January 29, 2025 • 33 mins
What if your journey to self-discovery involved a little bartending flair and a lot of online creativity? Join us as Dominic Hill, our captivating guest, shares candid insights into his transformation from high school days to the confident performer and content creator he is today. With laughter and nostalgia, we revisit those formative years and the evolution of LGBTQ+ acceptance, celebrating Dominic's glow-up and his bold venture into OnlyFans, where art and allure seamlessly blend.
As we navigate the highs and lows of embracing one's identity, Dominic reveals the critical role of confidence and supportive friendships in pursuing a career in performance art. We explore societal perceptions of aging, particularly within the gay community, and discuss the liberating yet challenging process of being true to oneself. With heartfelt anecdotes, Dominic illustrates how fitness and friendships have empowered him to make bold career choices and highlights the importance of having a supportive network in realizing one's potential.
Ever wondered about the intricacies of adult content platforms? Dominic takes us behind the scenes, comparing OnlyFans and Just for Fans, and sharing the nuanced art of personal branding online. From navigating dating apps to collaborating with other creators, we dive into the challenges of maintaining boundaries while engaging followers with authenticity. Dominic's tale of a quirky keyboard scene and a special subscriber offer adds a playful twist to the complexities of creating content that resonates. Tune in for an episode that's as insightful as it is entertaining, celebrating the art of self-expression and the journey to finding one's true path.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Dominic Hill is with us today In the studio.
We actually know you from highschool.
You look completely differentnow.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
You know I was still trying to figure myself out at
like 22.
Did you ever figure it out?
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Cheers to not figuring it out.
Yes, you have an OnlyFansaccount.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Yeah, you've definitely had that glow up yeah
you did have a glow up and youwere always a cutie.
Patootie, patootie.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
You can be very cutthroat, so you have to make
sure Keeping everything nice andtight, like really high
standards.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Yeah, I can't speak.
You got me so distracted.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
You got your titties out today.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Showcase your artistic side, artistic side,
sexy side, as somebody who isgay, bisexual, lesbian,
transgender.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Don't point at me.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
I'm not lesbian, oh shit.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
Kelly Misgorski.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
And Ryan Frankofsky and you're listening to.
Mocktails are Messy and we haveMr Dominic Hill, dominic Hill.
Dominic Hill is with us todayIn the studio.
Thank you for coming.
Thanks for having me On.
Mocktails Are Messy.
We navigate the fine linebetween mindful sipping and our
(01:13):
not-so-distant train wreck past.
I am here to prove that you donot need booze to bring the buzz
.
Cheers Now, dominic, youintroduced us to your version of
the espresso martini.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
Yeah, cheers to that, cheers.
Now, dominic, you introduced usto your version of the espresso
martini.
Yeah, cheers, dominic, cheers.
So I'm excited to try this.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
You dig it.
I'm going to put a little bitof hair on my chest.
I'm going to put hair on mychest.
Yes, of hair on my chest.
Yes, I don't have good hair onmy chest, yes.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
So to give you a little insight behind Insight, I
don't know what, I can't speak.
You got me so distracted withthe nice chest.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
You got your titties out today, exactly yes.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
So right now I have the Pathfinder.
It is a patented distillednon-alcoholic spirit.
Are you into mocktails?
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
I used to bartend so I had to like know some of them.
But like they didn't come intovogue until like after I stopped
bartending.
But I did try some back in theday and like still to this day,
I'm like trying to cut back onmy drinking.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
You're a performer, you know you got to keep that
body in check.
Yeah, I got to keep everythingtight.
Yeah, you know you got to keepthat body in check.
Yeah, you got to keepeverything tight.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
Yeah, where did you bartend?
Speaker 2 (02:27):
I was at Mad Max for like years and years $5
margarita Monday Me and you litthat up at Penn State oh my gosh
, we went crazy.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
So just to clarify, Dominic Hill, you have an
OnlyFans account.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Yes, so you're a performer.
Yes, I love it, and it's agreat way to just like showcase
your artistic side, artisticside sexy side, and what's funny
is we actually know you fromhigh school.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
You look completely different now.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Yes, somebody went to the gym hard A little bit, I
figured out what to do with myhair and facial hair.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Yeah, you definitely had that glow up, yeah, yeah you
did have a glow up and you werealways a cutie patootie but
like damn like you reallypatootie, patootie.
I mean it's just like.
It's amazing, like as we getolder, do you feel like this is
still a stigma, like men canlook a little bit better with
age, and like it's not as like Ifeel bad saying that.
(03:25):
Is that like a thing, like yousaid that to me I don't even
think it's a stigma.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
I think it's a thing you know in high school.
A lot of boys haven't gonethrough puberty yet, so then you
see them later on, like aftercollege, and it's like whoa, I
don't even recognize this person.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Yes, so not just her shade, but it's like I feel like
a lot of guys, like you know,they put on the freshman 15 and
then they're like I don't give afuck anymore, yeah.
And then and then.
So then it just kind of spiralsfrom there and then maybe
sometime in their fortiesthey'll be like oh shit, like I
need to get my my shit together,but like I feel like so many
(04:00):
guys just kind of like give upafter a certain point.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
Yes, you definitely had a glow up.
You didn't put on, you know,fat.
You put on muscle.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Well, the gay world can be very cutthroat.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
So you know it's like really high standards.
Yeah, yes.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
Now, I did not know that you were gay in high school
.
This was not something that wetalked about.
I mean, I didn't even know whatI was.
You know, I was still trying tofigure myself out at like 22.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
Did you ever figure it out?
Speaker 2 (04:27):
No, actually that's a good question.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Oh fuck.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Cheers to not figuring it out yet.
Yes, we're still growing up, ohmy God, you're right, you're
absolutely right.
But like did you feel like ourschool was like open-minded?
Was it hard to be part of thelgbtq plus in in high school?
Uh?
Speaker 3 (04:48):
I feel like for our generation it was definitely a
little bit different, like if ifwe had been like a little bit
uh, part of a like a little bitolder generation like maybe even
like eight to ten years, yeah,like earlier, like we it
probably I probably would havewaited.
But, um, you know, like I justkind of I kind of got to that
(05:09):
point where I was like, okay, Iknow what's happening here and
you know, like I can't reallyhide it.
and then so I like kind of justtold the people I was close with
and then you know like I got tothat point where, like, if
people asked, I would say yes,but you know like I didn't, as,
as you know, I didn't just oneday start walking down the halls
(05:31):
with you know like a pride flagaround my neck.
You know like blasting Madonnaon my phone or anything.
But yeah, I just kind of got tothat point where I was like, ok
, you know I'm just not going todeny it, and you know I'm just
not going to deny it.
And you know, like people,people were accepting and you
know like I feel like it kind oftook away the power from some
(05:51):
of the people that were moreasshole-ish about it.
Because you know, once youcontrol the narrative and you
know they were like oh, yeah,like you're gay.
And once, once I was able to belike, yeah, I am.
And then they would be like,yeah, like you're gay.
And once, once I was able to belike, yeah, I am.
And then they would be likewhat do you say after that?
Speaker 1 (06:09):
like pearls, pearls clutched.
Speaker 3 (06:11):
It's like okay, like yeah, shit.
And then I did notice that,like after I was able to just
kind of take that narrative intomy own hands that you know.
People were like oh shit, nowwhat do?
Speaker 2 (06:22):
I do, I lost my ammunition.
You're like fuck, it sucks tobe.
You like now.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
You got nothing to throw at me because People were
like oh shit, now what do I do?
I lost my ammunition.
You're like fuck, it sucks tobe you.
Now you got nothing to throw atme because I'm just owning it.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
And that's a really powerful message that you can
showcase and share with peoplecoming into 2025.
