you got to really think abouthow that's all ending for you.
You're going to have to havethat conversation with your
partner.
You're going to have to decidelike, do I want to experiment
(27:24):
with allowing some cum on myface or not?
Um, allowing some cum on myface or not?
But I highly suggest like, uh,really going through your
thought processes and feelingsaround that.
Um, and that podcast, I thinkis really helpful.
It's certainly I still have nothad a semen facial.
Uh, I think it could be a funway to tie in like a semen
(27:47):
facial, if you're open to thatdefinitely um, and have it be a
super sexy, exciting event.
Um, yeah, yeah, have you?
Have you had a uh boob sexending in semen facial?
Have you done that combo yet?
Speaker 2 (28:02):
um, yeah, when it's been finished off with um head.
Speaker 1 (28:08):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (28:09):
Ratio.
Speaker 1 (28:10):
Okay so.
Speaker 2 (28:11):
Yeah, and you know, talking about that whole like
game plan Also, you know thingscan change, and so one thing
that we always talk about onthis podcast is how important
communication with your partneris, absolutely so let's say you
guys, you and your partner talkabout it.
(28:32):
You're like, okay, let's dothis.
You're like I don't want anycum on me, yeah.
And then in the act, you changeyour mind.
Speaker 1 (28:43):
You get excited.
Speaker 2 (28:44):
Which you can do.
Right, just communicate thatRight, because that's probably
going to be really sexy to them.
Right, just communicate thatRight, because that's probably
going to be really sexy to themRight when you're like, I want
you to come all over my tits, orI want you to come and give me
that glistening pearl necklace.
Or maybe you decide okay, I'mhot, I'm in it, I'm ready for
(29:04):
the semen facial, right, but youcan communicate that, yes.
So if things change in themoment, that's okay, that's okay
.
That's why communication is soimportant, right.
Speaker 1 (29:15):
Your sex situation.
You set it up up front.
You say I want to try this babe.
I want you know.
I listened to this podcast andthese, you know ladies made me
think why not give it a try?
Can we try that?
But please, like I'm not, likedo not come on my chest or my
face, like maybe we'll end withsex or whatever.
(29:36):
But then you're in it andsomething happens and you're
like this is way better than Ithought I have shared, I think,
in past podcasts.
I have learned in the last yearI've always thought I was a
decent communicator during sexand I'm not the best
communicator during sex, whichmight surprise everybody.
As much as I communicate aboutsex openly on this podcast.
(30:00):
When I'm in an act of sex,sometimes I fall short on words
and I think that has also led toa lot of disappointing sex for
me.
In my history.
I've also felt ashamed to whenI had that, you know, a dirty
thought in the middle of sex andI'm getting heated up and I'm
like oh I, you know you go back,you start flipping through the,
(30:22):
the dirty fantasies that you'vegotten from porn or like
erotica and you're like God, Iwish in this moment this thing
could happen.
But if I verbalize that, mypartner is going to think I'm
whatever number of dirty, dirtytrashy, she's slutty.
I don't want to be with a womanthat would be into that.
I mean, I'm hoping that in thisday and age we know that that's
(30:43):
sex shaming, slut shaming, andif you have a partner who's like
that, they can just fuck rightoff, tell them to fuck off and
fuck off, get down the road,that's right.
So, um, being able to.
If you have a moment you'relike I do want to do that, then
just say to your partner you caneven stop and restart.
You can have that conversation.
Uh, they can keep strokingthemselves.
(31:05):
Will you verbalize like I'mreally turned on um, I want to
use this vibrator on my clit.
Will you finish off on my neckor face?
You know, being able to do thatin the moment is yeah and you
know even the opposite.
Speaker 2 (31:21):
So let's say you game , plan this with your partner
and you tell them that you wantthem to give you your first
facial.
And in the moment you're like, Idon't know if I'm ready for
that, you absolutely can changeyour mind.
I think that's something that,as women, we sometimes struggle
(31:43):
with is that we feel like, if wego into a situation sexually,
that we can't change our mind onboundaries that we're set
anytime in the moment, even ifyou're like, nope, I'm, I'm, I'm
done, I don't want to goforward anymore.
You have that right, and so youknow, if you change your mind,
(32:06):
verbalize it.
Speaker 1 (32:07):
So cheers to that we can change our mind.
Speaker 2 (32:10):
We can Anytime.
Speaker 1 (32:12):
All right, guys, let's talk about why, because I
know probably at the beginning alot of you were like, and maybe
some of the whys have beenanswered.
But let's really strategicallyanswer.
Why titty sex?
Why?
Why fucking the boobs?
It does seem sort of I don'tknow like.
From my perspective, having notintegrated into my sex life
(32:34):
first, it felt like, oh, it'ssort of one of those cliched
acts that you know seems sillythat nobody does.
Now you had brought up somegood reasons why a woman would
want to have the option of tittysex.
You want to share that withlisteners.
Speaker 2 (32:47):
Yeah, so while some women are comfortable with
period sex, there are some of us, like myself, who are not
comfortable with period sex.
So this is an alternativebecause for some reason, you're
horny while you're.
I mean, I don't know aboutothers, but I'm not but um, I am
(33:11):
, and so this is a way to getaroused, um to get some sexual
pleasure.
Yeah, I have no problem with,like, um, my clit being played
with.
I just don't want anythinginside of you, inside of me.
I mean I will have a tampon inbecause I want to be sure that
(33:37):
the dam is plugged.
Speaker 1 (33:40):
So my question is do you?
Because for you this is yousaid you're horny, so you want
to have sex, and so this is agood alternative.
So for you, do you get a lot ofsexual satisfaction from your
boobs?
Speaker 2 (33:56):
I do.
Speaker 1 (33:57):
Because I mean, I know a lot of women not a lot.
I know a couple women who don'tget any.
They're like I don't really getanything out of my boobs.
Speaker 2 (34:05):
So but for you and I think a lot of I've also known a
lot of women that really enjoythe breast stimulation and also
I know that there's been umothers in our circle have been
on this podcast that also havesaid this that I'm really
mentally stimulated.
So, like my biggest androgynouszone is my brain.
(34:32):
Like you, you can just talkwords.
Speaker 1 (34:40):
Dirty.
Speaker 2 (34:41):
And get me going Right.
So I don't know if it's reallythat my tits are so like
sensitive and stuff or if it'smore like that whole emotionally
like stimulated.
Speaker 1 (34:56):
Right.
Speaker 2 (34:57):
Like I'm like this is hot Like I, because you know
your male partner.
I don't know a guy out therethat's going to say they don't
like or have not, if they'venever done it, have not
fantasized about it.
Right, it seems to be the one.
Speaker 1 (35:12):
Wait, do hey guys, men, men, or are people, humans
with penises that are out there?
If you are repelled by the ideaof titty sex, will you please
reach out to me?
I want to hear, hear about that.
If you're just kind of likethat, that sounds dumb.
I'm not going to try it.
I also am curious about yourperspective.
Does anyone are repelled bythat?
(35:33):
How would you be repelled by it?
Now, I do understand why womenmight be, but I want to talk
about what appeals to me aboutit, what really appeals to me
about the idea of being, of boobsex, being titty fucked.
I do enjoy.
I enjoy several roles in my sexlife, but there is just
(35:57):
something that is really sexyabout being in a submissive
position to a partner.
