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October 6, 2025 32 mins

#240. ✨ In your 20s, friendships and relationships can feel like a rollercoaster, but the truth is, so much of it comes down to your mindset. In this episode, Lan is diving into the shifts that will help you stop settling, set higher standards, and start attracting the right people into your life.

From friendships that come in waves to dating patterns that keep repeating, she'll talk about how to set intentions, break cycles, and show up as the version of yourself that naturally attracts the love and connections you actually deserve.

Whether you’re navigating hot-and-cold friends, breadcrumbing situationships, or just trying to figure out what kind of partner you want, this episode is your reminder to put yourself first, lead with intention, and build relationships that match your energy. 💌

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