It's still difficult in certainparts of the country and the
world to still be feelingaccepted as somebody who's gay,
bisexual, lesbian, transgenderDon't point at me, I'm not
lesbian, oh shit.
(06:52):
I don't know.
She points at me and she sayslesbian.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
I did kind of see that on my periphery.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
I didn't fully clock it until you said something.
I mean she did make out with acouple chicks in college, that's
normal.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
I mean, she did make out with a couple chicks in
college.
That's normal.
I mean so did I?
Yeah, Exactly.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
What has kind of guided you to becoming a
performer?
Speaker 3 (07:14):
You know, I always thought about it, but at the
time I was going to the gym butI didn't yet look like this, so
I wasn't fully confident enoughto do it.
And then also, like at the time, you look amazing, thank you,
oh, thanks, show it off yeahwe're waiting for a nip slip
(07:43):
funny enough, my aunt um who'san accountant, she um was doing
my taxes and then, so you know,like I was afraid that I
wouldn't uh be able to explain.
You know, like, oh, like that'swhat this form is, this tax form
that I'm getting, uh, and thenso like I was a little bit
afraid of that, because you know, like doing it and telling your
family that you're doing thatkind of stuff is are two very
(08:04):
different things.
Um.
So you know, like, doing it andtelling your family that you're
doing that kind of stuff is aretwo very different things.
Um, so you know, like I heldoff.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
Does your family know ?
Speaker 3 (08:11):
No, not that I know of.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
Okay, yeah.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
Um, I, I mean, I feel like at this point my family
just has kind of accepted thatI'm going to be the wild child
and do whatever the fuck I want.
So, um, yeah, so I've just kindof like stopped giving a fuck,
but it's still like not aconversation that I typically
that I, you know want toparticularly have.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
Does your aunt know that and maybe just didn't know
because she?
Speaker 3 (08:38):
uh, she actually told me this past year that, um, you
know, because she retired likea few years ago, but then she
was like still doing like ourfamily's taxes and everything.
But then, um, she was like,yeah, this is probably like the
last year that I'm going to dothat.
And then so I was like, okay,well, if I have to find my own
accountant now anyway, um thenmaybe you know this opens up a
(09:00):
door for me.
But then, um, also in the past,like year, year and a half, um,
you know, aside from kind ofgetting my shit together, um in
terms of, uh, fitness andeverything, and, you know,
feeling confident about myself,you know I also have had a few
um like not dating relationships, just like friend relationships
(09:20):
that um helped me to feel, youknow, more confident in myself
and, um, you know, more open tothe, the sexier side of myself,
and you know I'd been thinkingabout it for years, um, and then
so now that kind of all theconfidence um pieces were coming
together, I was like you knowwhat, fuck it, let's just do it.
(09:43):
So, like the one day, I justlike sat down, pulled the
trigger and I was like all right, there's no going back now,
it's out there.
Speaker 1 (09:50):
Now, this is probably going to be explicit FYI.
What does your content looklike on your OnlyFans page and
what is the other one?
Just for fans, just for fans.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
Oh they're different.
Yeah, oh, and what is the otherone?
Speaker 3 (10:04):
Just for fans, just for fans.
Oh, they're different.
Yeah, oh, cool, yeah.
So two different platforms, twodifferent subscriptions?
Yeah, because, like Just forFans was like always around, but
like a year or two ago, youremember when OnlyFans was like,
oh, we're going to stopallowing adult content, like a
lot of people.
Oh, they did.
Yeah, but then like everybody,since that was like 90% of their
(10:27):
business and people were likewhat the fuck you know, they
eventually, like reversed thatpotential move.
Speaker 1 (10:29):
Now adult content.
Is that like intercourse?
Yeah, okay, but you can stillbe nude on OnlyFans I don't
think so.
Oh what.
Speaker 3 (10:37):
I think that was like .
I think any kind of likesexually explicit content was
going to be potentially like, um, not allowed on, only fans and
then no sense now, well, it wassomething like with the um with
twitter.
No, it was something with um,the credit card companies, um,
like visa and mastercard, like,because ultimately, you know
(11:02):
everybody, you would, you payfor your subscription through
the credit card providers, andthen Visa and MasterCard, they
have their own sets of rulesthat merchants have to follow,
and then so I think it wassomething like with that where,
like a lot changed, or you know,like Visa and you know one or
(11:23):
the two um were like oh yeah, wedon't really approve of this
anymore.
Um, and then so only fans waslike, okay, we're not gonna
allow adult content.
But then, um, yeah, everybodykind of revolted and then so
they reversed that decision.
But anyway, like during thattime, um, just for fans kind of
got a boost because everybodywas like, oh shit, like let's,
(11:45):
let's move over to, let's moveover here, because they're still
going to allow the content.
And then so it's just kind oflike now that both are allowing
it, it's kind of just like asmart business move for people
who are going into this stuffbecause, like now a lot of
people got rid of their onlyfans um subscriptions and like
(12:07):
switched over to just for fans.
So now it's like, okay, all thepeople who are only on the one
platform like you can still getthem, and then, like, have the
other people too.
Speaker 2 (12:16):
So, um, do you keep like both content on both
systems or you try to change it?
Speaker 3 (12:22):
Um different, for for me it's like 90 ish the same
okay only fans is still like alittle bit prudish.
Um so, like some stuff that canbe considered a little bit more
, um you know, fetishy or likehardcore ish, um they're not
fisting yeah, like fisting piss.
Speaker 2 (12:45):
Play like that, you're like fisting I'm like
what is the biggest fetish thingthat I can think of?
Speaker 3 (12:53):
I mean feet is just so like 2008 yeah, um, and yeah,
like even stuff like bondageand stuff like that.
You know like only fans doesn'tallow that kind of stuff, but
like just for fans does, andthen so, um, you know like
there's some some things that,um, you know can only go on just
for fans.
(13:14):
Um, so, uh, I make sure thatwhenever I'm uh putting
something out there that canonly be shown on the one that
you know, whenever I push it tolike Twitter or like blue sky or
whatever I'm like okay, youhave to go here Like you're not
going to see this if you onlyhave my only right.
Speaker 1 (13:32):
Okay, and people have like, if they want to see your
content, they have to have asubscription.
Speaker 3 (13:37):
Yeah, um, so just for fans.
Um, they allow you to markcertain videos as like free
content, so that you can kind oflike, give previews lower them
in be like oh, this is like kindof what you're gonna see if you
subscribe to me, but thenOnlyFans doesn't really allow
that now what is yourpersonality like on there?
Speaker 1 (13:56):
are you like really flirty or are you like macho?
Speaker 2 (13:59):
what is like your vibe?
Speaker 3 (14:01):
I wanna know this.
So I'm kind of a little bit allover the place and probably
more multiple personalities.
I'm probably like a little bitmore on the irreverent side like
, especially like, that's a bigword.
So just like kind of silly oh,okay, good, I like silly.
(14:22):
I mean, like whenever I'madvertising on like Twitter and
like Blue Sky, I keep it alittle bit, you know, flirty or
like sexier and more like to thepoint, but then for the people
who pay like on the fan pages.
You know, I definitely get alittle bit more like
(14:45):
light-hearted let them see, alittle bit more like personality
and stuff now speaking of pay,like on average, like what are
you bringing in and what are thepercentages that they're taking
?
uh, so I think they take like 20percent um of each like
subscription so that's prettystandard when you think of an
agency or even like a managementcompany yeah, so like if you're
(15:07):
, if you have your subscriptionset to 10 bucks, like they're
taking two dollars like um andthen.
So you know like you're notlosing like two too much.
And you know some of the peoplewho get bigger.
You know like they do createlike their own um, like websites
, but they'll still keep,they'll still keep their um.
You know fan pages, but it'smostly just for um other
(15:31):
creators to be able to like tagthem for.
