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October 16, 2025 7 mins

What if you could turn any day—no matter how it starts—into a happy day? In this episode, I reveal the real power you have to shape your mood and find joy, even in the middle of disappointment or frustration.

In this episode of Love Notes from Rhonda, I share how happiness isn’t about having a perfect day—it’s about how you respond to your feelings, your expectations, and the curveballs life throws your way.

We talk about what it really takes to shift a “crappy” day into a happy one. Hint: It’s not about pretending things are great, but about meeting yourself with compassion and choosing what you want to create next.

You’ll discover how your proactive behaviors on your Wheel of Freedom can help you create more moments of happiness—no matter what life brings.

What You’ll Discover

  • Why happiness isn’t about avoiding hard feelings
  • How to move through disappointment and frustration without losing your power
  • The truth about “being happy” even when you’re tired, lonely, or overwhelmed
  • Questions you can ask yourself to create a happy moment, right now
  • The role of self-compassion and the Wheel of Freedom in shifting your day

Key Takeaway:

Happiness isn’t the absence of disappointment or frustration—it’s the choice to meet yourself with compassion, feel your feelings fully, and gently decide how you want to respond next. You have the power to turn any moment into a happier one, not by denying what you feel, but by loving yourself through it and choosing again.

Key Quote

“Happiness isn’t about avoiding feelings. It’s how you love yourself through them and choose again.”

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