Whether your child can but won’t, can’t yet, or really can’t, the result is the same—they aren’t doing what’s expected. The solution isn’t to lower the bar or double down on consequences—it’s to raise both support and expectation together.
In this episode, you’ll learn how to use the High Support + High Expectation approach to:
- Respond wisely when kids “can but don’t”
- Give help without enabling or rescuing
- Keep standards high without harshness
- Build confidence, competence, and consistency
This is the balance every parent needs—firm, kind, and effective.
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