You know, like legal consentfor the video and everything,
yeah, um, but yeah, like toavoid, you know, even getting
that two dollars taken out.
You know some of the people whoare a little bit bigger will
have like their own website thatyou can like get stuff from,
but you really get out like whatyou put into it to an extent,
(15:53):
can you?
Speaker 2 (15:53):
quit your day job?
Speaker 3 (15:55):
No, not yet.
Speaker 2 (15:55):
Not yet.
At least, that's the goal.
That's the goal, right.
Speaker 3 (15:59):
I don't know, I don't think my brain is wired for
like the hustle culture um, Ilike having a little bit.
Speaker 2 (16:07):
I like having a little bit of stability um, so,
and then the pressure is offbecause then it becomes like not
as much fun and passion projectyeah, exactly.
Speaker 3 (16:18):
Oh my god, this is like over full time like yeah,
over time yeah, and I like I doknow people who have quit their
day jobs.
I was actually just talking toone of my friends who did so
last night.
Does he live in?
Speaker 2 (16:29):
Pittsburgh.
Speaker 3 (16:31):
No, no, he just moved to LA, so yeah.
But he was like he was a fewother places before, but he's
never lived here, okay.
Speaker 2 (16:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (16:47):
Like he just quit his day job, um, over the summer,
um, and you know like I'm makingdecent money off of it, but I'm
not, you know, like it's notanything that, like I said, I'm
gonna be quitting my day jobover, or you know, like it's not
like or funding any like.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
Do you genuinely enjoy?
Speaker 2 (17:01):
you enjoy doing this yeah, it's definitely work um,
but it's like very fun um andit's like fuck you money where
you could like use this as like,hey, I'm gonna take a trip or
I'm gonna buy a new car, likeyou know that gucci, whatever
you know now where do you shootyour content.
Speaker 1 (17:18):
Is it like in your bedroom or like?
Speaker 2 (17:20):
yeah, um he's usually a nice flat I do I do
lawrenceville okay, fancy alone,bougie.
Speaker 3 (17:28):
Yeah, so you just just me and the two cats, which
I don't think I had them yetwhenever you came over.
Speaker 2 (17:34):
But yeah, you got the cats oh, I have two cats also
yeah, I just got them inSeptember.
Speaker 3 (17:41):
What are their names Bosco and Cora.
Speaker 2 (17:44):
Bosco, that is cute.
She's got Sabrina and Tabitha.
Speaker 1 (17:49):
Sure, he doesn't know any of my animals' names.
I got Sabrina right.
You did get Sabrina.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
Bosco and Cora, that's cute, but yeah, it's like
mostly it's mostly at myapartment.
But then you know like if I'mtraveling, or you know like if
there are people like in townthat I want to film with like
hotels, or you know like if I'mout of town.
You know either like their placeand like there are a few like
(18:20):
studios out there that likethey're more like kind of
management agencies or like evenjust like a brand like, but
like they'll sometimes like havefacilities that you know, like,
even if you're not like underthat agency, right, um, and like
doing a film for them, like youcan still like rent out their
space, yes, um, and like filmstuff.
So I've done like a few ofthose um.
(18:42):
So yeah, it just like kind ofvaries, um.
Speaker 1 (18:45):
And then, yeah, there are like people on there you
know like who will do likeoutdoors content too like, and
then so you know, it's just likewherever you're at like just
without a phone now, sinceyou're a professional and maybe
you're not comfortable sharingthis information.
But what?
But?
What is the prep work that goesinto filming one of these
videos?
Speaker 3 (19:14):
Well, so since gay, like, like, depending on what
you're doing.
Speaker 1 (19:17):
You know there might be some back end prep that you
need to do, which is typical forif you're going to be bottoming
.
Speaker 3 (19:23):
But, um, you know like usually there's not like
too too much, it just kind of.
Other than that, um, you know,other than maybe set up some
tripods and like a ring light orsomething, uh, depending where
you're at um, and then makingsure that anything like
embarrassing in your room, like,or, you know, like a family
(19:43):
picture or something, is not inthere like um but you know, it's
generally like pretty, prettystraightforward.
I have met um a few people thatI filmed with, where you know
like they were like super, super, fucking particular about it
and like you know, the firstlike half an hour 40 minutes
that I was with them, they werelike okay, like let's move the
(20:05):
camera an inch, like this way,and like let's play with this
light, and like, oh, like, andI'm just like, oh, my god, are
we gonna like get it done?
Speaker 2 (20:10):
are we gonna get?
Speaker 3 (20:11):
to fucking at some point here, like what the hell?
Speaker 2 (20:15):
I'm wasting my time, yeah um, but yeah, it's usually.
Speaker 3 (20:20):
It's generally pretty , pretty chill.
It's just like point and shoot,I mean that makes sense.
Speaker 1 (20:26):
Are there ever like bloopers that you have to like,
take out or Sometimes, yeah, doyou edit your own footage.
Speaker 3 (20:34):
Usually, yeah, some people are very particular about
editing because like,especially like some of the
bigger people, because they havelike a more curated image and
like sometimes, they have likelogos or like other branding
that they want to like throw onlike the beginning and whatever
um, and you know like usuallypretty people are pretty chill
(20:54):
about um being like oh, hey, uh,you know.
If you want to edit your ownversion of this and put it out
like, yeah, you know, that'sfine, but I'm like I don't like
having um multiple versions ofvideos like floating out there.
So, um, you know, typically ifthey're very particular about
wanting to edit it, I'll be like, okay, well, here's when I need
(21:16):
it.
By like get it get it to be bythen.
But you know like I don't doanything too fancy with my, my
editing, I'm just like okay,like let's just cut some shit
together, like just cut the goodparts together and then you
know like put it out and I meanlike so far it works.
But yeah, usually, you know,it's just like some of those
longer like transitions, um,between like positions, where
(21:38):
we're like trying to figure out,okay, like what's the best
angle for like this position.
You know like I'll just cut outthat little like two minutes of
setup time in there and thenI'll, um, you know like just
move to the next scene.
So it's not usually like tooextensive, but editing, I would
definitely say, is my leastfavorite part of it, I know it's
time consuming.
Speaker 2 (21:57):
I met this one creator and he was like I simply
do it just to like get girls,like.
He was like a straight, likeonly fans talented guy and he
was just like I just do it tofind girls and, like you know,
link up and I'm like, is thatlike part of it for some people
(22:17):
like to like just get guys orgirls like get like meaning like
get laid uh, I mean gettinglaid in the gay world is very
very easy, yeah, you just go,grinder, grinders whatever the
fuck you want.
Speaker 3 (22:36):
Like there's, there's multiple, multiple apps for the
gay gay world to, you know, getsome dick.
However, I will say that youknow, like, in terms of my
sexual bucket list of you know,like people that I've, you know,
(22:58):
seen, like you know that I'velike jerked off to on my own and
I'm just like, oh my God, thatguy's so hot, like I would like
love to fuck them.
Speaker 1 (23:06):
But like you know like.
Speaker 3 (23:08):
I definitely scratched a few names off of
there by doing this.
So like that's been really funAspen, Solomon, what was that?
As that's been really fun AspenSolomon.
Speaker 2 (23:16):
What was that Aspen Solomon?
I don't think so.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
Okay, is that the one you showed me?
Yes, yeah, he's cute yeah.
Speaker 2 (23:27):
I'm going to.
I think I've heard the name,but I have to like I'll have to
look that up later.
Speaker 3 (23:31):
I can't forget that name.