It feels to me although Iimagine you could speak to the
opposite, but from my imaginingsthat it's a very it could, it's
a very like a power dynamichappens in breast sex,
especially if you're on thebottom or if you're restrained,
(36:20):
and so the idea of that positionit's like oh, that that is sexy
.
Um, being able to enjoy thatpower dynamic that would happen
there do you feel like beingwhat, would you be the titty
fucky the receiver like?
Do you feel like you can dothat from a them dom with the
boobs?
Can you like titty fuck a subman?
(36:41):
Yeah or cock, I don't know Ican't pick, I've never done it,
I'm not in my own dynamic, I Ican't picture it that way, but
I'm like, so tell me about that.
Speaker 2 (36:51):
I mean.
So, if you're in like a fem domsituation, our local expert's
not here, so I'll do my best.
Yeah, lucy our residentdominatrix.
So there's chairs that are usedsometimes where their hands are
(37:13):
strapped.
Speaker 1 (37:14):
Oh, the sub man.
You can strap him to a chairhow?
Speaker 2 (37:19):
do you get in there?
What about standing Well, thatwould be the whole like working
those inner thighs and glutes bydoing that squat.
Also, if they are on the bedRestrained.
Speaker 1 (37:34):
Restrained.
I'm picturing it, I'm picturingit.
Speaker 2 (37:38):
Watch out, you can be between their legs, on your
knees.
Speaker 1 (37:42):
Oh yeah, and you could also, but you can't
squeeze your boobs together thatway.
Speaker 2 (37:45):
Yeah, you could, because you're like leaning down
on them.
You don't need to.
Speaker 1 (37:49):
Yeah, maybe I've done it that way.
Yeah, you could, because you'relike leaning down on them.
You don't need to.
Speaker 2 (37:50):
Yeah, maybe I've done it.
It's possible again.
Speaker 1 (37:54):
You've got massive tits.
Speaker 2 (37:55):
You don't even need to squeeze them together I mean,
let's be fair um, or you know,if you have um I can't think of
the name, but like the cross, oh, what is that?
Speaker 1 (38:09):
oh, the crossing, but like the cross.
Oh, what is that?
Oh, the cross thing, yeah, butanyways that's true Now that, oh
, you could totally, yeah,definitely squatting.
Speaker 2 (38:18):
So, and once again, I'm being visual.
Speaker 1 (38:21):
Yeah, I wish if you guys could just see the visuals
over here.
Speaker 2 (38:24):
I'm always visual.
Yeah, I can't help it, yeah.
Speaker 1 (38:27):
So what I mean?
I think that especially let'ssay well, if you're really into
that BDSM dynamic for a subfemme, female or woman, I think
that it could be really sexy.
I think it could be reallyreally hot.
Speaker 2 (38:43):
Addition, I think, if you are in a vanilla
relationship and you're like youdon't want to get into all the
BDSM, I still think it's likeit's a very sensual sexy.
I mean, one of the biggest turnons for me is the arousal my
partner gets from it, right.
(39:04):
So when my partner is clearlyinto it and getting a lot of
pleasure, that makes me hot andaroused.
Speaker 1 (39:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (39:18):
Because I'm telling you my brain is Right.
Speaker 1 (39:23):
I can think of a lot of great dirty talk that could
happen during that too.
Speaker 2 (39:27):
Oh yeah, If you're a dirty talker, it gives you so
much opportunity.
Speaker 1 (39:33):
You know it's funny, I have never been good at giving
dirty talk.
Oddly enough, as much as I'm aword person, in bed I kind of
clam up.
But I love to be talked dirtytoo, and I am actually just
right now in this last year,really learning how to talk
dirty, because I do have a dirtyscript in the back of my head
(39:56):
Then just voice it.
I know I'm learning how to dothat and it's super hot.
But yeah, I think it would.
You know, I understand whysomeone might say boob sex,
that's so dumb, why do that?
But, like I mean, why not addthis to your sex sex repertoire,
(40:18):
your sex box, your sex?
Speaker 2 (40:19):
you know your list of acts that you want to do
together.
At least give it a shot.
At least give it a shot.
Don't knock it till, you try it, that's right.
Speaker 1 (40:25):
I mean, why wouldn A cock will get on a nipple?
Speaker 2 (40:29):
Oh it does, or you know, there's that pre-ejaculate
.
Speaker 1 (40:35):
I was just thinking about that.
You can say that's a little bitof lube.
Speaker 2 (40:38):
They could take, like the tip of their penis and rub
it around your nipple with thatpre-ejaculate.
That's pretty similar.
That would be sexy, that'spretty hot that is, that is sexy
.
Speaker 1 (40:52):
And if you don't like , your partners come or
ejaculate again, start askingyourself why?
Uh, because I, uh, my friendsknow, like deanna and I, ruby
and I, have known each other fora very long time and I was very
vocal.
Ruby and I have known eachother for a very long time and I
(41:14):
was very vocal about reallyhating semen.
I mean really hating semen andjust being like it is a mess.
I don't want it all over me,it's like mucusy.
I mean.
I had all these reasons.
I was like, why, oh why can't,you know, men ejaculate?
Some like Dust Powder, babypowder, something that freshens
(41:37):
me up afterwards and in sort ofmy own sexual journey I have.
Definitely I'm still like.
I have moments where I'm likeyou know, in my refractory
period I'm like, oh, I don'twant to like, I'm ready to be
clean, or I don't want to likereach over and touch it or
whatever.
But even that's starting todissipate just a little bit.
(41:59):
I would wish that for any womanwho still likes to play with
cocks that ejaculate.
I would not at all want therepulsion that I experienced for
women who continue to havethose relationships.
So but back to why.
Why would a woman want who's ina sexual relationship with
(42:26):
another woman, or a vulva ownerwant the strap on a titty fuck,
and I think that comes back tolike, if you like that power
dynamic, um, the visualstimulation of I.
Now I can imagine being in adominant situation with another
woman with a strap on um, andenjoying the visual of looking
(42:48):
down at having that act with awoman when I put myself in that
position.
I'm like that would be fuckinghot.
In which case I'm like, oh,that's why a guy would enjoy it.
They also get more of aphysical stimulation, however.
Speaker 2 (43:07):
There are strap-ons, ladies, that come with vibration
and stimulation If you're notusing a strap-on that has a
little pocket rocket pocket youneed to be.
Speaker 1 (43:17):
Yes, so in which case you can actually have that
stimulation for yourself, whilegetting the visual satisfaction
of watching.
You know your partner'sbeautiful breasts you know, you
know, sliding against this thingand then giving her nipple
nipple stimulation and stufflike that.
So I had not, until today, evenlike considered that.
(43:42):
Actually I don't think I hadconsidered the idea of two women
doing this sex act until youwere here and we were kind of
like going over what we wantedto talk about and I was like oh,
I'm like I could get into thatright, and if you want, if you
have not heard the peggingepisode, if you want to go back.
Speaker 2 (44:04):
We kind of talk about , um, that dynamic.
When, as a woman, you'rewearing a strap-on.
It is a very different feeling,yes, and it's a very.
You're definitely in thedominant role and that's one of
the turn-ons for me is likethere's a rush that comes with
(44:26):
that for sure.
Yes, because it's pretty obviousthat, even if you are in a
situation with a male partner ora female partner non-binary
when you have a strap-on on, youreally are the dominant one in
(44:47):
that situation and that's partof the the rush for me anyways
and you are in sole control ofgiving that pleasure, because
you know when someone sucks yourcock and it's a strap on.
