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August 1, 2025 69 mins

What if the truth about adoption wasn’t what you thought it was?

In this eye-opening conversation, international adoptee advocate Lynelle Long joins us to share the untarnished truth about inter-country adoption—what’s lost, what’s hidden, and what so many adoptees are still fighting to reclaim.

We talk about everything from falsified records to the trauma of identity erasure, the global systems that profit off children, and what happens when those most impacted finally find their voice.

“Who could resist such easy money?”

What You'll Learn

→ How falsified paperwork, identity loss, and systemic failures shape the lives of adoptees

→ Why access to truth—records, names, roots—matters more than you think

→ What it means to hold space for stories that disrupt the ‘rescue’ narrative


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Episode Links & Resources

Guest + Organization

Lynelle Long on LinkedIn

InterCountry Adoptee Voices


Articles + Essays by ICAV

What rights should intercountry adoptees have?

Lifelong impacts of identity loss

The importance of including those most impacted in policy discussions

Intercountry adoptees as transracial immigrants in the USA

Finding myself and a purpose

What happens after an adoption investigation?

Inner tension for adoptees

What I’ve missed out on in being adopted internationally


Policy & Legal Resources

HCCH Convention on Intercountry Adoption

Convention on the Rights of the Child | OHCHR

Gregory Luce – Adoptee Rights Law

Dawn J. Post – Legal Services


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