Aspen, yeah Right, but I mean,like they do, like this is like
their only job and then so likethey'll pretty much only like
they don't really have likerecreational sex, um, because
like they're just, they're justconstantly like filming, you
know, like they'll have they'llbe like traveling to like you,
(23:51):
gotta have a knot ready yeah,exactly you
Speaker 2 (23:54):
can't be all dried up yeah, um, and so you know like
they'll have guys like lined up,you know, a few times a week
that they're gonna film with andyou know like they pretty much,
you know either only have sexon camera or like with their
partners, if they have so, um,yeah, I do know people like that
(24:14):
yeah, yeah, I will say like oneof the best times I had was
somebody that was traveling intotown and they were staying
downtown at the industrialistand just like linked up and I'm
like I had no idea they were anonly fans.
Creator.
And then after the fact I waslike, oh, that's why you were so
good in bed, or maybe it wasjust like you know the
(24:38):
performance.
And then I was like fuck, was Ilike recorded?
I'm like that doesn't happenright?
Speaker 3 (24:40):
No, no, that's like.
However, guys do like thinkthat it does like constantly.
Speaker 2 (24:47):
Just because you're a creator.
Speaker 3 (24:49):
Yeah, because I mean, like on you know some of my
like gay app profiles likeGrindr and everything you know
like grinder and everything youknow like I I have, you know,
like my twitter and stuff linkedor like I have mentioned that
you know, like I do like content, like if you want to film um
but then you know like I neveryou know like lead with that,
because you know like it issomething with like consent,
like yeah, you have to.
(25:10):
You can have people like fillout consent forms and whatnot,
but it's like super annoying.
And then you know, unless youhave like everything down to a t
, you know like you're still notlike legally covered.
So it's like just like a loteasier to film with people who
actually have, yes, um, onlyfans are just for fans accounts
because they've already gonethrough like the the
(25:30):
verification steps like neededfor like right, um, the legal
side.
So you can just like be like, oh, tag them and then you're good,
um, but uh, but I do know somepeople that still like have
other creators like fill out allthe consent stuff and
everything, um, but you knowlike, even though I have that
information on my um, you knowlike, uh, grinder and whatnot,
(25:54):
um, you know and don't like I'llbe talking to people and I
won't even mention like filming,but they'll be like, oh yeah,
like you're like no filming orlike you're not going to film me
, right, and I'm just like wehave like I never mentioned that
, like we were like that therewas going to be a camera of any
sort here and then.
But like people do get likevery paranoid about it.
(26:15):
And then you know like, and Ican kind of get it, but at the
same time you know like, unlessI'm being like, oh yeah, like we
should like film something,Then I don't see.
I don't personally see whythere's the paranoia.
But you know, Do people likewant to?
Speaker 2 (26:30):
film and like, have a mask on or like a face mask,
like is that even a thing?
Speaker 3 (26:38):
Sometimes, like there are guys that you know like are
like my regulars, that I likehook up with who don't?
Film, um, but like we have likefilm stuff together, um, you
know, just like to have for fun,um, and some of them have been
like, oh yeah, like you can, youcan post that, just like, blur
out my face and then, so youknow, like I've done that before
, um, so you know.
I've done that and like had themlike fill out some consent
(26:58):
stuff, um, and then posted it,and so you know like there are
situations like that.
Speaker 1 (27:04):
But yeah, now you're really like putting yourself out
there.
Have you ever had like astalker or like a creeper that
wouldn't leave you alone?
Uh?
Speaker 3 (27:14):
knock on wood.
Uh, not anything like too bad.
Yet there was this one guy,though, over the summer, um,
where, like he had basicallyfollowed my Twitter and
everything, um, from thebeginning he didn't have like
any pictures or anything like onhis profile, like, uh, on his
Twitter profile, but, um, likehe was leaving comments that
(27:39):
made it seem like he might likeknow me.
And then so, like the one day,like I, I messaged him and I was
like, hey, do we know eachother like in in real life or
something?
Um, because, like, his name wassomething like pittsburgh
related, um, so black and yellow.
Speaker 2 (27:56):
Yes, it was, was kal shit, I knew he might have been
fluid.
Speaker 3 (27:59):
Yes, but he was like no, we don't know each other and
everything.
And I was like, hmm, okay.
And then flash forward a fewmonths later and I had like
posted this video on Twitter ofme like working from home and
you know I, I like jerked offonto my keyboard and then um,
(28:27):
and he had like commented on itand tagged the company I was
working for at the time and hewas like he's like so-and-so,
get this guy a new, a newkeyboard.
He's like so-and-so, get thisguy a new keyboard.
And I didn't catch it until, Ithink, two hours-ish later and
(28:50):
luckily he had commented thattwo days after I had stopped
working for that company andthen, so luckily there was
nothing that was going to happenthere.
But then I still took that downand then I took his comment
down.
Speaker 1 (29:00):
How would he even know?
Speaker 3 (29:01):
Yeah.
And then I like messaged himagain.
I was like I thought you didn'tknow me A, and like B, like
what the fuck made you thinkthat was okay?
Like, because this is so.
He clearly knew you.
Yeah, like he, even if hedidn't know me.
Back, whenever I asked him, hesomehow found out.
But I was like what on earthmade you think that was okay?
(29:23):
And then he read it he wastrying to be shitty, yeah, he
read it.
And then, because I got the redreceipt on Twitter that he had
seen it, and then I waited anhour or two to see if he had
anything to say, and he didn't,and I was like, all right,
you're just a piece of shit.
So I blocked him.
Speaker 1 (29:42):
Now I'm a little caught up on the keyboard thing
though.
Like, did you mean to jerk offon your keyboard?
Oh yeah, okay, but like that'shard to clean up.
Speaker 3 (29:51):
It was my personal one and it was only like a $20
keyboard that like barely workedanyway.
So I was like I don't give afuck.
Speaker 1 (29:58):
Good content.
That's like some like shockvalue.
Speaker 2 (30:01):
I love it.
Speaker 3 (30:01):
Clean that up.
Yeah, just like.
Oh, I'm working from home and Igot horny Like let's get, let's
go that is great.
Speaker 2 (30:09):
Hey, do anything for clout.
Speaker 3 (30:11):
Yeah, exactly, I think I even had like an
unzipped button down or like anunbuttoned like button down
shirt on too and then so it waslike it was a good one.
Speaker 1 (30:18):
Wow, you are a little creative creator, that's not
far-fetched, though, like peoplelike that are working from home
.
They just like don't even wearpants to meetings I know like
it's so crazy.
Speaker 2 (30:28):
Now we did want to do only fans individually yeah,
you guys had thought about it.
You know like what are what areyour thoughts on things?
Not together, almost like a funflirty, like drink making type
thing, and like just like nakedaprons, you know, and like just
being like goofy and stuff.
But then I talked to one ofthese film guy like for only
(30:50):
fans, specific.
They're like we don't reallythink sexy and goofy go together
and and we're like fuck you,dude, like that's like what we
want, that's our like MO.
But that being said, like I getit, like he is trying to
materialize his time, so he'snot going to waste time if he
(31:10):
doesn't think that it's going tobe profitable.
Speaker 3 (31:12):
Yeah, that's the thing is like your brand could
be like anything that you wantit to be.
If you know your base andthat's something that they would
want, fuck him.
He knows what his base wantsand they want to.
They want to see him like, like, then you know that works for
him.
But I mean, like if your peoplewant to see you guys like goofy
and scantily clad, makingmocktails, like you know, like
(31:35):
that's what your base wants, youknow it's in.
Your base wants, you know,mocks and cocks, yeah, exactly
well, love it, dominic.
Speaker 2 (31:41):
Thank you so much for sharing all that with us we
really appreciate it.
If you want to see dominic, youcan follow dominic on twitter
slash x.
Speaker 3 (31:51):
I don't like to give elon clout uh, so I still call
it twitter uh I forget that it'scalled X now Twitter, blue Sky,
onlyfans, justforfans andTumblr, which I don't really
like to use too much.
On all five of those asDomTheSubXXX.