Oh, I've never done that.
(45:07):
I have not had my cock suckedWell it's, I mean it's hot, yeah
, so you have had this donebefore?
Speaker 1 (45:17):
Was it a woman or a man who sucked your cock?
A man?
One thing I want to say beforewe close out this podcast is we
bring up a simple sex act.
Boob sex up front sounds simple.
Boob sex up front sounds simple.
It's easy to dismiss it as likethat's just some dumb, like
cliche thing from whenever.
Nobody does that.
(45:38):
But when you really start divinginto, like when I really start
thinking about these things thatare out there that I've not
done, that are so basic I mean,it is, it's right there for you
and I start questioning why Ihaven't done it, I start
questioning, well, if I did it,how could it be exciting?
I'm going to be selfish.
(45:59):
I want it to be fuckingexciting for me.
Like I know how I can get apartner off and why it would be
exciting to him, but I want toknow, like why would I want to
do this?
Because I am, I feel verystrongly about not engaging in
sex acts that I don't want to.
Like I want to be all in, Iwant to get something out of it,
(46:20):
I want to feel satisfaction, Iwant to feel sexy.
So I start like trying toimagine what would make this
exciting for me and throughconversations, through research,
which I do do prior to these,oftentimes I'm surprised at how
I, how I'm like God.
That could be exciting, thatcould be sexy.
(46:43):
I like to have the opportunity.
You know whatever it is and andso you take one simple sex act.
It sounds very simple.
A guy walks up to you, you pushyour boobs together, he, like,
pumps away and is done.
That's how, in my mind, it wasprior to this conversation.
But this actually could beworked into a whole array of
(47:04):
scenarios that could last for acouple of minutes, it could last
for 15 to 20 minutes.
It could be with a femalepartner, it could be with a male
partner.
I could be dominant, I could besubmissive, I could get
stimulated, I could get some funnipple play and I could have
toys attached.
(47:25):
It could be BDSM experience, itcould be a facial experience.
It's kind of amazing to me how,if you take time to stop and
not go with your first judgment,you may open the door to a new
opportunity that you end uploving.
Raise your hand, give me likesome sign.
(47:47):
Who all is out there.
That's getting titty fucked.
I want to hear from women ormen.
Tell me, are you, are yourfemale partners letting you
titty fuck them Like?
I want to know from people, allhumans out there, I would love,
I would love to hear from womenwho are a strap on titty
fucking each other.
Speaker 2 (48:04):
I mean, I've been to sex clubs and clearly you see it
there, so it's happening.
And it's weird because I would,I would think of anal is out
there and people are more openabout anal sex.
That poop sex is a lot milderin in my, my thinking.
Speaker 1 (48:29):
I mean except like it could end in the facial and
it's not mild but it doesn'thave to, I'm still intimidated
by the facial.
Speaker 2 (48:38):
It's easy to not end in a facial.
Speaker 1 (48:40):
Right, right.
Speaker 2 (48:41):
Personally, I would think if you're saving yourself
for marriage cause, you're agood Christian girl, boob sex is
for you.
Right.
Instead of having anal, I wouldmuch rather go to the boob sex
Boob.
Sex is for you, right.
Instead of having anal, I wouldmuch rather go to the boob sex
Boob sex is for you, hey, that'sgreat advice.
Speaker 1 (48:56):
And again, if you are a Christian woman and you, I'm
not going to.
I don't want to shame yourchoice of religion, but again,
this is something that could beacceptable.
God damn it.
I think we fucking coveredtitty fucking, mammary
intercourse, that's right.
(49:17):
I actually found what wascalled mammary intercourse and
boob fucking.
Speaker 2 (49:22):
Boob sex.
Speaker 1 (49:25):
We gave you a solid boob sex 101.
If you disagree, guess what youdo?
A-n-n-e-t-t-e.
Annette at SheExploresLifecom,feel free to tell me.
Tell me how it should have beendone.
I dare you.
I'm inviting some mansplaining,even.
Speaker 2 (49:43):
Oh, yeah, mansplain this.
Speaker 1 (49:46):
Mansplain this.
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tuned.
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We've already told you somewe're going to be looking into
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So until next time, cheers,we'll see you, ring loop.
Do the sex Think fun, honest and feminist as fuck,
and always with the goal offighting the patriarchy.
One female orgasm at a time.
Welcome to the locker room.
Today's locker room talk topicis boob sex, titty fucking,
(00:50):
mammary and trick course.
Those are, in fact, all termsused to describe the act of a
man sticking his cock betweentwo tits to get off.
And you may be asking is thisreally still a thing?
I mean, I think it was popularin the 80s, at least that's for
(01:12):
some reason embedded in my mind.
We are here to answer thatquestion, and we are also going
to be answering the five W'sthat writers like to use.
I am a writer that the who, what, when, where and why the fuck
you'd want to do it Now.
Listeners, I have shared manytimes in the past that I am a
(01:36):
relatively small breasted woman,so I have zero experience with
titty fucking or boob sex,breast play in such a way that
your boobs are used as aflashlight.
But fortunately, one of my verybest friends in the whole wide
world has giant boobs.
She's all boobs, in fact.
(01:58):
Many times while recordingthese episodes together, we have
had to stop and start over andmove her mic around so that it
won't bump into her giantbreasts.
So Ruby, aka Deanna, is here tohelp us create the Boob Sex 101
podcast for you guys.
(02:19):
She is going to walk us throughwhat it's all about and help us
understand this particular sexact.
So, deanna- yes.
You've been on lots of episodeswith me.
You have been on what is now, Iwould say, currently one of our
(02:41):
most popular episodes.
Which one is that?
That would be the semen facials, the semen facials Guys.
It is one of my favoriteepisodes for so many reasons,
mostly because of you know justhow weird people get about the
topic and then, of course,through our podcast, like I got
(03:02):
comfortable with it.
So if you have not listened tosemen facials, you got to go
back through our podcast, like Igot comfortable with it.
Um, so if you have not listenedto semen facials, you got to go
back through our past episodesand queue it up.
I promise you will not bedisappointed.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Definitely not a disappointment.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
And, believe it or not, it's going to tie into
today's podcast, but we'll getthere one thing at a time
podcast, but we'll get there onething at a time.
Let's raise our glasses, let'stalk about sex, let's do it.
All right, folks, let's getstarted.
I like to, ahead of thesepodcasts, I like to be a little
(03:36):
sciencey about it, bring someintegrity to these conversations
.
I like to come at you with somefacts I got to tell you.
Science, scientists,researchers really haven't
bothered with boob sex.
They just haven't.
I mean, I looked and I lookedand I looked and, deanna Ruby,
(03:57):
you watched me.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
I did, I witnessed.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
And we found nothing.
I mean, I did find a wholebunch of new porn sites that I'm
probably going to check out,but but there wasn't a lot of
factoids out there and a lot ofthe articles I tried to read on
it were pretty.
You know, basic vanilla fillingNot not that there is anything
(04:21):
wrong with again, we're notvanilla sex shaming, in fact I
would say boob sex Vanilla,vanilla.
You know, this is definitely.
But don't worry for our kinkylisteners, we're going to come
up with ways to make it kinkyfor you, do not worry.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
Well, I mean actually , I think boob sex is a vanilla
kink.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Oh, tell me about vanilla kink.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
Well, being part of um the kink community and kind
of knowing what vanilla is, Ithink boob sex is like pretty
mellow.
