What does it really mean to be a man—and why are so many of us afraid to find out?
In this powerful episode, Jon & Will sit down with John Eldredge, NYTimes best-selling author of Wild at Heart, to explore the core desires and wounds that shape every man's life. From the boyhood questions “Do you love me?” and “Do I have what it takes?” to the deep need for adventure, battle, mission, and love—John reveals how these longings define our masculine identity. We discuss how unaddressed childhood wounds and false selves hold men back, and how embracing vulnerability, purpose, and connection can lead to a more authentic and fulfilling life. This conversation invites men to reclaim their warrior hearts, step into their true selves, and live with courage, passion, and love.
Find out more about John and buy his books here: https://wildatheart.org/
Timestamps:
00:00 - Introduction
03:02 - The Warrior Heart and Its Development
06:01 - The Importance of Adventure
08:58 - Understanding the Beauty to Rescue
12:02 - The Wounded Masculine Soul
15:03 - The Role of Courage in Healing
18:10 - The Poser and the False Self
20:59 - Faith and the Journey of Authenticity
37:39 - Stepping into Faith
39:02 - The 12-Step Recovery Movement
41:02 - Religion vs. Relationship with God
44:01 - Faith and Trust in Daily Life
46:05 - True Masculinity and Love
49:03 - The Journey of Initiation
52:53 - Finding Purpose and Connection
56:01 - The Importance of Community
01:00:04 - Reclaiming the Heart
01:09:06 - Experience Jesus, Really
01:14:01 - Closing Thoughts and Resources
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