Dom, the Sub, I think we canremember that on Instagram I'm
(32:15):
DomTheSubOfficial, becauseInstagram you have to be a
little bit more innocent.
Speaker 2 (32:19):
Yes, you do.
Well, thank you for listeningto Mocktails or Messy.
Thank you, Dominic, for cominginto the fucking studio.
Speaker 3 (32:27):
Of course.
Thanks for having me.
Speaker 2 (32:33):
High school memories right.
Speaker 3 (32:35):
First month on my fan pages, only fans, just for fans
, only five bucks.
Speaker 1 (32:41):
So if you want to check it out?
Get yourself a deal.
Speaker 2 (32:44):
Get a little sip of Dom the Sub for $4.99 a month.
Speaker 3 (32:49):
Only the one month.
Speaker 2 (32:50):
Just the first month.
Speaker 3 (32:51):
Thank you, I adore you.
I adore you, I literally amsticky.
Dominic Hill is with us today In the studio.
We actually know you from highschool.
You look completely differentnow.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
You know I was still trying to figure myself out at
like 22.
Did you ever figure it out?
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Cheers to not figuring it out.
Yes, you have an OnlyFansaccount.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Yeah, you've definitely had that glow up yeah
you did have a glow up and youwere always a cutie.
Patootie, patootie.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
You can be very cutthroat, so you have to make
sure Keeping everything nice andtight, like really high
standards.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Yeah, I can't speak.
You got me so distracted.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
You got your titties out today.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Showcase your artistic side, artistic side,
sexy side, as somebody who isgay, bisexual, lesbian,
transgender.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Don't point at me.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
I'm not lesbian, oh shit.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
Kelly Misgorski.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
And Ryan Frankofsky and you're listening to.
Mocktails are Messy and we haveMr Dominic Hill, dominic Hill.
Dominic Hill is with us todayIn the studio.
Thank you for coming.
Thanks for having me On.
Mocktails Are Messy.
We navigate the fine linebetween mindful sipping and our
(01:13):
not-so-distant train wreck past.
I am here to prove that you donot need booze to bring the buzz
.
Cheers Now, dominic, youintroduced us to your version of
the espresso martini.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
Yeah, cheers to that, cheers.
Now, dominic, you introduced usto your version of the espresso
martini.
Yeah, cheers, dominic, cheers.
So I'm excited to try this.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
You dig it.
I'm going to put a little bitof hair on my chest.
I'm going to put hair on mychest.
Yes, of hair on my chest.
Yes, I don't have good hair onmy chest, yes.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
So to give you a little insight behind Insight, I
don't know what, I can't speak.
You got me so distracted withthe nice chest.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
You got your titties out today, exactly yes.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
So right now I have the Pathfinder.
It is a patented distillednon-alcoholic spirit.
Are you into mocktails?
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
I used to bartend so I had to like know some of them.
But like they didn't come intovogue until like after I stopped
bartending.
But I did try some back in theday and like still to this day,
I'm like trying to cut back onmy drinking.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
You're a performer, you know you got to keep that
body in check.
Yeah, I got to keep everythingtight.
Yeah, you know you got to keepthat body in check.
Yeah, you got to keepeverything tight.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
Yeah, where did you bartend?
Speaker 2 (02:27):
I was at Mad Max for like years and years $5
margarita Monday Me and you litthat up at Penn State oh my gosh
, we went crazy.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
So just to clarify, Dominic Hill, you have an
OnlyFans account.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Yes, so you're a performer.
Yes, I love it, and it's agreat way to just like showcase
your artistic side, artisticside sexy side, and what's funny
is we actually know you fromhigh school.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
You look completely different now.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Yes, somebody went to the gym hard A little bit, I
figured out what to do with myhair and facial hair.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Yeah, you definitely had that glow up, yeah, yeah you
did have a glow up and you werealways a cutie patootie but
like damn like you reallypatootie, patootie.
I mean it's just like.
It's amazing, like as we getolder, do you feel like this is
still a stigma, like men canlook a little bit better with
age, and like it's not as like Ifeel bad saying that.
(03:25):
Is that like a thing, like yousaid that to me I don't even
think it's a stigma.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
I think it's a thing you know in high school.
A lot of boys haven't gonethrough puberty yet, so then you
see them later on, like aftercollege, and it's like whoa, I
don't even recognize this person.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Yes, so not just her shade, but it's like I feel like
a lot of guys, like you know,they put on the freshman 15 and
then they're like I don't give afuck anymore, yeah.
And then and then.
So then it just kind of spiralsfrom there and then maybe
sometime in their fortiesthey'll be like oh shit, like I
need to get my my shit together,but like I feel like so many
(04:00):
guys just kind of like give upafter a certain point.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
Yes, you definitely had a glow up.
You didn't put on, you know,fat.
You put on muscle.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Well, the gay world can be very cutthroat.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
So you know it's like really high standards.
Yeah, yes.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
Now, I did not know that you were gay in high school
.
This was not something that wetalked about.
I mean, I didn't even know whatI was.
You know, I was still trying tofigure myself out at like 22.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
Did you ever figure it out?
Speaker 2 (04:27):
No, actually that's a good question.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Oh fuck.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Cheers to not figuring it out yet.
Yes, we're still growing up, ohmy God, you're right, you're
absolutely right.
But like did you feel like ourschool was like open-minded?
Was it hard to be part of thelgbtq plus in in high school?
Uh?
Speaker 3 (04:48):
I feel like for our generation it was definitely a
little bit different, like if ifwe had been like a little bit
uh, part of a like a little bitolder generation like maybe even
like eight to ten years, yeah,like earlier, like we it
probably I probably would havewaited.
But, um, you know, like I justkind of I kind of got to that
(05:09):
point where I was like, okay, Iknow what's happening here and
you know, like I can't reallyhide it.
and then so I like kind of justtold the people I was close with
and then you know like I got tothat point where, like, if
people asked, I would say yes,but you know like I didn't, as,
as you know, I didn't just oneday start walking down the halls
(05:31):
with you know like a pride flagaround my neck.
You know like blasting Madonnaon my phone or anything.
But yeah, I just kind of got tothat point where I was like, ok
, you know I'm just not going todeny it, and you know I'm just
not going to deny it.
And you know, like people,people were accepting and you
know like I feel like it kind oftook away the power from some
(05:51):
of the people that were moreasshole-ish about it.
Because you know, once youcontrol the narrative and you
know they were like oh, yeah,like you're gay.
And once, once I was able to belike, yeah, I am.
And then they would be like,yeah, like you're gay.
And once, once I was able to belike, yeah, I am.
And then they would be likewhat do you say after that?
Speaker 1 (06:09):
like pearls, pearls clutched.
Speaker 3 (06:11):
It's like okay, like yeah, shit.
And then I did notice that,like after I was able to just
kind of take that narrative intomy own hands that you know.
People were like oh shit, nowwhat do?
Speaker 2 (06:22):
I do, I lost my ammunition.
You're like fuck, it sucks tobe.
You like now.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
You got nothing to throw at me because People were
like oh shit, now what do I do?
I lost my ammunition.
You're like fuck, it sucks tobe you.
Now you got nothing to throw atme because I'm just owning it.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
And that's a really powerful message that you can
showcase and share with peoplecoming into 2025.
It's still difficult in certainparts of the country and the
world to still be feelingaccepted as somebody who's gay,
bisexual, lesbian, transgenderDon't point at me, I'm not
lesbian, oh shit.
(06:52):
I don't know.
She points at me and she sayslesbian.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
I did kind of see that on my periphery.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
I didn't fully clock it until you said something.
I mean she did make out with acouple chicks in college, that's
normal.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
I mean, she did make out with a couple chicks in
college.
That's normal.
I mean so did I?
Yeah, Exactly.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
What has kind of guided you to becoming a
performer?