For those that are kinksters,that you know are into the kink
scene, right.
But I think for someone who'svanilla boob sex is kind of a oh
(05:09):
, we're going to do that.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
Right, right, well, it's a step above, just like
basic sex.
So this, you're right, it's agreat way, for I think,
oftentimes, vanilla couples orpartners often want to figure
out how to spice things up.
In fact, we have a podcast onhow to spice things up.
In fact, we have a podcast onhow to spice up your sex life.
I don't know if we covered boobsex in it, but this would be
(05:32):
like um something.
I feel like people who are morecomfortable and who enjoy, uh,
vanilla sex but want to get alittle spice it up.
This would be um something youcould consider doing right,
definitely.
Little spice it up.
This would be um something youcould consider doing right,
definitely, and I say that asbeing someone who's never had it
so for me it like I will.
I I will most likely we'll seeby the end of the podcast add it
(05:55):
to my sex bucket list.
Uh, but I'm I'm speaking fromno knowledge, guys, just just
I'm talking a bunch of shitright now, basically.
So let's start.
Let's start with um who who ishaving titty sex?
ruby tell me anyone who wants toall right, but itty bitty
(06:16):
titties, that's I guess bigtitties, can you do this?
You can do this with itty bittytitties.
You feel like you feel like I'm.
I mean, the only place I'veever seen this happen is on porn
, and definitely not with ittybitty tittied women.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Well, porn really is kind of like anything on the
screen.
It's an exaggeration and it'snot really reality.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Right, so this act, in case anyone doesn't quite
know exactly what it looks like,how we are going to talk about
the who is.
I mean, it does require aperson with boobs and a person
then with a cock.
Now, I suppose a dildo could beused to do this.
I just thought of that and youjust clarified it.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
I just thought of that and you just terrified it.
Someone wearing a strap-on thatdoes not have a penis
themselves could definitely havea strap-on on and titty fuck
someone.
Yeah, because, for those of youwho have not dove into the
realm of the titty fuck, youhave the idea that, um, it's
(07:27):
mainly for a man's pleasure.
I did have that idea, but it'svery pleasurable for a woman, so
it is uh, yes, okay, um, assomeone who has experience in
this topic, uh, yes, I actuallyhave a lot of pleasure.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
Do you get titty fucked regularly?
Is it part of your regularrotation of sex?
Speaker 2 (07:54):
It is not part of my regular rotation, but when it
pops out, there it's a specialoccasion I mean, you know or
it's, my partner might say theywanna fuck my tits, and of
course yeah, or maybe I'm likeoh god, I really want yeah that
(08:17):
between my tits.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
Yeah, so I guess that's part of the who is who
initiates this kind of thing.
You're saying that the boobowner, the woman, sometimes asks
to be titty fucked.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
Yes, I mean, so both parties involved could be the
initiators Right.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Okay, all right, I have a hard time picturing that,
but maybe I'll understand it.
I mean, I don't know.
Well, we'll get there.
I mean, I don't know well,we'll get there.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
I just don't know.
I think initially.
So let's say it's um the breastowner.
Right, it's their firstencounter.
More than likely it'll probablybe suggested by their partner.
Or, you know, like yourself,maybe you'll be the initiator
(09:08):
after this, because it's goingto be on your bucket list.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
Yeah, I've already expressed to my partner that I
think.
I'm going to have to be teddyfucked.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
So, even if the breast owner has not had.
Maybe they're going to listentoday and go.
Oh man, that sounds like fun.
Speaker 1 (09:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
And you know.
So really, it can be either, orwho initiates it.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
All right, all right, I I can attest, uh listeners,
that I'm probably going toinitiate my first experience to
you initiating.
Yes, we'll have to do afollow-up oh yes, on how it goes
.
So I want to move on to becausesome of you may be questioning
(09:54):
exactly what are we talkingabout when it comes to titty.
We're calling it titty boob sex.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
So, yeah, so it is squeezing the boobs together to
create kind of a slit, a slitexactly For there to be
penetrated.
Yeah, so much like using aflashlight or your butt cheeks,
or your butt cheeks right, itjust happens to be your boobs.
(10:23):
Yes, some boobs do wrapcompletely yours.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
I was gonna say yours , yours, I think swallow a cock
hole.
So mine do engulf a penis.
Speaker 2 (10:35):
Engulf, that's a good word, but there's still
pleasure, even if you don't.
I mean mean because you can,just everybody can squeeze their
titties.
Speaker 1 (10:44):
She's sitting here pushing her tits together, as
though you all can see.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
But only I can see this.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
I'm like, I'm like, I can't.
Speaker 2 (10:53):
I'm not.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
You can, I'm pushing.
Oh my God, I could See, I could.
I just I just looked down,pushed my tits in.
Yeah, I mean, I think I couldget it good on two sides of the
cock anyways.
But what about women who youknow?
There are women with evensmaller breasts than mine.
(11:13):
Um, how would they go aboutcreating a canal?
Speaker 2 (11:20):
just, I mean, you've got from my experience.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
even before my boobs were big, you were titty fucking
before your boobs were big, no,but you know okay.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
So I don't know.
Maybe I massaged mine because Iwas actually a late bloomer.
Everybody Believe it or not.
You caught up.
I never thought I was going toget boobs and so I had these
little like training bra boobsforever until I, until the
summer before my sophomore year,and then that summer I by the
(11:55):
end of the summer I was a C cup.
It hurt like hell but I hadread in like 17 magazine or
something about massaging yourboobs to stimulate growth.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
Well, maybe it works.
Now, I wish.
Speaker 2 (12:13):
I had read that fucking article.
So I was like every night Iwould massage and the flesh is
pretty like movable.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
The flesh is movable.
I would say this too, as I'mvisualizing it.
Uh, you know, I the cock couldlike slide against at least that
chest area between the two tits, um, all right.
So now we know, uh, the who isdoing, what this could actually
be.
I guess, coming into thisconversation, I didn't think
about the fact that, yeah, queerwomen could do it.
(12:44):
And we'll get to the why at theend, like, why would a queer
woman want to do it?
Why would a queer woman want toput a strap on and titty fuck
another woman?
So we'll get to thatconversation.
We are going to move on.
Deanna, what are some tips andtricks for making this fun and
exciting?
Speaker 2 (13:03):
Because I've already imagined up some things that I
Well.
Number one lube is important.
Would lotion suffice?
Speaker 1 (13:11):
Massage oil- Would be okay, and would that be okay
for the cock?
They have massage oils that areokay for you.
Don't want to dry hump theboobs is what you're saying.
Speaker 2 (13:23):
No, because that's going to kind of be a little
friction.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
Right for both people , right, okay, so you lube up
the boobs, mm-hmm, mm-hmm.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
Yep, One way to once.
You give it a go a time or two.
What is really fun is puttingin some fellatio with it, Right,
so you know, as that peniscomes peeking through your peaks
(13:55):
, you can lick it, suck it Well.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
So I imagine that isn't always possible for all
penis boob combinations, or isit?
Speaker 2 (14:06):
All right, I'm going to hold on a second.
Speaker 1 (14:08):
Guys.
I'm going to see if I feel likethat is something I don't know.
Yeah, I could get there.
I wouldn't have to come up veryfar Right.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
I mean, I guess it would depend also on like the
position you're in Right.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
So of course there's, you could be laying on your
back.
