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June 30, 2025 72 mins

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In this episode, Shazmeen Bank delves into the complexities of fearful avoidant attachment, exploring its origins, traits, and the emotional struggles faced by individuals with this attachment style. The discussion highlights the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships, the oscillation between anxious and avoidant behaviors, and the importance of understanding and healing from these patterns. Shazmeen emphasizes the need for compassion towards oneself and others in navigating relationships, particularly for those who identify as fearful avoidant. The episode concludes with insights on fostering vulnerability and emotional intimacy in relationships, encouraging listeners to embrace their journey towards healing and connection.

Takeaways:

  • Fearful avoidant attachment is characterized by a push-pull dynamic in relationships.
  • Individuals with fearful avoidant attachment often oscillate between love and fear.
  • Childhood experiences significantly shape attachment styles in adulthood.
  • The Dynamic Maturational Model (DMM) offers insights into attachment beyond infancy.
  • Fearful avoidants may struggle with self-soothing and emotional regulation.
  • Vulnerability is a major trigger for fearful avoidants in relationships.
  • Fearful avoidants often have a deep desire for connection but fear abandonment.
  • Understanding attachment styles can foster empathy in relationships.
  • Healing from fearful avoidant attachment requires self-awareness and compassion.
  • Relationships with fearful avoidants can thrive with patience and understanding. 

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