Speaker 3 (07:14):
You know, I always thought about it, but at the
time I was going to the gym butI didn't yet look like this, so
I wasn't fully confident enoughto do it.
And then also, like at the time, you look amazing, thank you,
oh, thanks, show it off yeahwe're waiting for a nip slip
(07:43):
funny enough, my aunt um who'san accountant, she um was doing
my taxes and then, so you know,like I was afraid that I
wouldn't uh be able to explain.
You know, like, oh, like that'swhat this form is, this tax form
that I'm getting, uh, and thenso like I was a little bit
afraid of that, because you know, like doing it and telling your
family that you're doing thatkind of stuff is are two very
(08:04):
different things.
Um.
So you know, like, doing it andtelling your family that you're
doing that kind of stuff is aretwo very different things.
Um, so you know, like I heldoff.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
Does your family know ?
Speaker 3 (08:11):
No, not that I know of.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
Okay, yeah.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
Um, I, I mean, I feel like at this point my family
just has kind of accepted thatI'm going to be the wild child
and do whatever the fuck I want.
So, um, yeah, so I've just kindof like stopped giving a fuck,
but it's still like not aconversation that I typically
that I, you know want toparticularly have.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
Does your aunt know that and maybe just didn't know
because she?
Speaker 3 (08:38):
uh, she actually told me this past year that, um, you
know, because she retired likea few years ago, but then she
was like still doing like ourfamily's taxes and everything.
But then, um, she was like,yeah, this is probably like the
last year that I'm going to dothat.
And then so I was like, okay,well, if I have to find my own
accountant now anyway, um thenmaybe you know this opens up a
(09:00):
door for me.
But then, um, also in the past,like year, year and a half, um,
you know, aside from kind ofgetting my shit together, um in
terms of, uh, fitness andeverything, and, you know,
feeling confident about myself,you know I also have had a few
um like not dating relationships, just like friend relationships
(09:20):
that um helped me to feel, youknow, more confident in myself
and, um, you know, more open tothe, the sexier side of myself,
and you know I'd been thinkingabout it for years, um, and then
so now that kind of all theconfidence um pieces were coming
together, I was like you knowwhat, fuck it, let's just do it.
(09:43):
So, like the one day, I justlike sat down, pulled the
trigger and I was like all right, there's no going back now,
it's out there.
Speaker 1 (09:50):
Now, this is probably going to be explicit FYI.
What does your content looklike on your OnlyFans page and
what is the other one?
Just for fans, just for fans.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
Oh they're different.
Yeah, oh, and what is the otherone?
Speaker 3 (10:04):
Just for fans, just for fans.
Oh, they're different.
Yeah, oh, cool, yeah.
So two different platforms, twodifferent subscriptions?
Yeah, because, like Just forFans was like always around, but
like a year or two ago, youremember when OnlyFans was like,
oh, we're going to stopallowing adult content, like a
lot of people.
Oh, they did.
Yeah, but then like everybody,since that was like 90% of their
(10:27):
business and people were likewhat the fuck you know, they
eventually, like reversed thatpotential move.
Speaker 1 (10:29):
Now adult content.
Is that like intercourse?
Yeah, okay, but you can stillbe nude on OnlyFans I don't
think so.
Oh what.
Speaker 3 (10:37):
I think that was like .
I think any kind of likesexually explicit content was
going to be potentially like, um, not allowed on, only fans and
then no sense now, well, it wassomething like with the um with
twitter.
No, it was something with um,the credit card companies, um,
like visa and mastercard, like,because ultimately, you know
(11:02):
everybody, you would, you payfor your subscription through
the credit card providers, andthen Visa and MasterCard, they
have their own sets of rulesthat merchants have to follow,
and then so I think it wassomething like with that where,
like a lot changed, or you know,like Visa and you know one or
(11:23):
the two um were like oh yeah, wedon't really approve of this
anymore.
Um, and then so only fans waslike, okay, we're not gonna
allow adult content.
But then, um, yeah, everybodykind of revolted and then so
they reversed that decision.
But anyway, like during thattime, um, just for fans kind of
got a boost because everybodywas like, oh shit, like let's,
(11:45):
let's move over to, let's moveover here, because they're still
going to allow the content.
And then so it's just kind oflike now that both are allowing
it, it's kind of just like asmart business move for people
who are going into this stuffbecause, like now a lot of
people got rid of their onlyfans um subscriptions and like
(12:07):
switched over to just for fans.
So now it's like, okay, all thepeople who are only on the one
platform like you can still getthem, and then, like, have the
other people too.
Speaker 2 (12:16):
So, um, do you keep like both content on both
systems or you try to change it?
Speaker 3 (12:22):
Um different, for for me it's like 90 ish the same
okay only fans is still like alittle bit prudish.
Um so, like some stuff that canbe considered a little bit more
, um you know, fetishy or likehardcore ish, um they're not
fisting yeah, like fisting piss.
Speaker 2 (12:45):
Play like that, you're like fisting I'm like
what is the biggest fetish thingthat I can think of?
Speaker 3 (12:53):
I mean feet is just so like 2008 yeah, um, and yeah,
like even stuff like bondageand stuff like that.
You know like only fans doesn'tallow that kind of stuff, but
like just for fans does, andthen so, um, you know like
there's some some things that,um, you know can only go on just
for fans.
(13:14):
Um, so, uh, I make sure thatwhenever I'm uh putting
something out there that canonly be shown on the one that
you know, whenever I push it tolike Twitter or like blue sky or
whatever I'm like okay, youhave to go here Like you're not
going to see this if you onlyhave my only right.
Speaker 1 (13:32):
Okay, and people have like, if they want to see your
content, they have to have asubscription.
Speaker 3 (13:37):
Yeah, um, so just for fans.
Um, they allow you to markcertain videos as like free
content, so that you can kind oflike, give previews lower them
in be like oh, this is like kindof what you're gonna see if you
subscribe to me, but thenOnlyFans doesn't really allow
that now what is yourpersonality like on there?
Speaker 1 (13:56):
are you like really flirty or are you like macho?
Speaker 2 (13:59):
what is like your vibe?
Speaker 3 (14:01):
I wanna know this.
So I'm kind of a little bit allover the place and probably
more multiple personalities.
I'm probably like a little bitmore on the irreverent side like
, especially like, that's a bigword.
So just like kind of silly oh,okay, good, I like silly.
(14:22):
I mean, like whenever I'madvertising on like Twitter and
like Blue Sky, I keep it alittle bit, you know, flirty or
like sexier and more like to thepoint, but then for the people
who pay like on the fan pages.
You know, I definitely get alittle bit more like
(14:45):
light-hearted let them see, alittle bit more like personality
and stuff now speaking of pay,like on average, like what are
you bringing in and what are thepercentages that they're taking
?
uh, so I think they take like 20percent um of each like
subscription so that's prettystandard when you think of an
agency or even like a managementcompany yeah, so like if you're
(15:07):
, if you have your subscriptionset to 10 bucks, like they're
taking two dollars like um andthen.
So you know like you're notlosing like two too much.
And you know some of the peoplewho get bigger.
You know like they do createlike their own um, like websites
, but they'll still keep,they'll still keep their um.
You know fan pages, but it'smostly just for um other
(15:31):
creators to be able to like tagthem for.
You know, like legal consentfor the video and everything,
yeah, um, but yeah, like toavoid, you know, even getting
that two dollars taken out.
You know some of the people whoare a little bit bigger will
have like their own website thatyou can like get stuff from,
but you really get out like whatyou put into it to an extent,
(15:53):
can you?
Speaker 2 (15:53):
quit your day job?
Speaker 3 (15:55):
No, not yet.
Speaker 2 (15:55):
Not yet.
At least, that's the goal.
That's the goal, right.
Speaker 3 (15:59):
I don't know, I don't think my brain is wired for
like the hustle culture um, Ilike having a little bit.