Yeah, let's skip it, we'regoing to.
We were going to do thepositions kind of later on this
conversation, but I think itgoes well with the tips and
tricks.
As I'm trying to visualizebeing titty fuck, my first
visualization was me laying onmy back, in which case my
partner would straddle me.
Is that, and I'm like, wouldthat be comfortable for my
partner?
Is that more difficult is thata?
(14:47):
What kind of positions are good?
Speaker 2 (14:50):
I mean it's comfortable, I mean they're
straddling is, if it's acomfortable thing, um, that'd be
sexy.
Speaker 1 (14:58):
I do, it is sexy.
I do enjoy.
One thing I think I've realizedin the last year I enjoy
looking up at my partner whiledoing sexual acts or something
like.
I like the visual stimulation,I like this sort of dominant
position and being able to takeit all in while things are
happening.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
And I was going to say, you know, if you like to up
the level of things, and maybeyou have your hands tied, oh,
Because, if he is.
But then you can't squeeze yourtits together, but he can
squeeze them while he is.
Speaker 1 (15:35):
Oh, I see, so you could be restrained on a bed.
See, now, that takes it.
So that takes it.
That takes it to another levela bed.
See, now, that takes it so thattakes it to another level.
That takes it from like spicingup your vanilla bedroom life to
integrating it into your BDSMkink life.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
That's hot.
So you know that's the greatthing about titty fucks they are
good for everybody.
Whether you're vanilla or kinkyas fuck, you can always titty
fuck Alright.
Speaker 1 (16:02):
So I will say this, guys, when I was visualizing
titty fucking, I'm like, well,how do I get pleasure out of it?
I have only believe it, or not?
In the last couple of yearswell, maybe the last year and a
half started to really enjoynipple stimulation, I'm not sure
why.
So I was like, oh yeah, I couldlike push my boobs together and
(16:24):
stimulate my nipples and thatmight be super sexy.
But then I thought, what aboutlike little nipple clamps on?
Putting little nipple clamps onwhile it's happening?
Speaker 2 (16:37):
Or they have vibrating nipple clamps.
Speaker 1 (16:41):
I was thinking like suction, maybe using suction.
You know there are now suctiontoys.
If you guys are not checkingout the links in the description
of this podcast, if you aren'tvery sex toy savvy, uh, you're
missing out on an introductionto a lot of cool new toys that
are out there.
There's a suction technologyout there that is great for the
(17:04):
clip, but also for the nipples.
That could be exciting.
Speaker 2 (17:09):
And another trick.
I don't know if it'd be a trickor a tip, you know.
Let's say you and your partnerare maybe sitting on the couch
watching a movie Maybe he'sreally into the movie and you're
like, oh man, I'm so fuckinghorny that happens, it does, and
(17:31):
you know, instead of just goingdown on him, you can maybe go
down on him then whip out yourtits and start titty fucking him
.
That's, you would be theinitiator and you would be the
aggressor and you would be incontrol.
Speaker 1 (17:45):
So he is sitting on the couch, so you just really
have to lean over, or?
Speaker 2 (17:52):
kneel in front of him well, yeah men really kind of
well when a woman kneels infront of them.
They're like, oh yeah right.
Speaker 1 (18:01):
Yeah, I feel like looking at that, though as a
woman with smaller boobs, I'mnot sure would that work for me.
Could I get?
Speaker 2 (18:07):
my boobs in there.
Speaker 1 (18:09):
I feel like you're biased because you can just grab
your boobs and stretch them andreach them out.
Speaker 2 (18:14):
I mean, and it's a good workout too, because you're
going to get some squatting in.
Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 1 (18:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
I mean, hey, if you can get a workout while you're
having some real fun, that's awin.
Why?
Speaker 1 (18:28):
not.
I'm all for that.
So that's well, I was thinkinganother position, but that I
don't know.
Again, I'm just making these upin my head.
Speaker 2 (18:37):
Well, it would be another position.
Speaker 1 (18:38):
What is another?
Kneeling would be anotherposition, but he would have to
squat down.
Speaker 2 (18:44):
Or he'd need to be sitting down.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
Or you'd need to kneel on like a stool oh, that's
kind of hot too Like my ottomanover there.
That might put me at the rightlevel, depending again on the
height of your partner.
So you're going to have to kindof play around with different
positions.
Are there any boob sexpositions that, outside of
(19:11):
laying down kneeling, that youcan think of?
Speaker 2 (19:15):
well, I mean I have had the partner standing and me
squatting down and right rightum you know.
Yeah, I mean it's like, it'slike with.
Speaker 1 (19:27):
that's a fun thing about sex is there is no real
playbook on positions Like youcan come up with stuff, I guess
kind of in the 69 position Ifyour boobs are bigger and you
couldn't be in that position ontop and hold your boobs together
, cause you gotta have your armsto hold you up.
But you could at least likeslide your chest over his cock.
Speaker 2 (19:51):
Oh, that's true.
So you don't always have to bethe one squeezing your boobs.
Speaker 1 (19:55):
I keep forgetting about that.
You're right, they could dothat.
They could reach down if theirarms are long.
I'm pretty short, so, yeah, Ilike that.
Or, yeah, the 69 position.
You could probably do both ways, like if I'm laying down and
they're on top, then they're.
No, their balls would be in myface.
Speaker 2 (20:15):
They were on top, that's true, I mean, unless
you're like a good teabag, youwould be teabagged and there
would be a butt.
Right there You're doing someball suckling.
Speaker 1 (20:27):
Butt play their butt would be right there.
Yeah, so I mean you could dothat.
Anyways, all right, guys, Ithink you're getting the idea,
the positions that this works in, I'm sure your own mind.
I mean, I would suggest, and Iimagine you concur that the
first time, keep it simple.
Yes, you got to figure out howthe cock in question works with
(20:49):
the tits in question and whatworks best for you, but I think
probably what sounds like it'sthe most important for women to
think about, and I certainlydidn't.
When I started imagining thisconversation, I didn't think
about all the things I could doto myself to make sure I was
getting pleasure.
I want to add to thisconversation yes, you could do
(21:12):
stimulating your own nipples.
Your partner can stimulate yournipples.
You can do nipple clamps orapparently there are vibrating
suction toys for your nipples,but don't forget there are toys
you can actually have inside ofyour vagina stimulating you
(21:34):
while this is going on Yep.
You can have a vibrator insertedor, you know, if he is the one
managing your breasts.
You can have a suction toy onyour clit, or you can have a
butt plug in, or you can have.
You know, you don't have tojust have the boob sex going on.
(21:55):
You can get the full bodyexperience by adding toys into
this experience, which would,for some people who are into
that, heighten the eroticism ofthe whole thing that it's just
added into your play session,you know?
Um, so that was something I wasthinking.
(22:16):
I'm like that would be a sexything to do if I had something
going on inside of me already,especially if I had one.
That there are toys out therethat I could insert inside
myself and also give my partnerthe control of.
Oh, yes, that would be hot.
So mix it up, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (22:39):
Absolutely.
Speaker 1 (22:40):
Make sure you're taking care of that clit while
you're getting titty fucked.
Don't forget the clit.
Don't forget the clit.
So cheers to using toys whilebeing titty fucked.
Well, and just in general, allright, we're going to move on to
when should this occur?
During sex, I mean at any point, right.
Speaker 2 (23:01):
Right At any point.
You don't have to actually doit to the point of ejaculation.