Speaker 2 (16:07):
I like having a little bit of stability um, so,
and then the pressure is offbecause then it becomes like not
as much fun and passion projectyeah, exactly.
Speaker 3 (16:18):
Oh my god, this is like over full time like yeah,
over time yeah, and I like I doknow people who have quit their
day jobs.
I was actually just talking toone of my friends who did so
last night.
Does he live in?
Speaker 2 (16:29):
Pittsburgh.
Speaker 3 (16:31):
No, no, he just moved to LA, so yeah.
But he was like he was a fewother places before, but he's
never lived here, okay.
Speaker 2 (16:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (16:47):
Like he just quit his day job, um, over the summer,
um, and you know like I'm makingdecent money off of it, but I'm
not, you know, like it's notanything that, like I said, I'm
gonna be quitting my day jobover, or you know, like it's not
like or funding any like.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
Do you genuinely enjoy?
Speaker 2 (17:01):
you enjoy doing this yeah, it's definitely work um,
but it's like very fun um andit's like fuck you money where
you could like use this as like,hey, I'm gonna take a trip or
I'm gonna buy a new car, likeyou know that gucci, whatever
you know now where do you shootyour content.
Speaker 1 (17:18):
Is it like in your bedroom or like?
Speaker 2 (17:20):
yeah, um he's usually a nice flat I do I do
lawrenceville okay, fancy alone,bougie.
Speaker 3 (17:28):
Yeah, so you just just me and the two cats, which
I don't think I had them yetwhenever you came over.
Speaker 2 (17:34):
But yeah, you got the cats oh, I have two cats also
yeah, I just got them inSeptember.
Speaker 3 (17:41):
What are their names Bosco and Cora.
Speaker 2 (17:44):
Bosco, that is cute.
She's got Sabrina and Tabitha.
Speaker 1 (17:49):
Sure, he doesn't know any of my animals' names.
I got Sabrina right.
You did get Sabrina.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
Bosco and Cora, that's cute, but yeah, it's like
mostly it's mostly at myapartment.
But then you know like if I'mtraveling, or you know like if
there are people like in townthat I want to film with like
hotels, or you know like if I'mout of town.
You know either like their placeand like there are a few like
(18:20):
studios out there that likethey're more like kind of
management agencies or like evenjust like a brand like, but
like they'll sometimes like havefacilities that you know, like,
even if you're not like underthat agency, right, um, and like
doing a film for them, like youcan still like rent out their
space, yes, um, and like filmstuff.
So I've done like a few ofthose um.
(18:42):
So yeah, it just like kind ofvaries, um.
Speaker 1 (18:45):
And then, yeah, there are like people on there you
know like who will do likeoutdoors content too like, and
then so you know, it's just likewherever you're at like just
without a phone now, sinceyou're a professional and maybe
you're not comfortable sharingthis information.
But what?
But?
What is the prep work that goesinto filming one of these
videos?
Speaker 3 (19:14):
Well, so since gay, like, like, depending on what
you're doing.
Speaker 1 (19:17):
You know there might be some back end prep that you
need to do, which is typical forif you're going to be bottoming
.
Speaker 3 (19:23):
But, um, you know like usually there's not like
too too much, it just kind of.
Other than that, um, you know,other than maybe set up some
tripods and like a ring light orsomething, uh, depending where
you're at um, and then makingsure that anything like
embarrassing in your room, like,or, you know, like a family
(19:43):
picture or something, is not inthere like um but you know, it's
generally like pretty, prettystraightforward.
I have met um a few people thatI filmed with, where you know
like they were like super, super, fucking particular about it
and like you know, the firstlike half an hour 40 minutes
that I was with them, they werelike okay, like let's move the
(20:05):
camera an inch, like this way,and like let's play with this
light, and like, oh, like, andI'm just like, oh, my god, are
we gonna like get it done?
Speaker 2 (20:10):
are we gonna get?
Speaker 3 (20:11):
to fucking at some point here, like what the hell?
Speaker 2 (20:15):
I'm wasting my time, yeah um, but yeah, it's usually.
Speaker 3 (20:20):
It's generally pretty , pretty chill.
It's just like point and shoot,I mean that makes sense.
Speaker 1 (20:26):
Are there ever like bloopers that you have to like,
take out or Sometimes, yeah, doyou edit your own footage.
Speaker 3 (20:34):
Usually, yeah, some people are very particular about
editing because like,especially like some of the
bigger people, because they havelike a more curated image and
like sometimes, they have likelogos or like other branding
that they want to like throw onlike the beginning and whatever
um, and you know like usuallypretty people are pretty chill
(20:54):
about um being like oh, hey, uh,you know.
If you want to edit your ownversion of this and put it out
like, yeah, you know, that'sfine, but I'm like I don't like
having um multiple versions ofvideos like floating out there.
So, um, you know, typically ifthey're very particular about
wanting to edit it, I'll be like, okay, well, here's when I need
(21:16):
it.
By like get it get it to be bythen.
But you know like I don't doanything too fancy with my, my
editing, I'm just like okay,like let's just cut some shit
together, like just cut the goodparts together and then you
know like put it out and I meanlike so far it works.
But yeah, usually, you know,it's just like some of those
longer like transitions, um,between like positions, where
(21:38):
we're like trying to figure out,okay, like what's the best
angle for like this position.
You know like I'll just cut outthat little like two minutes of
setup time in there and thenI'll, um, you know like just
move to the next scene.
So it's not usually like tooextensive, but editing, I would
definitely say, is my leastfavorite part of it, I know it's
time consuming.
Speaker 2 (21:57):
I met this one creator and he was like I simply
do it just to like get girls,like.
He was like a straight, likeonly fans talented guy and he
was just like I just do it tofind girls and, like you know,
link up and I'm like, is thatlike part of it for some people
(22:17):
like to like just get guys orgirls like get like meaning like
get laid uh, I mean gettinglaid in the gay world is very
very easy, yeah, you just go,grinder, grinders whatever the
fuck you want.
Speaker 3 (22:36):
Like there's, there's multiple, multiple apps for the
gay gay world to, you know, getsome dick.
However, I will say that youknow, like, in terms of my
sexual bucket list of you know,like people that I've, you know,
(22:58):
seen, like you know that I'velike jerked off to on my own and
I'm just like, oh my God, thatguy's so hot, like I would like
love to fuck them.
Speaker 1 (23:06):
But like you know like.
Speaker 3 (23:08):
I definitely scratched a few names off of
there by doing this.
So like that's been really funAspen, Solomon, what was that?
As that's been really fun AspenSolomon.
Speaker 2 (23:16):
What was that Aspen Solomon?
I don't think so.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
Okay, is that the one you showed me?
Yes, yeah, he's cute yeah.
Speaker 2 (23:27):
I'm going to.
I think I've heard the name,but I have to like I'll have to
look that up later.
Speaker 3 (23:31):
I can't forget that name.
Aspen, yeah Right, but I mean,like they do, like this is like
their only job and then so likethey'll pretty much only like
they don't really have likerecreational sex, um, because
like they're just, they're justconstantly like filming, you
know, like they'll have they'llbe like traveling to like you,
(23:51):
gotta have a knot ready yeah,exactly you
Speaker 2 (23:54):
can't be all dried up yeah, um, and so you know like
they'll have guys like lined up,you know, a few times a week
that they're gonna film with andyou know like they pretty much,
you know either only have sexon camera or like with their
partners, if they have so, um,yeah, I do know people like that
(24:14):
yeah, yeah, I will say like oneof the best times I had was
somebody that was traveling intotown and they were staying
downtown at the industrialistand just like linked up and I'm
like I had no idea they were anonly fans.
Creator.
And then after the fact I waslike, oh, that's why you were so
good in bed, or maybe it wasjust like you know the
(24:38):
performance.