If you're with a penis owner,it could be part of your
foreplay to other intercourse.
(23:23):
That's right.
It can be foreplay, mm-hmm, orit can be the act itself.
Speaker 1 (23:28):
It can be the whole thing, the whole shebang.
You're just getting tittyfucked for the day.
Speaker 2 (23:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (23:34):
So, while we're talking about that and we're
talking about when it occursduring your sex play session,
when it occurs as the final act,the coup de grace is that what
we call it, the coup de grace?
Yeah let's the grand act and hecomes.
I think probably a big questionon everybody's mind is where
(23:58):
does that come go?
Well, I mean, it's aimed righttowards.
Speaker 2 (24:05):
I mean.
So if you're laying on yourback, more than likely you're
going to get a pearl necklace,maybe the bottom of your chin,
unless he purposely like, pullsit out of your tits and shoots
it on your face.
Speaker 1 (24:21):
So yes, I mean, but I mean, let's be, I think, give
everybody a fair warning, thechance that that come might you
might get some you might getsome on your face.
I mean, there's always theoption of him like pulling back
and coming on your stomach.
This should be negotiated inadvance.
(24:42):
Folks, this is the part of theact, especially if you're doing
it the first time.
But every time you do it like,yeah, you can titty fuck me, do
not come in my face or on my.
You know whatever you get totalk about where that come ends
up.
But beware, if you're like, oh,come on my neck or whatever
your face is on the splash padarea.
Speaker 2 (25:07):
And if they handle their tool well and you're like
I don't want it on my face, theycan actually hold their penis
down to where it would justshoot on your chest and roll
back on your neck if you're onyour back?
I would hope so.
Or let's say you're doing thewhole squat while they're on the
(25:28):
couch.
Or let's say you're doing thewhole squat while they're on the
couch and you're like uh-uh,Because that if it goes off,
it's going straight in your face.
Speaker 1 (25:36):
Yeah, In that position.
Speaker 2 (25:37):
If you don't want that, then you know.
You need to verbalize that, Letme know, and then you would
pull away and let's say you wantit on your tits and they can
hit you on their tits.
Or maybe you want to turn overand have them shoot their wad on
your ass crack.
Speaker 1 (25:53):
Right, yeah, or you can tie it in, you could just,
or you could finish it off witha blowjob, you could, and decide
what you want to.
You know whether you'reswallowing or not.
That's up to you at that point.
So that's an option you now, ifyou uh have listened to our
(26:13):
semen facial uh podcast,obviously, and you're like
you're thinking about doing thiswith your partner but you're
like you feel weird about theircum on your neck or on your face
, please take time to listen tothis semen facial podcast
because I think it can alleviatea lot of the anxiety around
that.
No, hopefully what it will dois alleviate a lot of the ick
(26:37):
factor with that.
I think it's fair for all of usto feel icky about certain sex
and bodily you know fluidactivities that come up during
sex.
But I think in that podcast wewere really good about covering
like, asking yourself, like, whydo I find this icky?
And like, and maybe workingthrough some of that mental
(26:59):
stuff.
Speaker 2 (27:00):
Yeah, it was it got pretty deep.
Speaker 1 (27:03):
It got pretty deep, and so if you're interested in
adding this act to your sexrepertoire of acts, obviously
you got to really think abouthow that's all ending for you.
You're going to have to havethat conversation with your
partner.
You're going to have to decidelike, do I want to experiment
(27:24):
with allowing some cum on myface or not?
Um, allowing some cum on myface or not?
But I highly suggest like, uh,really going through your
thought processes and feelingsaround that.
Um, and that podcast, I thinkis really helpful.
It's certainly I still have nothad a semen facial.
Uh, I think it could be a funway to tie in like a semen
(27:47):
facial, if you're open to thatdefinitely um, and have it be a
super sexy, exciting event.
Um, yeah, yeah, have you?
Have you had a uh boob sexending in semen facial?
Have you done that combo yet?
Speaker 2 (28:02):
um, yeah, when it's been finished off with um head.
Speaker 1 (28:08):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (28:09):
Ratio.
Speaker 1 (28:10):
Okay so.
Speaker 2 (28:11):
Yeah, and you know, talking about that whole like
game plan Also, you know thingscan change, and so one thing
that we always talk about onthis podcast is how important
communication with your partneris, absolutely so let's say you
guys, you and your partner talkabout it.
(28:32):
You're like, okay, let's dothis.
You're like I don't want anycum on me, yeah.
And then in the act, you changeyour mind.
Speaker 1 (28:43):
You get excited.
Speaker 2 (28:44):
Which you can do.
Right, just communicate thatRight, because that's probably
going to be really sexy to them.
Right, just communicate thatRight, because that's probably
going to be really sexy to themRight when you're like, I want
you to come all over my tits, orI want you to come and give me
that glistening pearl necklace.
Or maybe you decide okay, I'mhot, I'm in it, I'm ready for
(29:04):
the semen facial, right, but youcan communicate that, yes.
So if things change in themoment, that's okay, that's okay
.
That's why communication is soimportant, right.
Speaker 1 (29:15):
Your sex situation.
You set it up up front.
You say I want to try this babe.
I want you know.
I listened to this podcast andthese, you know ladies made me
think why not give it a try?
Can we try that?
But please, like I'm not, likedo not come on my chest or my
face, like maybe we'll end withsex or whatever.
(29:36):
But then you're in it andsomething happens and you're
like this is way better than Ithought I have shared, I think,
in past podcasts.
I have learned in the last yearI've always thought I was a
decent communicator during sexand I'm not the best
communicator during sex, whichmight surprise everybody.
As much as I communicate aboutsex openly on this podcast.
(30:00):
When I'm in an act of sex,sometimes I fall short on words
and I think that has also led toa lot of disappointing sex for
me.
In my history.
I've also felt ashamed to whenI had that, you know, a dirty
thought in the middle of sex andI'm getting heated up and I'm
like oh I, you know you go back,you start flipping through the,
(30:22):
the dirty fantasies that you'vegotten from porn or like
erotica and you're like God, Iwish in this moment this thing
could happen.
But if I verbalize that, mypartner is going to think I'm
whatever number of dirty, dirtytrashy, she's slutty.
I don't want to be with a womanthat would be into that.
I mean, I'm hoping that in thisday and age we know that that's
(30:43):
sex shaming, slut shaming, andif you have a partner who's like
that, they can just fuck rightoff, tell them to fuck off and
fuck off, get down the road,that's right.
So, um, being able to.
If you have a moment you'relike I do want to do that, then
just say to your partner you caneven stop and restart.
You can have that conversation.
Uh, they can keep strokingthemselves.
(31:05):
Will you verbalize like I'mreally turned on um, I want to
use this vibrator on my clit.
Will you finish off on my neckor face?
You know, being able to do thatin the moment is yeah and you
know even the opposite.
Speaker 2 (31:21):
So let's say you game , plan this with your partner
and you tell them that you wantthem to give you your first
facial.
And in the moment you're like, Idon't know if I'm ready for
that, you absolutely can changeyour mind.
I think that's something that,as women, we sometimes struggle
(31:43):
with is that we feel like, if wego into a situation sexually,
that we can't change our mind onboundaries that we're set
anytime in the moment, even ifyou're like, nope, I'm, I'm, I'm
done, I don't want to goforward anymore.
You have that right, and so youknow, if you change your mind,
(32:06):
verbalize it.
Speaker 1 (32:07):
So cheers to that we can change our mind.
Speaker 2 (32:10):
We can Anytime.
Speaker 1 (32:12):
All right, guys, let's talk about why, because I
know probably at the beginning alot of you were like, and maybe
some of the whys have beenanswered.
But let's really strategicallyanswer.
Why titty sex?
Why?
Why fucking the boobs?
It does seem sort of I don'tknow like.
From my perspective, having notintegrated into my sex life
(32:34):
first, it felt like, oh, it'ssort of one of those cliched
acts that you know seems sillythat nobody does.
Now you had brought up somegood reasons why a woman would
want to have the option of tittysex.
You want to share that withlisteners.
Speaker 2 (32:47):
Yeah, so while some women are comfortable with
period sex, there are some of us, like myself, who are not
comfortable with period sex.
So this is an alternativebecause for some reason, you're
horny while you're.
I mean, I don't know aboutothers, but I'm not but um, I am
(33:11):
, and so this is a way to getaroused, um to get some sexual
pleasure.
Yeah, I have no problem with,like, um, my clit being played
with.
I just don't want anythinginside of you, inside of me.
I mean I will have a tampon inbecause I want to be sure that
(33:37):
the dam is plugged.
Speaker 1 (33:40):
So my question is do you?
Because for you this is yousaid you're horny, so you want
to have sex, and so this is agood alternative.
So for you, do you get a lot ofsexual satisfaction from your
boobs?
Speaker 2 (33:56):
I do.
Speaker 1 (33:57):
Because I mean, I know a lot of women not a lot.
I know a couple women who don'tget any.
They're like I don't really getanything out of my boobs.
Speaker 2 (34:05):
So but for you and I think a lot of I've also known a
lot of women that really enjoythe breast stimulation and also
I know that there's been umothers in our circle have been
on this podcast that also havesaid this that I'm really
mentally stimulated.
So, like my biggest androgynouszone is my brain.
(34:32):
Like you, you can just talkwords.
Speaker 1 (34:40):
Dirty.
Speaker 2 (34:41):
And get me going Right.
So I don't know if it's reallythat my tits are so like
sensitive and stuff or if it'smore like that whole emotionally
like stimulated.
Speaker 1 (34:56):
Right.
Speaker 2 (34:57):
Like I'm like this is hot Like I, because you know
your male partner.
I don't know a guy out therethat's going to say they don't
like or have not, if they'venever done it, have not
fantasized about it.
Right, it seems to be the one.
Speaker 1 (35:12):
Wait, do hey guys, men, men, or are people, humans
with penises that are out there?
If you are repelled by the ideaof titty sex, will you please
reach out to me?
I want to hear, hear about that.
If you're just kind of likethat, that sounds dumb.
I'm not going to try it.
I also am curious about yourperspective.
Does anyone are repelled bythat?
(35:33):
How would you be repelled by it?
Now, I do understand why womenmight be, but I want to talk
about what appeals to me aboutit, what really appeals to me
about the idea of being, of boobsex, being titty fucked.
I do enjoy.
I enjoy several roles in my sexlife, but there is just
(35:57):
something that is really sexyabout being in a submissive
position to a partner.
It feels to me although Iimagine you could speak to the
opposite, but from my imaginingsthat it's a very it could, it's
a very like a power dynamichappens in breast sex,
especially if you're on thebottom or if you're restrained,
(36:20):
and so the idea of that positionit's like oh, that that is sexy
.
Um, being able to enjoy thatpower dynamic that would happen
there do you feel like beingwhat, would you be the titty
fucky the receiver like?
Do you feel like you can dothat from a them dom with the
boobs?
Can you like titty fuck a subman?
(36:41):
Yeah or cock, I don't know Ican't pick, I've never done it,
I'm not in my own dynamic, I Ican't picture it that way, but
I'm like, so tell me about that.
Speaker 2 (36:51):
I mean.
So, if you're in like a fem domsituation, our local expert's
not here, so I'll do my best.
Yeah, lucy our residentdominatrix.
So there's chairs that are usedsometimes where their hands are
(37:13):
strapped.
Speaker 1 (37:14):
Oh, the sub man.
You can strap him to a chairhow?
Speaker 2 (37:19):
do you get in there?
What about standing Well, thatwould be the whole like working
those inner thighs and glutes bydoing that squat.
Also, if they are on the bedRestrained.
Speaker 1 (37:34):
Restrained.
I'm picturing it, I'm picturingit.
Speaker 2 (37:38):
Watch out, you can be between their legs, on your
knees.
Speaker 1 (37:42):
Oh yeah, and you could also, but you can't
squeeze your boobs together thatway.
Speaker 2 (37:45):
Yeah, you could, because you're like leaning down
on them.
You don't need to.
Speaker 1 (37:49):
Yeah, maybe I've done it that way.
Yeah, you could, because you'relike leaning down on them.
You don't need to.
Speaker 2 (37:50):
Yeah, maybe I've done it.
It's possible again.
Speaker 1 (37:54):
You've got massive tits.
Speaker 2 (37:55):
You don't even need to squeeze them together I mean,
let's be fair um, or you know,if you have um I can't think of
the name, but like the cross, oh, what is that?
Speaker 1 (38:09):
oh, the crossing, but like the cross.
Oh, what is that?
Oh, the cross thing, yeah, butanyways that's true Now that, oh
, you could totally, yeah,definitely squatting.
Speaker 2 (38:18):
So, and once again, I'm being visual.
Speaker 1 (38:21):
Yeah, I wish if you guys could just see the visuals
over here.
Speaker 2 (38:24):
I'm always visual.
Yeah, I can't help it, yeah.
Speaker 1 (38:27):
So what I mean?
I think that especially let'ssay well, if you're really into
that BDSM dynamic for a subfemme, female or woman, I think
that it could be really sexy.
I think it could be reallyreally hot.
Speaker 2 (38:43):
Addition, I think, if you are in a vanilla
relationship and you're like youdon't want to get into all the
BDSM, I still think it's likeit's a very sensual sexy.
I mean, one of the biggest turnons for me is the arousal my
partner gets from it, right.
(39:04):
So when my partner is clearlyinto it and getting a lot of
pleasure, that makes me hot andaroused.
Speaker 1 (39:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (39:18):
Because I'm telling you my brain is Right.
Speaker 1 (39:23):
I can think of a lot of great dirty talk that could
happen during that too.
Speaker 2 (39:27):
Oh yeah, If you're a dirty talker, it gives you so
much opportunity.
Speaker 1 (39:33):
You know it's funny, I have never been good at giving
dirty talk.
Oddly enough, as much as I'm aword person, in bed I kind of
clam up.
But I love to be talked dirtytoo, and I am actually just
right now in this last year,really learning how to talk
dirty, because I do have a dirtyscript in the back of my head
(39:56):
Then just voice it.
I know I'm learning how to dothat and it's super hot.
But yeah, I think it would.
You know, I understand whysomeone might say boob sex,
that's so dumb, why do that?
But, like I mean, why not addthis to your sex sex repertoire,
(40:18):
your sex box, your sex?
Speaker 2 (40:19):
you know your list of acts that you want to do
together.
At least give it a shot.
At least give it a shot.
Don't knock it till, you try it, that's right.
Speaker 1 (40:25):
I mean, why wouldn A cock will get on a nipple?