And then I was like fuck, was Ilike recorded?
I'm like that doesn't happenright?
Speaker 3 (24:40):
No, no, that's like.
However, guys do like thinkthat it does like constantly.
Speaker 2 (24:47):
Just because you're a creator.
Speaker 3 (24:49):
Yeah, because I mean, like on you know some of my
like gay app profiles likeGrindr and everything you know
like grinder and everything youknow like I I have, you know,
like my twitter and stuff linkedor like I have mentioned that
you know, like I do like content, like if you want to film um
but then you know like I neveryou know like lead with that,
because you know like it issomething with like consent,
like yeah, you have to.
(25:10):
You can have people like fillout consent forms and whatnot,
but it's like super annoying.
And then you know, unless youhave like everything down to a t
, you know like you're still notlike legally covered.
So it's like just like a loteasier to film with people who
actually have, yes, um, onlyfans are just for fans accounts
because they've already gonethrough like the the
(25:30):
verification steps like neededfor like right, um, the legal
side.
So you can just like be like, oh, tag them and then you're good,
um, but uh, but I do know somepeople that still like have
other creators like fill out allthe consent stuff and
everything, um, but you knowlike, even though I have that
information on my um, you knowlike, uh, grinder and whatnot,
(25:54):
um, you know and don't like I'llbe talking to people and I
won't even mention like filming,but they'll be like, oh yeah,
like you're like no filming orlike you're not going to film me
, right, and I'm just like wehave like I never mentioned that
, like we were like that therewas going to be a camera of any
sort here and then.
But like people do get likevery paranoid about it.
(26:15):
And then you know like, and Ican kind of get it, but at the
same time you know like, unlessI'm being like, oh yeah, like we
should like film something,Then I don't see.
I don't personally see whythere's the paranoia.
But you know, Do people likewant to?
Speaker 2 (26:30):
film and like, have a mask on or like a face mask,
like is that even a thing?
Speaker 3 (26:38):
Sometimes, like there are guys that you know like are
like my regulars, that I likehook up with who don't?
Film, um, but like we have likefilm stuff together, um, you
know, just like to have for fun,um, and some of them have been
like, oh yeah, like you can, youcan post that, just like, blur
out my face and then, so youknow, like I've done that before
, um, so you know.
I've done that and like had themlike fill out some consent
(26:58):
stuff, um, and then posted it,and so you know like there are
situations like that.
Speaker 1 (27:04):
But yeah, now you're really like putting yourself out
there.
Have you ever had like astalker or like a creeper that
wouldn't leave you alone?
Uh?
Speaker 3 (27:14):
knock on wood.
Uh, not anything like too bad.
Yet there was this one guy,though, over the summer, um,
where, like he had basicallyfollowed my Twitter and
everything, um, from thebeginning he didn't have like
any pictures or anything like onhis profile, like, uh, on his
Twitter profile, but, um, likehe was leaving comments that
(27:39):
made it seem like he might likeknow me.
And then so, like the one day,like I, I messaged him and I was
like, hey, do we know eachother like in in real life or
something?
Um, because, like, his name wassomething like pittsburgh
related, um, so black and yellow.
Speaker 2 (27:56):
Yes, it was, was kal shit, I knew he might have been
fluid.
Speaker 3 (27:59):
Yes, but he was like no, we don't know each other and
everything.
And I was like, hmm, okay.
And then flash forward a fewmonths later and I had like
posted this video on Twitter ofme like working from home and
you know I, I like jerked offonto my keyboard and then um,
(28:27):
and he had like commented on itand tagged the company I was
working for at the time and hewas like he's like so-and-so,
get this guy a new, a newkeyboard.
He's like so-and-so, get thisguy a new keyboard.
And I didn't catch it until, Ithink, two hours-ish later and
(28:50):
luckily he had commented thattwo days after I had stopped
working for that company andthen, so luckily there was
nothing that was going to happenthere.
But then I still took that downand then I took his comment
down.
Speaker 1 (29:00):
How would he even know?
Speaker 3 (29:01):
Yeah.
And then I like messaged himagain.
I was like I thought you didn'tknow me A, and like B, like
what the fuck made you thinkthat was okay?
Like, because this is so.
He clearly knew you.
Yeah, like he, even if hedidn't know me.
Back, whenever I asked him, hesomehow found out.
But I was like what on earthmade you think that was okay?
(29:23):
And then he read it he wastrying to be shitty, yeah, he
read it.
And then, because I got the redreceipt on Twitter that he had
seen it, and then I waited anhour or two to see if he had
anything to say, and he didn't,and I was like, all right,
you're just a piece of shit.
So I blocked him.
Speaker 1 (29:42):
Now I'm a little caught up on the keyboard thing
though.
Like, did you mean to jerk offon your keyboard?
Oh yeah, okay, but like that'shard to clean up.
Speaker 3 (29:51):
It was my personal one and it was only like a $20
keyboard that like barely workedanyway.
So I was like I don't give afuck.
Speaker 1 (29:58):
Good content.
That's like some like shockvalue.
Speaker 2 (30:01):
I love it.
Speaker 3 (30:01):
Clean that up.
Yeah, just like.
Oh, I'm working from home and Igot horny Like let's get, let's
go that is great.
Speaker 2 (30:09):
Hey, do anything for clout.
Speaker 3 (30:11):
Yeah, exactly, I think I even had like an
unzipped button down or like anunbuttoned like button down
shirt on too and then so it waslike it was a good one.
Speaker 1 (30:18):
Wow, you are a little creative creator, that's not
far-fetched, though, like peoplelike that are working from home
.
They just like don't even wearpants to meetings I know like
it's so crazy.
Speaker 2 (30:28):
Now we did want to do only fans individually yeah,
you guys had thought about it.
You know like what are what areyour thoughts on things?
Not together, almost like a funflirty, like drink making type
thing, and like just like nakedaprons, you know, and like just
being like goofy and stuff.
But then I talked to one ofthese film guy like for only
(30:50):
fans, specific.
They're like we don't reallythink sexy and goofy go together
and and we're like fuck you,dude, like that's like what we
want, that's our like MO.
But that being said, like I getit, like he is trying to
materialize his time, so he'snot going to waste time if he
(31:10):
doesn't think that it's going tobe profitable.
Speaker 3 (31:12):
Yeah, that's the thing is like your brand could
be like anything that you wantit to be.
If you know your base andthat's something that they would
want, fuck him.
He knows what his base wantsand they want to.
They want to see him like, like, then you know that works for
him.
But I mean, like if your peoplewant to see you guys like goofy
and scantily clad, makingmocktails, like you know, like
(31:35):
that's what your base wants, youknow it's in.
Your base wants, you know,mocks and cocks, yeah, exactly
well, love it, dominic.
Speaker 2 (31:41):
Thank you so much for sharing all that with us we
really appreciate it.
If you want to see dominic, youcan follow dominic on twitter
slash x.
Speaker 3 (31:51):
I don't like to give elon clout uh, so I still call
it twitter uh I forget that it'scalled X now Twitter, blue Sky,
onlyfans, justforfans andTumblr, which I don't really
like to use too much.
On all five of those asDomTheSubXXX.
Dom, the Sub, I think we canremember that on Instagram I'm
(32:15):
DomTheSubOfficial, becauseInstagram you have to be a
little bit more innocent.
Speaker 2 (32:19):
Yes, you do.
Well, thank you for listeningto Mocktails or Messy.
Thank you, Dominic, for cominginto the fucking studio.
Speaker 3 (32:27):
Of course.
Thanks for having me.
Speaker 2 (32:33):
High school memories right.
Speaker 3 (32:35):
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Speaker 3 (32:49):
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Speaker 3 (32:51):
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I adore you, I literally amsticky.
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