Speaker 2 (40:29):
Oh it does, or you know, there's that pre-ejaculate
.
Speaker 1 (40:35):
I was just thinking about that.
You can say that's a little bitof lube.
Speaker 2 (40:38):
They could take, like the tip of their penis and rub
it around your nipple with thatpre-ejaculate.
That's pretty similar.
That would be sexy, that'spretty hot that is, that is sexy
.
Speaker 1 (40:52):
And if you don't like , your partners come or
ejaculate again, start askingyourself why?
Uh, because I, uh, my friendsknow, like deanna and I, ruby
and I, have known each other fora very long time and I was very
vocal.
Ruby and I have known eachother for a very long time and I
(41:14):
was very vocal about reallyhating semen.
I mean really hating semen andjust being like it is a mess.
I don't want it all over me,it's like mucusy.
I mean.
I had all these reasons.
I was like, why, oh why can't,you know, men ejaculate?
Some like Dust Powder, babypowder, something that freshens
(41:37):
me up afterwards and in sort ofmy own sexual journey I have.
Definitely I'm still like.
I have moments where I'm likeyou know, in my refractory
period I'm like, oh, I don'twant to like, I'm ready to be
clean, or I don't want to likereach over and touch it or
whatever.
But even that's starting todissipate just a little bit.
(41:59):
I would wish that for any womanwho still likes to play with
cocks that ejaculate.
I would not at all want therepulsion that I experienced for
women who continue to havethose relationships.
So but back to why.
Why would a woman want who's ina sexual relationship with
(42:26):
another woman, or a vulva ownerwant the strap on a titty fuck,
and I think that comes back tolike, if you like that power
dynamic, um, the visualstimulation of I.
Now I can imagine being in adominant situation with another
woman with a strap on um, andenjoying the visual of looking
(42:48):
down at having that act with awoman when I put myself in that
position.
I'm like that would be fuckinghot.
In which case I'm like, oh,that's why a guy would enjoy it.
They also get more of aphysical stimulation, however.
Speaker 2 (43:07):
There are strap-ons, ladies, that come with vibration
and stimulation If you're notusing a strap-on that has a
little pocket rocket pocket youneed to be.
Speaker 1 (43:17):
Yes, so in which case you can actually have that
stimulation for yourself, whilegetting the visual satisfaction
of watching.
You know your partner'sbeautiful breasts you know, you
know, sliding against this thingand then giving her nipple
nipple stimulation and stufflike that.
So I had not, until today, evenlike considered that.
(43:42):
Actually I don't think I hadconsidered the idea of two women
doing this sex act until youwere here and we were kind of
like going over what we wantedto talk about and I was like oh,
I'm like I could get into thatright, and if you want, if you
have not heard the peggingepisode, if you want to go back.
Speaker 2 (44:04):
We kind of talk about , um, that dynamic.
When, as a woman, you'rewearing a strap-on.
It is a very different feeling,yes, and it's a very.
You're definitely in thedominant role and that's one of
the turn-ons for me is likethere's a rush that comes with
(44:26):
that for sure.
Yes, because it's pretty obviousthat, even if you are in a
situation with a male partner ora female partner non-binary
when you have a strap-on on, youreally are the dominant one in
(44:47):
that situation and that's partof the the rush for me anyways
and you are in sole control ofgiving that pleasure, because
you know when someone sucks yourcock and it's a strap on.
Oh, I've never done that.
(45:07):
I have not had my cock suckedWell it's, I mean it's hot, yeah
, so you have had this donebefore?
Speaker 1 (45:17):
Was it a woman or a man who sucked your cock?
A man?
One thing I want to say beforewe close out this podcast is we
bring up a simple sex act.
Boob sex up front sounds simple.
Boob sex up front sounds simple.
It's easy to dismiss it as likethat's just some dumb, like
cliche thing from whenever.
Nobody does that.
(45:38):
But when you really start divinginto, like when I really start
thinking about these things thatare out there that I've not
done, that are so basic I mean,it is, it's right there for you
and I start questioning why Ihaven't done it, I start
questioning, well, if I did it,how could it be exciting?
I'm going to be selfish.
(45:59):
I want it to be fuckingexciting for me.
Like I know how I can get apartner off and why it would be
exciting to him, but I want toknow, like why would I want to
do this?
Because I am, I feel verystrongly about not engaging in
sex acts that I don't want to.
Like I want to be all in, Iwant to get something out of it,
(46:20):
I want to feel satisfaction, Iwant to feel sexy.
So I start like trying toimagine what would make this
exciting for me and throughconversations, through research,
which I do do prior to these,oftentimes I'm surprised at how
I, how I'm like God.
That could be exciting, thatcould be sexy.
(46:43):
I like to have the opportunity.
You know whatever it is and andso you take one simple sex act.
It sounds very simple.
A guy walks up to you, you pushyour boobs together, he, like,
pumps away and is done.
That's how, in my mind, it wasprior to this conversation.
But this actually could beworked into a whole array of
(47:04):
scenarios that could last for acouple of minutes, it could last
for 15 to 20 minutes.
It could be with a femalepartner, it could be with a male
partner.
I could be dominant, I could besubmissive, I could get
stimulated, I could get some funnipple play and I could have
toys attached.
(47:25):
It could be BDSM experience, itcould be a facial experience.
It's kind of amazing to me how,if you take time to stop and
not go with your first judgment,you may open the door to a new
opportunity that you end uploving.
Raise your hand, give me likesome sign.
(47:47):
Who all is out there.
That's getting titty fucked.
I want to hear from women ormen.
Tell me, are you, are yourfemale partners letting you
titty fuck them Like?
I want to know from people, allhumans out there, I would love,
I would love to hear from womenwho are a strap on titty
fucking each other.
Speaker 2 (48:04):
I mean, I've been to sex clubs and clearly you see it
there, so it's happening.
And it's weird because I would,I would think of anal is out
there and people are more openabout anal sex.
That poop sex is a lot milderin in my, my thinking.
Speaker 1 (48:29):
I mean except like it could end in the facial and
it's not mild but it doesn'thave to, I'm still intimidated
by the facial.
Speaker 2 (48:38):
It's easy to not end in a facial.
Speaker 1 (48:40):
Right, right.
Speaker 2 (48:41):
Personally, I would think if you're saving yourself
for marriage cause, you're agood Christian girl, boob sex is
for you.
Right.
Instead of having anal, I wouldmuch rather go to the boob sex
Boob.
Sex is for you, right.
Instead of having anal, I wouldmuch rather go to the boob sex
Boob sex is for you, hey, that'sgreat advice.
Speaker 1 (48:56):
And again, if you are a Christian woman and you, I'm
not going to.
I don't want to shame yourchoice of religion, but again,
this is something that could beacceptable.
God damn it.
I think we fucking coveredtitty fucking, mammary
intercourse, that's right.
(49:17):
I actually found what wascalled mammary intercourse and
boob fucking.
Speaker 2 (49:22):
Boob sex.
Speaker 1 (49:25):
We gave you a solid boob sex 101.
If you disagree, guess what youdo?
A-n-n-e-t-t-e.
Annette at SheExploresLifecom,feel free to tell me.
Tell me how it should have beendone.
I dare you.
I'm inviting some mansplaining,even.
Speaker 2 (49:43):
Oh, yeah, mansplain this.
Speaker 1 (49:46):
Mansplain this.
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(50:09):
tuned.
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We've already told you somewe're going to be looking into
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